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writes:I got dumped a couple of months ago. It was like any end to any relationship not to get into details. I felt pretty crappy about the whole thing, i felt like i lost apart of me, and months after the offical dumping. The girl came up to me and told me she wanted me back. I thought about it and then I made the final descion to say no. I said i didn't want to get hurt. Yea months have past now things have been said. I've tryed to move on but i keep getting this feeling of guilt, and low self-esteem. I don't know if I should take her back?
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reader, guardian87 +, writes (12 September 2006):
 well, its a little hard to take back wut u said, cuz she could be over you by now :-\.
But your guilt i think is just cuz u turned her down and feel like u may have hurt her feelings about as much as she had hurt urs. dont let that get to ur head and overanylize things so that u think u still love her. trust me, been there, done that, only makes more problems.
The best thing u can do rite now is to be her friend. If things develop for u even more later, then ask, but never take a girl back just cuz u feel like u hurt her.
Hope everything goes well for you! (and im sry if i sounded too pessimistic) Good Luck!
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reader, abeautifullmind +, writes (12 September 2006):
yes.. i think that you should take her back.i think her breaking up with you let her know that it is you that she realy loves, and wants you in her life. she came back so i think that you should give her another chance, I guess it all depends on how and why the break up took place? Iwish my ex would come back to me?
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reader, CRS698 +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi there, It sounds like you've moved on. You'd be better off to carry on down the new road you're on. You made your decision and theres no point looking back, just keep looking forward. Your confidence and positive feelings WILL return sooner than you think.
I hope it works out for you.
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