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12 October 2011: While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...
Is Pornography cheating?
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1 May 2011: The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
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Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 14 November 2011: I don't have time to read everything here right now, but I did want to respond to man-hating red herring with a quote that I think summarizes well.
"If you think I hate men then you must be defining 'men' as people who are fundamentally sexist a... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 10 November 2011: There's one thing about cheating that's always bothered me. I don't understand why the cheater is always expected to stop cheating but the partner is never expected to accept an open relationship? I also don't understand why when one partner uses... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 9 November 2011: The porn industry generates into the double digit billions of dollars annually. Many of the largest media corporations in the country own numerous pornography companies and if we've learned anything about our government, it's that it's basically run ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 8 November 2011: I'm not judging anyone for their fantasies. Porn and fantasy are not the same. That's like saying writing a paper is the same as buying one online and turning it in as your own. Like buying a McDonalds burger and saying you cooked it. Fantasy is ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 7 November 2011: Her study was published in a well-respected peer-reviewed journal. She was most likely asked to speak because they wanted to hear about her study. Given that she didn't organize the event, she would have had to be invited, again most likely because ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 5 November 2011: And by impartial you of course mean doesn't show harm? None of the studies I discussed were funded by a special interest group. The only studies I have found that found a neutral or positive effect from porn viewing were examining a cathartic effect ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 5 November 2011: I'm still completely dumbfounded by people who believe getting informed about/learning about something is less credible than forming a quick emotional opinion.
Also, porn is part of "the media." Oprah is also part of "the media." Since when wer... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 5 November 2011: Odds, universities are notoriously horrendous at reporting rape and making public any rape statistics on campus. Not because universities are trying to discriminate and get in the way of the law but because they know parents don't want to send their ... (read in full...)
Hubby gettin porn in emails!
Q. I am a 60 year old women who has been blind sited by my husband's use of porn and emails. As both of us worked and I never saw his work computer I had no idea he received emails from his "buds" that contained naked women, porn video's,s and m, and ...
A. 4 November 2011: Anon I was talking about him using porn (saving videos and photos to look at). I'm not sure why you say it's not affecting their relationship at all. She's clearly describing how this is negatively affecting her, therefore it's negatively affecting ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 4 November 2011: I'm sorry I suppose I should have clarified, those 10:1 and 100:1 comments were not meant to be taken literally. It is a figure of speech to mean a lot versus very little. Perhaps that's not a common thing to say in Canada? Though if you're talking ... (read in full...)
Hubby gettin porn in emails!
Q. I am a 60 year old women who has been blind sited by my husband's use of porn and emails. As both of us worked and I never saw his work computer I had no idea he received emails from his "buds" that contained naked women, porn video's,s and m, and ...
A. 4 November 2011: I wish I could tell you something encouraging. Unfortunately many men still believe it is their right to objectify women and to hurt their partners to satisfy their libidos. You're not wrong for feeling this way, but if he's completely unwilling to ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 4 November 2011: Because the larger effect of personal choice is more important than instant gratification for one person. Because it's short-sighted and ignorant to form an opinion on something based on gut feeling in direct opposition to statistics and facts. ... (read in full...)
He said that if I don't find a way to enjoy giving him head that our marriage will be over!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost four years. When we had been dating for a month I told him that I hated giving head. We have been married for a little over a year now and he is telling me that if I don't find a way to enjoy giving him head ...
A. 4 November 2011: I think Chigirl's suggestion is a good one. Those sleeves can feel very realistic, especially if it's you using it on him. If he can't accept that, then take him up on his offer and leave the selfish jerk. Marriage does not equal sexual slave. Yo... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has orgasm when soft and when he urinates?
Q. Dear cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for several months now, i know i turn him on because he cant keep his hands off me, well lately he has started something with me and it was really surprising to me. he cant keep a hard on for very long and he ...
A. 4 November 2011: Some people suffer from a disorder that causes them to have constant and random orgasms from nothing. He should go see a doctor to talk about his options with this. They may refer him to a psychologist, but I'm not familiar with treatment.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my lesbian girlfriend to take it easy on me during sex without telling her I was a virgin before her?
Q. Girlfriend is on a quest to sexually open me up. She doesn't like to use lube although she can be real rough during sex. I really really love her and she says she loves me....we've been together two years n being intimate for a yr and a half. We ...
A. 4 November 2011: You need to be aggressive. Your girlfriend doesn't seem to care much about your well-being. She believes her ego is more important than your physical well-being, and it seems you're starting to believe this as well. You should not be in pain to ... (read in full...)
Found out my husband had an affair and frequents massage parlors....should I leave?
Q. We have been married for 30 years. I thought we had a great sexual relatioship but find out now that my husband had an affair for 2 years in our 3rd yr of marriage. Ten yrs later he met up with the same woman and I'm not sure what took place ( ...
A. 3 November 2011: The affair enough is reason to leave him, let alone cheating on you constantly under the guise that they're paid to get him off. Leave him to his paid handjobs and find someone who isn't so selfish. I cannot believe the posters saying it's OK to get ... (read in full...)
He's been extremely annoying with his continual requests for anal sex!
Q. Hey everyone, I have a fantastic boyfriend who I love very much. BUT (isn't there always a but?) he keeps pressuring me to have anal sex with him. I'm happy to do it once a week or so, but every day is too much and it hurts. Also, he doesn't like ...
A. 3 November 2011: "It's no difference if you push a cucumber up his ass. No difference at all. If he can refuse to have that cucumber up his ass then you can refuse to have his dick up yours."
Yup.
"I think he's been watching too many pornos"
Again, yup.
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Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 3 November 2011: Fetishes are exclusively a male disorder. A true fetish is actually fairly rare. A fetish is classed as a disorder, someone who compulsively HAS to be turned on by doing something "abnormal." Like the guy I once dated claiming to have a foot fetish ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to need to pee after sex?
Q. After I have sex or any other sexual things, I have an urge to pee. I was just wondering, is this normal or common for women to do?...
A. 3 November 2011: It's normal, that thrusting can hit your g-spot and bladder. It's also a really good idea. During sex the thrusting can push bacteria up your urinary tract and cause UTIs. Peeing after sex clears that bacteria out and helps prevent infection.... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 3 November 2011: About the music industry, I assume you're unfamiliar then with the numerous violent sexual assaults that took place that used music videos as choreography? For instance at a New York City festival multiple women walking were through a crowd were ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 2 November 2011: 20% of men admit to doing something that legally counts as sexual assault during their lives. This was a massive study cited during the senate hearing on rape in the United States. I didn't claim that 20% sexually assault women due to porn, just ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 1 November 2011: Actually k_c100 the vast majority of porn is violent, 88.2% of mainstream pornography contains violence. While I think the TV show here was a bit sensationalist, the link between watching sexual violence and becoming aggressive/violent is very clear ... (read in full...)
Are my concerns about her past justified?
Q. I have been going out with a woman for a few weeks and i feel a big connection with her. Everything feels easy and we get along great. The only thing that concerns me is her past. She has told me she was very flirtatious when she was in her late...
A. 1 November 2011: She was clearly wearing the t-shirt for you or she wouldn't have covered it up. Being flirtatious while you're single has nothing to do with remaining monogamous. I've liked lots of weird stuff on facebook. Unless she pressed like on a group called ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my boyfriend that I want an abortion? Or just go ahead and do it anyway?
Q. Well... I am 28 years old and have been with the same guy for 10 years... Yes, 10 years. We're not technically married, but do plan to stay together for the long hall. And, I just found out I was pregnant. Obviously we've been being careful over the ...
A. 31 October 2011: A pregnancy is 100% a woman's, a child is 50% a woman's. A fetus is not a child and it belongs 100% to the woman. OP I think everyone here is in agreement that in a long term committed relationship, short of threat of harm for telling him, you real... (read in full...)
Are my concerns about my daughter's mental health valid? How do I suggest she get help? She wants a sex change for vocational reasons
Q. My 16 yr old daughter told us she wants a sex-change. She said it's the solution to all her problems - she wants to work in the motor industry or the logistics industry, and said both those industries aren't really accepting of women working ...
A. 31 October 2011: First two things. Unfortunately she is right about having a lot of trouble making it to the top as a woman. I had someone tell me to my face in a computer sciences course that he would not take computer advice from me because he wanted to do well ... (read in full...)
Guys don't mention rings this casually, do they? Why would he do this at the wedding?
Q. I was relaying things that happened at a wedding I attended Saturday to my boyfriend via text. The bride and groom entered the reception hall on a Harley. My boyfriend sent a joking text asking if the bride's wedding ring was chrome. He then...
A. 31 October 2011: It's really impossible to know what someone else is thinking. I think he may have just made the comment in passing, just trying to be funny. I wouldn't read too much into it.... (read in full...)
First time sex...what can I do so that it wont hurt?
Q. I'm a vigin and me and my partner want to have sex I'm scared that it might hurt from other girls I've heard it hurts I need to know what I can do so it won't hurt . ...
A. 28 October 2011: Be really turned on. Get yourself close to orgasm so you're very wet/very loose. You also want to slather on the lube. I can't stress lube enough. It's very important. Have him go slowly and gently.
Also have him wear a condom! It won't help it ... (read in full...)
Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?
Q. This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...
A. 28 October 2011: I'm just going to put in my usual statistics on this:
Between 70-90% of prostituted women experienced sexual abuse prior to entering.
68% of prostituted women suffer from PTSD.
1 in 500 prostituted women are murdered.
Over 50% of... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I shaved off my pubic hair?
Q. Ok, so about a week ago, I was shaving my bikini line, but I angled the razor wrong, and shaved off a patch of pubic hair that made my area, which is usually neat, trimmed, and proper looking, look stupid, so in an effort to try and fix it, I ended ...
A. 28 October 2011: I remember when I was your age I was incredibly self-conscious about that area too. But you have to learn to get past it or you'll never be able to have a normal sex life. Things you think look unspeakably stupid to you are things your boyfriend p... (read in full...)
Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?
Q. This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...
A. 27 October 2011: Many prostituted women call it pay per rape. Celebrities live the most glamorous well-paid lifestyles I can think of. Anyone who thinks they are remotely the same clearly does not understand the reality of prostitution. According to you a ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I shaved off my pubic hair?
Q. Ok, so about a week ago, I was shaving my bikini line, but I angled the razor wrong, and shaved off a patch of pubic hair that made my area, which is usually neat, trimmed, and proper looking, look stupid, so in an effort to try and fix it, I ended ...
A. 26 October 2011: All of it being shaved off seems to be the overly ridiculous thing porn is dictating women do nowadays anyways, if anything he will probably be happy about it. Anyways, what does how he thinks your pubic hair looks have to do with your sexual ... (read in full...)
Is she being honest about my performance in the bedroom?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, i have a really small and thin penis and don't think i pleasure her when we have sex. she has told me she has had some huge penises before and her last boyfriend was the biggest she has ever had but tells ...
A. 26 October 2011: "For all the crap that men get blamed for nothing compares to this."
It would be nice, and it is inconsiderate to say. It's not worse than what women have to deal with. At least you don't have to deal with actually being able to see other men's pe... (read in full...)
I cannot stop obsessing about my boyfriend's height! Please help.
Q. Dear Cupid. Please help. I am driving myself crazy. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and I love him so so so much, but I am absolutely obsessed with his height. I am 5ft 9.5", and he is about 1-1.5" taller. Yet whenever we a...
A. 26 October 2011: Why does it matter so much to you that be shorter than him? No one else cares even a little bit. Look at Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Nicole Kidman and anyone she's ever been with. No one else cares if you're the same height or taller than him. I ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. Dear readers, I would like to hear your advice on my situation. To put it bluntly, I'm a 24 year old virgin male. I could try to look good and say that I've been waiting for that special someone, or I'd be honest and tell you that I've never had t...
A. 25 October 2011: Don't do it. Tell your friends to butt out and that you're a virgin because you want your first time to be special and you don't want to lose it with someone who you don't know and who most likely hates you. Just tell them you're not comfortable ... (read in full...)
Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend?
Q. Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend with whom I have been for last two years? I am a sports teacher here and who gets free from work around 2pm. In the evening,on the beach, I jog for three miles and at the end go for sprint when 100 ...
A. 25 October 2011: To be honest it's a little odd that you haven't told her about a daily habit for two whole years. No you don't have to tell her everything, but it is a little odd that she had no idea about something that took up so much time/was so important to ... (read in full...)
No pleasure from actual intercourse
Q. okay, i find this really embarrassing, but i do think its time i asked at least somebody about this! i'm eighteen years old and i get no pleasure from intercourse. i mean, i can feel him inside of me, but other than that, nothing. i get pleasure f...
A. 25 October 2011: No., nothing is wrong. The vast majority of women can't orgasm from intercourse (75%) and I'd imagine a good portion of women barely feel anything. We don't have many nerve endings inside our vaginas; a great thing for childbirth not so great for a ... (read in full...)
Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend?
Q. Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend with whom I have been for last two years? I am a sports teacher here and who gets free from work around 2pm. In the evening,on the beach, I jog for three miles and at the end go for sprint when 100 ...
A. 25 October 2011: I'm afraid I don't really understand what your issue is. Is she upset that you want to watch the sunset on the beach? If so I don't really see how you watching the sun set has any impact on her.... (read in full...)
I've only ever been with her, and our sex life is boring
Q. A little back story, I recently turned 23, about 5 years ago I started talking with a woman I met long-distance, she had been coming to see me for about a year, and then I went to see her. I stayed at her house one night, and they kicked her out.. ...
A. 25 October 2011: OK bear with me on this since I don't think it's going to be what you want to hear.
I believe your idea of good sex has been warped by porn. You are pushing for things that are pretty out there that seem to come straight from porn scenes (having ... (read in full...)
Is she being honest about my performance in the bedroom?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, i have a really small and thin penis and don't think i pleasure her when we have sex. she has told me she has had some huge penises before and her last boyfriend was the biggest she has ever had but tells ...
A. 24 October 2011: If the sex wasn't great, what good does it do her to lie about it? Then she's stuck having crappy sex for a long time. Logically, lying about it makes no sense. The vast majority of women can't orgasm from penetration, so penis size is generally a ... (read in full...)
Guys do you do this? Girls do you endure this?
Q. My boyfriend says he loves me and isn't looking for anyone else. I commented today about how lame skankygirl pirate costumes are. He said he hopes they're around for a long time. I'm insecure by nature and the thought of him looking at other...
A. 23 October 2011: I found it hard to come to terms with this as well, but everyone finds others attractive sometimes. It doesn't mean anything unless they're being jerks about it (like staring a lot, making lewd comments, doing lots of double takes, etc...). While ... (read in full...)
Is outdoor sex illegal?
Q. Is outdoor sex illegal? I have a big craving for it, and know some desolate places. Where have people tried it without getting caught?...
A. 23 October 2011: Yes it is illegal if someone could see you. You definitely don't want to be anywhere even near a school, playground, park, etc... You should only do it if it's somewhere you KNOW there won't be anyone around.... (read in full...)
How do you keep conversations going in relationships?
Q. Conversations, How do you keep conversations in relationships going, I always found it hard to i mean you are always texting, calling, being around your spouse i dont understand how you keep finding conversations or ways to keep things fun and not ...
A. 23 October 2011: You make sure you have hobbies and interests to talk about. When my boyfriend and I were living together in college we spent 22 hours of the day together and still always found ways to amuse each other. He liked to look up history on wikipedia and ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my b/f is cheating on me and don't know how to bring it up
Q. I saw my boyfriends contact list on the chat platform we both use the other day (the friends lists can be public if you accept friend requests a certain way) and he has two female friends with a website name in their chat profiles. Their names ...
A. 23 October 2011: You just take a deep breath and calmly bring it up. He didn't friend them by accident. He may not know that you think web camming with women is cheating/may not have thought it was a big deal. If that's the case you need to make sure he knows that ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend wanted to have a look "down there" after knowing I had some complications with my circumcision. Platonic or something more to it?
Q. I split with my girlfriend six months ago and still enjoy hanging out with her. Before the relationship, we were always close, open friends so decided to revert to that. Anyway, I recently had a circumcision and following that were some ...
A. 23 October 2011: I think it was just sheer curiosity, not sexual.... (read in full...)
I told him about my past, he went silent and now wont speak to me until he has 'forgiven me'!
Q. I need some help. When I was 12, i was quite badly raped and beaten to within an inch of my life (I was in ICU for the following 2/3 months afterwards.) I did not open up to anyway and I still remain that way (like, i will jump if anyone touches me, ...
A. 23 October 2011: Good for you! What a misogynistic piece of crap this guy is.... (read in full...)
Just lost my virginity. Now I can't stop thinking about sex.
Q. I recently lost my virginity. Me and my boyfriend have done it a few more times since then. Now I can't stop thinking about sex. I keep replaying the sex in my mind and I can't wait until we can get together to do it again. It is distracting to say ...
A. 23 October 2011: You just enjoy it until it wears off. There's nothing wrong with you. Just be safe (use a condom) and enjoy!... (read in full...)
Do I have appendicitis?
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster, I am approving this, but PLEASE understand we are NOT doctors on here and NO ONE can make a diagnosis over the internet. You are just going to get general opinions. I think I might have appendicitis but I can't be too sure. On...
A. 22 October 2011: Another symptom of appendicitis, your body can't remedy it and untreated it most likely will burst and you can die within a week. If you'd gotten apendicitis you would have known by now. I know two people who had it, both knew about it very quickly. ... (read in full...)
Am I addicted to sex? if yes, then will that make it difficult for my fiance?
Q. i cant go for 2 days without sex without going completely nuts. my sex life with my fiance is great however sometimes i will pressure my fiance for sex, even if she is tired or feels unwell and afterwards feel horrible about it because when i am ...
A. 22 October 2011: Yes, this is unhealthy. You should seek help. They have support groups for sex addicts. This is more than a high sex drive when it gets to the point that you can't handle going two days without sex and masturbate 5 times a day. Try looking around ... (read in full...)
Am I just being insecure? Or are these reasons not to be with her?
Q. So I have someone great in my life,but I've been finding out some things about her,and I'm not sure if I should try to persue my love interest,or just take it back to a strictly platonic friendship,or sever the connection completely So first ill s...
A. 21 October 2011: I think you really have no right to be acting like that if you're not a couple. I could see why that would be irritating/get under your skin if you were a monogamous couple, but she's allowed to date, have sex with and especially talk to and flirt ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cant stop looking at porn and explicit pictures, and lies to me about it! How should I handle this?
Q. Okay, so in the recent past I've had some troubles with my bf of nearly 2 1/2 yrs looking at porn and having explicit pictures of girls on his phone. For ages I knew and didn't say anything. Until one day I asked does he watch porn and he said no. I ...
A. 21 October 2011: Also the idea that men are hardwired to spread their seed has been debunked by sheer mathematics. Any random sexual encounter has only a 1% chance of producing a viable offspring (including the chance of fertilization at a random time in her cycle, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cant stop looking at porn and explicit pictures, and lies to me about it! How should I handle this?
Q. Okay, so in the recent past I've had some troubles with my bf of nearly 2 1/2 yrs looking at porn and having explicit pictures of girls on his phone. For ages I knew and didn't say anything. Until one day I asked does he watch porn and he said no. I ...
A. 21 October 2011: As someone who has dedicated roughly a year of my life to researching the topic/volunteering on this, interviewing people, reading through every study I could, talking to every expert in the field that I could, writing numerous articles for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cant stop looking at porn and explicit pictures, and lies to me about it! How should I handle this?
Q. Okay, so in the recent past I've had some troubles with my bf of nearly 2 1/2 yrs looking at porn and having explicit pictures of girls on his phone. For ages I knew and didn't say anything. Until one day I asked does he watch porn and he said no. I ...
A. 20 October 2011: First myths below: All men use porn. 70% of men use porn regularly. Not all. Anyone saying all men use porn is trying to normalize their own use and remove personal responsibility. As in, since all men use porn, no man could possibly be expe... (read in full...)
Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?
Q. This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...
A. 19 October 2011: You're asking about a lot of very complicated issues mired in sexism and misogyny. It's also extreme offensive to equate the two. Prostituted women have to put up with extreme levels of violence and many are raped and/or beaten, many have also suf... (read in full...)
I told him about my past, he went silent and now wont speak to me until he has 'forgiven me'!
Q. I need some help. When I was 12, i was quite badly raped and beaten to within an inch of my life (I was in ICU for the following 2/3 months afterwards.) I did not open up to anyway and I still remain that way (like, i will jump if anyone touches me, ...
A. 17 October 2011: Any man who thinks a woman needs to be forgiven is someone you need to get rid of immediately. What you went through is horrible and the fact that he would react in any way except to comfort you and be patient with you shows that he is a ... (read in full...)
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