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Can't climax in missionary

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Question - (16 March 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2010)
A female India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi

i am 24.my problem is whenever i do sex in normal position i am not satisfied.my boyfriend is able to arouse me but while fucking i lose intrest and don't know wht to do.

but when i am on top i know how to reach orgasm so i satisfy myself.

i love him but i prefer to mastibate rather than doing sex with him.

i don,t know wht is the solution should i try another man to confirm whether problem lies in me or not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010):

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thank you all.

i don't know how to ask but i have nipple very dark than my skin.

my boyfrnd always point it out which makes me sad.

i have huge breast 38c indian sizee but it is bit sagged. plz reply if you know how to tone it

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2010):

Miamine agony aunthttp://www.sexinfo101.com/ tons of fun positions to try.

Every man and woman are different, some positions work and some don't, try to find the one you like the best. Practice makes perfect, it might not work at first, but the more you try the easier it becomes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010):

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thank you all. i have tried a lot of positions and it's working.thank you all for your help.

i have facedd problem in doggy style as when we started he just finger which i didn't felt too arousing.

then he tried to penetrate but we were not able to do it correctly.

plz help.

i want to do it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

Try the Doggy style i.e. rear entry while he plays gently with your clitoris & breasts.

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A female reader, Ask Jess :-)  United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2010):

I completely understand that sex is a big part of a relationship as it keeps the passion alive...you need to ask yourself do i love my boyfriend?! Do i want to be with him!? And if its yes then why not get yourself really aroused with forplay before you have sex in the mitionary position because i've found that sometimes the more dirty and passionate the forplay is sometimes the sex no matter what position its in...is simply just fantastic! Or when your having sex and your boyfriends ontop why not get him to rub your clitoritis whilst your having sex?! If you try these things and you still are unable to orgasim then maybe go to the doctors and ask for some advice there as it could just be that it doesnt hit the right place for you when hes on top! Jess xx

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 March 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntYa know you don't have to stay in the same position during sex. You can start in the missionary position, try something different and then end with you on top so you can both climax.

Have you tried talking to your man about this. I know mine always wants to please me so he'd be happy to go with whatever I suggested.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (17 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYour solution would be to include masturbation in your sexual act.

Show him how you pleasure yourself and lead him by the hand and when you have come, to let him do his thing.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

No i do not think you should try another man to figure that out. maybe he should try to stroke you harder or maybe put your legs in a different position. keep trying other things or just stay away from that position. but cheating and sleeping with someone else is not right because your disrepecting your mate, your mate must not mean that much, and it will cause complications

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