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I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   3 March 2010: Thanks for your update. Just follow your destiny. You will become a stronger person and what the devil takes , God will give you more in abundance.... (read in full...)

I want my ex back, she loves me but has married the father of her first child

Q.   I am in love with my ex, who is the mother of my daughter, and who is also married. I am at a complete loss as to what to do. She tells me that she still loves me and wants to be with me, but I dont know if I should believe it. We split because I ...

A.   24 February 2010: "She tells me that she still loves me and wants to be with me." Those are only mere words. If she means it ,she should seek a divorce from him . It would prove that her intentions are real. Actions speak louder than words. Is she wanting ... (read in full...)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

Q.   I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

A.   22 February 2010: You are welcome !There are a lot of info's there. Hope it helps.... (read in full...)

How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?

Q.   I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...

A.   21 February 2010: You already knew her for 6 weeks. That is enough time to get warmth up to her.You have to take risk . If you are scared of this or that, you will never progress to a higher level.She will detect your indecisiveness. You need to find out where s... (read in full...)

Since my boyfriend cheated I don't feel anything during sex

Q.   l think l have a problem about my sex life cos every time when lam having sex l don't feel anything at all this thing is started about 3 months ago when l found my boyfreind sleeping with other woman...

A.   20 February 2010: Initially , you will have revulsion's and then apathy creeps in.Sex becomes meaningless and a bore. This is because there is no more loves for him .You would have to work at your marriage , forgive and start to love him again . If you cannot... (read in full...)

I read my boyfriends texts and now my world has come crashing down

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend now for neally 6 months, and I've trusted him untill now. Yesterday I was bored and I know it was wrong of me but I had the urge to see his texts. In saved messages I saw a text saying 'well you can see...

A.   20 February 2010: I think the best option is to pretend that nothing has happened. You should not have ventured there in the first place. You have intruded into his privacy and you have no right to do that. It is disrespectful and morally wrong. It is like you are ... (read in full...)

Since he cheated my life has never been the same

Q.   I'm at breaking point and so is my partner. I don't know what to do anymore. He cheated at the begining of our relationship and I have obviously not dealt with it. My anger has grown to such a point that I don't know if it will ever get better....

A.   20 February 2010: You need to forgive him to move on .Otherwise the anger in you will destroy this relationship. Do you want to see the end of this relationship? Do not be too judgmental and harsh on yourself. It does nobody any good. You should be rational and ... (read in full...)

I can not deal with him getting phone calls from this woman everyday...

Q.   My story is a very long involved one but I have asked for advice on here before and it has always helped me a lot. I have known my husband for about 14 years although we have been married only for a few months. My problem all revolves around ...

A.   20 February 2010: A man after marriage will show his true self . Before marriage , he can be anything you want him to be. A few years down the road, he will act like he does not give a damned about how you feel. It is like payback time for him. They would wa... (read in full...)

Work and study gives me no time to party with my girl

Q.   I have been dating my girl for 3 months now. I love her so much and she loves me too.Am a post graduate student trying to put my life in the right path, by concetrating on my education while working part time.I am still living with my Parents. ...

A.   20 February 2010: Well! I think you are both incompatible. The chasm is too wide to bridge. If she really loves you ,she should not be going to those clubs with other strange men. Too many vultures there and someday it is bound to happen.... (read in full...)

How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?

Q.   I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...

A.   20 February 2010: You should be asking yourself whether she knows that you are interested to be her b/f? If you are interested in her, you should go for her jugular and not be like a friend to her. Once , she decides that you are only in the friends category... (read in full...)

I agreed to move town when married but now I have changed my mind

Q.   Hi can anyone give me some advice? I live in Wxxxxxm with my parents and my fiance lives in Wxxxxy which is an hour and a half away, we've always said that I will move in with him once we get married next year, but lately Ive change my mind and I ...

A.   20 February 2010: One and a half hour is not that far and you could stay at both places whenever it suited the both of you . If you are married, you should preferably not stay with your parents. Next year is still a long time to go and many things could hav... (read in full...)

I want my ex back, she loves me but has married the father of her first child

Q.   I am in love with my ex, who is the mother of my daughter, and who is also married. I am at a complete loss as to what to do. She tells me that she still loves me and wants to be with me, but I dont know if I should believe it. We split because I ...

A.   20 February 2010: Do you still love her as much as like before ? She did not have a choice then because that was the only offer she got. If she is not happy , she should leave her marriage and get a divorce. That would be a better way for all. Sometimes a wom... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is insecure. How do I reassure her?

Q.   I'm in a cool thing with a girl, but she's so insecure about what I'm doing when I'm not around her. She's always asking did I sleep with her friend, or what I was doing at such and such a time. Or those little word traps they do, like, "do you ...

A.   20 February 2010: You have to woo her more and make her think that she is the No.1 on your priority list. You need to prove your love to her . Try to please her and do all she required from you. Good Luck! ... (read in full...)

Since I have a girlfriend the thrill to masturbate is gone. Is this normal?

Q.   Since I have a girlfrriend (we do not do anything sexually except hugs and kisses, we're 16 and i'm a virgin) the thrill to masturbate is gone. It's like i don't want to masturbate anymore. Is this normal? Or is it because I miss her because I ha...

A.   20 February 2010: Men have a single track mind and can only focus on one thing at a time. You have got a new focus and it is more interesting than DIY. It is normal . You are happier now and your mind is always thinking of her than DIY.... (read in full...)

How can I know if my boyfriend didn't enjoy sex without asking him?

Q.   How can I know that my bf din't enjoy sex without asking him...

A.   20 February 2010: If he did not like it,he would vamoose from your sight and never be seen again. Or he would not initiate sex with you . The frequency of sex would indicate his enjoyment of having sex with you . The more sex you have , it means he enjoys it.... (read in full...)

I have just discovered my husband is cheating with escorts

Q.   Just found out my husband has been cheating on me with escorts. I still love him and want to work things out. Am I wrong for feeling this way?...

A.   20 February 2010: Your stand is admirable. Work things out with him and let him know that you do not condone his actions. Be firm and strict. Mirror back his actions to him like telling him that you will go out and find some other guy. They will then feel the se... (read in full...)

He doesn't want love, he just wants sex!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We are both in our late 20's. One of my problems is that he wants to have sex all of the time but is not affectionate. His complaint is that our sex life has become boring. He wants to have ...

A.   20 February 2010: You need to educate and teach him about romantic love and your emotional needs.Every woman is different and unique .He cannot read your mind. Some men are ignorant about woman's emotional needs and think that sex is just the sexual intercou... (read in full...)

I hate it that he has anger issues but I love him too. Love shouldnt hurt like this

Q.   How can i settle differences in my relationship without making an argument worse? My bf has anger issues and its never easy talking to him about anyhtin. It seems like everything gets him upset. He never thinks he's wrong and doesnt say sorry when ...

A.   20 February 2010: It is possible that your b/f comes from that mentally abusive environment or culture in his family and it is not easy for him to change his ways. He may think it is normal and a way of life. It would be very difficult to live with him unless h... (read in full...)

My boyfriend assumes I am sleeping around

Q.   I have been dating this man for a while. Lately he's assuming I am sleeping with another man. I am not! However he said, "it's o.k. with me, believe me!" How am I suppose to take that? Confused and Frustrated?...

A.   20 February 2010: He is probably sending you a signal that he has or is still or if it were to happen in the future,you should also accept it. He is stating his stand on this issue or he could just be fishing for some info from you .... (read in full...)

How can you hurt someone you love so much?

Q.   is it possible for my boyfriend of seven years to love me but yet he cheated on me got another woman pregnant he tells me and everyone around that he loves me but i am really hurt and scared that its just words because how could you hurt someone you ...

A.   20 February 2010: You hurt the one you loved the most.That is especially true in many cases. He is only human . He came into a situation where he did not handle himself well .Maybe, it is his first time facing that test and he failed. Sometimes it does happen a... (read in full...)

She took me bowling and then broke up with me! I want her back!

Q.   I started a relationship with a girl after four years of me being girless. She is an amazing girl who i cannot even describe in words how much she means to me. After a week and a half however, she took me on a great date to lunch and bowling, then ...

A.   20 February 2010: Give her some time and continue to be her friend.Keep your communications lines open and see how it will develop. She may need more time to solve her problems with the ex.It could also be possible that she is not interested . I hope it is not the ... (read in full...)

Do you think this guy is married?

Q.   Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like you to put your detective hats on and help me out please. The Brief: So I've known this guy for a few months but I have a suspicion that he may be married and would really like your opinion. Facts: Sinc...

A.   20 February 2010: The best answer is to become a detective yourself. When you have the time , go and observe where he goes and what he does or ask a friend to help out. You can only speculate and it is not 100% .... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's tiredness the day after sex worries me!

Q.   My gf is 23 and I'm 26 so we are still quite young. At the beginning of our relationship our sex lives were great. But after the first month or so of having sex every couple of days (at one point up to 3 times in one day), we've reached a point of ...

A.   20 February 2010: Her batteries need longer time to recharge. She needs more sleep , good food and exercise to keep up her libido.... (read in full...)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

Q.   I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

A.   19 February 2010: I would like to recommend this site which may help you see how it can be done... http://www.buzzle.com/articles/how-to-let-go-of-someone-you-love.html This is a great site. Time will heal your wounds....Just go out there , enjoy your life ... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me, but I love him even more now! Should I dump him?

Q.   sooo this is going to be a long. ahh i dont know where to startt.. alright im 15 and my boyfriends 21. we've only been dating for almost a month on the 24th. i made it clear that i was a virgin and he understood that. he told me that he used to do a ...

A.   19 February 2010: If you go by the law it is statutory rape . Whether you want to report him to the authorities or not is your prerogative. If you report him , his future will be destroyed. That is up to you to decide. Sometimes when two young and hot blooded ... (read in full...)

I had an abortion and now regret it deeply.

Q.   i had an abotion on the 6th feb 2010 and i really didnt want it and everyday i feel myself wasting away. when i found out i was pregnant i told my boyfriend straight away and the first thing that he said was, what am i doing? and then he said if ...

A.   19 February 2010: I am sorry and my sympathies to you for what you are going through. Your b/f is too young to understand what you are going through.He is clueless. You cannot go back in time to change what has happened. You need to accept whatever has hap... (read in full...)

Is there a way to get past her sexual past?

Q.   i met the women i love about a year and a half ago we are both 26. the problem is that she told me her past i did not want to know ever but she talked about it and anyway she slept with 13 guys thats including me that was with in 3 years.i have b...

A.   19 February 2010: The mind is like a fertile soil. What you plant on it , you will reap. If you plant apple tree's , you will get apples. You can say aloud and repeat until the problem is no more or whenever her past comes into your mind. Tell yourself that yo... (read in full...)

How can you be happy and single?

Q.   how do you be happy and single. Everyone around me is with someone and I feel really depressed. Any tips? Thank you x...

A.   19 February 2010: Happiness does not depend on others. You create your own happiness. Whether you are single or attached, you can still be happy. Go and do those things that you like and help others and you will find happiness.... (read in full...)

I love my married man but feel like I'm being used for sex.

Q.   Hello i'm a 32 year old woman and i've been seeing this married man for years. Anyway i love him alot and i do things for him but i dont think he feels the same way, and it hurts. His wife recently called my cell phone and i hung up because i did ...

A.   19 February 2010: Cut your losses and move on . There is no future in that kind of relationship. You have been used by this man and this is enough reason to leave him. He took advantage of you. Don't waste any more of your time on him.It is over. If leav... (read in full...)

Should I tell my wife about my fling with a married woman?

Q.   What are my next steps? Do I tell my wife? Recently, I had a sexual fling with a married woman who's husband found out about the fling through an e-mail he found on the computer. I am terribly upset about my digression and my lack of moral ...

A.   19 February 2010: What do you hope to achieve by telling her ? That you fell into her trap and was tempted by her and could not resist her in a moment of weakness. That she will forgive you and say everything is OK and carry on life as usual, like nothing hap... (read in full...)

If there is no trust, is there no love?

Q.   Hello there, I have a girlfriend and she is polite to me most of the time. I do had times that I enjoyed with her and know her family. I do have times that my heart says that she isn't trusting me entirely and lying on me. My girlfriend trave...

A.   19 February 2010: She could be stringing you along until the next better man comes into her life. She loves you alright but you are still not the perfect one for her. You are only an option and not her priority at this moment. In love, there should be trust ... (read in full...)

My gay best friend proposed to me! And I want to accept!

Q.   My gay best friend just asked me to marry him.... SOBER!! Now, he's a gay man who everyone thinks is straight or bisexual and he can play it straight very well! SoO straight, that he is enlisted in the US Armed Forces! I love him with all my heart...

A.   19 February 2010: People can change and love can make many things happen. It is stereotype thinking to say that a gay will never have sex with a woman. A gay will be gay until they die .Not all gays are the same. Everyone is unique and different. You mentioned... (read in full...)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

Q.   I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

A.   19 February 2010: He has to own up for his mistakes and not run away from it.It would be irresponsible and immature . He is not the right husband material .Learn from your mistakes and move on with life.... (read in full...)

What does he really mean when he says that he values our friendship too much to be in a relationship?

Q.   Why would a guy want to keep you as their best friend, so they do not ruin what they have with you? Is it that they just do not want to have a relationship with you, or that they are not ready or, that they value you too much to lose you from the...

A.   19 February 2010: It may seemed unfair to you but that is life . He has his reasons not to want to have a relationship with you at this moment. I don't know why . I can only speculate the reasons. 1)He is not ready. 2)He is taken. 3)He is intimidated . ... (read in full...)

What does he really mean when he says that he values our friendship too much to be in a relationship?

Q.   Why would a guy want to keep you as their best friend, so they do not ruin what they have with you? Is it that they just do not want to have a relationship with you, or that they are not ready or, that they value you too much to lose you from the...

A.   18 February 2010: He was sugar coating those rejections as he did not want you to feel hurt. Maybe another time and another place. ... (read in full...)

He seems perfect .... but is he?

Q.   I'm dating a 60 year old man who's never been married, never engaged, never lived with anyone, longest relationhsip was 4 years. He's got a lot going for him; very attractive, fit, well educated, great job/security, good sense or humor, articulate. ...

A.   18 February 2010: A man who has not married at that age must have skeletons in his closet. He believes that marriage is like a business concern where each partner share 50/50. If both are fiancially of the same standards, it would not be a problem but if o... (read in full...)

Live-in has become rude. He has started burping and passing gas...help..

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. We have lived together for 8 months out of that time. Recently he has become quite rude. He passes gas and burps infront of me way more than he ever used to. What can I do to make him ...

A.   18 February 2010: He has taken you for granted . You could talk to him about it. Be firm and if there is no response from him ,show your anger and displeasure . That should solve the problem. Most men would back down when the woman is angry or furious.... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   18 February 2010: In times like this, you should not go abegging after her. She would despise and look down upon you and run further away from you. Instead go chase other girls or date any willing girl. If possible find a new g/f quickly and make her seethe with ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is in jail, I send him money, he used to cheat, should I leave or wait for him

Q.   my boyfriend in jail for escape.he got one year for it but the thing is when he was home he show me and my kids no attention bt i love him but to set this whole question off i got locked up behind him treating me like cramp and he wrote me once and ...

A.   18 February 2010: Write down a list of his good and bad points and then you will be able to decide if you still want him. If you still love him after what he did to you , then wait for him to come out. You and your kids deserve a better life.... (read in full...)

Should you marry someone if the sex is terrible?

Q.   Should you marry someone if the sex is not good and there is no possible way for it to get any better?...

A.   18 February 2010: You have incompatible sex drive . It sometimes happens that one has got a higher sex drive than the other but as long as you are there for him , he has no complains. It only becomes a problem if you deny his sexual request. Is it bad because h... (read in full...)

He's married, but I want to be friends. Should we be friends anyway?

Q.   I know a married man who is interested in me. I am an Asian girl and have known this guy for a few years. We get on well and it is only recently that we have been in touch via text messages, occasional calls and meeting up for brief chats whenever ...

A.   18 February 2010: You are standing on dangerous grounds. You already knew that he is interested in you . This makes it even more dangerous. Affairs starts from innocuous meetings and dinners and they slowly graduate to the bedroom. One thing will lead to ano... (read in full...)

I feel he should have his own friends rather than hanging out with mine!

Q.   Hey all, My boyfriend and I are having an argument about mine and his social life. First, I have to give you a bit of background info. I sit at home all day with nothing to do, he works 2 jobs, I'm currently looking for a job, and waiting for school ...

A.   18 February 2010: It is no fun when he is there and you cannot be free to do or say anything to your g/f. It is about girl's talk and boys are there as a lamp post only...LOL! Everyone should have their own private time with their friends.Bringing... (read in full...)

I want to have mutual friends with my fiancee but she doesn't.

Q.   Hello everyone, I need some insight. Okay, basically my fiance and I argue about what is acceptable and what is not acceptable in our relationship. We've been together for about a year now, and I feel as if I should be a priority in her life and ...

A.   18 February 2010: Girls are more possessive in love than men . She wants you all to herself and she may have a phobia of you being hijacked by her friends or that you may fall for one of her friends or there is fatal attractions. It could also provoke jealousy... (read in full...)

My gay best friend proposed to me! And I want to accept!

Q.   My gay best friend just asked me to marry him.... SOBER!! Now, he's a gay man who everyone thinks is straight or bisexual and he can play it straight very well! SoO straight, that he is enlisted in the US Armed Forces! I love him with all my heart...

A.   18 February 2010: I have learned that a gay can be straight and a straight can be a gay later on in life.Nothing is ever permanent or forever. Sometimes , one only discover their real sexuality in later life. If you can love and accept each other, I don't s... (read in full...)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I told her secret?

Q.   hey.. i broke up with my girlfreind about 4 weeks ago, she had been sexually abused in the past and it has affected her trust in people. anyway i took the break up bad, i kept things in for two weeks and then confided everything (including the ...

A.   18 February 2010: You need to live with it and pretend nothing happened.Stop worrying or she will find out what is the problem. If she asked you , deny everything unless she has the proof. It is impossible to pin point the source if the news breaks out .Hope... (read in full...)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

Q.   I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

A.   18 February 2010: He is defective goods and cannot be trusted. Glad that you see him in the right frame of mind. ... (read in full...)

What does he really mean when he says that he values our friendship too much to be in a relationship?

Q.   Why would a guy want to keep you as their best friend, so they do not ruin what they have with you? Is it that they just do not want to have a relationship with you, or that they are not ready or, that they value you too much to lose you from the...

A.   18 February 2010: Most guys would be delighted to have a relationship with girls but are afraid to commit because they are not ready for it. Having a relationship requires more sacrifices of their time and money which they are unable or unwilling to accept. ... (read in full...)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

Q.   I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

A.   18 February 2010: The equation has now changed.He is no more alone but now comes with an extra baggage. This can be very problematic because he will be unable to give his all to you and this problem will be with you all your life. If you still love him , you m... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   18 February 2010: Don't be a defeatist! Be an optimist. Look at the situation in a more positive way. You will be OK after you have drowned your sorrows and get a big hangover. Pick up the pieces and start a new life. You are now single and available . Cong... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   17 February 2010: To q1605;- Thank you for your opinions. ... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   17 February 2010: Sorry to hear that. Your marriage maybe technically over but it is still not the end yet .You just lost another battle but the war is not over yet. I have seen woman like her floating from one guy to another and then wanting to go back to the orig... (read in full...)

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

Q.   I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

A.   16 February 2010: Learn from your past, move on, grow stronger. Don't let someone who has broken your heart to enter again . He will break your heart again . It is a big mistake to think that they have changed over a new leaf.You are no better than a fool for list... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   14 February 2010: Thank you Miamine for your warmth welcome .I deeply appreciate your kind thoughts .... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   13 February 2010: The kind of life she wants to lead is just meaningless and empty . In the end ,she would feel being used ,lonely, dirty and stupid. If she wants to self destruct,there is nothing much you can do about it.She will have to go to the very depth of... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   12 February 2010: I am sorry to hear that your wife have chosen to walk that road. It is sad but it is still not the end yet. She may have regrets after a period of separations and may want to come back to you . She could have taken that decision too hastily ... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   10 February 2010: It is great that you had a one to one talk with her on this issue. You need to communicate with each other about your wants and aspirations and seek a consensus about the directions you want to go. She may not respond immediately but you have giv... (read in full...)

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

Q.   Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

A.   10 February 2010: "Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned, forgive, and ye shall be forgiven." ~Luke 6:37~ Do not judge others or you will be judged with the same high standards you used to judge others. I wo... (read in full...)

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