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Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 7 June 2010: Oh one other thing.. this punishment.. no.. do not give up.. if your unhappy of course you must say something, just like you did here.... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 7 June 2010: And sorry, the laugh is for myself, for my own arrogance and my total misreading of your particular situation.... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 7 June 2010: lol.. so I was totally wrong.. understood and accepted... so what happens now..
slapping is abusive, just like screaming is.. you didn't actually say you smacked his hands, you said that you had slapped him.
More questions than anything else, q... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: To the aunts that blame the poster, shame on you (I've read your views in other posts and it makes me want to scream, you are so far off the mark, but you continue to dish out your diatribe in a nasty and vindictive way).
Anon... I'm not here to ... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: Manipulative... yep, that needs more explaination for why I said that....
First, I am very aware of what happens when women get abused, and how they act and react...
You lived with an abuser, and this guy is (supposedly) abusing you by s... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: Lets walk in the guys shoes, lets turn this story around, and see if you still think her behaviour is wrong.
(story) I'm a woman dating a man. Everytime I walk down the street he accuses me of looking at other men and wanting to have sex with the... (read in full...)
The condom broke -- could I be pregnant?!!!
Q. hi im am 15 and well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday on june the 4th and well today is the 5th, and well the condom tore:/ and the condom tore and he didnt know soo he came in me and im scared i might be pregnant? i was on the last day of my ...
A. 6 June 2010: I didn't say to go to your mum... you silly girl.. go to the doctor and stop the pregnancy if you've been caught. You are wasting time.... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: Man shouting = wicked abusive person
Woman slapping = fine, you had cause for violence... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: Is shouting and loosing your temper abusive.... is everyone on this dear cupid board a saint, who manages to keep their voice calm no matter what the provocation?
Don't listen to me, yes certainly, listen to only people who agree with you. Bu... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: *You know the difference between the abuse you suffered and this normal guy who was provoked and had a reason for loosing his temper and shouting.
You mention the abuse in your last relationship, because you are manipulative and you want sympathy... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: Your wrong, and you were not as calm and reasonable as you make out. You have jealousy issues and probably accuse your guy of all types of things. He is not your last boyfriend, he sounds like a guy who lost his temper because he has a distrusting ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want my ex-wife, to get laid?
Q. I have a dilemma with my ex-wife. We are still friends but I am concerned that she losing her vitality for life. She was full of fun and at her best during our marriage soon after an she had an affair (which I am not supposed to know about). ...
A. 6 June 2010: Nope, sounds like your a good friend...
Don't think she'll like a blind date much, but I agree, it sounds like just what she needs.. Divorce is hard on a woman, it can really steal all your confidence.... (read in full...)
Why does he keep writing me if he hates me so much?
Q. OMG!!! my cousin fucked up my life!!!! she wrote to one of his friends under my profile (she has it to spy on her husband cuz hes my friend) and now he thinks i'm being a stalker!!!! Loook HIM: you have got some fucking balls you know that, i c...
A. 6 June 2010: No, it's probably more of the same anger thing.. what would be interesting is to know why you left him in the first place.... (read in full...)
The condom broke -- could I be pregnant?!!!
Q. hi im am 15 and well me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday on june the 4th and well today is the 5th, and well the condom tore:/ and the condom tore and he didnt know soo he came in me and im scared i might be pregnant? i was on the last day of my ...
A. 6 June 2010: Young lady, stop wondering and do what the aunts have said.. book an appointment with your doctor.. ASAP, hurry, you don't have much time..
Your doctor can't tell anyone, it will all be secret. He will be able to help you. Sitting and worrying... (read in full...)
I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!
Q. My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with ...
A. 6 June 2010: I called in marriedlady.... she put into words what I was thinking but didn't know how to say. I hate divorce especially when there is nothing really wrong.. but a lifetime of "is this it" or "I'm lonely"... well that's no fun, what's the point of ... (read in full...)
Am I his mistress???
Q. Over 3 years ago a man contacted me on a dating site. he was in despair and lonely because his wife was having an affair and his first reaction was to find someone new himself. He soon realised he really loved her and through her manipulations, t...
A. 5 June 2010: Your doing nothing wrong except showing kindness and love to a man who desperately needs it.
Problem is, you have feelings too, and this man is in love with his wife and that means he will never be fully yours.
Your choice, you deserve better, ... (read in full...)
Why does he keep writing me if he hates me so much?
Q. OMG!!! my cousin fucked up my life!!!! she wrote to one of his friends under my profile (she has it to spy on her husband cuz hes my friend) and now he thinks i'm being a stalker!!!! Loook HIM: you have got some fucking balls you know that, i c...
A. 5 June 2010: Yea.. me too sooner, this seems like one of them relationships that should be able to be saved. Things are raw at the moment, so I think it's best to stay away...
Here's a good article with several ideas on how to possibly regain a man's in... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 5 June 2010: Me and Q, we know what it is to be cheated on.. that bloody thing hurts.
For me, my ex had a one night stand, never saw the girls again, and we was having problems anyway.. Still it hurt. It left my heart bleeding, destroyed my trust, gave me ... (read in full...)
I saw pictures of my girlfriend giving her ex a blowjob!!!
Q. Okay I just need to get this off my chest as im cracking up with it! To anyone who'll listen I need to get some advice about this. I'm 25 by the way. Around a month ago I found my girlfriends old mobile phone, I asked her if I could use it as ...
A. 5 June 2010: Heavy.... that's an image no person wants to carry in their mind.. No your not overreacting or being sensetative, it would traumatise most people.
Like anon has already explained, you understand with your mind, but with your emotions, you feel pri... (read in full...)
Embarrassing sex life question... need answers!
Q. Hey ummm i just turned 19 and im a virgin my bf is not.. he wanted to wait to have sex and so did i but somehow we tried to and ummm he kept putting things in "the wrong places" and i told him where to go... then when he found it we couldnt get it ...
A. 5 June 2010: I don't think your both arroused enough, he's trying to penetrate you too soon and you are not wet enough.. more foreplay is needed, he needs to touch and arrouse you untill there is only lust and no awkwardness.... (read in full...)
Embarrassing sex life question... need answers!
Q. Hey ummm i just turned 19 and im a virgin my bf is not.. he wanted to wait to have sex and so did i but somehow we tried to and ummm he kept putting things in "the wrong places" and i told him where to go... then when he found it we couldnt get it ...
A. 5 June 2010: Sounds like a virgin to me...
mmm.. try going on top and starting from there, then at least he can see what he's doing and know where he's supposed to go.. finish off with you on your back, it's better because he won't go so deep and hurt you too ... (read in full...)
Prostitute girlfriend!
Q. Hi, I first met my west african 'girlfriend' in a lap dancing club last year (2009). Chatted a lot before anything and have to say I respected her honesty. That was that and 2010 I returned to the same club and guess what! she was there... I had a...
A. 5 June 2010: Nothing wrong with her.. she has a job, and then she has a home life... she's in the sex business and she needs to be clear when she's working and when she's not.
Dating a sex worker is very hard. You need to be clear that you are a boyfrien... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I want it to hurt during sex?
Q. Hi, Is it weird that i want it to hurt during sex? I like the thought of being handcuffed and forced to do what my boyfriend wants and give him all the control. Is that normal? I feel like a freak sometimes cause it seems like i get turned on by ...
A. 5 June 2010: Normal... not something for all couples, but many men and women like sex rough and with a little bit of pain..
Imagine, love bites, they is painfull, but satisfying and people do it all the time. Usually it's about wanting to loose control ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified this baby is not my boyfriends... but in fact the man's who raped me!
Q. I dont actually know what to say when speaking with my boyfriend about this :/ and its CONSTANTLY on my mind! im 18 and my boyfriend is 28, we've been together for 2 and a half years now and he is the most perfect, amazing thing in my life! i found ...
A. 4 June 2010: Brooke, it's too hard for us to deal with here,you need people who have experience what you have suffered.
Abortion is your choice and only your choice to make. We can't tell you if this is your boyfriends child, we also can't tell you if you o... (read in full...)
I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!
Q. My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with ...
A. 4 June 2010: yep, got it... sounds like you have time on your hands.. Your kids are grown up.. how about getting a full time job. (that's if you don't have one already) Helps you not miss men, cause you get busy with other things instead.
Also will change t... (read in full...)
I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!
Q. My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with ...
A. 4 June 2010: Cause we love you guys and we want to spend time with you, and we want you to play nicely and want to be around us...
It hurts when you don't want that too.... (read in full...)
He cheated!!! What do I do now???
Q. Hi my names megan. My husband is very atractive. And me, I'm just a little on the chunky side. Not too big not too small. But its sad when I stand next to him (he's... Just that gorgeous) But as I expected I wouldn't have him long, I knew so...
A. 4 June 2010: "But as I expected I wouldn't have him long, I knew some better looking woman would ease between us when we were having issues with our marriage."
You have very low self esteem.. he can't be that great (cheater) and if he is, then why don't yo... (read in full...)
I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!
Q. My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with ...
A. 4 June 2010: Bet he won't do couples counselling... (read in full...)
I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!
Q. My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with ...
A. 4 June 2010: Really hope some other aunts come along and answer this question, because your situation is hard, almost hopeless in a way.. I'm thinking... sorry babes... (read in full...)
The father of my baby has no contact and is so secretive!
Q. I am writing to ask whether people think I have done enough for my daughter in making her dad be part of her life? I had her and another guy was thought to be her dad but in feb the dna results came back that she wasnt my ex but she was my ex befor...
A. 4 June 2010: Kids get funny about secrets and parents... they like to have a proper biological tree.. I'd go for a simple card or a phone call, explaining that you want nothing, but you would feel disrespectful if you didn't tell them and pop in your address... ... (read in full...)
How do I control my jealousy?
Q. So depressed don’t know what to do. Sorry this is long. Been with fella since Jan this year. He asked me out. At the time he had come out of an 8 year relationship whom he has two children, one 7 one 3. They had been split since june 09. S...
A. 4 June 2010: Everyday do something fun together, something special that you can remember and say "that's our special time".. then you think about them good times instead of the past.
Kiss him everyday, and say "he's mine and I am his"
Stay in the present b... (read in full...)
I'm so angry at my husband I just want revenge!
Q. My husband makes me so angry,that all I can think of is to revenge him. He is such a passive aggressive guy.Totally abounding me and his kids at the last ten years,what was causing the collapse of my self esteem,and many other character problem with ...
A. 4 June 2010: You love him, and your lonely..
Revenge won't give you what you want.
Can you book a holiday, and get him to go away with you for a short second honeymoon.
He's a workaholic, that's something that is impossible to change, and you are at t... (read in full...)
I dropped a friend because she dated an ex. Shoudl I give her another chance?
Q. Hi all Sorry this is quite long. i have this problem at the mo which im havin trouble solvin. Wot it is my ex best friend wants to be friends again, she contacted me through facebook, basically when we was mates a couple yrs back she told me she has ...
A. 4 June 2010: 14years is a long time.. guess the guy is long gone now.. start again, forget the past, send her a quick facebook message, something to make you both laugh... facebook friends at first until you both feel comfortable enough to meet up and go out.
... (read in full...)
Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?
Q. Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he ...
A. 4 June 2010: mmmm... True addiction should interfer with normal life functioning..
What he's looking at is extreme, not abnormal, as nothing in sex is abnormal, but I would say it's at the extreme end of sexuality.
Your approach to this is fair, and as you... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 4 June 2010: Yea.. turn head aside and he will end up kissing your cheek, you'll miss the first kiss, but it's an elegant way to tell him no if you don't feel you like him.
Your hands go on his shoulders, his can go round your waist, or on your arms... ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless. My boyfriend is a virgin and wants me to teach him?
Q. My boyfriend is a virgin, and I'm not. He wants me to take charge and guide him, which I totally understand and would be happy to do except for the fact that I'm clueless myself. I've been with one guy, who was really sexually aggressive and focused ...
A. 4 June 2010: Sorry.. best if he goes on top... ... (read in full...)
I'm clueless. My boyfriend is a virgin and wants me to teach him?
Q. My boyfriend is a virgin, and I'm not. He wants me to take charge and guide him, which I totally understand and would be happy to do except for the fact that I'm clueless myself. I've been with one guy, who was really sexually aggressive and focused ...
A. 4 June 2010: Not get hopes worked up... (sigh.. need dictionary)... (read in full...)
I'm clueless. My boyfriend is a virgin and wants me to teach him?
Q. My boyfriend is a virgin, and I'm not. He wants me to take charge and guide him, which I totally understand and would be happy to do except for the fact that I'm clueless myself. I've been with one guy, who was really sexually aggressive and focused ...
A. 4 June 2010: Yes.. equality works best here.. Throw away what you think you know, and pretend your two aliens from out of space, exploring and getting to know each other. Laughter is the best, try to get your hopes worked up, because sometimes things go ... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 4 June 2010: My first kiss... dry crackly lips.. his felt like sandpaper, mine felt worse... but I liked him, he liked me..
Kissing wasn't that great, but the hug was the best.... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 4 June 2010: What could go wrong? Tell us what you imagine might happen.. Do you think you'll bite his nose of or something.. you tell us, and we'll try to put your mind at rest.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about the secret bank account?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and we always talk about everything, we are totally honest but that doesn't mean we agree or we come to a compromise. I am the most financially stable thinker between the both of us, I ...
A. 4 June 2010: That means out of your two hundred pounds left over, after £100 is put away in a joint account for savings, you each get £50...if you need shopping money, then you each probably get £20 - £30
Sit him down and draw up a financial plan, with eac... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about the secret bank account?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and we always talk about everything, we are totally honest but that doesn't mean we agree or we come to a compromise. I am the most financially stable thinker between the both of us, I ...
A. 4 June 2010: For financial happiness in relationships it is best to have 1) Joint account to pay all the bills, rent, ect
2) Joint savings account for big items like holidays,
entertainment and furniture
3) Two separate accounts that you each hold privately, w... (read in full...)
Should I let my husband visit his 1/2 sister whom he has a crush on?
Q. I have previously written a post under the heading "How do I handle this" on June 1st, so maybe if you read that first then this will make more sense, so my h keeps going on and on about how he thinks he upset this half sister called cynthia by ...
A. 4 June 2010: I think you should go with him... if he's at that funny age, he may make a fool of himself.. he needs to be watched I think.... (read in full...)
Why does he keep writing me if he hates me so much?
Q. OMG!!! my cousin fucked up my life!!!! she wrote to one of his friends under my profile (she has it to spy on her husband cuz hes my friend) and now he thinks i'm being a stalker!!!! Loook HIM: you have got some fucking balls you know that, i c...
A. 4 June 2010: Sigh.. facebook right??? or Myspace?? sigh
Guy loved you, you loved him... now you is finding reasons to stay in contact and argue like little kids.. All you is doing is piling up more pain and resentments and pushing him further away.
You rep... (read in full...)
Why has my sex drive increased?
Q. In the last two weeks my sex drive as gone up extremely. This is surpirising to both me and my BF since I already had a high sex drive. My sensitivity has risen, I can almost orgasm by just thinking about it. What and why could this be?...
A. 4 June 2010: I'd go for age as well...how old are you?... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: What you guys don't get is that the problem is with you. Not him. (Q1605)
I understand that very well Q.. but people like what they like, and vicea versa. If they don't like it, then walking away is probably the best thing. At the moment, ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Looking at tv/movie stars is probably better for a lot of woman, than your partner looking at someone who is realistic and may be someone you meet... Lots of women say.. "I wouldn't mind if the porn stars had smaller breasts, red hair, real breast, ... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 4 June 2010: I read your other post.. guess that made me angry..
Yep so your trying, (when your not going back and forth from Bitch to nice trying to get a reaction)
Keep trying then... years, not weeks or years.. that's what this guy needs... as you ... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 4 June 2010: No.. Your marriage is not over... PLEASE HOLD YOUR HAT, I'M GOING TO BE VERY HARSH.
You are not acting like a wife, you are acting like a spoiled child and you are taking up all his energies when it sounds like he has tons of things on his mind... (read in full...)
Is the marriage over? He says he's not in love anymore
Q. Hey, so I posted a question a few months back about my husband and I and the issues we were having. Good news is he decided to come back to me and wants to work through our issues, move on from the past and just grow as a couple. He's been trying t...
A. 4 June 2010: Here's Babymonkey's other post for background information. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-him-to-see-that.html... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Sorry Kizzal, you are right...
That's why I put down 4 ways to solve the problem of dislike/like pornography which causes arguments and conflicts in many relationships.
Thinking back on other posts we have had regarding pornography, her... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 4 June 2010: Thank you very much for proving my point - an addiction is labelled as something you cannot give up, I rest my case!
Is there nothing that you find you cannot live without? Drinking coffee, talking on the telephone, watching TV...
Anyway.... (read in full...)
How do I control my jealousy?
Q. So depressed don’t know what to do. Sorry this is long. Been with fella since Jan this year. He asked me out. At the time he had come out of an 8 year relationship whom he has two children, one 7 one 3. They had been split since june 09. S...
A. 1 June 2010: Sorry, couldn't read everything.. I know it's important to you, but it just gave me headache.
ONE QUESTION I ASK - Do you want to be happy and in love, or do you want to continue to give yourself headaches?
Concentrate on what's important... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: "I would personally label an addiction as "something you cannot give up"."
Then as I said before, you make a mockery of the clinical word that medical people use to identify true addiction...
I can't give up food, so I'm an addict
I can't ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: on the average day we'd have sex more than once and everything was good in that department.
This dosen't point to a porn addiction. If he is still able to have sex more than once a day with you, then he porn is not destroying his labido..... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: Thank you for sharing Kizza.. it is not wrong to dislike pornography or want it out of your life.. But people need to find solutions that they and their partner can be happy with. Thank you for explaining your situation and sharing on how you ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: ah.. you want help and advice from other women who also feel sick and keep crying and refuse to leave or finding a proper solution..
Yep, I can help you with that.. here are all the women who cry and suffer and still have no solutions.
http://... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: This may sound dramatic, but I really need help i'm becoming more and more depressed and I feel empty. I love ths man and I know he doesn't love me half as much as I love him or he wouldn't be doing this to me, he's seen what a mess it's made of me ... (read in full...)
Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing
Q. Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...
A. 1 June 2010: "That is the biggest fallacy going but the myth is perpetuated through the inane ramblings on this site by young flibergibets who don't have life experience or a clue."
That's right, don't give a reasonable arguement, or point out a proper s... (read in full...)
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