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Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 15 February 2011: Yep, that's what we said... BE CAREFUL SEX CAN CAUSE LOVE.
Sigh.... Your a grown woman that's why many of us were unwilling to tell you that it sounded like a very bad idea, and maybe we should have.
Again, your a grown woman, you've made up y... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me for porn, when I'm perfectly willing?
Q. Hello, I seem to be having problems with my boyfriend and have no clue what to do. We have been dating for nearly a year now. Deep down, I know he's a good man, but for reasons I cannot understand, he prefers watching porn instead of doing anythin...
A. 24 June 2010: I'm glad you found a way to make yourself happy. Good luck, wishing you a more suitable partner in the future.... (read in full...)
I hate him looking at porn, how do I get him to stop?
Q. ok so i've been reading some of the posts in the pornography section and i have a question to ask myself. I am a 17 year old girl. I have been with my partner for 2 years now and we have a 10 month old baby together. I haven't got the best bod...
A. 24 June 2010: "it makes me sick to think he gets off over girls who stuffed my life up"
But that is faulty thinking.. He is not looking at women you know, these women are not the women who bullied you. He is looking at women who put on make up, slim and some... (read in full...)
I hate him looking at porn, how do I get him to stop?
Q. ok so i've been reading some of the posts in the pornography section and i have a question to ask myself. I am a 17 year old girl. I have been with my partner for 2 years now and we have a 10 month old baby together. I haven't got the best bod...
A. 24 June 2010: *can't... (read in full...)
I hate him looking at porn, how do I get him to stop?
Q. ok so i've been reading some of the posts in the pornography section and i have a question to ask myself. I am a 17 year old girl. I have been with my partner for 2 years now and we have a 10 month old baby together. I haven't got the best bod...
A. 24 June 2010: "They look so mean and ugly.. a lot like the girls who bullied me for 6 years in high school."
Then you have an issue with bullying from your childhood, you need to sort that out. You do not know these women, you can judge them as mean and ugly... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 24 June 2010: "I have to agree with Cecelia the influence of porn on sexual relationships is harmful." (Marialatin)
Now I really am confused....... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 24 June 2010: "This is not atrivial act it is uncomfortable, smelly, taste bad. But women do it out of love for a short time. why do women stop giving bj - because our love tank goes to empty fast" (marialatin)
Again, it is not good to generalise and try to s... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me for porn, when I'm perfectly willing?
Q. Hello, I seem to be having problems with my boyfriend and have no clue what to do. We have been dating for nearly a year now. Deep down, I know he's a good man, but for reasons I cannot understand, he prefers watching porn instead of doing anythin...
A. 24 June 2010: "special relationship with porn?" ... First I ever heard of one... again, very strange.. ... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me for porn, when I'm perfectly willing?
Q. Hello, I seem to be having problems with my boyfriend and have no clue what to do. We have been dating for nearly a year now. Deep down, I know he's a good man, but for reasons I cannot understand, he prefers watching porn instead of doing anythin...
A. 24 June 2010: mmmm... I think he has an addiction to pornography. He needs pornography every day, even when you are there. He avoids sex with you, but was sexually interested when his computer was broken.
He is in denial if he dosen't think he has a problem.... (read in full...)
Radical Right-Wing Romeo Drives Juliet Crazy! Help!
Q. My boyfriend is a Christian. We've been together 1 and 1/2 years. I consider myself a lapsed-catholic. He feels very strongly about his beliefs, namely he's totally against abortion and homosexuality. My sister is transgendered and in the process of ...
A. 23 June 2010: This isn't going to work, there is never gonna be a magic time when you both agree on something. Yes he will expect his children to have his values and as you go on with your career in education you may find him becoming more abusive in his ... (read in full...)
I don't want his partner and her son to move in because I want him for myself!
Q. Ok, I was having an affair with a man. I'm married. He was married for twenty something years (almost divorced) and has a non live in partner, they have been together for a few years. We were caught out by my husband. My husband and I have ag...
A. 23 June 2010: Ah, you don't believe me.. your story is different, this guy is your soul mate, his partner is terrible, he loves you and wants to be with you.... I'VE HEARD IT ALL BEFORE...
Read this post, and see if you can find a situation that seems familiar... (read in full...)
I don't want his partner and her son to move in because I want him for myself!
Q. Ok, I was having an affair with a man. I'm married. He was married for twenty something years (almost divorced) and has a non live in partner, they have been together for a few years. We were caught out by my husband. My husband and I have ag...
A. 23 June 2010: "His situation is, he is still with his partner"
This is the begnining, middle and end of the story. He has a partner, he has a child. He may have a sex relationship with you, but he's already commited to somebody else and you are the bit on t... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 23 June 2010: To True SincerlyYours...
Dear Poster, you broke your promise, and will probably break it again. Please never look at pornography in your home where you wife lives. This type of thing upset her. All you can do is appologise, and appologi... (read in full...)
We're going on a double date, but she wants to bring along a guy she thinks is hot!
Q. I have been seeing this girl for a while recently . and we have been on and off dating. right now we are in one of those off parts of the relationship. But we are so close to eachother that we still go out like we are still dating . its hard to ...
A. 23 June 2010: On/Off relationship, double dating, she brings "hot guy" and spare friend for you...
This is not a proper relationship, you two are just friends with no commitment.. I suggest you keep this relationship on "OFF" from now on.... (read in full...)
Is it unfair of me to be upset?
Q. Me and my boyfriend just moved in with each other a couple of months ago. Its mostly going great, just one small problem. About 1 - 2 nights during the week my boyfriend goes out alone and drinks with his friends. And this really upsets me for some ...
A. 23 June 2010: What about your friends? How often do you see them?... (read in full...)
Why is the porn argument so one-sided?
Q. Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it ...
A. 23 June 2010: "Rationalize away why cheating with another human being is worse, but it's really not if you think about it rationally"
Sexual intercourse with another person risks my life with possible STD's including Herpes... Sharing bodily fluids, sweat, s... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me for porn, when I'm perfectly willing?
Q. Hello, I seem to be having problems with my boyfriend and have no clue what to do. We have been dating for nearly a year now. Deep down, I know he's a good man, but for reasons I cannot understand, he prefers watching porn instead of doing anythin...
A. 23 June 2010: Pornography is a problem when it intefers with social life to such a degree that the user is no longer able to have sexual intercourse in the normal way.
Your partner does seem to have a problem with excessive pornography and intimacy with a r... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 23 June 2010: "The world doesn't work one way just because you want it to."
Exactly.. that's the whole point..... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 23 June 2010: If that is the case, then that means that approximately 1 in 5 women consume porn.....And like you mentioned before, half of women are accepting of porn. (Celiaaletta)
Even with these figures, it suggests that the majority of women, and an absol... (read in full...)
I looked at porn and my wife thinks I cheated!
Q. How can I prove to my wife I am not, and have never cheated on her? Recently my wife found out I had been looking at porn, it is something we had agreed not to do in the past, argued about in the past, and for some reason I looked at it again (I am ...
A. 23 June 2010: "Oh and the porn industry is NOT a reliable source"
You are absolute right.. but in the UK, reliable figures comes from sales companies, who do report increased women using pornography.
In the UK, we have Anne Summers which sells pornograph... (read in full...)
My wife's paranoia is driving me mad!
Q. I have been married for three years and dated my wife for 10 years before that. I have never cheated on her or even come close. Even when we did the long distance relationship thing for several years, I never so much as talked to another woman as ...
A. 23 June 2010: Stop this competition thing.. in competitions there are always winners and loosers, and in your relationship and the relationship with internet strangers it is impossible to set the rules of the game in formal language which everyone can ... (read in full...)
My wife's paranoia is driving me mad!
Q. I have been married for three years and dated my wife for 10 years before that. I have never cheated on her or even come close. Even when we did the long distance relationship thing for several years, I never so much as talked to another woman as ...
A. 23 June 2010: Wow.. did it really take you 2 years to find this post and answer it?
Are you and your husband still having problems.. 2 years is a long time to spend unhappy, angry and jealous.... (read in full...)
Farewell from an aunt
Q. After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the ...
A. 23 June 2010: Oh Dear.. gonna miss you badly... sigh.. won't be the same without you here... bohoooo... (read in full...)
Why are my 3 sons so painfully shy?
Q. Do weak ,shy fathers cause their son to be weak and shy? I have 3 sons,and none of them ever had a girlfriend,or not really even a friend. They also have other serious confidence issues,and they are all painfully shy. What is hard in every ...
A. 22 June 2010: Stop blaming your husband, or trying to find fault with him.
Shyness is a mixture of nuture, it's in our genes and handed down by our parents, and our environment. Yes it's true, if you husband took a very passive role, it may have stopped ... (read in full...)
I hate him looking at porn, how do I get him to stop?
Q. ok so i've been reading some of the posts in the pornography section and i have a question to ask myself. I am a 17 year old girl. I have been with my partner for 2 years now and we have a 10 month old baby together. I haven't got the best bod...
A. 22 June 2010: You arranged for him to have sex with someone in front of you, and that dosen't make you jealous, but the porn women on the screen do...
mmmmm... very strange....of course you must leave this guy.. but how come fantasy makes you more angry th... (read in full...)
He cheated on me with his ex, but says he didn't come!
Q. hello. my partner of 3 years had just recently cheated on me with his ex gf. they never had sex but did other foreplay type things. he reakons he didnt come when she gave him head could this happen? and also i need advice on what i should do... t...
A. 18 June 2010: "I did not come" = "I did not inhale".. are you having an affair with Bill Clinton?
Guy cheated, how you feel about it, how much you love him, and how likely he is to do it again should be the basis of your next decision...
Ppppfff.. "I ... (read in full...)
What causes someone to become a masochist?
Q. So I have come to terms that I am a masochist. I thought that I had biastophila but I do not want to be the inflictor, but the one who it's inflicted on. Am I considered damaged if I'm like this?? I wondered if there is a connection to th...
A. 18 June 2010: Reich.. german Nazi system.. mmmm.. I'm still looking, this Reich person is new to me to.. :) Thanks for my bedtime reading BunnyTee.... (read in full...)
What causes someone to become a masochist?
Q. So I have come to terms that I am a masochist. I thought that I had biastophila but I do not want to be the inflictor, but the one who it's inflicted on. Am I considered damaged if I'm like this?? I wondered if there is a connection to th...
A. 18 June 2010: I think you've been reading too many books..
Masochism is a common desire that some people have, it dosen't mean that you have something wrong with you. That's why I think you read to many books, you notice and identify something about yourself... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 18 June 2010: mmmm.. ideal world yes.. but we don't live in ideals.. splitting families up are a very big step, here it is possible to work with abuse and change the abuser... in fact one post involving past incest with child and father, ended up with the ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and in love with my friend's 14 year old sister!
Q. hi im 22 and i've fallen head over heels in love with my friends 14 year old sister, it wasnt intended and i cant help how i feel, I wont act on my feelings even tho i know she loves me, but when shes older(16-18) if she still feels the same then i ...
A. 18 June 2010: Yes Lulabell, the maturity of the girl is a very important factor.. people grow at different rates in their emotional, social, physical and intellectual capabilities.
I was phyiscally ready for children at 10, able to look after a family by 14, b... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and scared my mum will find out I'm masturbating!
Q. i am 13 and have been masturbating for a while now...im scared though that my mom is supicous of some thing and if she catches me im teriffed she will take it badly and get mad at me i read about how its natural for some one my age but still :( what ...
A. 18 June 2010: Nothing.. masturbate in the bathroom with water running, or masturbate in your bedroom under the sheets.
Your mother is a woman too, she probably masturbates. It is very embarrasing to get caught doing this private thing, but sometimes it happe... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 18 June 2010: Yes.. son's... son's who are men.. and that's why feminism has to also be about men...lol
I WANNA MOVE TO SWEDEN!!!
Breastfeeding... women over here get a breast pump, so that the child still gets breast milk, but the father can be involved.... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 18 June 2010: Women also take off more time for pregnancy, child rearing, when their kids get sick, and for kid's activities. (Askoldersis)
You assume that children belong only to women, as if they are part of a woman like her legs and arms. Children should b... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 18 June 2010: I think they meant, that dead victims in cases of domestic violence are usually female.. yes, men can be victims of domestic violence, but they very, very, very rarely end up dead or permentaly injured..... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and in love with my friend's 14 year old sister!
Q. hi im 22 and i've fallen head over heels in love with my friends 14 year old sister, it wasnt intended and i cant help how i feel, I wont act on my feelings even tho i know she loves me, but when shes older(16-18) if she still feels the same then i ...
A. 18 June 2010: Lullabell, I suggest he waits and gives her more time, and dosen't just move in on her at 16.. the reason is, she is still growing, and needs time to agree that this is what she truely wants..
We have tons of letters here from women who married ... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 18 June 2010: Sailing bye, that's exactly the type of equality that I practice in my life.. Man in the kitchen in boxer shorts (that I wash) women on computer getting stuff for his job.. sharing, loving fun, and not entrapment in outdated social roles that have ... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 17 June 2010: Oh, so you think they should be superior maybe? (wink)... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 17 June 2010: Actually Yos, was thinking of you as a male feminist..
And yes your totally right in what you say... but it's just easier to sum it up as more equality.. even if it dosen't really explain things.... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 17 June 2010: We had Margaret Thatcher as a prime minster... yep, men can be led, and when she couldn't lead them, then she done them in... lol... (read in full...)
Sexy stuff to do with your boyfriend?
Q. What sexy things can i do for my boyfriend...and like what sexy things can i say to him...i dont want to have sex with him..just sexy stuff i can do for him. ...
A. 17 June 2010: Is there a reason why you want to turn him on, but prevents you from having sex. Are one of you married or something?... (read in full...)
Can anyone else not see how my girlfriend has provoked my jealousy?
Q. When my girlfriend tells people about how jealous i am she leaves out a good bit of details that actually lead to the jealousy or well made it worse. There are 3 main things that made it worse and drove me to the point where i questioned her about ...
A. 17 June 2010: You are insecure and jealous probably because of your age.
Asking her about a guy she is working with just makes things worse.. She's working on a project, she's not on a date.. his looks, what they talk about is totally unimportant and really n... (read in full...)
I'm 22 and in love with my friend's 14 year old sister!
Q. hi im 22 and i've fallen head over heels in love with my friends 14 year old sister, it wasnt intended and i cant help how i feel, I wont act on my feelings even tho i know she loves me, but when shes older(16-18) if she still feels the same then i ...
A. 17 June 2010: Yep, nothing sick about it.. we can't help who we fall in love with, our feelings are our feelings, they are primative, elemental and valid.
But feelings are not actions.. It's actions that show, feelings stay inside our hearts, our heads and our ... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 17 June 2010: Equality.. each according to their means... dosen't mean the same as women turning into men... of course we are different from men, but why does that mean that I can't be president...
... (read in full...)
Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist?
Q. Why is it an insult to be labeled a feminist now? A true feminist wants equality in every aspect. Why is that so bad? A true feminist never says things like, "the world would be better if women were in charge." A feminist just wants women and men to ...
A. 17 June 2010: "A true feminist wants equality in every aspect"
Yes for men and for women..
It's a real pity that feminism has been lefted in such a mess. There are still real battles to fight over unfair pay, childcare, looking after the elderly, domesti... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hold your horses there.. ssome pretty bold claims, that basically puts down the lifestyle and culture of anyone that is not living your standard of lifestyle..
Women in polygomous marriages fight and are unhappy... mmmmm.. interesting claim...... (read in full...)
He didn't come to bed... what's going on???
Q. my boyfriend has always come to bed with me every night and of course in my past relationhips, i have been accustomed to this. last night (after we have been having a lot of problems/fights), he didn't want to come to bed at all. he had to work this ...
A. 16 June 2010: Was your ex husband abusive?... (read in full...)
He didn't come to bed... what's going on???
Q. my boyfriend has always come to bed with me every night and of course in my past relationhips, i have been accustomed to this. last night (after we have been having a lot of problems/fights), he didn't want to come to bed at all. he had to work this ...
A. 16 June 2010: Background information http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-let-him-know-his-porn.html... (read in full...)
Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 16 June 2010: Don't spend too much time with this young guy.. Remember you love your husband for a reason, and it's more than just sex and a dick...
Your husband sounds like a great man.. remember him and your marriage come first. Protect your heart, it's not... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: BRAVO!!!!!!!!! Hahahaha... very wise words... and have you put Q in a box forever.. no problem, we'll have you as you make more sense.. :)... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Thank you dear caller, this is one of the best pornography posts I have ever read.. It has been wonderfull listening to people with different views and experiences without the anger and people ignoring the other point of view.
Women who are upse... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: The problem is 50% of women won't put up with or don't want to put up with porn, but only 20% of men feel the same way
Very important statistic...that leaves 80% of men and 50% of women not having such negative feeling against pornogra... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Of course they have a right to get upset and feel hurt. That's how they feel and that is there right. But a person has a right to feel upset and hurt about anything. I hate a man who watches sports, I think it makes him aggressive and turns him ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Celiaaletta is one of our stars, yes she had a problem with pornography, but when she came here for advice, she actually listened to the answers she was given and was willing to think through things logically and change her situation.
Many ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 14 June 2010: Indeed Q.. a better comparison is asking a 5year old to give up ice-cream.. now the child dosen't NEED, ice-cream, and it's bad for it's health, but there is something about ice-cream that attracts the 5year old, and even if he promises never to eat ... (read in full...)
Why is the porn argument so one-sided?
Q. Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it ...
A. 13 June 2010: As a woman who has watched porn, I'll tell you that it's the body movements that are most exciting and not the people or how beautiful, well stacked or well hung they seem.. all that is irrelevant, couldn't even tell you what any of the people look ... (read in full...)
Why is the porn argument so one-sided?
Q. Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it ...
A. 12 June 2010: "Why is it normal for him to need to fantasize and masturbate to perfect women, but abnormal and wrong for her to be upset?"
Why do women always need to judge themselves against other females and put themselves down. Whatever happened to the femi... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Actually perhaps women who feel that looking at pornography is cheating, should make this very clear on the first date and then do exactly what they would do if the man was caught sleeping with another woman..
(Some) women feel it's cheating... (read in full...)
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