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| | *ecca emma louise's profile:i'm only fourteen years old but many of my experiences make me a lot more mature for my age. All my friends say i'm the one they come to with their problems. I've been told i give great advice and i love to help people out because i know in my hours of need i really depended on the people that stood by me. I'm not a judgemental person and hope that you wont judge me. I do try to give an honest but fair opinion. I will always fight for what i believe in and if i disagree with you i will tell you so! I hate stereotypical people and it hurts me to think of the labels people give each other and the labels people have given me. Dont talk about me behing my back if you cant say it to my face. Some people always jump to the wrong conclusion. To me the biggest crime is betrayal. People that i trust that let me down really aren't worth fighting for, but even when they let me down i still love them because thats what made them special in the first place...
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Intense urge to have babies...and I'm only 15!!
Q. I want a child, but I am too young; what should I do? I am only 15, but I feel very intense urges to have many children. I have been able to have a child for 5 years, biologically, and I have been in puberty for half my life, but it is only in the ...
A. 12 February 2011: i know exactly how you feel! i fell pregnant at 13 and miscarried and it the worst experience of my life... ever since i've wanted a baby, and find myself in tears at the mention of anything related. at first i thought it was a phase but here i am ... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage and am afraid to tell my boyfriend
Q. I was 3 months pregnant and started having really bad tummy pains... My boyfriend, who i live with, said its just something to do with the pregnancy and told me not to worry about it, whilst he was doing his paper round i decided to talk to his mum ...
A. 6 February 2011: im so sorry to hear about your loss. i had a miscarriage at 13 myself and it tore me apart. i never told my bf i was pregnant and we drifted apart. over a year later i told him what happened. i didnt tell him at the time for fear of ruining his ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone is gay?
Q. Hey how can you tell if someone is gay/lesbian , coz i cum from a town where everyone is not open bout things and im just wondering me being lesbian how am i meant to know if sumone i like is gay . i couldnt go up and ask them coz you just cant go ...
A. 31 January 2011: get to know them as friends and as you get closer see if you start to have sexual feelings, if you do then start getting closer like hugging and stuff. the easiest way is if it feels right when you are close to a girl is to kiss her. if she feels ... (read in full...)
Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'
Q. I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...
A. 29 December 2010: first of all i'd like to say congratulations. i know its not the perfect situation but a baby is a great thing and shouldnt be the cause of sadness or arguements. sooner or later your parents will find out and they would rather hear it from you. i ... (read in full...)
I acted as if I had an abortion!
Q. i have just started talking to the teacher who betrayed me a year ago after i found out i was pregnant and confided in her. i've never had the confidence to talk about what happened next even when i forgave her. i'll never forget what she did. We ...
A. 21 December 2010: i found out i was pregnant a year ago and confided in her, she told the deputy head of my school who told my mum. the teacher and my mum both wanted me to abort but i refused. i planned to keep the baby but had a miscarriage at nine weeks. i know ... (read in full...)
Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child.
Q. I am a 30 year old girl. i married a 37 african french man. he is so nice guy. in our culture, we do a court marriage first for a couple of months before we can have a complete sex and do the wedding party. in the first two months we played so much ...
A. 8 August 2010: i think its totally unfair, when he married you he promised to love you no matter what. this shouldnt change that. its good of you to be honest and tell him the truth, its was a decision made for you but something as small as that should not break ... (read in full...)
He's in the military and I don't know how to tell him I'm pregnant
Q. I'm 20years old and at the moment I'm a military girlfriend I just recently found out that I was pregnant and I don't know how I can tell him in a matter of his 8months in training and also can someone give me some parenting tips for a healthy ...
A. 8 August 2010: if its done by letter than you can think about it more carefully and choose your words. if it were me then i would start off casually just write saying how much you love him and that you miss him while he is away and that you will always support ... (read in full...)
How do I make things easier to have sex?
Q. my girlfriend is a virgin, and im not. i have fingerd her and she has tossed me off.. she says shes ready but shes really awkward to like start ''things'' with. what can i do to make this tention go away? or start things easier? thanks....
A. 7 August 2010: well if she's ready then she will expect it to a certain extent. my advice would be that when you two are together just fooling around, start getting intimate by kissing her and then finger her to ease her up so she'll be in the mind set mentally ... (read in full...)
He's in the military and I don't know how to tell him I'm pregnant
Q. I'm 20years old and at the moment I'm a military girlfriend I just recently found out that I was pregnant and I don't know how I can tell him in a matter of his 8months in training and also can someone give me some parenting tips for a healthy ...
A. 7 August 2010: just tell him outright, sit down together and tell him whats happened :) for a healthy pregnancy just relax for a start :)
eat well, small exercise is okay but take it easy, see your doctor and they will get you all the medical info you need and ... (read in full...)
Questions about my first pregnancy!
Q. As some of you may know I'm pregnant with my cousins baby and were about to get married. This is my first baby so i got some questions. 1~ Is it normal to have weird and unusual cravings? 2~ Why does my baby constantly kick me? 3~ What causes me...
A. 6 August 2010: as far as research goes sex is fine throughout pregnancy, if you want to do it then its fine but yes do take it slow and be gentle remember your body is constantly changing. also although you obviously cant get pregnant, condoms also protect from ... (read in full...)
Questions about my first pregnancy!
Q. As some of you may know I'm pregnant with my cousins baby and were about to get married. This is my first baby so i got some questions. 1~ Is it normal to have weird and unusual cravings? 2~ Why does my baby constantly kick me? 3~ What causes me...
A. 6 August 2010: yeah totally, just like hormones cause food cravings they make you want to do things like clean and things like a bit of dust will suddenly bug you and will have to be cleaned right away! its totally normal, but do take it easy and have some time to ... (read in full...)
Questions about my first pregnancy!
Q. As some of you may know I'm pregnant with my cousins baby and were about to get married. This is my first baby so i got some questions. 1~ Is it normal to have weird and unusual cravings? 2~ Why does my baby constantly kick me? 3~ What causes me...
A. 5 August 2010: food cravings are totally normal but also cravings and aversions to other things like toothpaste etc your baby is alive, living and growing and moves just like me and you, its nothing to worry about and is a sign that your baby is active and heal... (read in full...)
Bad cramps...
Q. so im 17 years old and for the past 2 months, i have been getting constant cramping in my abdomen, just below my belly button right down to my bikini line. i was on birth control for 3 months then stopped, because it made me very moody. i am ...
A. 3 August 2010: cramps can mean many things... i never had that bad period pains just little twinges sometimes but when i got pregnant i used to be in so much pain with cramps and lower back pain, i still have pains for no reason since the miscarriage. with no ... (read in full...)
After a miscarriage now ex went out with his ex. What should I do?
Q. I am fifteen, and got pregnant at fourteen. I just recently misscarried. The guy was super supportive, me and him had taken responsibility and made plans. Then I miscarried, His parents made him break up with me because they thought i had lied. We ...
A. 3 August 2010: i know you love him but your fifteen, you will fall in love again with someone who will stay with you coz they love you, someone who will want children with you and will let nothing and no one stand in their way. when your older then the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex and I don't know what to do?
Q. My boyfriend is 16 coming 17 and he asked me to have sex. But it really wasnt sex cause he licked me and fingered me and we did it in a ass. But he asked me to do it in the vagina and i dont know how to say not yet. i dont want it there yet because ...
A. 26 July 2010: just for reference vaginal intercourse will hurt less than anal :)... (read in full...)
My parents didn't know I was dating and now I'm 2 months pregnant and don't know how to tell them!
Q. Okay.! Im 15 and pregnant.! I dnt know how to tell my parents.! My bf and i have been together for 2 months.! but my parents dnt know.! we have been seeying each other without no one knowing.! but i guess that now im have to tell my parents.! me and ...
A. 22 July 2010: i got pregnant when i was thirteen and it was the school who ended up telling my mum, believe me it sounds so much better coming from you!! :) good luck hunni xx... (read in full...)
What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 21 July 2010: i know how to go about getting put on the pill i just meant i dont personally know how to go about it in the best way and im mot saying i would have been the perfect parent, in fact far from it but like i said i was giving my child away until i was ... (read in full...)
What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 21 July 2010: of course not! i just wanted to tell people in my own time when id thought about it myself more and decided exactly what i wanted. i knew my mum would tell me to get rid of my child as soon as she found out but i personally dont like abortion and ... (read in full...)
What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 21 July 2010: why would not trusting them mean that? as i didnt need to trust them til it was too late anyway?? it just means if it happened then i wouldnt tell anyone just because i was scared. and also i learnt my lesson from trusting people, so dont you think ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 18. He wants to have sex but doesn't want a relationship!
Q. i really like this boy and he's eighteen and we've been really close for ages. he say he wants to have sex with me and do other stuff but he doesnt want a relationship or know what he wants. it really upsets me coz he would be a great bf but i dont ...
A. 20 July 2010: thanks karen i know your right :) xx... (read in full...)
What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 20 July 2010: well i think making the same mistake twice has taught me that, but i was scared and even months later it was still affectinh my life drastically. well it still is just not so bad :/ xx... (read in full...)
What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 18 July 2010: thanks caring guy for that, it helps me :) i know its too much to ask her to put her job on the line and it was harsh of me to say to her that no one would ever know that id told her but surely there is something to do with confidentiality, if there ... (read in full...)
What I told my teacher was totally confidential. Is she allowed to tell anyone?
Q. okay this is more just about me getting closure but im fourteen and i got pregnant when i was thirteen, the day after my fourteenth birthday i told a teacher at my school that im close to and she tried to convince me to get an abortion but i said ...
A. 18 July 2010: yeah my mum found out through the school back in october, i would have told her eventually i just wanted some advice first and wanted it to come from me... its my form tutor im worried about because i told her that i trusted a teacher before who ... (read in full...)
Abortions, what do you think?
Q. *OP's Original Title* Hey aunt and uncles. I just wanted to know your opinions on abortion. About a year ago i went with my brother and his ex girlfriend for them to have an abortion. I know it wasn't me having an abortion but it really a...
A. 16 July 2010: i understand its a free country and everyone has the right to choose and i respect that, but its pushing the boundaries when people start telling me what to do! i would never have an abortion in my life no matter what, no exceptions :) teens who ... (read in full...)
Irregular period? Or bleeding from sex?
Q. Am I bleeding because of his intensive fingering or do I just have an irregular period? Hi Um im very scared and i just want to know if this would be my period or if his nails was the problem or it was his finger that broke my hymen i dont kno...
A. 11 July 2010: i've had something like that said to me... 'i need to stop acting 24 and start acting like a teenager instead of stressing etc' and its up to you what you do with your life but take it easy okay and sometimes just relax and take a deep breath :) i ... (read in full...)
Irregular period? Or bleeding from sex?
Q. Am I bleeding because of his intensive fingering or do I just have an irregular period? Hi Um im very scared and i just want to know if this would be my period or if his nails was the problem or it was his finger that broke my hymen i dont kno...
A. 10 July 2010: if you knew the date of your last period and the day you were with your bf it would help. there is a very low chance of pregnancy without penetration, my ex bf was very rough when fingering me and twice after id been with him i did my self bleeding ... (read in full...)
What can I expect to happen when I lose my virginity?
Q. what are the signs one sees when she looses her virginity?...
A. 10 July 2010: when a guys penis penetrates your vagina fully then you've lost your virginity... some women bleed when the hymen brakes and also may experience pain and it will stretch your vagina... make sure your relaxed and are both lubricated enough to make ... (read in full...)
Had a miscarriage at 14 now I long to be pregnant again...
Q. i had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and im 14 years old. i was really scared about the pregnancy but came round to the idea and accepted it. and now i have strong sense of longing to pregnant people and young babies and want to get pregnant again. i dont ...
A. 10 July 2010: i meant as in what to do with the situation... as in is this normal to fel this way after a miscarriage especially at my age? and should i act on impulse or is it stupid? and do a test!! if the dates add up and your that late then its quite a high ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my baby or abort it?im only 21 and already a mother.
Q. im 21 years old and currently a freshman in college and the mother of a 6 year old daughter. i just fount out that im 10 weeks pregnant by my boyfriend of 8 months. were very much in love and planned on moving in together in 7 months. i told hi...
A. 25 June 2010: you've been through a lot if you have already had abortions before but if you have done it once then what makes this different? then again you have done an amazing thing at bringing your daughter into the world :) i know my experiences arent going ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about who I am and what I want. I am angry and depressed.
Q. I think i suffer from depression. I was bullied a lot at school, and even though it was a long time ago, i still havent got over it. I'm also not sure what i want to do for a career. I also feel weird compared to other people in my age group. ...
A. 25 June 2010: getting bullied can really knock your confidence, but everyone goes through stages where they just dont know what to do or what the future will bring. think about things you enjoy and any hobbies you may have. or take up a new hobby. any family ... (read in full...)
How do I let my teacher know I like him before school ends?
Q. there is but one day of school left, and that will be the last time I see my crush. I would have enjoyed telling him my feelings, but he happens to be my teacher. We have always had amazing conversations, and he always tells me about his day. He ...
A. 25 June 2010: dont over do it because if he gets involved with students he could lose his job. but if he will no longer be your teacher then staying in touch isnt a problem so just buy him a gift and a card to say thanks for everything and put your number in the ... (read in full...)
How do I make a G-spot orgasm happen?
Q. Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend, it starts feeling really good and I get the feeling almost as if I have to pee. I heard this is the step before have a g-spot orgasm, and I was wondering how I could get it to that?...
A. 25 June 2010: that feeling like you need to pee is totally normal just embrace it and dont hold back :) if he is doing it right and touching your g spot then you will feel moist and the area will soften... it is also important to show him what you like and how he ... (read in full...)
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