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writes:Hi, me and my boyfriend have only been dating 2 1/2 months i love him but he just ignores me infront of his mates it started not to long ago after he came bacck from malta with his parents i think he might of fallen out of love with me because were both in collegde and in class he is really nice to me but wont even look at me 8 weeks ago he was sending me notes under the table with really sexy comments on and now he spends more time with his mates and doesn't even take me out never is affectionate or anything his mates are more important to him than me should i leave him? Reply to this Question
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reader, chely2294 +, writes (12 November 2006):
chely2294 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for the advice (sorry its a bit late) i dumped him and yes he had fallen out of love with me i have a new boyfriend and im very hppy thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): Yes, you should leave him, dear. Set you standards a bit higher and expect to be treated with respect from all guys that come into your life. Any guy who, after 2 months of dating...treats you this way is not worthy of you. Not sure how you both can be in love in this short of a time frame..but I'm surmising this was not 'real, true love', perhaps just an intense infatuation/crush. Real love takes committment and a long time to season and grow. You've only invested just over two months of your life, in this guy. He's acting cold and uncaring..that should tell you, the writing is on the wall. Chalk it up to a life learning experience and move on, dear.
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reader, Angel_A +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi Chely
I think you need to confront him about how he feels - it could be that he's withdrawing from you hoping that your relationship will just naturally fizzle out - or it could just be a misunderstanding.
Perhaps his mates have been complaining that he was neglecting them and he's trying to re-dress the balance between you and them, and has gone too far the opposite way?
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): Yep, dump him! Any bloke who is worth his grain will be respectful to you in and out of his mates company. If you want to be a bit cruel, tell him hes dumped in front of his mates! Your relationship hasn't even begun at 2 months. Hold your head up and find somone cool and decsent who isn't a w****r in front of his mates. J x
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