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writes:Ok. So my boyfriend invited me over to his house next week. His parents are going to be out of town and we're going to have the house to ourselves. I've gone upto second base with him but I think he intends to go further this time (not that I have a problem with that). We don't intend on "doing it". Thing is, I'm pretty sure I'd have to get completely naked. I'm worried about it because I have a tiny flab and I've never shaved down there (I don't know if I must or how to). I'm worried it'll turn him off. He has in the past rubbed my clit through my underwear which nearly gave me an orgasm, so I'm sure he'd probably want me to take off my underwear (something I have an eensy bit uncomfortable with).Oh, he also mentioned something about giving me an erotic-ish (?) full body massage and I don't know what exactly that includes. I don't know. All in all, I'm just really confused about the whole thing! Help?
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reader, shna +, writes (11 November 2011):
 everyone at when they are younger are uncomfortable with their bodies, pfft not even younger people it happens to everyone in different stages of their lifes so dont feel ugly because everyone feels how u feel abou ur body at some stage ! anyway i bet your a lovely looking girl !! as long as your comfortable with going a step further with your boyfriend that is the main issue before anything else ! make sure you both know that you can have fun but also have boundaries aswell you dont want to give him the the whole pie without giving him a slice first... if you get me !! its really upto you whether u feel like shaving or not ask mabye what he finds sexy if u do plan on doing so trim your hair first and lather where your going to shave take your time aswell cause you dont want to cut youself ! do it as close to the time as possible and mositurise afterwards! and another thing 1 STOP BEING SO NERVOUS ! i promise you no guy will find anything sexier then a girl who is confident you so him your not scared or nervous an that will turn him on more then anything else you cud plan ! any problems let me no x
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reader, person12345  +, writes (11 November 2011):
 We all have flab and cellulite and we DEFINITELY all have hair naturally. Even celebs and supermodels have flab and cellulite. You know what's way more sexy than having a perfect figure? Being confident and knowing you're sexy, because you are! He knows what you look like and he likes it a lot or he wouldn't have gone out with you and wanted to get you nekkid! So go in there, confidence blazing and show off what you got.
OK it's probably a little more difficult than that, but it's a case of fake it til you make it. Roll back your shoulders and stand up way straighter than you think you need to, because you'll probably be a little nervous and slump more than usual. So even if you think you're standing up too straight, stick out your chest more than you think is necessary and roll back and down those shoulders. Don't cover yourself, keep your hands on your hips or somewhere similar so you won't be tempted to cover anything. If it makes you more comfortable, dim the lights.
As for pubic hair, no need to start shaving for this. Just make sure you trim it down a little with some scissors.
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