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writes: I dumped my boyfriend of four years over six months ago, because I found out he was cheating. I was devastated at the time because I really loved him. He tried contacting me in the beginning, but I ignored him and got on with my life, he hurt me real bad. Now out of the blue he called me and I happened to pick up (not thinking it would be him after all this time) he said sorry for being a total ass.He said he's crazy about me.Well I told him just because he apologised that it doesn't make things right again and now he's not speaking to me. All my girlfriends says he's just trying it on cos he's probably been dumped by this other girl.Any advice???? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I agree with anon. I think that people who try to talk against your heart or what you feel have been hurt so badly that they can't advise because they can't see past their own pain. I am a child who was conceived out of an affair. My father was married to my step-mother when I was conceived. They are still married and happy. Sometimes things like this are used to make people get closer and actually realize what is important. I agree with Helen on one point and one point only!!! No things won't be the same but who says change is a bad thing. I'm not saying take him back, I'm saying don't be influenced by someone else's miscalculation of your situation in comparison to their own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): hi babe, your ex might very well be genuine as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder the same thing happened to me twelve years ago if i had listened to everything my friends had said we would not be married now with two fantastic children, go with your heart if you want it dont make it too difficult but make him work for it and prove to you
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 My suggestion to you is forget about him! He is obviously a complete loser. If he wanted you so much he would never of cheated on you in the first place. He might of realised after all this time just how much you mean to him and he wants his cosy happy life back with you. Well he can't. You have to think that if you did get back with him things would never be the same. For a start you will never be able to trust him again and why should you? I say just carry on with your life and find someone special that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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