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writes:Hello everyone, just after a few personal opinions here! Do you think it's a good idea to have sex for the first time while music's playing in the background or can that be a distraction from (or to) your partner? I'm thinking classical music, gentle stuff, but I don't know if it would add to or subtract from the whole experience. Thoughts would be very much appreciated x Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 November 2011):
 I sometimes would put smooth jazz on the cable tv channel so that we had the glow of the tv and some music so the teens and dogs wouldn't hear us....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 November 2011):
 ..Why, do you guys mean is it actually possible to have sex also without music? LOL
Go ahead, music is fine . I normally don't think of classical music as bedroom soundtrack ( except Ravel's "Bolero " maybe ) but that's personal choices, - play whatever makes you relaxed.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (14 November 2011):
I think music is always nice, and helps block out the outside world. However, if you try to stage manage your first time together it may we disappoint. First times should be spontaneous and full of love, not organised like a visit to the dentist. The only advance planning is to leave condoms within reach, even start the tear to make it easier for fumbling fingers. Enjoy :)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 November 2011):
 I find it pointless, since you're not going to be paying attention to what's playing and it will fade in the background.
If you want to play some then go for it. Just don't play Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get it On", too cheesy.
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reader, Tyedyedturtle +, writes (14 November 2011):
 I always have music cranked because I don't live alone. I usually just put on my favorite rock station on the radio, but sometimes I make playlists on my computer or iPod to suit the mood. Sometimes I put music on that makes me feel sexy and a little dirty. Other times, I put on softer stuff for a more romantic vibe. I usually only hear and notice the music during the initial bits of foreplay before I'm really turned on. During sex, it is usually just background noise because my brain is sufficiently occupied. I don't think it is a distraction at all. I quite enjoy it.
In regards to the classical music, I once had sex to a Mozart CD and it was some of the best sex I've ever had, haha! Go for it.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 November 2011):
 I usually play Rod Stewart's "Do you think I'm sexy" when I bed down one of my new girls.... Works great....
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (14 November 2011):
 I love playing music while my husband and I are having sex. It's very relaxing.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 November 2011):
 If you want music on, go for it. The first time is usually pretty awkward and music can help with the awkward silences.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 November 2011):
 I think music is a great idea.
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reader, Odds +, writes (13 November 2011):
 There was music on during my first time, but for the life of me I can't remember what it was. I don't think I even really heard it, I was too wrapped up in the moment.
Probably doesn't matter whether you put anything on, or what it is.
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reader, bardia +, writes (13 November 2011):
 Almost never have. It's never been an issue. You really are otherwise occupied...
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reader, Ciar +, writes (13 November 2011):
 You probably won't even notice it most of the time, unless you have it cranked up. Since it's to be used as background music, play it at a lower volume.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (13 November 2011):
It will depend entirely on whether he enjoys classical music.
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