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writes: there's this guy i really like but he's 3 years older than me. might not seem like much, but i'm only 13 and when we started going out his freinds started taking the piss and we split up. but then we got back together again, and then we split up again and the other day he came round for a band practise with my bro, (they are friends), and he was acting really wierd. so i asked him if we were still just friends and he went "if that's all you wanna be". confusing! so i said yeah, it was but now i can't stop thinking about him. i'm finding it really hard to sleep at nights and it's made worse by the fact that i'm not sure if he likes me or not! what should i do??
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (18 September 2006):
 Well he shouldnt of broken up with you because of his mates shows how he still cares about what his mates think. If you still feel unsure talk to him say what is going on one minute you wona be with me the next you dont. If he wants to give it another go say well this is the last chance you dont want to keep being on off. Also remeber your only young and he is 3 yrs older then you make sure he doesnt pressure you into anything and if he does then dont bother wit him. I was 16 when i got with my bf and we were together for a out a yr before we did anythin and he never once pressured me. But i know what its like to get hurt so be carful and not let him walk all over you tell him what you want. Good Luck.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hey There,
well if he really cared about you he would have told his friends to shut up about you in the first place. He's giving you the choice here to be more than friends, you are in controll. If you like him go for it but tell him that if you get one word out of his mates then you're out of there. He shouldn't have to choose between his mates and his girlfriend, but he best make damn sure they give u some respect!
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxxxx
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