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writes:Hi I know this is going to sound strange but it is really bugging me. I have an amazing boyfriend and we love and trust eachother very much, but I keep having dreams that he cheats on me. I know he isnt as we are always together and I know I am the most important person in his life, but I wake up crying it is horrible. I am worried because I heard somewhere that your dreams are messages and that they usually come true. Please help me to understand why I keep having these dreams and help me to stop them. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou to everyone who has replied to my problem. I was hoping that it would mean that I was just being paranoid because I do really love him with all my heart. Thankyou everyone I have rated all your answers as exellent as I am very impressed with them all
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reader, joeymac +, writes (12 September 2006):
don't be so supersticious, if that were the case i'd be riding a giant dog over clouds eating marshmallows to my heart's content. good theories suggest that when we sleep our conscious is sorting its self out, any worries and problems we have are going through our heads, trying to make sense, thats why we usually feel better in the morning after an argument or sometimes things don't seem so bad when we'v been to sleep. id say u obviously love ur bf a lot and he means so much to u that u don't know what ud do if he were taken away. because this is so important to u, it is coming up in ur conscience when u dream at night. it doesn't mean he will do it that is stupid of anyone to say. please don't resent him for it either!! my ex used to dream that i was cheating on him and i wud never have dreamed of it (sorry!) and he was sometimes a bit off with me and angry as if the dream actually happened! it was so frustrating! just try to accept that he loves u and probably won't cheat, relax about it, and maybe the dreams will stop xxx
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reader, chunkymunky +, writes (12 September 2006):
 dreams can sometimes be percieved in different ways, you're probably not dreming about him cheating on you because he is going to cheat on you. Everyone gets worried from time to time about partners cheating, but if you spent tho whole relationship worrying when would you have time to enjoy your relationship?! im sure your dreams dont mean anything, so don't worry :) hope you have a long happy relationship x x
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reader, CRS698 +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi there, Are you afraid of losing him? Are you afraid something you might have done could drive him away from you?
Dreams are pointers to how we feel, but we change them to make it easier for us to deal with in a dream state.
You could try to remember as much as you can about the dream and analyse as much as you can, and there may be a deeper answer in it. Then you might be able to deal with the fear etc that you are feeling which should stop the dreams.
I hope it works out for you.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hello, funilly enough i had a dream 2 days ago about my gf cheating on me, woke up crying aswell, i wouldnt worry about it, maybe its because you like him so much you dont wanna lose him which in turn makes you dream such stuff, its hard to explain, like your feeling for him causes you to think about stuff like that, because its a sort of 'id be this upset if he cheated on me', i guess all you can really do is reasure youself, and if you trust him, there shouldnt be a problem :P (this is a view from somebody who doesnt know anything about phycological stuff, and i hope thats the right word lol)
good luck
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