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writes: help. im nearly 20 and my boyfriend has just turned 28. we've been together for 9 months and still havent had sex yet. we get down to doing it it and he cant get a hard on! this is only a resent thing but he's really upset and i've ran out of ideas!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): al i have to say is watch all about mary ;)
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reader, Yos  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I agree with the comment below. Not being able to get an erection can quickly become a vicious circle... not getting an erection one time creates fear that it will happen again, and that fear then makes it happen again, and so on.
Taking as much pressure of the situation as possible is important. It is often the pressure to perform that is the cause of this.
I suggested viagra because that can work as a kind of 'intervention'. After using it for a short time his confidence should return, at which point you should be able to stop using it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): Please take a moment and read this, first of all you have to be very careful not to make a very big deal out of this if you really love your partner. Almost in 95% of the cases the problem is how you approach sex and men reactions are very from one to other. Do you have some fourplay before hand? When you guys have sex the only thing which goes through his mind is to have erection, but that never happen if you guys do it right. It is better to say we are going to have forplay and not sex and then see how things progress. More you make a big deal out of this worse it gets. You should be supportive of him and I can assure you that works like magic and he would loves you more.
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reader, Yos +, writes (12 September 2006):
Have you tried viagra? It can work wonders for this kind of thing
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