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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 I"m a forgiving person but in this case.. DUMP HIM
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2011): Drop him like a rock! Now!
I would have said as much the first time. Someone who is willing to repeatedly dirsespect you like that does not deserve you. It seems hes made it very clear that he does not care for you or your feelings and will do it again at the next opportunity. End it now and find someone who will respect you and truly care for you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Dump. I think that saying, 'you start as you mean to go on' applies here. He's planning to continue getting it on with other women.
Run, Forrest, run!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Unless you want to wait for him to cheat a fouth, fifth or sixth time... I'd dump him.
Obviously he isn't going to stop.
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reader, goldie22  +, writes (13 November 2011):
Yes i think you should. Why would you want to waste your time on someone who cant give you commitment and is sleeping.around possibly bringing back disease. Im sure you deserve far better than to be disrespected like that. Good luck hun
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Yes. Dump him. Immediately.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Dump him right away. I say the first time he cheated gave you enough reason to dump him. Plus he is doing it right at the beginning of the relationship, not like it gets better the later in the relationship but it is just such a low thing to do when you start seeing someone.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 November 2011):
Yes, dump him!!!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Do you REALLY have to ask this question? I'm sorry, but this should be a no brainer.
You two lingered in the gray dating area for 3 months...who's idea was it to finally make this relationship official? Is he aware that you two are officially boyfriend and girlfriend?
He started cheating on you 3 days after you two became official??!!! Seriously, the guy has some nerve. The douche obviously doesn't want to be committed to you if he's been cheating this whole time.
My vote is to dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2011): I think you should dump him because he's starting off bad so early in the relationship. Plus, I suggest you leave before you fall for him any harder and end up completely heart broken.
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Yes.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 November 2011):
Oh yes, you should dump him all right. You have three exceptional reasons to dump him. Why be with someone who treats you like this? There is no reason.
Dump this loser and move on.
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