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writes: I split up with this bloke, ian about 2 months ago, he is married but only because of his kid and i know that he has slept on the sofa for 3 years now (he told me this when we were good mates before we got together).Then a couple of weeks later i met steve, and we are together and have been for 5 weeks. But last night my ex picked me up from work and i slept with him which i dont regret it but feel guilty at the same time. Both blokes dont know about each other, should i tell them?
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reader, abeautifullmind +, writes (12 September 2006):
i was in the same situation you were on time, with my ex boyfriend and his friend, he dumped me so i started gong out with his friend, i thought he was sincere? i didnt tellm y ex that i had slept with his friend my other ex, and he found out than he was twice as mad. you need to sort out your feelings with bothe of these guys and see how you feel, remeber, it is your decision.Beleive me it is better to be honest
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): No, I don't think you should tell either, unless you want to open up a can of worms for yourself. As for your married guy I'd leave well alone, seeing two guys at once will only end in tears for you.If this new guy Steve really likes you, even though it is still early days..what will you be telling him ? a, you're a cheat. b,you can't be trusted. I can't see that relationship lasting a long time and who knows Steve could be what you are looking for. Feeling guilty doesn't feel nice does it? Put it down to experience and make sure for your own peace of mind you don't do it again.
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