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writes: Well to make a long story short I have been on and off with a guy for about 2 years and he is in college he has done me wrong before and made plenty of mistakes so I ended it and was plannin on endin it for good... Well I started liking someone new and then my ex textes Me sayin he is sorry and wants to be with Me marry Me and all this if I would give him one last chance.and how he is through playing around. . And idk what to do. I don't wanna get played or hurt and I don't wanna lose a friend either. And I big issue is idk if I could trust him up at college its so far away.I tlked to my friends about it they all think I should give someone else a chance. And forget my ex. Any suggestions on what to do.
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reader, xxidkxx  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 hey, i think you should just get a new man, like YOU said you guys have bee dating off and on for two years. thats along time, and if he keeps hurting you. you shouldnt be with him
and, i knw itd be hard cause you guys are good friend. but hes wiling to get back together with you, and you say no.
he shouldnt just stop talking to you.
that there tells you, you shouldnt be with him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 March 2010):
Go for the new guy. Your ex is unstable if he's wanting to marry you without addressing the serious issues that there were before. He has failed you, do not go back to him.
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reader, Hard_decision  +, writes (17 March 2010):
Dont give him another chance - once trust is broken especially in the form of cheating, one can never trust that person again. I made the mistake of giving my ex PLENTY of chances, and each time I took him back his mistakes got worse and worse to the point where he got a girl pregnant and now has a child. Im not with him anymore I just couldnt give him one last chance like he begged, I was told all those things, I wanna marry you, Ill never hurt you again, let me make you the happiest girl on the earth, Ive changed Im a better man now.. and you know what.. ALL of his promises were empty and lies.. Dont do it, your young and there are sooo many guys out there that will treat you right
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Keep him on hold while you get to know the new guy and then you can choose who is the better guy for you.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 Go for the new guy, a fresh start. Your ex has proven that trust is an issue and to be honest he probably just isn`t getting enough action without you as his gf to be there when ever he wants. Don`t try to rebuild a realtionship with issues from the start. There are so many other guys out there who you will be able to trust.
I know its hard because you have to turn him down which will probably end the friendship but you don`t deserve to be anything less then number 1 in the eyes of your bf which I don`t think that you would get from him.
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