How do you know if a guy really likes you, and not just for your body?
Q. this guy stares at me all the time. he looks good to me, but im used to guys who say something to me when i walk by if they are into me. this guy i no went over to him and said he'd get the boy to come talk to me. they were watching me and ...
A. 22 February 2010: If after the 3rd date and he cannot get what he wants, he will leave you . He is not interested in a relationship but only for sex.
You can talk anything that is interesting . Find out more about his hobbies, likes and dislikes. Ask question... (read in full...)
Does my cheating ex-girlfriend deserve forgiveness?
Q. So my girlfriend cheated twice, both times I felt like it was my fault... But I still couldn't believe she did it and she seems not to care. I told her things like, ''I knew you never cared about me'', ''how could you do this to me?'', ''I hate you ...
A. 22 February 2010: Once bitten twice shy
Twice bitten never to come again.
You should forgive her in your heart for closure of this chapter in your life and move on .
To write her an apology letter is a good thing but it is unnecessary. A clean cut will heal ... (read in full...)
He watches porn every other day, we have sex once every month or two months...is this normal?
Q. My husband watchs porn every other day but we have sex once a month or every two months. Is this normal??...
A. 22 February 2010: Sex: How Much Is Too Much?
This is a very interesting question. Not everyone will have the same level or appetite for sex. Some do not have sex at all ,some have a small appetite while most people are the average kind and some with a huge ins... (read in full...)
Should I continue my affair for a chance at some happiness
Q. Hi my name is michelle i have been married for 20yrs, unhappily for 10yrs to a much older man. ( 30yrs my senior.) I have been having an affair to a single man for the last 4yrs and love him very much. My problem is, that he doesn't like me ...
A. 22 February 2010: He Is Not Old And Ugly – He Is God’s Gift !
If all of us can think that way , then our marriage life or relationship will be happy and blissful. Instead we tend to look on the externals and get turned off by what we see. It is not what shape or... (read in full...)
He watches porn every other day, we have sex once every month or two months...is this normal?
Q. My husband watchs porn every other day but we have sex once a month or every two months. Is this normal??...
A. 22 February 2010: It is unhealthy and not normal . How long have you been married?
You need to communicate with him or you may have to initiate the love making .
You need to find out why and overcome those factors.
An interesting read:-
http://laura13... (read in full...)
Do I choose the boyfriend who loves me, or the guy I really like?
Q. ok here it goes...my name is eliza and me and my boyfriend have been toghether for a month he is a good guy but he is reallly immature and really obsessive and grabs my ass and my boobs like every 5 mins. He loves me but sometimes i dont know if i ...
A. 22 February 2010: Chose the guy that you can't live without...that would be the wiser choice.... (read in full...)
Should I continue my affair for a chance at some happiness
Q. Hi my name is michelle i have been married for 20yrs, unhappily for 10yrs to a much older man. ( 30yrs my senior.) I have been having an affair to a single man for the last 4yrs and love him very much. My problem is, that he doesn't like me ...
A. 22 February 2010: This is the pressures of modern living . There is no more love and happiness in your marriage anymore and you seek it outside of your marriage.
He is the answer to your emotional needs. He is not working and is always available like a toyboy. ... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 22 February 2010: The U.S. Supreme Court ruled 6-3 that sodomy laws are unconstitutional on June 26, 2003.
reference:-
http://www.glapn.org/sodomylaws/usa/usa.htm
This law applies to those with consensual adults.
However if it is committed without consent,... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 22 February 2010: You can report him to the police but it is not easy to prove in court that you did not give your consent.It is one man's word against another .
Do you have any witness or video to prove it?
If there were no forced entry or violence perpetu... (read in full...)
I told her the level of sex needed to increase, but it hasnt, should I dump her?
Q. I told my girlfriend that I didn't want to have a relationship with her if there wouldn't be regular (somewhat frequent--at least once a week or so). She promised things would change, and they did for about a week, and now things are back to boring ...
A. 22 February 2010: Why is she acting that way?
Maybe, the fault does not lie with her. If you want more sex, you would need to do more for her.Show more concerns for her and take more keen interest in her and her activities.
Did you make her feel loved? Did... (read in full...)
Strong attraction for a married family friend who is older than 10 years. Please help.
Q. Hello.... Hoping for some genuine suggestions and advice. I am 24 and I live in the UK. One of my very good family friend is in her early 30s. 33-35. She is married and has a daughter of 6. She is very beautiful, attractive, sweet and yes, sometim...
A. 22 February 2010: Don't venture where angels fear to thread.
You can secretly love her from afar and that is all you can do.
Do not cross the thin red line.... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 22 February 2010: You are welcome !There are a lot of info's there. Hope it helps.... (read in full...)
Problems with my bf...need some opinions on my situation!
Q. I am coming forward seeking an opinion on a live in relationship that I am currently involved in. For about the last six months I have been witnessing some behaviours that are hard to work with and around. My boyfriend does not want to do anything ...
A. 22 February 2010: He is unloving, inconsiderate, selfish and has become a vegetable.
If he does not do what you want , you can stop doing things for him .
Go out more often with your friends or dates and only comeback late at night to sleep.
If this fails, ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to write my ex bosses.to say I never was a thief at work or let it go?
Q. Hi I have worked in a firm of separate partners under one roof and I was on main reception working for them all indirectly but none directly as they all had their own staff. All the time I was moaned at and when things went missing silly things...
A. 22 February 2010: The truth will surface and your ex-boss would know it.
You can write a letter to him if you feel that it will give you the peace of mind. Whatever he does , that is his business.
If you feel strongly for it , then write him that letter.It d... (read in full...)
Is sex texting a form of cheating?
Q. I went through my boyfriends phone recently and found some text messages I'm not too happy about. He's been sending raunchy texts to his ex-girlfriend. It made me so sick to my stomach when I read them, and what made me even more sick is I looked at ...
A. 22 February 2010: Do nothing and sit tight. See no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil.
If you want peace, do nothing but observe with your eyes only.
If you declare war, there will be collateral damage.
He is only your b/f and not married to you yet but y... (read in full...)
I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 22 February 2010: He has committed sodomy but it is not against the law in the USA. Abstain from sex with him is all you can do.... (read in full...)
Old wives cure for acne
Q. Is urine good for acne and for the facial skin? My friend told me this and I don't know if to believe her....
A. 22 February 2010: It is cheap and you don't know if it works on you or not. If it does not ,then you need to visit your GP .
Urine is mostly water and relatively sterile.
Reference:-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urine
More on urine:-
http://laura1318.... (read in full...)
What are the legalities of a 26 yo impregnating a 16yo in the States?
Q. can a 26 year old man go to jail for getting a 16 year old girl pregnant even if they have her parents permission?...
A. 21 February 2010: The ages of consent varies in various states in the USA from 16 to 18.
You can check at this link:-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America#Alaska
If the age of consent is 18, you have committed an illegal act or statut... (read in full...)
How do I chose which guy to go for?
Q. Okay, I have 3 different guys that like me. Two of which asked me out, and you can tell the other one does, though her has a girlfriend. I was on Facebook yesterday and the question came up 'If [this person] was single, would you date him?' I said ...
A. 21 February 2010: You should chose the other single guy but secretly the guy with the g/f is more appealing and interesting.
It has to do with woman's nature. If you can get that guy with the g/f , your self esteem will shoot up because you would feel that you are ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm using her a bit but my friends say just have fun...advice from the older aunt please..
Q. Hi. I don't really think that my situation is special, but I'm really just unsure of what to do. For starters, I'm 17 years old. I started seeing this girl around December of last year and she says she really likes me. We had an official ...
A. 21 February 2010: You are more grown up and much more matured than your friends and understands the consequences ,while your friends still have a childish and irresponsible attitude.... (read in full...)
A few to get your teeth into...
Q. Hello guys. I've been with my boyfriend for a year, it's all been well and good so far apart from two factors which are really getting to me. My boyfrined has a real issue with family. He just can't grasp it because he never really had one....
A. 21 February 2010: Your b/f is very rigid and inflexible.We should try to adept to our partners way of life or learn their cultures.
Love is about sharing and learning to do things together.
Some men do not want to tell their troubles because they do not want... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's father is horrible! Should I stay with her or let it go?
Q. Help! im 17 and have girlfriend who i think is the best. and we've been going out for 5 months now. It's all going pretty well but 1 things holding me back with her. Her father! I had heard horrible things about him before i started going ou...
A. 21 February 2010: If you love her ,then you should stay and work out your problems with her family.
Don't let any obstacles stand in your way.
If you think you cannot handle her family, then you need to consider giving her up..
... (read in full...)
How honest should you be without risking losing a relationship?
Q. So i just have a basic question. I understand and am all for honesty in relationships, and believe honesty is always the best policy. So if you love someone so much and you dont ever want to lose them, are their limits. And of course its not ...
A. 21 February 2010: How many people can handle the truth?
Everyone is different and unique and you cannot say that what works for one will work for all. There is no blanket opinion about this issue.
Some are able to handle it well while some will handle it very b... (read in full...)
On facebook I messaged a guy, but he never responded
Q. I message this guy on Feb 11 from facebook right, and he haven't response to it.I message him because we would just both stare at each other without smiling or even speaking, and I thought maybe if i message him it would break the ice. He even ...
A. 21 February 2010: He could be an inactive Facebooker or he does not go online often or he did not notice your mail or somebody borrows his a/c or your message did not reached him or he is not interested. There could be many possibilities.
The next time your pat... (read in full...)
Does money guarantee happiness
Q. Do you think finical situation will cause happiness or unhappiness? Are well off couples are happier than poor couples? Do their marriage will have less troubles? Are rich families kids happier than poor families kids? Do they get in trouble less,...
A. 21 February 2010: Contentment is happiness . You don't have to be wealthy to be happy. Being rich does not guarantee you happiness.
In fact being wealthy can bring on a new set of problems.... (read in full...)
I went thru the proper steps...and he hasn't called. help!!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 25 years old female, and I have been single all my life. Not that boys werent interested in me, it was more of me being choosy about them. Now it is time for me to get married, and I have registered my profile on many matrimon...
A. 21 February 2010: I think you should call him or ask your parents to call her parents to inquire about his silence.
It is not considered desperate because you cannot be kept hanging in the dark.
Something could have happened to him . At least , you should know ... (read in full...)
Is this what younger girls are like these days??
Q. Can some of you please explain the mind set of today's young women in their early 20's? I am in my mid-30's and have recently entered the dating scene. Although I am 35, I am in great physical condition and most people say I look 25. I married my...
A. 21 February 2010: Each succeeding generations have become more and more permissive with the easy availability of smut and porn through the internet.Our society is becoming more decadent .
The new sexual revolution and the morality has all fallen below the ocea... (read in full...)
First time sex... I don't know whether I should do it or not.
Q. Hi, my question is on first time sex and its not going to be easy to answer, but basically I was wondering whether I should do it or not. I know this must sound a little odd, but I was watching a Family Guy episode last night (don't knock it, it a...
A. 21 February 2010: Whatever your decision is , you should not have unprotected sex.
The choice is yours. You can wait until you are married or you can go with the flow.
If you are the religious and moralistic type you should wait until you are married.
Bein... (read in full...)
My breasts are heavily bruised from his hands, biting, and sucking. Any worries for the future?
Q. Dear Aunties-- Thanks so much in advance for reading. I care very much for my boyfriend of several months. I thought I should start off saying that to clarify that this isn't a casual situation. Whenever I let my boyfriend feel up my breasts, we g...
A. 21 February 2010: The opinions posted here are not professional opinions. As such you should see a qualified and professional person for his opinions.
If you constantly abused your breast , you may get infections which can lead to other complications.... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend but guys only want me for sex!
Q. everyone i meet say am really sweet, friendly and caring.. ive been single for 14 months and ive had 8 guys come my way and they ALL WANTED SEX:( and off course i didn't give in all these guys have disappeared..cos i want relationship +sex ...
A. 21 February 2010: Looking for a good b/f is like looking for a needle in a haystack but keep looking anyway.
The man of your dreams could be standing right in front of you.
Maybe, God has bigger things for you.... (read in full...)
Is he just using me when he feels the urge?
Q. I had great, great sex with a guy I've met online, and we seem to get on well. After sex he doesnt just disappear but hangs around and chats, and we both feel at ease with each other. But then he disappears! I texted him after 2 days later and s...
A. 21 February 2010: Sex with no strings attached.He could be a stud or a married guy out for fun.
If he is into you ,he will not disappear for such a long time.
... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm using her a bit but my friends say just have fun...advice from the older aunt please..
Q. Hi. I don't really think that my situation is special, but I'm really just unsure of what to do. For starters, I'm 17 years old. I started seeing this girl around December of last year and she says she really likes me. We had an official ...
A. 21 February 2010: Others may think whatever they liked or wanted but if you have a conscience, you should not go against it.
If you feel strongly about it , do not go against your conscience.
You will not only hurt her but will also feel the guilt yourself a... (read in full...)
Would you consider what I did rape?
Q. The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ...
A. 21 February 2010: Technically , it was rape but it is very hard to prove in court .There was no witnesses and it is one man's word against another and furthermore there were no evidence of forced entry or violence.... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity and I just wanna cry...
Q. im 16 and i lost my virginity few days ago, i knew the guy who i done it with wasnt my boyfriend, but since he hasnt spoke to me, i know i was just a bootycall or whatever but now i feel like crapp, i jus wanna cry, i just dunnooooooo :(...
A. 21 February 2010: You are young and you made a mistake. Everybody makes mistakes ,learn from it and let it go.
You cannot gain or change anything by regretting it. The past is the past .
Be wiser next time.... (read in full...)
I am bisexual and I do not know how to tell my parents! Any advice?
Q. Hey, I'm bisexual and I dont know how to tell my parents. There's a part of me telling me not to tell them in case they don't agree with that type of thing. As far as I know most of my family are homophobics so I think if I told my parents, ...
A. 21 February 2010: There is no need to announce to the whole world or tell your parents that you are bisexual.
Just keep it to yourself. It does not give you any added advantage but will only invite ridicule and scorn.... (read in full...)
She left me to find herself. Should I stay with her as friends or try and get her back?
Q. My girlfriend and i broke up a week ago. She told me she wanted a break to find herself. She has recently started seeing another guy. She said she wants to be friends with me still and cant imagine not talking to me.She has told me how she is ...
A. 21 February 2010: Just be platonic friends and don't get too close or you will only get hurt.
Go out and meet others and forget about her.... (read in full...)
The more money I give the more she wants
Q. Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right ...
A. 21 February 2010: You are her meal ticket and a passport to a good life.
In derogatory terms ,she is a gold digger.
... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 21 February 2010: You already knew her for 6 weeks. That is enough time to get warmth up to her.You have to take risk .
If you are scared of this or that, you will never progress to a higher level.She will detect your indecisiveness.
You need to find out where s... (read in full...)
Doesn't he love me anymore?
Q. My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could ...
A. 20 February 2010: Sometimes you gotta stop and remember that your not gonna live forever.
Be young, thing smart, stay true and just follow your heart.
Nothing is going to change if you stay put. It is not your fault and never will be.... (read in full...)
Doesn't he love me anymore?
Q. My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could ...
A. 20 February 2010: The marriage has gone stale and there is no more sparks .Love has flown out through the windows.
He could have taken you for granted or stuck in a rut which he is powerless to do anything.
When a thing is no more , you will come to apprecia... (read in full...)
Since my boyfriend cheated I don't feel anything during sex
Q. l think l have a problem about my sex life cos every time when lam having sex l don't feel anything at all this thing is started about 3 months ago when l found my boyfreind sleeping with other woman...
A. 20 February 2010: Initially , you will have revulsion's and then apathy creeps in.Sex becomes meaningless and a bore.
This is because there is no more loves for him .You would have to work at your marriage , forgive and start to love him again .
If you cannot... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?
Q. I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...
A. 20 February 2010: You should be asking yourself whether she knows that you are interested to be her b/f?
If you are interested in her, you should go for her jugular and not be like a friend to her.
Once , she decides that you are only in the friends category... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 19 February 2010: I would like to recommend this site which may help you see how it can be done...
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/how-to-let-go-of-someone-you-love.html
This is a great site.
Time will heal your wounds....Just go out there , enjoy your life ... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 19 February 2010: He has to own up for his mistakes and not run away from it.It would be irresponsible and immature .
He is not the right husband material .Learn from your mistakes and move on with life.... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 18 February 2010: He is defective goods and cannot be trusted.
Glad that you see him in the right frame of mind.
... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 18 February 2010: The equation has now changed.He is no more alone but now comes with an extra baggage.
This can be very problematic because he will be unable to give his all to you and this problem will be with you all your life.
If you still love him , you m... (read in full...)
Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?
Q. I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...
A. 16 February 2010: Learn from your past, move on, grow stronger. Don't let someone who has broken your heart to enter again . He will break your heart again .
It is a big mistake to think that they have changed over a new leaf.You are no better than a fool for list... (read in full...)
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