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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...
Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 20 November 2011: Knowing that I think it might help if you described to him exactly what you want. Say, "I REALLY love it when you do *blank*" and then show him exactly what you mean.... (read in full...)
He moans about giving me oral, am I being unreasonable?
Q. Do I have the right to be upset? Thank you for all advice and for your time! I appreciate it all so much!!! I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. About two and a half months into our relationship we began to become intimate. I go d...
A. 18 November 2011: I would never suggest someone do things they're uncomfortable with, some guys do just hate giving oral and they shouldn't have to. But this guy sounds lazy and self-centered. All he cares about is having sex and getting off and getting unlimited ... (read in full...)
Sex life is not enough for me and she is not willing to try anthing to spice it up! What can I do?
Q. hi me and my girlfried have been together 5 yrs. And have a 1 and a half yeah old. My problem is my partner no longer seems to enjoy or want to initiate sex. I know over time you have sex less but we are still in our 20's and have sex probaly twice ...
A. 18 November 2011: Like So Very Confused says, she basically has 2 full time jobs, mom/housework and work. Do you do an equal share of the work? And I don't mean just the fun stuff, I mean taking care of your kid when she's sick, getting up to change sheets when she ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: Probably just the way he kisses right now. My boyfriend is the same, open mouthed sometimes, but no tongue unless I initiate it or ask for it. While you're kissing why does he have to initiate use of tongue? Have you tried just sort of tickling his ... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm
Q. Hello, out there. I am a 26 year old female. I have never had an orgasm, either clitorally, or vaginally. I have tried on my own for years, and with my husband, but I just can't do it. Has anyone else had this problem, and does anyone have any ...
A. 18 November 2011: If you've really given it a shot and nothing works you should go see a doctor. They can direct you to the appropriate specialists and there are some medications you can try. In states where it's legal marijuana is also sometimes prescribed for ... (read in full...)
Should I send a facebook request to this girl?
Q. ok this girl sometimes catches my bus and she works at this place part time just like me, we both work sundays thats the only time were on at the same time. she works on checkout and i work on a main department so i see her when she's on a certain ...
A. 18 November 2011: Maybe you should try to strike up a conversation first so she doesn't find it a little creepy. Don't send her a facebook message, that's way creepier than just sending a request. You could go buy a candy bar or something while she's on checkout and ... (read in full...)
Can sperm pass through fabric?
Q. hi. my boyfriend and i were making out so things got a bit heated which left us with just our underwear on, him withthin cotton underwear on and me with very thin underwear on and thin silky tights. Can sperm pass through all these? ...
A. 17 November 2011: It's not like an infection where just being near it can be enough to get you pregnant. Precum does not contain sperm unless he ejaculated since last urinating and there's usually so little of it that without penetration occurring, there's no ... (read in full...)
Can sperm pass through fabric?
Q. hi. my boyfriend and i were making out so things got a bit heated which left us with just our underwear on, him withthin cotton underwear on and me with very thin underwear on and thin silky tights. Can sperm pass through all these? ...
A. 17 November 2011: Was there even a wet spot?... (read in full...)
I have gay thoughts when I masturbate to straight porn, what does this mean?
Q. Of late, when I masturbate, while watching straight porn, then gay thoughts also come into my mind which makes me confused and tense and don't feeling like enjoying it. Does it mean I am gay or bi-sexual or straight? or it happens with everyone...
A. 17 November 2011: Porn doesn't really say anything about your sexual orientation, but what you actively fantasize about does. When you masturbate without porn, does it turn you on more to think about men?... (read in full...)
Can sperm pass through fabric?
Q. hi. my boyfriend and i were making out so things got a bit heated which left us with just our underwear on, him withthin cotton underwear on and me with very thin underwear on and thin silky tights. Can sperm pass through all these? ...
A. 17 November 2011: Sperm are not like fish, they really don't move a whole lot. They can only travel through vaginal fluid, and it still takes them a long time. If they land outside the vaginal canal, they can't get to it. Sperm can only move through fabric in the ... (read in full...)
Am I controlling?
Q. I was analyzing my own behaviour the other day and I began to wonder if I was controlling or not. I dont have to know where my boyfriend is or what he is doing at all times. I am fine with him having a social life. What does bother me is no...
A. 17 November 2011: I don't think controlling is what's happening here. Sounds like you're hurt because you feel like he doesn't want to open up to you. I'm about to launch into some generalizations here, this obviously doesn't apply to everyone, but I'm not adding a... (read in full...)
Never had an orgasm
Q. Hello, out there. I am a 26 year old female. I have never had an orgasm, either clitorally, or vaginally. I have tried on my own for years, and with my husband, but I just can't do it. Has anyone else had this problem, and does anyone have any ...
A. 17 November 2011: If you've tried on your own and you've tried on your own with lube (and lots of it), you should get a vibrator. Read Amazon reviews, they can help guide you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in need of a confidence boost... might a sexy photoshoot do that or will it do the opposite?
Q. I want to give my girlfriend a boost to her confidence. I tell her regularly that she is beautiful and gorgeous, but she is still self-conscious of the size of her body. She isn't obese by any means, but she is admittedly a LITTLE on the big side. ...
A. 17 November 2011: Yes do it. Those shoots include photoshopping and she will look like a lingerie model. I have done that kind of shoot before and one of the women was INCREDIBLY self-conscious and she loved how she looked. Yes, it was heavily photoshopped, but the ... (read in full...)
I saw his father in the bathroom and now I'm mortified!!
Q. I am completely mortified. I was going to my boyfriends house, he greeted me and it just so happened that I really needed to pee. Well he has a bathroom right next to the front entrance, a little one. The door wasn't closed and it was dark so I ...
A. 16 November 2011: Like the other poster said, he's just as embarrassed. It's his fault for not locking the door, not your fault. How could you have known? Take a deep breath and relax. People walk in on each other in the bathroom sometimes, it happens. Just remind ... (read in full...)
Premature Ejaculation?
Q. Im 16 years old and bi. When i masturbate, it happens fairly quickly. Is this a sign a premature ejaculation? I need to know. I usually come in at about 30 secs. Is this normal?? or is it a phase? thanks :D...
A. 16 November 2011: Could be a phase, could be overstimulation. Like Aunt Honesty says, you can practice some stamina by stopping stimulation when you feel yourself getting close. You'll learn this better as you get older.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend gets a girls number at the bar and lied before, deal breaker?
Q. So I have a major decision to make. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and I just found out he's quite the liar. Back in January, he went out with his friends and told me they were going one place but I found out they went to a b...
A. 16 November 2011: This guy does not sound like he cares much for monogamy or honesty. I'd get out before he actually cheats.... (read in full...)
Questions about contraception....
Q. I am going away with my boyfriend next month and I am really excited! :D I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months officially now and it is going great! We never argue and it's well... perfect :D Recently I went on the pill, we are both virgins...
A. 16 November 2011: I'm not a doctor, but I've looked into this stuff pretty obsessively myself (don't want to get pregnant either).
You cannot have the implant at the same time you are on the pill. They are, for all practical purposes, the same drug with two diff... (read in full...)
Why do guys feels the need to brag?
Q. Why do guys brag? He was a party boy and obviously I didn't give him anything sex-related/making out related to brag about. so... when people asked why we hung out around one another...he said that I hung around him and even the police couldn't...
A. 14 November 2011: Because he's an arrogant jerk. He is so egotistical that he can't just take a rejection, he has to pretend that it was him who rejected you so he doesn't suffer a bruised ego. Just ignore this jerk and don't go near him.... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 14 November 2011: I don't have time to read everything here right now, but I did want to respond to man-hating red herring with a quote that I think summarizes well.
"If you think I hate men then you must be defining 'men' as people who are fundamentally sexist a... (read in full...)
Sex while music is playing?
Q. Hello everyone, just after a few personal opinions here! Do you think it's a good idea to have sex for the first time while music's playing in the background or can that be a distraction from (or to) your partner? I'm thinking classical music, ...
A. 13 November 2011: If you want music on, go for it. The first time is usually pretty awkward and music can help with the awkward silences.... (read in full...)
Other Non-Pregnancy Methods
Q. Hello everyone, I thank you for taking your time reading this, I was only wondering if there is any other way to prevent pregnancy other than condoms and birth control pills. I really appreciate it, thank you....
A. 13 November 2011: IUDs, implants, the shot female condoms.
Then there are the ones that don't work very well and you shouldn't go there, the sponge, diaphragm, spermicide gel.
Then there's the one that can work well, but not when you're an adolescent becau... (read in full...)
Shall I just keep silent or shall I voice my insecurities about his Boy's Night Out ?
Q. My bf cheated on me 2 years ago, we argued it out and said we'd give it one last go. Since then it's been fine, and I am steadily starting to build up trust again. However, he mentioned going to another part of the Uk for a lads night out. He's h...
A. 13 November 2011: I think it's reasonable for you to voice your insecurities (calmly) but not reasonable for you to ask or demand he not go. I would tell him that you're feeling insecure and why, then go plan your own night out with the girls for the same weekend to ... (read in full...)
His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...
A. 13 November 2011: Why are you still on online dating sites if you have a boyfriend (and aren't in an open relationship)? It's incredibly disrespectful to him. I can't believe it's taken him 6 months to say this, most guys probably would have said it in the first or ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain how people who divorce can still remain "close friends"?
Q. OK, probably people are gonna think I'm too rigid and old fashioned, but I honestly don't get how two people who get divorced can remain "close friends." I mean, when I have broken up with someone, it was because we had terrible conflicts where ...
A. 13 November 2011: My own parents were married 10 years, then when I was 6 they decided to just be friends. They're very good friends still and talk every day and hang out. Like Jmtmj said, compatible as friends, but not as husband and wife.
I'm sure if there wa... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about the DVDs he's watching as a means to get an erection!
Q. I've become a little bit concerned about my husband in the past few weeks [well, 3 actually]. He's spending a lot of time at the gym and online, and in his room are hundreds of magazines with pictures of shirtless men! Also included was a D...
A. 13 November 2011: I'm sorry to say your husband does very much sound gay but is horribly in denial about it. Anyone who feels sick just thinking about gay people is not someone in a good state to accept his own sexuality. He can't get an erection without seeing other ... (read in full...)
Do girls always find nude art in a guy's place offensive?
Q. Ok, I studied film in college and since then have gotten interested in still photography as well, especially photographers like Howard Schatz, Patrick Demarchelier, Andreas H. Bitesnich, and Herb Ritts. Nudes happen to be one of the subject-matter ...
A. 13 November 2011: While I personally LOVE a well done nude photo, even as someone who has worked as a professional photographer and been hired by the most famous magazine for photography in the United States I couldn't recommend putting up full nudes on your walls. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend cheated three times, is that reason to dump him?
Q. Hi there. I've gotten together with this guy about 2 weeks ago after we had been dating for 3 months. I found out he's cheating on me just three days after we got together and yet he's done it 3 times already. I'm really confused since he seems t...
A. 13 November 2011: Yes. Dump him. Immediately.... (read in full...)
A little primer on women and sex...
Q. A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...
A. 12 November 2011: Awesome post. This needs to be printed out and given to every adolescent boy and every adult male who is stuck at the age of 13 and just every heterosexual male in general.... (read in full...)
Now I wish I hadn't sent those nasty drunken texts!
Q. I been seeing a guy for a while, purely on a sexual basis but it's usually only when he wants - yes I do realise he is just using me but it doesn't really bother me too much as it is the best I and he (well he claims anyway) have had. Anyway he ...
A. 11 November 2011: Good sex doesn't justify being treated like dirt. I know it may seem bad, but really, you dodged a bullet here! This guy is treating you worse than the proverbial sock. ... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable getting naked, will it turn him off?
Q. Ok. So my boyfriend invited me over to his house next week. His parents are going to be out of town and we're going to have the house to ourselves. I've gone upto second base with him but I think he intends to go further this time (not that I have a ...
A. 11 November 2011: We all have flab and cellulite and we DEFINITELY all have hair naturally. Even celebs and supermodels have flab and cellulite. You know what's way more sexy than having a perfect figure? Being confident and knowing you're sexy, because you are! He ... (read in full...)
I have recently met a lovely guy, I like him a lot and we have a lot of chemistry... but he's married!
Q. Hi everyone:) Just want you opinions on something... I have recently met a lovely guy, I like him a lot and we have a lot of chemistry... but he's married. He has been separated from his wife for a few years and they are in the process of sellin...
A. 11 November 2011: You can remain friends if you think he's serious about you, but definitely wait until the divorce is finalized to act. You don't want to be stuck as the married guy's girlfriend, even if he is separated.... (read in full...)
He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?
Q. On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my ...
A. 11 November 2011: That is among the most ridiculous things I've ever heard in my life. No wonder you dumped him, he sounds like slime. Do not let him manipulate you into doing a single thing. You do not owe him anything for dumping him, you don't owe him anything ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 10 November 2011: There's one thing about cheating that's always bothered me. I don't understand why the cheater is always expected to stop cheating but the partner is never expected to accept an open relationship? I also don't understand why when one partner uses... (read in full...)
Found porn on b/f's phone and kind of freaked out about it
Q. My bf asked me to call the pizza place on his phone. Whe n I picked it up I saw he accidentally had left up his web browser from when he was walking to work. It had a internet page up of girls in underwear posing - aka porn type stuff. I don't ...
A. 10 November 2011: Most porn is just "slim girls [not] in their underwear." If you don't have a problem with a "normal" porn, I don't see why this is something to worry about.... (read in full...)
How do I let go of my ex, especially in the aftermath of my assault?
Q. I was recently sexually assaulted. After the incident, I was in hysterics, and for some reason, I called my ex boyfriend crying for help. He picked me and my best friend up and took me home. My best friend told him what happened. All he said to me ...
A. 10 November 2011: I think that you need to talk to a counselor or therapist. I'd also recommend you talk it out on the RAINN.org website. They have a phone line you can call any time of the day or night as well as an online chat room.... (read in full...)
After all these hints he didnt propose! I'm getting depressed about this, what should I do?
Q. I thought he was going to propose last night. We've been together for three years, and the hints he kept dropping were leading me to believe that. But he didn't. Instead, to celebrate our anniversary he gave me some chocolates and flowers. I told ...
A. 10 November 2011: Do it yourself. This isn't the 50's. If you want to marry him, ask him!... (read in full...)
How can I enjoy sex with my partner who has a small penis? And is masturbation ok even though I'm in a relationship?
Q. how can i make myself to enjoy while having sex even though my partner have a small penis? And is mastubation good for someone who is in a relationship?...
A. 10 November 2011: Only the first 3 inches of the vagina have nerve endings anyways, and the majority of women who can orgasm from penetration orgasm because it's stimulating their clitoris anyways. It really isn't about size, it's about how you use it. During sex you ... (read in full...)
No sex in 5 years, does it matter to guys?
Q. To the Men on Dearcupid, What would you think if you started a relationship with a woman who hadn't had sex in 5 years? Would it freak you out? Or does it simply not matter? Thanks I was just wondering!...
A. 10 November 2011: I'd think it would be preferable to the alternative for most guys.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what ...
A. 10 November 2011: Being drunk is no excuse, that part is just idiotic. I was so drunk I couldn't even walk straight and was walking around with a guy I had "unfinished business" with and still didn't cheat on my boyfriend. It didn't even enter my mind.
That ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to fake an orgasm?
Q. If you fake an orgasm while your partner is trying to please you, is it rude? Me and my bf (of about a year) were having some fun a few days ago, and he was trying to get me to orgasm with his fingers, and it felt good, but after a while I realiz...
A. 10 November 2011: Unfortunately MANY women cannot reach orgasm with a partner and it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you if you need some help. Many women can't get there without a vibrator. Can you have an orgasm when you masturbate?... (read in full...)
How do I feel more comfortable having asymmetrical breasts?
Q. Im a 15 year old girl who has asymmetrical breasts. My left is an a cup and the right is a c cup. Im quite insecure about them and i have been to see my gp about them but obviously because im under 18 they cant do anything. Can anyone who has the ...
A. 10 November 2011: Totally normal. Almost all women have asymmetrical breasts, and during adolescence it's normal for them to be even more asymmetrical. To fix it buy those little silicone cutlets to put in the smaller cup to fill out your bras a bit and buy bras with ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to fake an orgasm?
Q. If you fake an orgasm while your partner is trying to please you, is it rude? Me and my bf (of about a year) were having some fun a few days ago, and he was trying to get me to orgasm with his fingers, and it felt good, but after a while I realiz...
A. 10 November 2011: It's deceitful, dishonest, and cruel to both him and to yourself. Faking orgasms is almost always a bad idea. Don't tell him you faked it, you will utterly devastate him.
It's one thing (and probably totally OK) to fake an orgasm with a one nigh... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 9 November 2011: The porn industry generates into the double digit billions of dollars annually. Many of the largest media corporations in the country own numerous pornography companies and if we've learned anything about our government, it's that it's basically run ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 8 November 2011: I'm not judging anyone for their fantasies. Porn and fantasy are not the same. That's like saying writing a paper is the same as buying one online and turning it in as your own. Like buying a McDonalds burger and saying you cooked it. Fantasy is ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 7 November 2011: Her study was published in a well-respected peer-reviewed journal. She was most likely asked to speak because they wanted to hear about her study. Given that she didn't organize the event, she would have had to be invited, again most likely because ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 5 November 2011: And by impartial you of course mean doesn't show harm? None of the studies I discussed were funded by a special interest group. The only studies I have found that found a neutral or positive effect from porn viewing were examining a cathartic effect ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 5 November 2011: I'm still completely dumbfounded by people who believe getting informed about/learning about something is less credible than forming a quick emotional opinion.
Also, porn is part of "the media." Oprah is also part of "the media." Since when wer... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 5 November 2011: Odds, universities are notoriously horrendous at reporting rape and making public any rape statistics on campus. Not because universities are trying to discriminate and get in the way of the law but because they know parents don't want to send their ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 4 November 2011: I'm sorry I suppose I should have clarified, those 10:1 and 100:1 comments were not meant to be taken literally. It is a figure of speech to mean a lot versus very little. Perhaps that's not a common thing to say in Canada? Though if you're talking ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 4 November 2011: Because the larger effect of personal choice is more important than instant gratification for one person. Because it's short-sighted and ignorant to form an opinion on something based on gut feeling in direct opposition to statistics and facts. ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 3 November 2011: Fetishes are exclusively a male disorder. A true fetish is actually fairly rare. A fetish is classed as a disorder, someone who compulsively HAS to be turned on by doing something "abnormal." Like the guy I once dated claiming to have a foot fetish ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 3 November 2011: About the music industry, I assume you're unfamiliar then with the numerous violent sexual assaults that took place that used music videos as choreography? For instance at a New York City festival multiple women walking were through a crowd were ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 2 November 2011: 20% of men admit to doing something that legally counts as sexual assault during their lives. This was a massive study cited during the senate hearing on rape in the United States. I didn't claim that 20% sexually assault women due to porn, just ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 1 November 2011: Actually k_c100 the vast majority of porn is violent, 88.2% of mainstream pornography contains violence. While I think the TV show here was a bit sensationalist, the link between watching sexual violence and becoming aggressive/violent is very clear ... (read in full...)
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