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Why is the porn argument so one-sided?
Q. Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it ...
A. 23 June 2010: "Rationalize away why cheating with another human being is worse, but it's really not if you think about it rationally"
Sexual intercourse with another person risks my life with possible STD's including Herpes... Sharing bodily fluids, sweat, s... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hold your horses there.. ssome pretty bold claims, that basically puts down the lifestyle and culture of anyone that is not living your standard of lifestyle..
Women in polygomous marriages fight and are unhappy... mmmmm.. interesting claim...... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: BRAVO!!!!!!!!! Hahahaha... very wise words... and have you put Q in a box forever.. no problem, we'll have you as you make more sense.. :)... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 16 June 2010: Person12345,
Just seen your comment...
mmm.. but this is like saying, "We once had bikes, and now we have cars and that's different and terrible.. it's not the same.."
As an Art Major, you will know, that painting and sculpture have chang... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Thank you dear caller, this is one of the best pornography posts I have ever read.. It has been wonderfull listening to people with different views and experiences without the anger and people ignoring the other point of view.
Women who are upse... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: The problem is 50% of women won't put up with or don't want to put up with porn, but only 20% of men feel the same way
Very important statistic...that leaves 80% of men and 50% of women not having such negative feeling against pornogra... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?
Q. Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. Sh...
A. 15 June 2010: Good it's done, you said your peace, and she said "blah, blah, blah.. traditional, blah, blah, blah... pretend your stone"... all done, you have acted respectfully and she has been given a chance to tell you about her "outdated" standards..
Next ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Of course they have a right to get upset and feel hurt. That's how they feel and that is there right. But a person has a right to feel upset and hurt about anything. I hate a man who watches sports, I think it makes him aggressive and turns him ... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 15 June 2010: Yes.. first hour with a lawyer is free in the UK. Relate fees are from £25 per hour, and are based on your income... you pay what you can afford.... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 15 June 2010: Celiaaletta is one of our stars, yes she had a problem with pornography, but when she came here for advice, she actually listened to the answers she was given and was willing to think through things logically and change her situation.
Many ... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 14 June 2010: I know you don't want to end up dependant on the government, but the welfare state was set up for exactly women like you. You have a disabled son, you are pregnant, you are not working, and you wish to continue education and make something of ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 14 June 2010: mmmm... wishing you well, and hoping you get over your bad day.... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 14 June 2010: Indeed Q.. a better comparison is asking a 5year old to give up ice-cream.. now the child dosen't NEED, ice-cream, and it's bad for it's health, but there is something about ice-cream that attracts the 5year old, and even if he promises never to eat ... (read in full...)
Could there be another girl on the scene that he's not telling me about?
Q. I have been dating a guy for the past 4 months or so. At the beginning of the relationship we were so happy and had so much fun being around each other. We had lots of sex plus it was in fun, exhilirating places. He has been acting very strange ...
A. 14 June 2010: Sorry babes, Auntie E is right.. too much sex and nothing else, this guy had you, used you and then got bored..... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 13 June 2010: Ground you for what.. if it involves racism, then ignore what she says and continue with your plans... Do not do this until you are 16... after 16, if she keeps bullying you, the government can rehouse you and you can live somewhere else.... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 13 June 2010: When you are 16 years old you can date who you want.. she has the right to ban your boyfriend from the house, but she cannot stop you from seeing him.
When you are over 16, if she gives you any trouble, tell her you will report her to the school a... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 18 and we want to "explore"
Q. Heei, im sophie and im 15 i have a bf thats 18 weve been going out for a year now, we are very much in love. But we have a problem he really wants to explore with me, but we are both very worried about the age difference, could someone please give ...
A. 13 June 2010: If he's a decent guy who is intrested in more than just having sex, then he can damn well wait untill you are 16 and legal..
There are many ways to show your affection apart from sexual intercourse.... (read in full...)
My b/f's closeness to his 17 year old daughter makes me uncomfortable
Q. My boyfriend has a 17 year old daughter who asked him to rub fake tan in her back last week when her nan was in the house and she was off to a friends house so i couldn't see why she couldn't have asked one of them. is this normal or am i being ...
A. 13 June 2010: Also the sexual comment.. young girls practice flirtation on their fathers, they know they are safe, and it gives them a safe place to practice such things... fathers are aware of this, that's why they call their daughters nicknames like ... (read in full...)
My b/f's closeness to his 17 year old daughter makes me uncomfortable
Q. My boyfriend has a 17 year old daughter who asked him to rub fake tan in her back last week when her nan was in the house and she was off to a friends house so i couldn't see why she couldn't have asked one of them. is this normal or am i being ...
A. 13 June 2010: You two are a similar age.. there is a lot of jealousy going on.. she and you are fighting over the love of her father, and she is fighting in a dirty way...
There is nothing sexual between her and her father, if there was it would be hidden a... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?
Q. Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. Sh...
A. 13 June 2010: Also, tell her what you told us, tell her you are nervous and you don't know what to do for the best, you don't know how to put things right... tell her that you would hate it if she didn't like you anymore, tell her you value her opinion.. all the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do?
Q. Girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex, what can I do? Well, yesterday my girlfriend's mum caught us having phone sex and she had a go with her, and believed that we were making out in her room when I stayed around hers some weeks ago. Sh...
A. 13 June 2010: I think that as a young gentleman, she would think highly of you if you ask to talk to her. Apologise for your behaviour, remind her that you are both young and you meant no disrespect towards her or her daughter. She may want to shout at you, she ... (read in full...)
Tricky love triangle!
Q. Okay well i have this BIG problem Its really complicated and hard to explain but its a tricky love triangle basically. Well i'll start from the beginning... Me and my Best friend work at the same place, and theres this guy at work i REALLY...
A. 13 June 2010: Depression is a bad word, your not depressed.. anyway..
So sorry for the confusion and embarrasment you are suffering.. in the end people will forget all about it and things will get back to normal again. I would leave it and say nothing to anyon... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 13 June 2010: My parents divorced, and it's the best thing they ever did.. it is not always best to stay married for the children, they can see and taste the unhappiness..... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 13 June 2010: Yes Nightingale I agree.. so sad that you and your children have suffered under the hands of a bully...... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 13 June 2010: Hahaha.. at last a gentleman with sense.. thank you vintage... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 13 June 2010: Hey it's not us.. blame the Tailor.. I have a feeling this is a purely British Thing... well dressed gentleman and all that stuff... you can ignore Mr Texan... (read in full...)
How do I let go of my married man when we work together every day?
Q. I've been having an affair with a married man for 8 years. At first it was very innocent, lots of flirting, kissing and up until a month ago everything but sex, we've recently engaged in it. My feelings for him are so strong, and I know he doesn't ...
A. 13 June 2010: And tell him to go and suck his anger.. he lied to his wife, he manipulated you, he's a liar and a cheat, who cares what he likes..
These guys that are married and cheat are selfish.. forget about him, and put yourself first.. you no longer h... (read in full...)
How do I let go of my married man when we work together every day?
Q. I've been having an affair with a married man for 8 years. At first it was very innocent, lots of flirting, kissing and up until a month ago everything but sex, we've recently engaged in it. My feelings for him are so strong, and I know he doesn't ...
A. 13 June 2010: I'm not even gonna read your post.. I've heard it all before.. Please read the stories from our ladies who are sad in this post.. they are in your situation, and they know the pain and the hurt you suffer..
Please tell your story there, you'll b... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 13 June 2010: See.. I knew I was right.. Men should dress on the left.. but I don't know why.... (read in full...)
I want to get out of an abusive relationship
Q. I have been in a relationship and living with my boyfriend for the last 7 years,he is 30 I am 24. the past 3 years have been a living hell, he makes my life well miserable. he is rude, mean, selfish and arrogant towards me and other people, inc...
A. 13 June 2010: Pack your bags when he is not there, leave him a note explaining things and then go home to your parents.
He is not your responsiblity, he is an adult, if he hurts himself, that is his choice.
If you are scared that he might hurt you, then m... (read in full...)
Need help satisfying my boyfriend!
Q. my question is about and the fact im so bad at it and i have no idea what to do. i feel like i just lie there and try tomove to help my bf but it never seems towork and when im on top its disasterous! Everytime i move it just seems to fall ou...
A. 13 June 2010: It was just a suggestion.. you don't like porn, some people do, and some people find it helps improve their sex life.. Unless you state things that offend you, how are people to know what you do and do not like..
I think you need to improve ... (read in full...)
What's a "troya"?
Q. What does it mean when your Italian boyfriend calls you a "troya"?...
A. 13 June 2010: Damn rude man.. are you sure that he's worth keeping?... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend needs to change her medication
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3-4 months, At the start of the relationship she told me she was going through depression but was on medication for it. Having know people who have it I know its a difficult time but I was impressed she was ...
A. 13 June 2010: The recommended treatment for clinical/severe depression in the UK is medication and counselling.. so the aunts are right, she needs counselling to help her work through the added pressure of getting kicked out of school.... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend needs to change her medication
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3-4 months, At the start of the relationship she told me she was going through depression but was on medication for it. Having know people who have it I know its a difficult time but I was impressed she was ...
A. 13 June 2010: Nope, she dosen't need to change her medication. She had another set back by being kicked out of school.. She needs another hobby or intrest to work on, to keep her mind active and set goals which make her want to wake up everyday.
Here'... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 13 June 2010: lol.. man's opinion.. then that's all sorted, we heard it from the horses mouth.. :)... (read in full...)
Why is the porn argument so one-sided?
Q. Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it ...
A. 13 June 2010: As a woman who has watched porn, I'll tell you that it's the body movements that are most exciting and not the people or how beautiful, well stacked or well hung they seem.. all that is irrelevant, couldn't even tell you what any of the people look ... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 13 June 2010: "Naked caved paintings and marble sculptures are not even in the same category as the ever accessible internet porn of today."
Have you ever seen greek art which portrays orgies, homosexuality and every sexual activity known to man? Pornogra... (read in full...)
Why do boyfriends, get jealous of guyfriends?
Q. My boyfriend is jealous of one my best guy friends and I. I mean, I can understand to an extent but he just kinda mad me angry/sad/idefk. We were all in a group talking and I was giving him shit for not texting me the past few days, only jokingly of ...
A. 12 June 2010: Comparing him to others is not funny.. you would hate it if he said the same thing..
Guy's get jealous when women say things like.. "I talk to another man more than I talk to you..."... (read in full...)
Does sex really matter in a relationship?
Q. I had a boyfriend when I was college. We lasted for almost two years but nothing sexual happened to us. In short, I am still a virgin. Then, I had a boyfriend again but I didn't allow him to have sex with me. Then, the third boyfriend, same story. ...
A. 12 June 2010: "He can be in the presence of a woman and do some sexual stuff without having a 2-3 hour erection."
My mistake.. not my impression from my own experiences, but those have been based on love.... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 12 June 2010: 15 mins of hard and fast... mmmm.. sorry to disagree, but this is not experienced technique.
As has been mentioned before, with good technique a man comes when you want him too.. in seconds, minutes or much, much longer...... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 12 June 2010: "Like someone else said, is it laughable now that men are willing to end relationships over not giving up porn. It says a lot about our society."
Your history is wrong, men have always looked at naked women when they could.. they would do it with ... (read in full...)
Why is porn bad?
Q. *OP's Original Title* This is more of a question for females. I watch porn and I hate that it upsets my girlfriend. I love her more then anything and try to be a good boyfriend in every way. I clean up after myself, I don't cook a lot but I pay for ...
A. 12 June 2010: Porn isn't bad (well it is for children and people who may become addicted)
However, bottom line, your girlfriend dosen't like it, it makes her feel ugly, she gets jealous and upset. You don't need porn to masturbate.. throw away the porn and... (read in full...)
Why is the porn argument so one-sided?
Q. Why is it that when a woman is hurt by porn use it's always about why she should change herself to accept it and how it's her fault that it bothers her and how basically, it's all about the sacrifices she needs to make to accommodate him? Why is it ...
A. 12 June 2010: "Why is it normal for him to need to fantasize and masturbate to perfect women, but abnormal and wrong for her to be upset?"
Why do women always need to judge themselves against other females and put themselves down. Whatever happened to the femi... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 12 June 2010: Yes 15mins too long, either he is broken or you are doing technique wrong..
Read karma sutra for more advice on techniques... (read in full...)
He took me to a bar with a topless waitress!
Q. Last night my partner and I went to his mates house to visit. His mates said can I drop them off at the pub so I did not realising that my partner wanted to go in for drinks too so I went into the pub. My partner knew there would be a topless ...
A. 12 June 2010: Highly approve of quiet-echo's advice... hey, remember, you'll be helping him get out of his "comfort zone"...... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be attracted to single dads?
Q. Is it okay to be married to a guy who has a child but not married? I want to know the views of women around the world with this kind of situation. I am 25 and I am kinda attractive to guys who have kids but they are not married. These guys have ...
A. 12 June 2010: Totally agree with Ask Older Sis, as long as the guy isn't still romantically involved with the mother of his child, and as long as you like kids and realise that they come first and you will have to compromise a lot.... (read in full...)
He took me to a bar with a topless waitress!
Q. Last night my partner and I went to his mates house to visit. His mates said can I drop them off at the pub so I did not realising that my partner wanted to go in for drinks too so I went into the pub. My partner knew there would be a topless ...
A. 12 June 2010: So topless bar is like topless beach.. sigh.. there goes another of me fantasies.. topless beaches are just so normal.... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 12 June 2010: Use ice-cream, pour on man, then take time to lick off, this will help you learn better technique.. treat as lollipop, untill the end when you want him to come because you want to stop.... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 12 June 2010: Yes, wrong technique.. try not to go for "make man come fast", but use "butterfly strokes" with one finger and tongue, little taps are also good, blowing on the long side, licking like lollipop.... do variation of movements, with tongue, fingers, ... (read in full...)
He took me to a bar with a topless waitress!
Q. Last night my partner and I went to his mates house to visit. His mates said can I drop them off at the pub so I did not realising that my partner wanted to go in for drinks too so I went into the pub. My partner knew there would be a topless ...
A. 12 June 2010: Nothing, it's done now.. just ask him not to take you into such places again... I wish a man would have taken me to a topless bar, I've always wondered what it looks like in there. I like to get out of my comfort zone, I'm curious and nosy about ... (read in full...)
Does sex really matter in a relationship?
Q. I had a boyfriend when I was college. We lasted for almost two years but nothing sexual happened to us. In short, I am still a virgin. Then, I had a boyfriend again but I didn't allow him to have sex with me. Then, the third boyfriend, same story. ...
A. 12 June 2010: It's not wrong not to wish for sexual intercourse and to remain a virgin. However, men (and women) have desires, and in men especially going without sex when there is a beautifual attractive woman they love arround actually hurts in a physical way. ... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 12 June 2010: Q (and other males).. since this question came up... why is important for a guy to "dress on the right side"? I never understood this saying. We women just pull up our knickers and we are done. Dose it also have to do with jackets and what side ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: Maybe if you get to know his "friends", you'll find out that they are nice people indeed. At the moment it feels lonely being excluded when he has these "friends" you don't know. They knew he was getting married, I bet he talks about you all the ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: ah... I got it mixed up.. the reason my cousin (dead guys ex partner) didn't come to my dad's house is because she and the dead guys new girlfriend decided to go over to his ex-wife's house instead and give her the support that she badly needed.... (read in full...)
I am happiest when my husband isn't in the house!
Q. i am sick of my husband. i have been with him 7 years and we have 4 children and one on the way but i have had enough of him i am happiest when he is not in the house. we split up for a while last year and my friends said i seemed more relaxed ...
A. 11 June 2010: Your children are being damaged by this man, they will have issues arround anger, commitment, trust and love if they stay with him much longer..
You have tried, this man is impossible, if he won't listen, he won't be able to change.
Leave, ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: Last party I attended was at my father's house(a funeral) In attendance was my ex boyfriend (short relationship) and his girlfriend, my mother and father (divorced 27years) my dad's ex girlfriend (truely beloved by my mother) and his new girlfriend ... (read in full...)
My husband sees nothing wrong with staying touch with his exs but its making me sick!
Q. My husband is very outgoing and caring of others - a fact that attracted me to him in the first place. However, we have a major difference of opinion on what is considered as acceptable behaviour. My husband has had lots of girlfriends and partners ...
A. 11 June 2010: Many people are like you, they have no contact with ex partners and can't see the reason to do so.
But that's you, that's not him, that's not how everybody else in the world works. In my culture and within my friends and family, ex partners... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Actually perhaps women who feel that looking at pornography is cheating, should make this very clear on the first date and then do exactly what they would do if the man was caught sleeping with another woman..
(Some) women feel it's cheating... (read in full...)
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