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writes:My boyfriend and I got into a fight over how many roomates to have when we move out into an apartment. He was saying something about having multiple roomates after I already told him numerous times that I didnt like that idea. Well today he brought it up again the idea of multiple roomates and when I responded "NO!" he said I didnt listen to his idea, and I dont respect his opinion. Is he being a baby or am I just insensitive?? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Tell him that you respect his opinions but that you do not agree with this idea.
Tell him why you do not like this idea and ask him why he favours that idea.
Hear him out and make a final decision based on a compromise or middle ground .
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Sounds like you may be being insensitive to me. Although I can understand you getting annoyed since you have already said you don't like the idea and he keeps bringing it up anyway. Apologize to him and hear him out on his idea. If you still don't like it then let him know, nicely and calmly. Try to come to a compromise but make sure he knows you are respecting him and his opinions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): heyaaaaerm, i think you might hav been a little harsh, but then again he pushd the subject.what you need to do is apologize, tell him you do respect him, and come to an agreement, and call it quits.quietly and calmly.godblessfriend xx
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