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reader, Katie-Lynn  +, writes (22 November 2011):
Katie-Lynn is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks~
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2011):
 it will improve... it's nice when you get someone that kisses the way you like... but it can be fun to teach someone to do it the way you like..
have fun.. good luck.
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reader, Katie-Lynn +, writes (21 November 2011):
Katie-Lynn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust wanted to say that today, at random on the phone, he said that I was good at French kissing. I think he was relating to Saturday when I updated you guys last.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 November 2011):
 Knowing that I think it might help if you described to him exactly what you want. Say, "I REALLY love it when you do *blank*" and then show him exactly what you mean.
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reader, Katie-Lynn +, writes (20 November 2011):
Katie-Lynn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi. I just thought I'd update so here it goes. Today we were kissing and I tried to insert my tongue again (I've tried it several times before so I could get one out of him and it never worked) and basically he finally did it back but I think I realized why he hasn't done it before. I don't think he knows how too much how to do it cause when he did finally do it today, it was kind of choppy.
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reader, Katie-Lynn +, writes (18 November 2011):
Katie-Lynn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I have tried initiating it and yes, I am good at it ( been told I was).
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reader, person12345 +, writes (18 November 2011):
Probably just the way he kisses right now. My boyfriend is the same, open mouthed sometimes, but no tongue unless I initiate it or ask for it. While you're kissing why does he have to initiate use of tongue? Have you tried just sort of tickling his lips with your tongue? Have you started the tongue action? You can also pull away and tell him how much you'd like it if he used a little tongue. He might just not want to be one of those guys who is known for shoving his tongue down a girl's throat.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 November 2011):
Maybe that's how he knows how to kiss... perhaps you have to teach him to kiss the way you like to kiss...
this is going to be one of those conversations you have to have with him...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 Everyone has there own style of kissing and obviously this is his own style. If you want to change things around about well then you take the lead and let him follow you.
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (18 November 2011):
 The best way is to ask him about it. One night when you two are together ask him how he feels about french kissing and see what his reaction is. Then proceed from there on what to do.
Good Luck!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (18 November 2011):
 There's a variety of reasons he may not be into french kissing.
Such as:
1. He simply doesn't like doing it.
2. He doesn't know how to do it well. He may not want to disappoint you- and think you may not like the way he does it. And that thought may also be the result of...
3. He's been put down for the way he does it.
Whatever the reason may be, one thing is for sure, if you don't say anything to him, things will continue the same way- leaving you a bit disappointed every time you kiss. Try to communicate with him to find out the reason that he doesn't want to french kiss you. Tell him how much you like it- and you would like to have the experience of being kissed fully by him.
Best of luck to you!
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