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Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 15 February 2011: Yep, that's what we said... BE CAREFUL SEX CAN CAUSE LOVE.
Sigh.... Your a grown woman that's why many of us were unwilling to tell you that it sounded like a very bad idea, and maybe we should have.
Again, your a grown woman, you've made up y... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hold your horses there.. ssome pretty bold claims, that basically puts down the lifestyle and culture of anyone that is not living your standard of lifestyle..
Women in polygomous marriages fight and are unhappy... mmmmm.. interesting claim...... (read in full...)
Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 16 June 2010: Don't spend too much time with this young guy.. Remember you love your husband for a reason, and it's more than just sex and a dick...
Your husband sounds like a great man.. remember him and your marriage come first. Protect your heart, it's not... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cheating!
Q. Hi Everyone. Am so sad, confused, annoyed and upset. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Am 21 years old and he is 29. We are great together, we enjoy each others company but there is an obstacle that is bringing our relation...
A. 16 June 2010: "He doesnt practice foreplay with me, may that be a reason?" (original poster)
This guy sounds like a real prince charming.. not..
Can I ask you a question, how often does he make you laugh in a good way?.. daily, hourly, weekly, monthly.... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cheating!
Q. Hi Everyone. Am so sad, confused, annoyed and upset. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Am 21 years old and he is 29. We are great together, we enjoy each others company but there is an obstacle that is bringing our relation...
A. 16 June 2010: Sorry, you can tell him he's an idiot...
He knows nothing about women, our fluids are different colours at different times.. idiot.. could be food, could be less or more hormones, who knows... our discharge is different at different times of the m... (read in full...)
I suffer from depression and self harm, but no one can help me! What can I do?
Q. hi, im 14 and i've gone through tons of hard things like; step-dad in jail, had sex then he left and im still in love with him (it was 7 mts. ago),might move,guys try to take advanage off me, all my boyfriends in the past treated me bad and i cant ...
A. 16 June 2010: You need to have intensive counselling.. go back to your doctor, tell him the tablets are not working and tell him you need counselling because you are hurting yourself..
You are right, you cannot do this alone.. go scream and shout at your doc... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: BRAVO!!!!!!!!! Hahahaha... very wise words... and have you put Q in a box forever.. no problem, we'll have you as you make more sense.. :)... (read in full...)
I used to be skinny, now I feel like a whale!
Q. I have always felt uncomfortable about my body. I used to be skinny, and now that I'm married I feel like a whale. And my sisters and parents make these comments. I remember hearing how ppl who were over weight said that it hurts to hear ppl say I ...
A. 16 June 2010: Damn, Damn, Damn... hahahaha... I sent you a message with me details, here on dear cupid...
Damn, Damn, Damn... lol... (read in full...)
Almost had sex with my brother in law and my sister caught us!!
Q. What do I do, me and brother in law almost had sex and my sister walked in and saw us, now my family hates hates us!...
A. 16 June 2010: Damn, I can hear the pain and embarrasment in your voice.. You are so very young, and this older man should have had more sense to make sure this didn't happen..
What you did was very, very wrong, it's a really big thing... it's not one of those... (read in full...)
Almost had sex with my brother in law and my sister caught us!!
Q. What do I do, me and brother in law almost had sex and my sister walked in and saw us, now my family hates hates us!...
A. 16 June 2010: This dosen't sound like one of those things, it actually sounds very cold blooded and planned..
Don't know how you two got from saying hello and chatting to lying together on the chair...
Anyway, I have no idea how you and him are going to fix... (read in full...)
I hate porn! Is it true all men watch it?
Q. I'm a 21 year old girl, and I HATE porn. I really, downright hate it. I think that, because of it, I may be doomed to stay single forever. I had a boyfriend until recently. He watched porn, but I just had to deal with it and it killed me inside...
A. 16 June 2010: The reason I ask, is because these magazines also try to reinforce some kind of "ideal woman", and as far as I'm concerned they posion to the mind. Women in pornography often have plastic surgery to make their tits, ass and everything else ... (read in full...)
I hate porn! Is it true all men watch it?
Q. I'm a 21 year old girl, and I HATE porn. I really, downright hate it. I think that, because of it, I may be doomed to stay single forever. I had a boyfriend until recently. He watched porn, but I just had to deal with it and it killed me inside...
A. 16 June 2010: Do you look at fashion magazines, women's magazines? Do you follow the lives and interests of the female movie/tv stars? Are you interested in celebity gossip?... (read in full...)
My fiance wants a threesome!
Q. My fiance wants a threesome, with another female. I'm a little uneasy about it, but I said I'd agree as long as I also got a threesome with another male. This way it would be fair. Now, I am bisexual. My fiance, we'll call him Bob for the sake of ...
A. 16 June 2010: 16-17 and you and your guy are bored of each other already... threesomes are difficult and usually bring jealousy and nasty accusations..
It's your choice of course, but why isn't normal sex with just you and him enough?... (read in full...)
Am I right not to trust my boyfriend?
Q. I've now been with my boyfriend for 9 months and over the last few months, I just don't trust him. He has this "good friend" who just so happens to be female. And I don't have a problem with that, but, he actually told me early on in the relati...
A. 16 June 2010: Nope not unreasonable.. they are probably now just friends and he dosen't see her in a romantic sense any longer...
However, it concerns me that she pops up when you two have troubles.. I wouldn't ask him to drop her, but I'd be very cautious... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for wanting this?
Q. This may be long and i truly apologize for it. Ive posted question about this guy before...we had worked together and i flirted with him but didnt know if i should make a move or not then it just kinda grew and we were very close..then my bestfriend ...
A. 16 June 2010: What's the rush, your only 18.. why in such a hurry to get engaged and married... I think you should slow things down and see how things go before you make any firm commitments like "untill death do us part"..
You are very young, you are still gr... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 16 June 2010: Person12345,
Just seen your comment...
mmm.. but this is like saying, "We once had bikes, and now we have cars and that's different and terrible.. it's not the same.."
As an Art Major, you will know, that painting and sculpture have chang... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't love me!
Q. Please Help me!! I feel unloved and alone in my marriage....let me start with some backround....please read everything and help me..i dont know what to do....ok..... well let me start by saying im 19, but married last year to a forign 14-15 year old...
A. 16 June 2010: Bullshit.. Divorce is always a choice, this is not the 18th century, you are not a slave. You don't need his permission to divorce. If you seperate for 3years (I think under USA law) you can get a divorce automatically. You can also put in a ... (read in full...)
Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?
Q. Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks ...
A. 16 June 2010: lol.. no realist is talking about when a woman uses her throat muscles to massage the penis durring deep blow jobs.. I don't think he had anything painfull in mind.. :)... (read in full...)
I hate porn! Is it true all men watch it?
Q. I'm a 21 year old girl, and I HATE porn. I really, downright hate it. I think that, because of it, I may be doomed to stay single forever. I had a boyfriend until recently. He watched porn, but I just had to deal with it and it killed me inside...
A. 16 June 2010: Nope.. find a man who isn't intrested in pornography, or actually hates it.. yes they exist.
Pornography is very borring, a man may watch it when he is young, or when he is too old to actually get a woman to bed.. but a lot of men have seen it,... (read in full...)
Almost had sex with my brother in law and my sister caught us!!
Q. What do I do, me and brother in law almost had sex and my sister walked in and saw us, now my family hates hates us!...
A. 15 June 2010: Don't understand how it happened.. You went to visit your sister..
You start talking about the weather, he makes you tea... how do you then get to the point of having sex? I go visit family all the time.. can't see how such things happen..... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Thank you dear caller, this is one of the best pornography posts I have ever read.. It has been wonderfull listening to people with different views and experiences without the anger and people ignoring the other point of view.
Women who are upse... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: The problem is 50% of women won't put up with or don't want to put up with porn, but only 20% of men feel the same way
Very important statistic...that leaves 80% of men and 50% of women not having such negative feeling against pornogra... (read in full...)
How can those feelings just be forgotten because I happened to discover their affair?
Q. I found undeleted texts on my husband's phone that showed he was having an emotional afair with a work colleague. I wrongly thought that it would stop as he seemed to be genuinely sorry. Six weeks later I found another batch he had forgotte...
A. 15 June 2010: CAN NOT??? Or will not.. is this a form of punishment or revenge...
You have no images of sexual activity to torture you, what you have is writings, easily destroyed and easily forgotten.
And the background.. rocky marriage, no sex, general bor... (read in full...)
Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?
Q. Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks ...
A. 15 June 2010: It's a perfectly normal sexual technique.. known as "deep throat"... consumes the whole penis, and with practice the normal gag reflex stops...
Covering the whole penis makes a bj more pleasant.. nothing to do with domination or disrespe... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?
Q. Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If ...
A. 15 June 2010: Jamaican... menstrual blood is a thing that people talk about in forms of abuse... not very enlightened about such things.. lol... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?
Q. Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. Sh...
A. 15 June 2010: Good it's done, you said your peace, and she said "blah, blah, blah.. traditional, blah, blah, blah... pretend your stone"... all done, you have acted respectfully and she has been given a chance to tell you about her "outdated" standards..
Next ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Of course they have a right to get upset and feel hurt. That's how they feel and that is there right. But a person has a right to feel upset and hurt about anything. I hate a man who watches sports, I think it makes him aggressive and turns him ... (read in full...)
I'm not interesting in sex
Q. I'm 17, female and not interested in anything sexual, not even just kissing. I've never kissed or been kissed (or had sex), so could it just be lack of curiosity or is there something wrong? Should I be interested by this age like everyone else is ...
A. 15 June 2010: Check this post, it might help.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-wondering-if-im-asexual.html
At 17, I am not surprised that you are not sexual.. It may be hard to believe, but not everyone your age is interested in sex. It takes time for... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if I'm asexual?
Q. Hi, I wonder if you have any help that you could give a twenty year old girl who is worried that she is asexual. I can tell you a bit about myself - I have only ever been further than kissing with two boys, both of which I backed away from when I r...
A. 15 June 2010: Thanks for the update, does sound like your asexual or something.. again, go visit your doctor to check your hormones. The asexual community can be found by searching the internet.
Contact your doctor or you local family planning departme... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 15 June 2010: Yes.. first hour with a lawyer is free in the UK. Relate fees are from £25 per hour, and are based on your income... you pay what you can afford.... (read in full...)
"All women do on computers is chat with other guys", and so I am not allowed to buy a laptop!
Q. Hi all, The other day, I mentioned to my partner that I want to buy a laptop, but he is not happy with this idea, as he says I will only use it to chat to other guys because that is all women do on computers! I have tried to convince him wit...
A. 15 June 2010: lol.. I think you won that battle.. stay strong and win the war.. :)... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Celiaaletta is one of our stars, yes she had a problem with pornography, but when she came here for advice, she actually listened to the answers she was given and was willing to think through things logically and change her situation.
Many ... (read in full...)
"All women do on computers is chat with other guys", and so I am not allowed to buy a laptop!
Q. Hi all, The other day, I mentioned to my partner that I want to buy a laptop, but he is not happy with this idea, as he says I will only use it to chat to other guys because that is all women do on computers! I have tried to convince him wit...
A. 15 June 2010: Sorry honeypie, the man is a manipulative fool.. don't buy into his bullcrap... your here talking to us and getting yourself some advice, you can now read the newspaper online, take courses, play games, research your favourite hobby or subject...
... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?
Q. Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If ...
A. 15 June 2010: No.. too messy, and in my culture it's forbidden...just curious.. lol... (read in full...)
Did his friend really influence him to masturbate, or did he change?
Q. I recently caught my boyfriend of 5 years masturbating to porn on his PS3. He said he had only been doing it for about six months, when he was friends with someone he was "influencing" him to be a..."pig." He says that other than those six months...
A. 14 June 2010: Oh dear Gabrielle, just came in to open the window, it's getting pretty hot in here.. lol
Yes he is lying, because he dosen't want to hurt or worry you, he's embarrased, and he dosen't want you to stop him doing something he finds enjoyabl... (read in full...)
"All women do on computers is chat with other guys", and so I am not allowed to buy a laptop!
Q. Hi all, The other day, I mentioned to my partner that I want to buy a laptop, but he is not happy with this idea, as he says I will only use it to chat to other guys because that is all women do on computers! I have tried to convince him wit...
A. 14 June 2010: Don't back down honeypie.. 21st century, without a computer you become illiterate and cut off from this world.. what can he do but shout.. ignore it (sorry him) and come on Dear Cupid and play with us instead..
I'm expecting an update from you... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 14 June 2010: I know you don't want to end up dependant on the government, but the welfare state was set up for exactly women like you. You have a disabled son, you are pregnant, you are not working, and you wish to continue education and make something of ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?
Q. Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If ...
A. 14 June 2010: Speaking of strange things.. how come if you live with a woman, you and her get periods at the same time.. now I find that really wierd..
PS: Dear caller, you gonna do the sex thing when you are bleeding?... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?
Q. Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If ...
A. 14 June 2010: I'm hearing you sister, and who let the guy in the room, he's stealing all our secrets.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel more horny when in your period?
Q. Kind of awkward to ask this but I don't know who else to really go to. I'm 19 and I just wondering if it is normal to get more horny than NORMALLY during your period? Honestly, I can;t stop thinking about sex, and pretty much any other activity. If ...
A. 14 June 2010: Yea.. I want to know why that happens too.. any doctors out there got a scientific answer.... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if I'm asexual?
Q. Hi, I wonder if you have any help that you could give a twenty year old girl who is worried that she is asexual. I can tell you a bit about myself - I have only ever been further than kissing with two boys, both of which I backed away from when I r...
A. 14 June 2010: "I've fancied lots of guys, and I've kissed lots of guys. I've had the odd dirty dream. I've even been in love with a boy."
That is not asexual, and it dosen't sound like you are bisexual either..
Sexuality is complicated.. from asexual to ... (read in full...)
How can those feelings just be forgotten because I happened to discover their affair?
Q. I found undeleted texts on my husband's phone that showed he was having an emotional afair with a work colleague. I wrongly thought that it would stop as he seemed to be genuinely sorry. Six weeks later I found another batch he had forgotte...
A. 14 June 2010: I am so sorry, affairs of the heart can sometimes be worse than affairs of the body... so sorry dear wife, and I am sure your husband and the other woman are as well.. As you said, it was not physical, and that was out of deep, deep respect for ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 14 June 2010: mmmm... wishing you well, and hoping you get over your bad day.... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 14 June 2010: Indeed Q.. a better comparison is asking a 5year old to give up ice-cream.. now the child dosen't NEED, ice-cream, and it's bad for it's health, but there is something about ice-cream that attracts the 5year old, and even if he promises never to eat ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?
Q. Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. Sh...
A. 13 June 2010: Also, tell her what you told us, tell her you are nervous and you don't know what to do for the best, you don't know how to put things right... tell her that you would hate it if she didn't like you anymore, tell her you value her opinion.. all the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?
Q. Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. Sh...
A. 13 June 2010: I think that as a young gentleman, she would think highly of you if you ask to talk to her. Apologise for your behaviour, remind her that you are both young and you meant no disrespect towards her or her daughter. She may want to shout at you, she ... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 13 June 2010: My parents divorced, and it's the best thing they ever did.. it is not always best to stay married for the children, they can see and taste the unhappiness..... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 13 June 2010: Yes Nightingale I agree.. so sad that you and your children have suffered under the hands of a bully...... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 13 June 2010: "Naked caved paintings and marble sculptures are not even in the same category as the ever accessible internet porn of today."
Have you ever seen greek art which portrays orgies, homosexuality and every sexual activity known to man? Pornogra... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 12 June 2010: "Like someone else said, is it laughable now that men are willing to end relationships over not giving up porn. It says a lot about our society."
Your history is wrong, men have always looked at naked women when they could.. they would do it with ... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 12 June 2010: Porn isn't bad (well it is for children and people who may become addicted)
However, bottom line, your girlfriend dosen't like it, it makes her feel ugly, she gets jealous and upset. You don't need porn to masturbate.. throw away the porn and... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: Maybe if you get to know his "friends", you'll find out that they are nice people indeed. At the moment it feels lonely being excluded when he has these "friends" you don't know. They knew he was getting married, I bet he talks about you all the ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: ah... I got it mixed up.. the reason my cousin (dead guys ex partner) didn't come to my dad's house is because she and the dead guys new girlfriend decided to go over to his ex-wife's house instead and give her the support that she badly needed.... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 11 June 2010: Your children are being damaged by this man, they will have issues arround anger, commitment, trust and love if they stay with him much longer..
You have tried, this man is impossible, if he won't listen, he won't be able to change.
Leave, ... (read in full...)
I used to be skinny, now I feel like a whale!
Q. I have always felt uncomfortable about my body. I used to be skinny, and now that I'm married I feel like a whale. And my sisters and parents make these comments. I remember hearing how ppl who were over weight said that it hurts to hear ppl say I ...
A. 11 June 2010: Damn.. hate people who agree to take up me challenges.. that means I really got to start now..
I'm UK.. first we need to agree on what weight we are talking about.
2nd, two good films to watch are "fight club" and "Rocky".. we is like boxers, ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: Last party I attended was at my father's house(a funeral) In attendance was my ex boyfriend (short relationship) and his girlfriend, my mother and father (divorced 27years) my dad's ex girlfriend (truely beloved by my mother) and his new girlfriend ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: Many people are like you, they have no contact with ex partners and can't see the reason to do so.
But that's you, that's not him, that's not how everybody else in the world works. In my culture and within my friends and family, ex partners... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Actually perhaps women who feel that looking at pornography is cheating, should make this very clear on the first date and then do exactly what they would do if the man was caught sleeping with another woman..
(Some) women feel it's cheating... (read in full...)
I used to be skinny, now I feel like a whale!
Q. I have always felt uncomfortable about my body. I used to be skinny, and now that I'm married I feel like a whale. And my sisters and parents make these comments. I remember hearing how ppl who were over weight said that it hurts to hear ppl say I ...
A. 9 June 2010: Hey, where are the guys who feel out of shape.. how come they don't get upset about such things...
Now that sucks more than anything..... (read in full...)
I used to be skinny, now I feel like a whale!
Q. I have always felt uncomfortable about my body. I used to be skinny, and now that I'm married I feel like a whale. And my sisters and parents make these comments. I remember hearing how ppl who were over weight said that it hurts to hear ppl say I ...
A. 9 June 2010: I put on 3 stones.. ahahahaha.. lol.. hahahaha.. damn, this making meself slim and sexy is gonna take a long time..
Lets make a bet, I'll start tomorrow, and you start tomorrow as well.. we'll meet in 2months time and compare notes and see if i... (read in full...)
I used to be skinny, now I feel like a whale!
Q. I have always felt uncomfortable about my body. I used to be skinny, and now that I'm married I feel like a whale. And my sisters and parents make these comments. I remember hearing how ppl who were over weight said that it hurts to hear ppl say I ...
A. 9 June 2010: Ok, I will try... Inspirational words.. nope I aint got none..
I FEEL LIKE A WHALE TOOO.... IT SUCKS...
Ah to be slim again.. you could wear lovely dresses, and clothes were cheaper... why don't they make nice clothes for us fish people.. he... (read in full...)
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