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writes: I am completely mortified. I was going to my boyfriends house, he greeted me and it just so happened that I really needed to pee. Well he has a bathroom right next to the front entrance, a little one. The door wasn't closed and it was dark so I pushed it open only to find his father leaning over the toilet!!! I didnt see anything at all, thank heavens, but I was so embarrassed that I turned red and apologized a million times, closing the door quickly. He just said hello and rushed out after... its been about 2 hrs but I'm still horrified and feel so awkward. Is it my fault?? They have 2 other bathrooms, I just thought to go into this one cause it seemed empty. Ahhhh what do I do??? Why didn't he close the door!?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 it happens
I was a teen and saw my grandpa naked when he got out of the shower once.. i was embarassed...
you apologized
he was probably as embarrassed as you.
time to let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2011): I have had so many oops stories personally and at that very moment i could die, really die:
-recently invited to a clients baby shower, hb was with me. Needed to pee, told hubby to stand outside the door bec there was no locking device. Unbeknown to me he felt awkward standing outside the door, left...in walk a 12 year old boy. Im sure hes scared for life.
- changing at my mums home: my BIL wals in
- just finished getting some loving from hb, SIL walks through the house and into our bedroom
- My SIL
let out a bad one so loud that the visitors who were in the lounge ( few rooms away) heard it
SO OP these embarressing incidends do happen. After a while u can actually joke about it. Just tell your bf and then pretend it didnt happen.
LoveGirl
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 November 2011):
 Like the other poster said, he's just as embarrassed. It's his fault for not locking the door, not your fault. How could you have known? Take a deep breath and relax. People walk in on each other in the bathroom sometimes, it happens. Just remind yourself that every one pees (and poops) and move on. Just behave as if nothing happened. Acting awkward and especially trying to talk about it will make it worse. Relax, it happens. It's embarrassing but it happens. Just take a deep breath, roll your shoulders back, and behave with confidence as if it didn't happen. Breathe.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (16 November 2011):
He is probably as mortified as you are.
Take a few deep breaths. Try to calm yourself.
You already apologized profusely.
Just pretend it never happened. Either you will eventually forget it ever happened, or it will be an awkward funny story later down the road.
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