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writes: i have been married for almost 5 years and have a son who is almost 3. I have not been happy for a little while now but havent said anything. I have now met another woman, who is slightly older than me. We met about a month back and it was like my life has been spun and it wont stop, she is in my head constantly, she lives about 3 hours away from me and she broke up with her partner after a long relationship, she said she didnt want a relationship or anything like that but now she says she has deep feelings for me, we speak on MSN everyday and text and phone, we chat for hours. I really like this other woman, and have so far been completely faithful to my wife, but I want more with her and I know she wants the same. My only real concern is my son. I love him more than anything, he is my whole world, but I know if I leave he will be heartbroken and the thought of not seeing him brings me to tears...that is what is killing me inside... can someone help me...please
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): Hi , I was in your shoes also. I was married and we did not get alone None! We had two sons. I met this other lady and she was not married , but she had a long term relationship and broke it off with him. I left my wife and live with her for about 3 years and married her. We was married for about 17 years. She met another guy and left me. But about two into this relationship I was wishing that I could turn back time,if I could I would been there and help to rise my to sons, See I missed so much of there life. They are both grown and have there own lifes. I am divorce and 50 years old. My second x wife met me after chuch today and wanted to get back with me. Listen stay and take care of your son and your wife. Tell that other lady to leave you alone. and get her out of your head. It best for your life and your son. Hope you do right. bye Jim
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reader, danny0078 +, writes (13 September 2006):
Frist of all, you are kind of having an emotional affair here sir ! and though the little emotional comfort may be fine, try on getting that from home ! Explain your feelings to your wife, communicate ! Has your wife said to you: I don't want you anymore. And did u decide that you wife does not want more of you, after or before you started talking and texting this other woman? Look, you didn't expect the happy go lucky love syndrome to last forever did ya, and I'm sure you did not expect everything to be perfect but you have work very hard to maintain a happy and GOOD marriage. so, sounds like your sort of infatuated with this other woman, delve deep as to WHY and she also sounds unavailable because she is telling you that she does not want a relationship. Work on what has caused the change in both you, and your wife and see if you can get through this.
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