I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 3 March 2010: Thanks for your update. Just follow your destiny.
You will become a stronger person and what the devil takes , God will give you more in abundance.... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 18 February 2010: In times like this, you should not go abegging after her.
She would despise and look down upon you and run further away from you.
Instead go chase other girls or date any willing girl. If possible find a new g/f quickly and make her seethe with ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 18 February 2010: Don't be a defeatist! Be an optimist. Look at the situation in a more positive way.
You will be OK after you have drowned your sorrows and get a big hangover. Pick up the pieces and start a new life.
You are now single and available . Cong... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: To q1605;- Thank you for your opinions. ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 17 February 2010: Sorry to hear that. Your marriage maybe technically over but it is still not the end yet .You just lost another battle but the war is not over yet.
I have seen woman like her floating from one guy to another and then wanting to go back to the orig... (read in full...)
He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?
Q. okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ...
A. 16 February 2010: Glad you talked to him and settled that issue. It is just a slip of the tongue.Sometimes they just blurt out without thinking and they don't mean to insult or offend you.
All misunderstandings should be cleared as fast as possible so that they do ... (read in full...)
Is there a big chance I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone:) I need help. IM 14 years old and iv been going out with my bf for 3 months.. About a month ago, i gave him a hand job, but he DIDNT cum. Then, i walked home and went to the toilet without washing my hands.. Is there a big chance...
A. 15 February 2010: Can you be pregnant but still have your period?
You could be experiencing virginal bleeding which you thought was your menstruation.
You cannot be absolute sure till you have a pregnancy test .
Reference:-
http://wiki.answers.com/Q... (read in full...)
Should I give him a chance or just dump him? I don't want to waste my time on another guy who is wrong for me
Q. Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles. I have posted on here and good some great feedback so I am back again. I just started dating this man from work (3rd date tomorrow) and he seems quite nice in one way but he is very very rude about his exes, ...
A. 15 February 2010: I would not want to go any where near him. So early in the relationship , he is exhibiting his true self. Can you live with a man like that ?
I don't think I want to. He is an oddball and lacks decent behaviour expected of a human being.
... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 15 February 2010: Many girls consciously or subconsciously use sex as a reward or punishment. If they don't do their bidding's, they will withhold sex.
Who wants to have sex when they are feeling angry/hurt/confused/rejected?
Some of them have been conditioned... (read in full...)
How should I express myself?
Q. I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im ...
A. 15 February 2010: Confront your fears. Sound him out about gay issues and see where he stands.
Then you would know what to do and what ought not to do with him. Not knowing where he stands can cause you anxieties and stomach ulcers.It is better to know his stand ea... (read in full...)
How should I express myself?
Q. I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im ...
A. 15 February 2010: Confront your fears. Sound him out ab... (read in full...)
How should I express myself?
Q. I'm a heterosexual straight guy who loves women and everything associated with them but lately there has been a guy who has me interested. we are best friends and we talk all the time( aim ) etc we go to the same school and we trust each other. im ...
A. 15 February 2010: Confront your fears. Sound him out ab... (read in full...)
How to provide her with comfort?
Q. Hi. I need some advice, i've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, i'm 27 and she's 36 we both have a lot in common and share some great times together. Her husband died nearly 3 years ago in a motorbike accident and she also has two daughters ...
A. 15 February 2010: “This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten ... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him!!!
Q. He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal...
A. 15 February 2010: All married men are off limits !
You will get plenty of heartaches and sorrows and it is not worth the efforts.
It is a quagmire to be involved with a married men .He comes with a lot of baggage and your nascent love may not be able to overcome... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating? if so, how do I get her to admit it? Then what?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and recently I've become very suspisious that something is going on behind my back. I have come home from two trips out of state to find her not wearing her necklace I gave her that she swor...
A. 15 February 2010: You need to make sure that you have concrete proof that your girlfriend is cheating or just merely raising your suspicions or forcing the issue out in the open with her will cause your relationship to be very rocky or even suffer a bigger and worse ... (read in full...)
Is there a big chance I could be pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone:) I need help. IM 14 years old and iv been going out with my bf for 3 months.. About a month ago, i gave him a hand job, but he DIDNT cum. Then, i walked home and went to the toilet without washing my hands.. Is there a big chance...
A. 15 February 2010: The life span of sperm after they're ejaculated depends on the environmental conditions.
Sperm ejaculated outside the body usually live only a *FEW HOURS*(3or 4 hours).If it is cold and wet , it will live longer .
Sperm ejaculated into ... (read in full...)
He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?
Q. okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ...
A. 15 February 2010: Don't let some careless words cloud your views of him . Everyone make mistakes and most men don't think before they speak.
He is only 18 years old and he is bound to say the wrong things or make mistakes.Nobody is perfect .
Talk to him a... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 14 February 2010: Thank you Miamine for your warmth welcome .I deeply appreciate your kind thoughts .... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 13 February 2010: The kind of life she wants to lead is just meaningless and empty . In the end ,she would feel being used ,lonely, dirty and stupid.
If she wants to self destruct,there is nothing much you can do about it.She will have to go to the very depth of... (read in full...)
My husbabd can go months without touching me so I ended up having an affair with my best friend. I don't know how to deal with the guilt of lying tho!
Q. I have been married for nearly 5 years. My husband is 10 years older than me and he is a good man and great husband but we have no intimacy. He can go months without ever touching me and I know he is not having an affair. I have tried talking to ...
A. 13 February 2010: My empathy's to you for your problems.I believed there are no rights or wrongs and not everything is in black and white .
I also believed that you cannot use religious reasons or on moralistic grounds unless you are a very religious person a... (read in full...)
I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.
Q. hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no ...
A. 12 February 2010: God gives us a mind to think and to choose whether we want to believed in Him or not. No one takes a gun and point at your head to chose to believed in God.
I don't think it is right for anyone to force someone to follow God against his conscien... (read in full...)
She has denied me sex until I pay for it!
Q. Have been in a relationship for four years now with a lady i do love soo much and ready to marry, she is 32 am 27, But she is so controlling, she doe's not like to be forced on doing things she has become miss independent, i lost my job recently and ...
A. 12 February 2010: No money ,no honey! Your g/f is very cold, calculating and materialistic.
Since you became jobless, you have become a liability to her .
If you still love her,you need to get a job quickly and pull your weight in that relationship.
... (read in full...)
Too much foreplay?
Q. This shouldnt be hard to answer really guys sooo... Basically, when my and my girlfriend first started having sex, i was perfectly capable or lasting a long time. But all of a sudden i started coming almost instantly after penetration...i ...
A. 12 February 2010: You could be suffering from premature ejaculations.
I wish to direct you to this site which gives a complete detail about this sexual problem.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/prematureejaculation.htm... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 12 February 2010: I am sorry to hear that your wife have chosen to walk that road. It is sad but it is still not the end yet.
She may have regrets after a period of separations and may want to come back to you . She could have taken that decision too hastily ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend starting to distance himself, when everything is going well?
Q. We've been dating for 9 months, so we've pretty much went through almost everything. From him losing interest, being too controlling, and me being sick of putting all the effort into our relationship because i wasn't getting anything back. ...
A. 12 February 2010: Distancing himself from you is a danger signal that your relationship is on rocky grounds.It could be due to some unresolved issues.
It is a natural reaction for men as they do not want to confront the issue openly but to withdraw back into the... (read in full...)
What is the best way to revenge on an ex that has treated you so badly?
Q. What is the best revenge I could give my ex. For 3 years, he has treated me badly, dumped me, cheated and come back, I forgive him, still treat him so nice and he turns around, humilate me and treat me bad. What could be the best revenge I could do ...
A. 11 February 2010: There is a joke story about a woman's revenge.
She went for counseling and the counselor told her to love the man to the hilt and satisfy all his wants .
When the man fell for the trap , the woman abandoned him.
It was sweet revenge .
I... (read in full...)
Have I got my boyfriend enough for Valentines day?
Q. For valentines day I got my boyfriend a necklace and card. I was wondering if that would be enough?...
A. 11 February 2010: Signed , sealed and delivered with a kiss and plenty of warmth hugs!!!!
Happy Valentine's day to you !... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I am conteplating giving my boyfriend my virginity for valentines day
Q. ok. so me and my bf have been together for like EVER. we've been together so long that i lost count of the months. befor i lost count it was like 18 months. anyway i love him so much and i want to please him for v-day(if u know wat i mean) but im ...
A. 11 February 2010: You are too young to fully understand the full implications of that act.
When you are older and wiser , you would look back and wished that you were not that impetuous.
Don't give you all for someday your heart will be trampled upon.... (read in full...)
My husbabd can go months without touching me so I ended up having an affair with my best friend. I don't know how to deal with the guilt of lying tho!
Q. I have been married for nearly 5 years. My husband is 10 years older than me and he is a good man and great husband but we have no intimacy. He can go months without ever touching me and I know he is not having an affair. I have tried talking to ...
A. 11 February 2010: Guilt is a terrible emotion to live with, particularly if it is intense and disrupts your daily life.
If it interferes with your daily life,then you will have a serious problem.
Most people often feel guilty about a situation in which they fe... (read in full...)
Why do men like fake boobs so much?
Q. Why do men like fake boobs so much? In my country, guys seem to prefer fake boobs. These are some famous models in my country, which all men drool over (no nudity, just bikini clad, but probably NSFW): http://i48.tin...
A. 11 February 2010: Blame it on the media and on Hollywood.The men are always bombarded with pictures of those faked boobs.
They have been brainwashed through constant and repetitious advertisings and displays.... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to sleep with my Uncle?
Q. Is it illegal to sleep with my muums brother who has a different mum and hes the same age as me?...
A. 11 February 2010: You would be committing incest which is illegal in most countries.
Incest is any sexual activity between close relatives (often within the immediate family) irrespective of the ages of the participants and irrespective of their consent, that is ... (read in full...)
I've tried everything for 2 years and I STILL can't get over my ex!
Q. ok, so let me start off by saying what i've already tried. and this isn't to bash anyone's ideas or advice because trust me i really need them. I've tried hanging out with friends, visiting family. i even moved back in with my mother and am going ...
A. 11 February 2010: Hi OP
Great moments in your life cannot be easily forgotten .It is etched into your heart and memories. Just cherish and treasure those moments .
Remember and focus only on the good ones and let go of those bad ones.Nobody is perfect.Life... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: It is great that you had a one to one talk with her on this issue. You need to communicate with each other about your wants and aspirations and seek a consensus about the directions you want to go.
She may not respond immediately but you have giv... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: "Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned, forgive, and ye shall be forgiven."
~Luke 6:37~
Do not judge others or you will be judged with the same high standards you used to judge others.
I wo... (read in full...)
Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?
Q. I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I ...
A. 10 February 2010: If you cannot fight against the temptation , flee!!Think of the consequences and the price you will have to pay .
It will be your biggest mistake of your life. You would bring shame not only to yourself but your family's name and honour in your ... (read in full...)
Another teacher crush!
Q. OK, I want help so that I can get over this crush of mine. It is really bothering me, because firstly I only want to be friendly! And secondly this GUY (obvious wasn't it?) is a TEACHER. I can't fancy a teacher! It will ruin me! I don't want to ...
A. 10 February 2010: You are not alone. Many girls of your age goes through those experiences and it is a process of your growing up lessons in life.
You will learn and make mistakes in life . Other girls have shared their experiences on this link ;-
http://la... (read in full...)
I've tried everything for 2 years and I STILL can't get over my ex!
Q. ok, so let me start off by saying what i've already tried. and this isn't to bash anyone's ideas or advice because trust me i really need them. I've tried hanging out with friends, visiting family. i even moved back in with my mother and am going ...
A. 9 February 2010: If u love someone u always will. The choice is whether u fight 4 them or let them go. Make sure it the right choice . Once they're gone, they're gone.
That is the problem when you love someone. A part of you hate his guts and another part of you i... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?
Q. I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were ...
A. 8 February 2010: Right or wrong , he is your son . Be there for him and give him all the help and support and solve all his woes because he is too young to understand his actions.
Don't throw him to the dogs or wolves.
If you want to blame , then only blame ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't get jealous?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't get jealous. Is this considered a good thing or a bad thing?...
A. 8 February 2010: Jealousy is possessive love . A matured, confidant and rational man who respects and trusts you would not exhibit jealousies unless he is being provoked and unsure of your love.
Men can get jealous too but they have a higher level of toleranc... (read in full...)
I fancy a work colleague but I'm married and don't know how much longer I can keep this in.
Q. I dont know what to do, I have fallen head over heals for a a woman at work, she has no boyfriend / husband, but I'm married and have been for nearly 10 years. I've told no one, not even the woman at work about this, but its eating me up like crazy, ...
A. 8 February 2010: Keep your focus back to your family and God.
Remember your priorities in life .
"The lips of a beautiful woman is sweet to kiss
but the fruits are very bitter.":
If you eat this fruit, the after taste is very bitter. Can you pay the fearsome... (read in full...)
How do I know if the sex was good or not?
Q. So I had sex with this guy last night. It was totally a one night stand and I'm not expecting anything out of it. I was just wondering, how do i know if he liked it or if I was bad? I wasn't laying there like a dead fish and when i gave him head he ...
A. 8 February 2010: If there was moaning and grunting a lot in a man during sex, it is considered good enough.He enjoyed himself.
... (read in full...)
I so much WANT to believe in God!
Q. Hello there! Im going thru some rough patches.... I really feel I want to believe in God, and build faith. But I'm not sure how to. Those who believe... do they have answered prayers, or some sort of a sign, what proves that someone really listens? ...
A. 8 February 2010: I believe God answers prayers according to His will. When you have accepted God,you will see your life and those problems from another spiritual perspective which is hidden from you .
You will find peace , joy and serenity and you can sense a ... (read in full...)
Can my mom have him arrested for statutory rape?
Q. Okay I seriously need to know the answer to this question. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we've been dating for about 3 months. My mom is accusing us of having sex and is threatening to get him for statutory rape. He told me that she it's ...
A. 2 July 2008: It depends on which state you are in as different states have different age of consent. You can check here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America#Arizona
... (read in full...)
I want to join a Christian group but I feel ashamed of myself. I feel like an outcast.
Q. .I'm 19 years old and I feel like an 'outcast' in society. I feel like everyone wants me to change and be someone who I'm not comfortable with. Most of my values and beleifs are based on Christianity, and although I believe in God, I dont know...
A. 1 July 2008: Thank you DiovanLestat for your compliments .
There are many kinds of Christians and some of them bothering on the fanatical and the extremist side.
We have the right to choose which way we want to travel on this road to Heaven.
To th... (read in full...)
I want to join a Christian group but I feel ashamed of myself. I feel like an outcast.
Q. .I'm 19 years old and I feel like an 'outcast' in society. I feel like everyone wants me to change and be someone who I'm not comfortable with. Most of my values and beleifs are based on Christianity, and although I believe in God, I dont know...
A. 1 July 2008: A true Christian will love and accept you whatever or whoever you are .
If any Christians do not accept a fellow Christian ,
then he/she is not of the true Christian faith.
No true Christians should be judgmental nor look down on another... (read in full...)
Another porn problem, with a twist...
Q. OK, so I have a problem and searched it in Google and came across a thread on this site. The dilemma was similar to mine but with some key differences. My would be husband has been looking at porn and just like every other woman poster, it hurts. ...
A. 30 June 2008: The key is a 4 letter word, L-O-V-E. If you love him truly ,
you want him to be happy.
You will do anything to make him happy.
A happy man is a happy family.
Would you rather have a happy man or an unhappy man?
You are unhappy because ... (read in full...)
How do I know if my husband has had sex with another woman?
Q. how do i know if my husband has had sex with another woman...
A. 30 June 2008: Follow your husband secretly and see what he does everyday and
where he goes or who he meets or hire a private detective and get the proof.
You can Google online for all those facts about the
circumstantial evidences that he is che... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 30 June 2008: Relax, he is just a normal hot blooded male .
If any male is not interested to look at pictures of naked women ,
I think he is not from this world or a hypocrite of the highest order.
He would not be interested in any females too.
You ... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 29 June 2008: “The important thing is not what they think of me,
but what I think of them.”
Queen Victoria, 1819-1901.... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women?
Q. How should I feel about my boyfriend looking at photos of naked women? At the moment, I feel like a) I'm not good enough for him and b) upset that he'd even want to look at these I need advice, please....
A. 27 June 2008: Firstly ,you cannot stop him or police him from looking at naked pictures of women. He has been brought up that way .
Secondly , he does not think like you because he is not a woman.
Generally speaking ,most men just enjoy the beauty and do no... (read in full...)
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