I don't want to ruin it by being paranoid!!
Q. I'am seeing this guy and i really like him, problem is i'am really scared of getting into another relationship as all of my past relationships have all ended badly. I'am scared that if i become his girlfriend he will use and abuse me like all of my ...
A. 27 August 2010: Hey hun, look you just gotta go with the flow!
You can't live in the past and every relationship you have in the future you CANT base on the previous, if I was to do that I wouldn't even have a relationship due to some of the things that have happ... (read in full...)
Bizarre stories on how you met your significent other?
Q. I hate the way that most couples meet today. I mean some people go to bars, others meet in the store, some grow up together best friends,introduced by friends,fall in love with their co-workers, ect. But it always seems to be the same way. They ask ...
A. 27 August 2010: I met my fiancée several yrs ago randomly.. We kissed danced ect then he vanished into thin air literally for 5yrs.. I was dateing his sister in laws brother when he decided to stroll back into my life and I just wanted him and the feeling was ... (read in full...)
Why Men Visit Strip Clubs
Q. Quite a few of you have written to me in regards to your boyfriends (and a few husbands) frequenting the mens den, called Strip Clubs. This issue is a concern for most if not all women in a relationship and I can understand that. So today, I decided ...
A. 27 August 2010: My general opinion of strip clubs is this
stag do's
curiosity
yeah sure what's the harm in once..
The ones that get me are the men who sneak off there wasting money they should rightfully be taking home to the wife and kids are just perve... (read in full...)
What is going on with my wife "downstairs"?
Q. Hi guys my question is for the girls when me and my wife have sex there is some white thing coming out from her vagina which looks like cheese and it smells very bad it is like small cube things and when she checked with a doctor the doctor told her ...
A. 26 August 2010: It sounds to me like your wife has thrush or possibly a bactirial infection.
Thrush is VERY common, and is NOT an STI/STD. It can occur from wearing thongs
washing privates with sented soaps
pregnancy
underwear that is to tight
and even poor... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has just lied to me!
Q. Im shocked! I've never doubted anything he has ever said to me as always felt he was an honest guy but hes just lied to me! Hes been away since Monday on a work trip. He lives 2 roads from me so i drove past wed pm on my way back from the shops a...
A. 26 August 2010: You need to go over or call him immediately! Explain to him your FULLY AWARE he IS lying to you. Explain how you saw his car outside an lights in ect and get an explanation.
There is the chance he said it to have some time apart but if I were in ... (read in full...)
He was found with an STD,I was not. I don't know how this happened?
Q. I don't know it this has been discussed before but if anyone can help. I am on vacation right now with my family and recently, my boyfriend revealed to me that he has been tested and found out with gonorrhea. I was very furious, I had been just ou...
A. 25 August 2010: It sounds so suspect.. I don't really see how a doctor could mess up the results.
I would recommend you to go along with him to his doctors at his next appointment, if he refuses you to go then clearly he has something to hide.
If your partn... (read in full...)
Why has she suddenly finished it completely??
Q. Ok, Hi guys. I'm new to this but really am out of ideas and have decided to ask people that dont know either me nor my partner and hope to get honest opinions. Background info really is i am 22 and she is 24, she has a 5 year old and lives by her...
A. 22 August 2010: To be honest with you she sounds very insecure... Insecure women WILL put their man down in front of anyone THEY feel threatened by.. If they make you out to look sh*tty there's less risk Antibes gonna try steal you.
Very strange I kno but it's... (read in full...)
Do guys go to clubs with the intention of pulling girls?
Q. ok thanks to everyone who responds, i really appreciate it. I know this will probably seem so obvious to people and also possibly stupid but I would love some input. ok well i went out last night and was with my flatmates at a student bar/club...
A. 21 August 2010: Well.. While it's true most guys and yes even girls go out to try get 'laid' most weekends, some are genuine people that are just out and happen to meet someone that takes their fancy.
This guy doesn't sound like someone who just wanted sex, he ... (read in full...)
Why Men Visit Strip Clubs
Q. Quite a few of you have written to me in regards to your boyfriends (and a few husbands) frequenting the mens den, called Strip Clubs. This issue is a concern for most if not all women in a relationship and I can understand that. So today, I decided ...
A. 21 August 2010: Well... I am one if these woman who would just die at the thought of my partner going to a strip club... After Reading your post and namely the last reply before myself, I don't feel any more confident!! So thanks for trying to set our minds at ... (read in full...)
I told my friend's girlfriend about us and now he won't speak to me!
Q. I have a serious problem... Me and a guy from 10 years ago found each other on facebook.. We reconneted... talk, I ask him if he had a girlfriend he said "NO" talked all kinds of craped about his ex.. Well we went out and hung out all weekend, had ...
A. 21 August 2010: He betrayed your trust and his gfs trust, why are you feeling guilty exactly?? He lied to you both in order to manipulate the situation for his own dirty advantage. That's NOT a friend or someone you should be sorry for, he made his own bed do ... (read in full...)
Life falling apart and feeling confused and helpless
Q. i need abit of advice please my boy friend is a few years older than me and had at least 2 serious reltionships the last one he ended up marrying her well they were together 8 years when they got married 3 years after they got marrie...
A. 21 August 2010: Trust your gut feelings on this one, from my perspective looking in on this situation, he's a bad one. No man spends a night in a motel with his ex to argue!! He does still love and want his ex it's plain to see from what you've said. Get out of ... (read in full...)
Why do people keep photos of their ex?
Q. Why do people keep photos of their ex'? I girl i've been seeing for almost a year keep photos albums of her ex' on her bookshelf in the living room. There must be hundreds of them. Should i be freaking out here? She gets angry if i keep anything ...
A. 21 August 2010: Personally i think if the photos are of her, her friends and her ex then that's accepable in my opinion.. But that's just my opinion, I would never solely just keep pictures of my ex.
Having said that it's still NOT a pleasent thing to see and ... (read in full...)
My mom found my vibrator!
Q. Okay,well just a few minutes ago I went into my parents room because I have an earache and we were looking for the special tylenol that only works for my ear and I had left the vibrator underneath my pillow the night before and had fallen ...
A. 20 August 2010: To be honest your mom is probably just as embarresed as you... But brownwolf is right, you must name him now!! :) perhaps raise it with your mom by saying "so I see you met 'malcolm'?" and go from there, strange thing is your mom will find it highly ... (read in full...)
The new guy or the best friend?
Q. I was married but already made up my mind I was going to leave him and move in with my best friend; witch is a Guy who lives in Texas, I'm in Kentucky. While I was saving up money to go out there I hooked up with a guy thinking it would just be ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hey,
I'm going to be quite blunt on this one..
You may have feelings for BOTH these men as their 'nice guys' but clearly your NOT in love with either of them, otherwise you'd kno the answer to this question.
You shouldn't settle for just ... (read in full...)
What should I do? We are both taken but this love we have for each other is so strong!
Q. I need help. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. I am a 42 year old married woman with 3 teenage children. In December 2009, I came across an old friend with whom I had very deep feelings for, way back 21 years ago. We never had a relationship ...
A. 20 August 2010: If nothing has been verbal between you two, that really needs to happen. You need to find out his feelings for you. If your not happy with your husband you shouldn't stay with him regardless of the way you feel about this other man. It's not fair on ... (read in full...)
How can I make our sex life better? I don't want it to feel forced and unnatural.....
Q. So I've bee going out with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We live together and enjoy many activities and hobbies together. I'd say that in general, our relationship is doing well. The only issue would be the sex part. I'm a male and do like ...
A. 20 August 2010: Hi again and no problem.
Other than what I've already said there's not much else I can suggest, you certainly shouldn't just wait for her to approach you though! As she's said sometimes she feels like her friend, who suffers with depressi... (read in full...)
Is 13 too young for sex?
Q. I like sex but i am only 13 years old am i too young?...
A. 19 August 2010: As everyone else has said YES you are to young, you should be enjoying your life as a young teen not throwing it away. The simple fact your asking the question is proof enough your not completely comfortable with having sex. There's also the huge ... (read in full...)
How can I make our sex life better? I don't want it to feel forced and unnatural.....
Q. So I've bee going out with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We live together and enjoy many activities and hobbies together. I'd say that in general, our relationship is doing well. The only issue would be the sex part. I'm a male and do like ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hmm this is a tricky one.. Could she have depression?
Sounds quite similar to myself when I had depression. But that aside try these.
Try incorperating some surprise romance.. Cook a meal get a nice bottle of wine in.. Make her feel really speci... (read in full...)
Contraception Question - I want to put my periods on hold
Q. I've been on the Cilest pill for over a year now. So far it has been effective, has made my periods lighter and more comfortable and has improved my complexion. However, I'm going to uni to study dance in september. I'll be moving about a lot, and...
A. 19 August 2010: Hello :) where contraception is concerned I would highly suggest the marena coil, I had NO periods for 3yrs then had it removed as we were trying for a baby. But once it's in you don't need to worry about it for 5yrs.
And in all honesty u think ... (read in full...)
Before she met me she sent a picture of herself to another guy, should I be mad at her for this?
Q. Should i be mad at my girlfriend for something she did in the past? Me and her were not together at this time but she did something that really bothers me. She sent a pic(nothing dirty) to a guy because he kept asking and asking, he kept bugging her ...
A. 19 August 2010: Simple answer... NO you should not be upset about it. It doesn't have any impact on your relationship in anyway shape or form so should NOT be an issue. Take care, JD :)
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I've taken 7 pregnancy tests and all were positive, but did I take them too early?
Q. i had sex like 3 to 5 weeks ago with no protection and im realy scared because 4 days ago i took only one pregnancy test and it came out positive so the next day like at 9 or 10 in the morning i took 6 more and they all came out positive but someone ...
A. 19 August 2010: You can only get false positives if your taking any medications that contain something called HCG, other than that I'm affraid 7 positives definatly indicate you ARE pregnant! If your considering keeping the baby good luck and congratulations :) if ... (read in full...)
Does this make us a couple?
Q. Anyway I met this guy, we have great chemistry and I like him a lot. Honestly I'm not sure if we're dating but I think we are. Tuesday morning we we're talking and I'm not sure how this came about, but I had asked him if we were offical, he said do ...
A. 19 August 2010: Hmmm.. Yes it makes you a couple, but it sounds like thus guy is playing on your attractions to him for his own benefit, pics when you've been with someone a while are all good and a bit if fun, but him asking for them already when you haven't even ... (read in full...)
Birth control is ruining my relationship once a month!
Q. My girlfriend and I are very careful about sex so we use both condoms and birth control. She has been taking them around 9 months and I'm not sure what pills they are but we are both starting to see some negative effects. Before both control she had ...
A. 19 August 2010: I wasn't aware that birth control pills caused depression.. You need to get her to see her gp as soon as poss, something really doesn't sound right there so I see why your so worried!
But of cause this could all be down to PMS I kno I am a right ... (read in full...)
Is she planning on taking a vacation without me?
Q. i saw on my gf's computer last night that she was looking at vacationing in st. thomas. the date she was looking at is sept 22-27. now, she hasn't mentioned it to me, so am i to assume she's thinking of taking someone else, or could it be a su...
A. 19 August 2010: I imagin it's a surprise, if she was planning to go away with a friend or relative I'm sure she would have told you about it!
Think about the dates she's looking at.. Do they have any relevance to your relationship? First date? When you became a... (read in full...)
Should I test again???
Q. Hello i could really use some smart advice right about now. My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex(were both clean and std free!) ;but the next day i think i got my period it was very light to the point where it didn''t even take up one pad? I had ...
A. 10 August 2010: Why do you want to be pregnant when your so young? You haven't even fully deloped yet!
You haven't even had chance to live your own life either!, how will you juggle school? How will you pay for a baby? Have you really thought all this through prop... (read in full...)
Is this possible?
Q. is it possible to have a misscarage when you first go to the doctor than go back and he says that you are pregnant?...
A. 9 August 2010: It is possible to miscarry or be miscarrying during the test period as the pregnancy hormone is present during that time. ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant?
Q. i had unprotected sex a week after my period and its been about 10 days and im worried i might be pregnant. i also had unprotected sex twice 8 days after the 1st time. i feel so stupid and im worried im pregnant. im 16 and im scared people will make ...
A. 9 August 2010: Hi chick, I don't think the other 'aunts' have really taken the time to look at this situation for what it is and I'm very sure that 'once upon a time' they made mistakes and misjuged things sexually also. I do however agree that it's not people ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?
Q. [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...
A. 8 August 2010: Sweetheart the term for this if he's having sex with you is statutory rape and peadophilia, it is VERY wrong and you should NOT be seeing this so called "man" I would class him more of a sick animal.... (read in full...)
I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?
Q. [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...
A. 8 August 2010: Sweetheart the term for this if he's having sex with you is statutory rape and peadophilia, it is VERY wrong and you should NOT be seeing this so called "man" I would class him more of a sick animal.... (read in full...)
Is she having orgasms?
Q. well here i am every day wondering if im am doing something right or wrong, its starting to happen constantly now, when me and my girlfriend are busy making love, if i would stop for a sec and take my penus out i see her go al shaking and shivering ...
A. 8 August 2010: I believe so... I normally shake when I orgasm lol your doing a good job don't worry :)... (read in full...)
I don't like him watching porn alone! Should I just watch it with him?
Q. I don't like my boyfriend watching porn. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. Just the thought of him watching other naked girls and doing the nasty with himself makes me sick. Should I just watch it with him? Would he stop watching ...
A. 8 August 2010: Ah.. Your feeling insecure about yourself, there's really no need to, yes he watches porn by himself.... So?? He is more than likely trying to pick up tips for your benefit. and so what if he "does the nasty" that's a perfecly normal natural thing ... (read in full...)
Want to have a second child, but unsure if it's a good idea.
Q. Ello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm not sure that this is something that belongs here but then again I believe this is the best place to come for advices. I have asked and answered many and I really love that everyon...
A. 8 August 2010: I think that's down to you as an individual, problem is you can't really force him into giving you a baby, if YOU feel you can support another child and really want one go for it as long as you can convince your man to do it, have you truley spoke ... (read in full...)
Pregnant for the 4th time with my cousin. My family doesn't want me to keep it though!
Q. well ; i am currently preqnant for my mother's brother son - myfirst cousin. it was all a mistake. we were drunk and had sex. i want to keep the baby but my entire family is against it due to the fact they said it is cross dna and would come out ...
A. 8 August 2010: So you've already had 3 abortions to men that aren't related to you yet you want to keep a baby that will be your cousin/son/daughter? I'm sorry Hun but that's not right, can you imagin growing up with people bullying you because your dad and mom ... (read in full...)
Questions about the pullout method and pregnancy. All advice is welcome!
Q. I just wanted to hear your own experiences and opinions regarding the following questions, feel free to say anything, i would really like to hear your answers. 1. Have you ever used the pullout method? (esp, how often?) 2. Have you or your...
A. 8 August 2010: Righty... First of all I'm gathering you don't want to get pregnant? So I wouldn't advise the pull out method, I have a 3yr old daughter now who I do adore dearly thanks to this method lol but i would have prefered not to have had children with my ... (read in full...)
What is going on in her head?
Q. Theres this one girl... We have been talking for about 10 months now. Shes was in a relationship when we first started talking... I didnt care, although it came to bite me in the ass later. 4 months into that "friendship" we had.. we spent alot of ...
A. 8 August 2010: Dude, she's leading you on... It's like she enjoys the attention but slaps you back everytime things get a little close for comfort. Leave it be and perhaps tell her fella? He don't deserve you two 'fooling around' behind his back, how would you ... (read in full...)
Why do single mums seek boyfriends or husbands?
Q. Why do single mums/moms seek boyfriends/husbands when they know they can't ever devote enough attention to them? 95% of the people here that response to questions re:step kids say that the children always come first, then why do they even try to...
A. 8 August 2010: I would truley love to kno why your asking this question.... My fiancée was a single dad and I a single mom, we now have another child together. The rule genrally is day time is all about the kids and come their bedtime it's all about you two... ... (read in full...)
Help! Do we have a future together?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have split up again, I don't know why we do it, you would not put us together but we get on so well have some sort of connection. It is love between us, we have been seeing each other sixteen months and split twice for 2 months ...
A. 8 August 2010: Why do you keep splitting ask yourself that... At the end of the day every relationship has ups and downs but if she leaves you, you move on then drop everything to get back with her she knows all she has to do is play with your head to get what she ... (read in full...)
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