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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm 22yrs old and why is it when I have sex or foreplay I can't get fully aroused. It gets unenjoyable fast. I've never even had an orgasm (I think). And during intercourse it's like I dry up to the point where my vagina feels raw and the labia minora gets swollen like it's not getting any blood flow. Why is this, do I have a sexual arousal disorder? Help me I want to have a fun enjoyable sex life!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 Maybe your not with the right person. How long does foreplay last, and do you masturbate and orgasm alone?
Use KY Jelly or another lubricant to stop yourself getting sore.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 Can you get wet when you fantasize or play with yourself? If you can then you must not be getting mentally aroused enough to be doing what you are doing. Are there issues between you and your bf? Are you really into him? The brain is the largest sex organ and the connection between body and mind should not be overlooked
Hope this helps a bit hun:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Are you comfertable with yourself? Can you have an orgasm alone? If that's not the problem. What is the relationship with the man your with? Are you comfertable with him? Do you trust him? And foreplay starts waaaay before the bed room. Take your time before sex to get close and feel comfertable. Make sure the man knows your problem so he can help you. Pick a position your comfertable with. Lights on? Off? Or dim lighting like candle light night make you more comfertable. But if those thing don't work see oh doctor. You don't want to miss out on sex, life wouldn't be the same with out it. And im a nurse so I know there are medical thing that can cause that. But most if the time the best advise it to tr to orgasm alone. That way you are more comfertable win someone else and you can learn what you like and what you don't. Hope it works for you.
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