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writes:HiI really need some help. I have been in a relationship for about 1 and a half years. For the past week everything just seemed to be going downhill. I feel frustrated and we are just constantly fighting.I can remember the last time that we held each other and said i love you meaningfully. Last night we had this argument and now im upset with him. I dont know whether i should make amends with him or should i take this as a sign that we have come to the end of the road? We have bothe been under alot of stress (due to our families) and things havent been great. How do i make things better for us and get us back to the point where our relationship was at its best. I love him and miss being close to him. We have been through alot so its hard for me to just give up on him. Please advise me as to what i should do to make things better?Any advice would be grateful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi
Thank you for your answers. I was deciding to speak to him today. Just hope that everything works out for the best!
Thnak you again(",)
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reader, 09876  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Hey,It doesn't have to be the end of the road if you don't want it to be! I went through a phase with my girlfriend where we couldn't even hang out for 10mins without having an argument. Nearly everytime though, it was when we were both stressed and really tired (so ofcourse your going to be a bit on edge).It was only when I almost lost her that I decided to make a huge effort. Sometimes he'll get stubborn about something, and instead of arguing, do the painful thing of letting go of the situation and with a smile say "I love you baby". He will absolutely melt. No couple will agree on everything, everyone's different. I think sit down and have a chat to him, and see if you can both agree to start making an extra effort. Don't wait to see if he changes, lead by example and he'll follow you. I hope this helps kiddo. Best of luck :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Keep away from contentious issues where there are no answers.
Find the common grounds where you agree together...
Do not argue but respect each other's opinions.
Do everything in love and walk that extra mile for him...
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