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My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...
Q. I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact ...
A. 18 July 2010: Ah heck... nope, I'm not reasonable... I LIKE ME SLEEP and get mean and angry when anyone messes with it..
I fight nasty when people mess with me and me dreamland.. grrrrrrr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...
Q. I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact ...
A. 17 July 2010: Yea.. maybe revenge aint a good idea.. but a lack of sleep is more than a deal breaker, it's life threatening...
Will he listen if you talk to him again and explain how distress your starting to feel,
mmmm.. it's not revenge though, it's try... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...
Q. I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact ...
A. 16 July 2010: One of the posts just gave me an idea... sex shops sell cock rings with padlocks... you could keep the key and get some sleep.. :P... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...
Q. I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact ...
A. 15 July 2010: Damn, just a rant, that means your not going for the revenge... pity really, I got 101 ideas for men who behave badly... sigh... if you change your mind, I can help you to teach him how to behave, or we can just punish him for fun... lol(wink)... (read in full...)
I only like to watch lesbian porn, does this mean I'm gay?
Q. Dont judge me but i started watching porn a few weeks ago but only like female solo or lesbians... so does this mean i am a lesbian? thanks :)...
A. 13 July 2010: Wow female anon, bad hair day.. must be nice in your world, to hide and be bitter and insult everyone.
If you had parents, they must be ashamed about how you talk to young people asking for help.... (read in full...)
With a married man, is six months too soon?
Q. Ive just read the question i needed answering by someone else on here. Ive been seeing a married man for 6 months, we've had a fling before, but this time ive fallen hook line and sinker, he says he feels the same. In fact he said those three little ...
A. 12 July 2010: "Take him as he is".. Translation...
"Take me as I am, a married man who has a wife at home and who promises you nothing at all."... (read in full...)
With a married man, is six months too soon?
Q. Ive just read the question i needed answering by someone else on here. Ive been seeing a married man for 6 months, we've had a fling before, but this time ive fallen hook line and sinker, he says he feels the same. In fact he said those three little ...
A. 12 July 2010: Your fooling yourself. He's sleeping with you and he's sleeing with his wife. He won't leave his wife, and if she finds out about you, he'll drop you like a bad penny.
Ask him in 6months time, really means, you can ask if you want to make a f... (read in full...)
My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...
Q. I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact ...
A. 12 July 2010: Tell he's is a inconsiderate jerk, most men have manners and go into the bathroom..
If that dosen't work, get up and put on the light and take a picture of him masterbating, and tell him your gonna stick it up on the internet. Or you could tr... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex at 13 but I don't have anybody to share my first time with!
Q. I AM READY for sex, but i don't have anybody to share my first time with. What should i do? I truly am ready, but i want the first time to be with a guy but i really am ready... what do i do?...
A. 12 July 2010: First teenage nymphomanic we've had on Dear Cupid. You don't talk abbout being in love or liking a special guy. No you just want to have sex with anyone who will take you. I can see you at school, with a tee shirt reading "I'm Available for Sex, ... (read in full...)
Is there anything romantic about having sex with a prostitute?
Q. I'm not going to lie. I have made love to prostitutes before. I have tried to be gentle with them (women of course). But I want to know...is there anything romantic or beautiful about making love to prostitutes? I need to get it off my conscience. I ...
A. 11 July 2010: My heart goes out to you, don't be afraid to ask for help.. ... (read in full...)
How to stop my man from flirting?
Q. Hi peeps hope all is well... My question is! How do I get my man to stop flirting with other girls literally infront of me??!! I absolutely hate it, I dont have a clue what the hell to do!! We've only been going out just over a month.. He's the...
A. 11 July 2010: He's a jerk, you did well.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 11 July 2010: You never answered my question..
What are these lie's he tells about "EVERYTHING"?... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 11 July 2010: Sorry, question to wrong person.. please ignore... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 11 July 2010: You never answered my question..
What are these lie's he tells about "EVERYTHING"?... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 11 July 2010: No judgement here babes, I just want problems solved..
The aunts are right, it's best if your a single man and don't do promises to anyone.. Going straight to your girlfriend definately made your wife's heart harden. It does look like your gir... (read in full...)
Should I keep my weird sexual fantasy to myself?
Q. I have a really wierd sexual fantasy and I'm pretty sure any guy who ever heard it would run a mile! So should I just keep it to myself unless someone who I judge to be open minded enough comes along? If you're thinking what could be so wierd I ha...
A. 11 July 2010: Thanks for sharing anonymous.. yes, it's best when your with someone who will listen to your secrets. Sometimes it's our pride and embarrasment, rather than the other person's reaction that holds us back from enjoying so much about life.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 11 July 2010: I know.. I know.. I know you was close to giving up on life.. I know that you were angry and would calm down and want to stay..
Your scared about the future, your scared to stand alone. But this marriage isn't working.. Baby girl, YOU TRIED TO... (read in full...)
Is there anything romantic about having sex with a prostitute?
Q. I'm not going to lie. I have made love to prostitutes before. I have tried to be gentle with them (women of course). But I want to know...is there anything romantic or beautiful about making love to prostitutes? I need to get it off my conscience. I ...
A. 11 July 2010: Sexual abuse does that to you, it makes you ashamed to be alive... hiding in alcohol only dulls the pain, but it dosen't sort it out. Only way to get strong and leave the past behind is to realise your a survior, to strive to live, to strive to ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my weird sexual fantasy to myself?
Q. I have a really wierd sexual fantasy and I'm pretty sure any guy who ever heard it would run a mile! So should I just keep it to myself unless someone who I judge to be open minded enough comes along? If you're thinking what could be so wierd I ha...
A. 11 July 2010: lol.. enjoy yourself..... (read in full...)
Is there anything romantic about having sex with a prostitute?
Q. I'm not going to lie. I have made love to prostitutes before. I have tried to be gentle with them (women of course). But I want to know...is there anything romantic or beautiful about making love to prostitutes? I need to get it off my conscience. I ...
A. 11 July 2010: Hold your horses, I've been following your post. Please do not feel disgusted with yourself for going to sex workers for help. They are just women, women with bills and families to provide for. They are also the experts. No there is nothing ... (read in full...)
Help! I stumbled across his porn!
Q. Hi, so I was sending an email from my boyfriends laptop and went to attach my CV to it and the last thing he had been accessing on his laptop came up first - this happened to be a folder containing photos of naked celebrity women. I was quite shoc...
A. 11 July 2010: Watching pornography sometimes does not count as a sexual addiction. Addiction is a word that is very misused and will be dropped by the doctors as a tool of analysis..
Some people who hate pornography try to scare people with unscient... (read in full...)
I only like to watch lesbian porn, does this mean I'm gay?
Q. Dont judge me but i started watching porn a few weeks ago but only like female solo or lesbians... so does this mean i am a lesbian? thanks :)...
A. 11 July 2010: Nope.. pornography is fantasy, just like a movie.. If I watch James Bond do I want to be a spy? If I watch Vampire movies will I go and try to drink blood?
Nope.. these are things we like and turn us on.. They are fantasy, fairy tales, things w... (read in full...)
Is he taking me for being a fool?
Q. hey! this may be a long question since the story itself is quite long winded so please bear with me as advice would be greatly appreciated! my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. i have 2 children from a previous relationship, 15...
A. 11 July 2010: Correction.. don't know about the drugs, but he is definately trying to go back to his wife.... (read in full...)
Is he taking me for being a fool?
Q. hey! this may be a long question since the story itself is quite long winded so please bear with me as advice would be greatly appreciated! my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. i have 2 children from a previous relationship, 15...
A. 11 July 2010: 1) He loves his wife, circumstances that he could not control destroyed his marriage. He'd leave you in a second if he could get her back.
2) He is active in his wife's life because he's trying to win her back.
3) He dosen't give you money, ... (read in full...)
Would like a little sage advice on giving to notch blowjobs??
Q. Any tips on giving an amazing blowjob?...
A. 11 July 2010: As you noticed, the advice is less about technique and very little about the guy.. it's your response, your love, your excitement which makes the blowjob the best..
Just learn to love the man, and love the penis and want to do your best, that wil... (read in full...)
What do you do when your spouse loses interest in physical activity?
Q. My husband and I just got married a month ago, we are both near 40, and neither one of us has been married before, so we are both "learning". One of the reasons we got married is because we both enjoy outdoor activities -- a must for me when ...
A. 11 July 2010: Sorry, just seen your follow up, but it dosen't invalidate my advice.. again, talk to him and make him realise how important is your active life..
Yes, he likes to drink and stuff, but his activity attracted you, if he dosen't keep it up and make... (read in full...)
What do you do when your spouse loses interest in physical activity?
Q. My husband and I just got married a month ago, we are both near 40, and neither one of us has been married before, so we are both "learning". One of the reasons we got married is because we both enjoy outdoor activities -- a must for me when ...
A. 11 July 2010: Talk to him.. don't shout, argue or accuse, but say it just as you told us here.. tell him how important physical excersise is to your life, tell him that it was something your found attractive in him.. Tell him how much you miss his company, how ... (read in full...)
How do I express the things I didn't get to say to my ex?
Q. I still have some anger and things i left unsaid to my ex. My mom suggested writing a letter. I'm considering writing a facebook message and sending it to him, just to express how I feel so I don't have to bottle the emotions up. Does it seem like a ...
A. 11 July 2010: Agreed, write letter but don't send it.. keep it and put it in a safe place. In 5years time take it down and look at it and see if you feel the same..
Revenge is a dish best served cold. The best revenge is always to live well.. It's more cla... (read in full...)
Should I keep my weird sexual fantasy to myself?
Q. I have a really wierd sexual fantasy and I'm pretty sure any guy who ever heard it would run a mile! So should I just keep it to myself unless someone who I judge to be open minded enough comes along? If you're thinking what could be so wierd I ha...
A. 11 July 2010: lol.. your british, look at Jordon (aka. Katie Price) she's got herself a strongman cage fighter, who comes home and dresses up in woman's stuff..
Anything is possible, you just got to find the right guy. :)... (read in full...)
Should I keep my weird sexual fantasy to myself?
Q. I have a really wierd sexual fantasy and I'm pretty sure any guy who ever heard it would run a mile! So should I just keep it to myself unless someone who I judge to be open minded enough comes along? If you're thinking what could be so wierd I ha...
A. 11 July 2010: Not unusual, unfortunately most men of your age don't do the kinky stuff.
You don't sound like you have a boyfriend yet. Get man first, you'll need him.. Then if he's the right guy, with a little encouragement you can tempt him to please you in d... (read in full...)
My mom and dad don't like my fiancee and we don't speak at all, any suggestions??
Q. ok where do i start im 25 im a mum of three my eldest is six then 4 and i have a baby of 6 months.....i first got with my boyfriend and got pregnant very quickly he is older than me so obviously my parents had there concerns but he made me happy we ...
A. 11 July 2010: You can either fight and push your mother away,, deprive your children of a grandparent, or you can ignore your ego, your wish to be right and try to find out what would repair the tear in your relationship.
Your not only at a distance from you... (read in full...)
Can my parents take my phone?
Q. I know this is not a relationship help request but I would like to know... Can my parents take away my phone if they didn't pay or it and I did with my own money...
A. 11 July 2010: That sucks... but then so does lots of things parents do..
Even I know you love your sport, the clue is in your name.
Unfortunately children have rights, but at home the parents words are the law... ... (read in full...)
Would like a little sage advice on giving to notch blowjobs??
Q. Any tips on giving an amazing blowjob?...
A. 11 July 2010: Worship and anoint the penis.. If you think of it as another person, trapped all day in trouses, longing to have fun and be free, oppressed by the man with the brains and the body, you can fee very sorry for Mr Johnny Penis. Lots of kisses to make ... (read in full...)
Do guys ever put women in "the friend zone"?
Q. I'm concerned I've been putting in some male form of the friend zone but don't know. I have been friends with this guy for 2 years. We talk everyday on the phone, he has told me very personal things he doesn't tell anyone else, he has rearrange...
A. 11 July 2010: No it's all good honeypie, I was one of the wrong ones.. we see what we see, but of course we're not in your shoes and sometimes we get it wrong..
Always love and war here at Dear Cupid..
Congratulations, glad you two bloody talked at last..... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Yep, I know you was drinking.. you had me frightened for a while... but you came back and I knew then that you would be alright..
Again, thanks for putting me mind at rest.. No problems, we all do stuff when we is hurting, I've been there meself. ... (read in full...)
After intercourse I get what feels like urinary infection what is causing this?
Q. Thanks in advance for any answers! Recently, after intercourse, I get what feels like cystitis or a urinary infection. Sometimes it's a day after sex and other times only a few hours. It stings and my bladder feels uncomfortably full yet I only ...
A. 10 July 2010: You are not a doctor and neither are we. Go to your nearest family planning clinic, get yourself examined for UTI. Get a smear test whilst your at it.
As well as drinking cranberry juice, it is always good to empty your bladder before and afte... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Now we are friends and you are well, I feel better.. Are you able to sleep now? Tomorrow will come soon enough.
... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Ah thank you dearest for coming back and putting my mind at rest... that was real kind of you, as I said I was getting worried.
... (read in full...)
Do guys ever put women in "the friend zone"?
Q. I'm concerned I've been putting in some male form of the friend zone but don't know. I have been friends with this guy for 2 years. We talk everyday on the phone, he has told me very personal things he doesn't tell anyone else, he has rearrange...
A. 10 July 2010: Two years.. if a guy loves you that's too long to wait.. most men would be afraid to loose you.
I don't see this ending in the way that you hope.. sorry.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: I am worried about you right now.. please update your post and tell me your alright.
... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: I'm very worried about you right now.. keep the hotline number nearby and you call them if the feelings get any worse. I need you to calm down, cause you won't be thinking straight..
It is better you talk about this lying thing in the morning,... (read in full...)
Can my parents take my phone?
Q. I know this is not a relationship help request but I would like to know... Can my parents take away my phone if they didn't pay or it and I did with my own money...
A. 10 July 2010: 13 - 15 years old, under the protection of your parents.. they can do anything they want with your property.. you don't have enough money to get a lawyer to sue them...
If however you was working and became a millionaire, things would be a little... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: I'm listening, and thinking...
So he lies does he?
Why are you so upset about this friend when the other things don't seem to bother you?
I notice your not sad or numb anymore, no you sound mad.. not good if he's been drinking.. arguemen... (read in full...)
I'm gay, but attracted to my wife. Am I wrong?
Q. I'm gay, that means I'm sexually attracted to other guy and not to a girl. That's a biological fact, I accepted that. I currently married to a woman and I consider my life happy. Sure I'm not sexually attracted to my wife but there is something else ...
A. 10 July 2010: I should read more carefully, you got kids so you can sexually perform.. again unless either of you love someone else, I can't see anything wrong. :)... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?
Q. I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Thanks Sis, the post didn't make any sense without that added information. She's over 40 and she has problems asking her boss out on a date???? Now I understand more about the situation.
I think I remember seeing the ring dream post... advice g... (read in full...)
How to stop my man from flirting?
Q. Hi peeps hope all is well... My question is! How do I get my man to stop flirting with other girls literally infront of me??!! I absolutely hate it, I dont have a clue what the hell to do!! We've only been going out just over a month.. He's the...
A. 10 July 2010: Some people are natural flirts, they are extroverts and it comes as easy to them as breathing air. 'They are not "wrong" or "rude", that's just the way they are. The type of flirting your talking about sounds harmless and natural, that's the type ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?
Q. I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I ...
A. 10 July 2010: ah, understood, was a bit confused as you can tell... lol... (read in full...)
I'm gay, but attracted to my wife. Am I wrong?
Q. I'm gay, that means I'm sexually attracted to other guy and not to a girl. That's a biological fact, I accepted that. I currently married to a woman and I consider my life happy. Sure I'm not sexually attracted to my wife but there is something else ...
A. 10 July 2010: Does your wife know that you are gay? Do you sleep with men whilst you and her are married, does she know and does she consent?
People live all types of lifestyles. Many, many gay people get married and live happily,, there is nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Book an appointment with your doctor and check your blood pressure, stress can be dangerous to you both mentally and physically. Make sure you stop drinking, eat healthy, try to walk or get some excersise, and try and get enough sleep. You must ... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Your body is under stress because you are worried and unhappy. You need some counselling yourself, this isn't only about him, it's about you and how you feel and how you deal with things. Is there another appointment with that counsellor you and ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my boss, how can I move things with him forward?
Q. I am in the final days of my job and I have a BIG crush on my higher boss. For the pass few months I have been picking up on his body language. When in a whole staff meeting of about 70 staff he scans the room looking for me then stares. when I ...
A. 10 July 2010: Just ask him out for coffee, best when you leave the job, because some companies ban romance between workers.
It's not love yet, just a harmless flirtation. Be direct, if the guy aint married just ask him out when you are free.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: Can you register with Dear Cupid, give yourself a name that is strong and beautiful.. It's uncomfortable talking about my experiences..
When you try to force away the bad feelings and pretend your happy when your not, it comes out in all types of... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 10 July 2010: No, No, No!!!!
That won't work.. I tried it and it eats at your soul and kills you inside.
If you cut yourself off, you'll be frozen inside and out, you won't remember how to smile, you won't know the different between pain and happiness... and... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 9 July 2010: Yes indeed... you will take the woman's traditional role.. Your too special to be used as a "stud", something that will mess your current relationship up. Marriage (ie: no divorce and forgiveness and understanding) or walk away and put your energy ... (read in full...)
Soon to be ex wife wants a farewell f*ck but I have a girlfriend!
Q. I am about 2/3 the way through a divorce with my wife of 20 years. I have been separated from her for 4 months now and seeing someone else who I care about very much. This woman was an affair that turned into a committed relationship. My wife and ...
A. 9 July 2010: Is there any hope that you and your wife might stay married. If so, then the sex may be your last opportunity to save your relationship.
If however you are sure that whatever problems that drove you to divorce remain, then break away, don't ha... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 6 July 2010: Sorry babes, my computer's been down... glad your still posting and trying to work things through..
Yep, I knew it was you... yes he may have been traumatised by war, a lot of guys are, but that still dosen't excuse his behaviour one little b... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: Q she's American.. she aint listening.. how can we find her name and address and give her husband a good "talking"...
Sigh.. suppose we'll have to let the daddy deal with him.. far less bruising, cause they love him more than we do.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: You've got some of the best aunts we have at Dear Cupid trying to make you understand.. ABUSE IS ALWAYS WRONG.... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: Baby, my heart is breaking for you, you expect so little from the world. His family love you too, they don't want you hurt, they want you smiling and happy.. That's what all us Dear Cupid Aunts want as well..
ABUSE IS ALWAYS WRONG... giving a... (read in full...)
I accidentally told my husband's family that he abused me and now everythings messed up, how can I fix this?
Q. Hi. My husband recently has gotten a little physcally abusive, and has forced blow jobs on my a couple of times when he was drunk.. I guess I wanted to get it off my chest, but I was just going to deal with it. I already forgave him. But then las...
A. 27 June 2010: They love him, and they want him to make them proud and they want him happy. IT IS NOT RIGHT, to abuse your wife. Your husbands family are acting brilliantly, they want the best for you and the best for him.
ABUSE IS NOT OK.... He needs to go co... (read in full...)
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