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My brotherly love for her has turned into romantic love, but she is married. What do I do?

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Question - (17 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2008)
A male Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi,

i had met this lady abt 7 yrs ago through a online chatroom..since then we have been havin this brother n sister relationship. i jus realise recently that i may had fallen in love with her. i m 22 n she is 38 n married for 15 yr..what should i do? thanks

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (17 April 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntThere is no room for love in this relationship.

If you have crossed the line , go back .

If you cannot control this urge, I would suggest that you take a break from her .

You should not go deeper or you will be sucked into this trap and would be difficult to extradite.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

thanks,

i jus gave her a call n did as u told.

she seemed calm abt it

hope can get over her soon

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

Cut your friendship. Leave her marriage alone. She is taken, end of story.

Explain you have fallen for her and need to do this and if you get over her or if she ever splits up with her husband, you can get back in touch.

In the mean time get out in the real world and have a flirt with real girls. It will boost your confidence and help you move on.

Good Luck!! xx

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