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writes:This may take a while but I'll try my best to explain my story.The's this girl who I really like and i used to go to school with. she is still there as she's in the year below. She's really friendly and sweet but, she's also really shy. I asked her out but she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend then (waiting til uni I imagine) but it wasn't me that was the problem. I then had a girlfriend (my and I didn't have as many feelings for her the longer I went out with this other girl. My gf then broke up with me to get back together with her ex so I was distraught and my feelings for the girl at my school reappeared.I've talked to her and she seems to enjoy talking to me, but i text her twice and she never replied. I sometimes get nervous that Im never going to see her again now that I've left school, going to uni etc. Can anyone help me.
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reader, stina  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 Hi Anon,
If you're nervous about calling her since you guys spoke a while ago, you could try texting her again. Just say something simple like about how you were thinking about her and wondered how she was doing. Short and sweet. If you get a response, great! Maybe you can judge then if it would be a good idea to give her a call. If she doesn't respond, then I'm sorry to say that maybe it's just time to let her go...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbtw i last texted her 3 months ago
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reader, stina +, writes (13 September 2006):
Hello Anonymous,
I agree with Abacadaba. She could also just be bad at getting back to people, you know how it can be with people sometimes.
If you guys had nice conversations before, then perhaps you should call her up again instead of text her. At least then you could find out what's going on.
Take care.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (13 September 2006):
 dont worry about it, there could be any number of reasons she hasnt text back, she might have no credit, she might not have heard the messages and hasnt checked her phone, has been too busy to reply, i used to get this all the time with my GF, but theres always been a explination, dont worry about it, its all in your head :)
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