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I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 6 July 2011: Stacey will think she is just second best to Anna and wont like that at all so she will say no, and then she will tell Anna that you asked her out and then any chance you had with Anna will be gone once and for all.
Maybe just cut your losses a... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 27 June 2011: I think you should wait now to hear from her - she will be going through a difficult time, and has got your number now from one of her colleagues so best not to pester her. She did tell her colleague she wanted to get in touch with you but didnt ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 24 June 2011: That sounds fine - one word of advice, dont say "I thought" as it sounds like you are being too careful about what she wants to do and what she will think. Women like it when a man is organised and has gone to the effort of planning the date.
... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 24 June 2011: Get a cab - getting a lift makes you look like you depend on other people to get around, that you are not very independent and you use people to be your personal taxi. Not a good first impression!
But getting a cab wont seem odd to her, it will ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 24 June 2011: Dont get her number from her colleagues - they shouldnt really give it to you either to be honest, they should not give out personal information like phone numbers.
She needs to give you her mobile number herself, that shows that she is happy fo... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 23 June 2011: Gosh if you think this is agony you really should read some of the other posts on this site, you will soon find out what real agony and real problems are!
Yes, call her tommorow, thats fine. She is allowed a day off you know, perhaps tomorow ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has broken his leg, I've been invited to a party and I'm wondering if I should go.
Q. Hi. My bf has just broken his leg. He is coming to stay with me this weekend. I have never been through anything like this before and although my bf is the least needy person I have ever met, I am struggling to cope with him being so unwell. He has ...
A. 20 June 2011: I think you might be over-reacting a bit now, this is just a common little argument that all couples have and nothing to get worked up about.
He has not seen this friend in a while, and arranged for him to come round on Tuesday - he simply d... (read in full...)
He's been very obviously staring at my body for four years. People have made comment. What is his problem?
Q. There's an older (married) guy who has been attracted to me for four years and has made it obvious. Unlike most guys, he is actually interested in me (not just my body) in getting to know the person I am. He never came up to me to talk or anyt...
A. 20 June 2011: Well it all depends on your sister really - will she be upset if you are not there? Are your parents going to support her? How old is she? Does she come along to all of your sporting events or other similar events?
I cant imagine why your sis... (read in full...)
Disappointed in engagement ring, am I being selfish?
Q. I'm interested in your opinions. My boyfriend was engaged before he met me. He bought her a very beautiful $7000 ring, for which he spent all his savings on. The relationship failed and she returned the ring. After us being together for ov...
A. 20 June 2011: OP - what did he say when you told him you were disappointed with it?
I think you have every right to be upset, and no you are not being selfish at all. The main issue is that he took you out shopping to look at rings, you showed him what you... (read in full...)
He's been very obviously staring at my body for four years. People have made comment. What is his problem?
Q. There's an older (married) guy who has been attracted to me for four years and has made it obvious. Unlike most guys, he is actually interested in me (not just my body) in getting to know the person I am. He never came up to me to talk or anyt...
A. 20 June 2011: All the other posters have hit the nail on the head - if he has been staring at you for 4 years, that meant you were 12 when he started staring at you, which indicates that this man may have some serious issues and be a dangerous person around ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has broken his leg, I've been invited to a party and I'm wondering if I should go.
Q. Hi. My bf has just broken his leg. He is coming to stay with me this weekend. I have never been through anything like this before and although my bf is the least needy person I have ever met, I am struggling to cope with him being so unwell. He has ...
A. 17 June 2011: Well show him what committment is then, and hopefully, if you do ever get ill one day, then he will remember what you have done for him and he will return the favour. Just because you think he might act a certain way does not mean you should do the ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 17 June 2011: Call whenever you want! Are you actually being serious here? Can you not make the decision yourself when to make a phone call?
Sorry but it seems incredibly odd to me that you cannot make a simple decision such as this on your own, it is just a p... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has broken his leg, I've been invited to a party and I'm wondering if I should go.
Q. Hi. My bf has just broken his leg. He is coming to stay with me this weekend. I have never been through anything like this before and although my bf is the least needy person I have ever met, I am struggling to cope with him being so unwell. He has ...
A. 17 June 2011: I dont think you should go - your friend will have another birthday next year, and you can make it up to her by taking her out or something in a few days time.
Your boyfriend is coming to visit you, he is making the effort to see you and visit yo... (read in full...)
What should I do about my family? They hate my guts!
Q. I can't stop crying. I feel so helpless. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Tonight, while my sister was once again running me down to my parents, I came in and for the first time in a long while, and said that I had pulled my weight around t...
A. 17 June 2011: This should help you http://www.spareroom.co.uk/
I dont think there is anything you can do about your family, it sounds awful and you have tried to make things better yet nothing has changed - if you kept on trying to make things better then you... (read in full...)
How can I leave without any money and with no-where to go?
Q. Hi, I have been married for nearly 17 yrs most of this has been unhappy. I have two children from previous marrige who are grown up and don't live with me. Two children from this marrige. My parents are both dead and as I was an only child I have no ...
A. 17 June 2011: Could you get any help from your grown up kids? Have you got a job? If not - that is the first place you need to start, get a job and get earning some money! If you have a job, then there is no reason why your husband should be taking your money, ... (read in full...)
What do guys prefer?
Q. Do guys who normally prefer the "bimbo" look on girls (meaning bleached or dyed long hair, tanned skin, skinny, revealing clothing,) also like "average" girls or not so much? ...
A. 17 June 2011: Every man has a different taste in women, so there is no one 'type' that a guy would like.
Some guys do like the bimbo look, but then again some guys like petite dark haired women - everyone is different and has their own personal taste.
On a... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth about these text messages?
Q. Please help me! Okay, so I check my bfs phone every now and then ... i never find/see anything innappropriate so, im always happy with what i see, checking his phone kindda reassures me that - well i dont really know cause i know that he wouldnt ...
A. 17 June 2011: Sorry to say this but honestly, your only problem is that he has a bit of banter over the phone with his mates? And you are seriously upset about this and questioning his trust?
I suggest you search this site and look at all the women (and men... (read in full...)
I've helped him with money, with work, and find out that he's lying to me about this girl
Q. im close friends with a guy and up til 3 months ago he went a bit weird on me then i discovered hes 'dating' a girl.he told me shes a medical student and lives in london. the other day i fixed his cv and he asked me to go in his email. i was shocked ...
A. 17 June 2011: If he wants to send money to her, that is his choice, you have no rights to be annoyed about this. You are not his girlfriend or wife, you said yourself you are just friends - so he can do what he wants.
If I were you, I would stop giving h... (read in full...)
I thought she might have the same feelings, but now she says her boyfriend is back in town?
Q. i met this gal a about a month ago we we used to talk almost everyday but now due to my work i got transferred but she in the same area as i work in..we dont talk about anything serious stuff just basic stuff she has a boyfriend in another country i ...
A. 16 June 2011: I think you should just forget about it I'm afraid, she has a boyfriend and clearly wants to be with him or she would not be travelling to see him.
If she is ever single again, then by all means, go ahead and tell her how you feel. But while sh... (read in full...)
Unexpected pregnancy, lost of grandfather and boyfriend and now my mom wants me to give up baby or move!
Q. I am 23 years old and have a 23 months old daughter with a lad i was with for nearly 4 years. Sadly my granddad died of cancer 11 weeks ago and i have been grieving for him alot. Me and my boyfriend split up on the same day that was 11 weeks si...
A. 16 June 2011: Do you or your ex have jobs? That would be the easiest and most sensible way to get some money so you can move out, visit your local job centre and they will be able to help you.
I dont think you should get rid of the baby if you dont want to,... (read in full...)
I am trying to forget him and he is making is difficult with his emails!!!
Q. Hello everyone, I am 15 and this slight issue is something which really I think shoudn't be part of my life at this age. I met a boy when I was on vacation and we continued to talk using the internet. We were talking for just over a month and at...
A. 16 June 2011: I think I answered your first question where you asked what to do about this boy! Well he does sound persistent, I think it is best to block his email address (go into the settings on your email account and you should be able to find it).
I can... (read in full...)
I haven't dated anyone since boyfriend left me for an online girl
Q. I posted on here last month saying that my ex dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who lives in America, who he has never met in person !. My ex and i live in England. I kept hounding him at first, as i was upset, but then i started to get over ...
A. 16 June 2011: I agree with the other answers - you simply do nothing and let him go. He has moved on I'm afraid, and it is natural to miss him, but for your own good you need to not contact him and get on with your life.
He ended your relationship therefor... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 15 June 2011: Well if its only a 10 mins drive, surely it cant be more than a half an hour walk? There is no reason not to walk over there and ask her out in person, that would be better than ringing up.
But be prepared for a rejection, the letter you sent mig... (read in full...)
Is it wrong if I do his laundry?
Q. I currently live with my boyfriend and this has been going on for close to a year now. So far everything is harmonious with ofcourse some petty fights every now and then. I was surfing this morning on the net about relationships and I have come ...
A. 14 June 2011: Of course you can do his laundry if you are happy to!
It is totally up to you and your partner how you divide the housework and chores, not some advice on the internet!
There is some thought on the issue that if a woman moves in with a man an... (read in full...)
After everything I've been through with him, should I just leave him?
Q. Hi all i really need advice. I have been here before and gotten the answers i have expected. but i cant seem to take them into action. I am just going to be breif about what all i think has played a part in our relationship. My husband and ...
A. 14 June 2011: I cant even believe you are considering sticking around, you should have gotten out of this years ago! He is an abusive man with anger issues, he treats you terribly and you must leave, for the sake of your own health and for the sake of the ... (read in full...)
How do you know when the time is right to have more children?
Q. Hi.. i've got a 6month old little girl and would like more children.. I'd like them close in age, however Im in two minds about whether im ready or not. How do you know when the time is right? ...
A. 14 June 2011: Well quite simply when you no longer have any doubts, that is when the time is right. At the moment you say you are in 2 minds, which means it is not the right time. But when you feel ready and when there are no more doubts, then that is the right ... (read in full...)
Is there really an issue with age difference if I am over 18?
Q. is it wrong for me to like older men i am 18 and i am wondering what people think the right age of older men i being 18 should go for 18-20 21-23 24-26 27-29 30+ which do you think would be the oldest older man suitable if you where concerned...
A. 13 June 2011: This is very tricky, but for a girl aged 18 I would say no older than 24. So your age range should be about 18-24.
The reason for this is that you change so much between 18 and 21/22, especially if you go to Uni. So it is very difficult to form ... (read in full...)
I always feel like talking to him...but I think it'll only just hurt me more.
Q. About back in January, my ex boyfriend that lived 2 hours away dumped me because of the distance and the drive to where I lived..or so he said. We we're together for 3 months, we were so amazing for each other, we had the best of times, and it ended ...
A. 13 June 2011: Ok, there are a few problems here:
1. You only dated for 3 months. Yes you knew him before, but the relationship was very short and it was definitely not long enough to really fall in love with him or decide that he is the one etc.
2. You said you... (read in full...)
I stay with baby's father because I want to prove something to my folks. Anything wrong in this?
Q. So I'm 16 and I have a baby. His father is about 4 years older and were still together. Lately I've been feeling like I'm on lockdown which I know I may not to do as much with a child but me and him dont live together so I have most of the ...
A. 13 June 2011: Look - you chose to have this baby, therefore you have already waved goodbye to your youth. If you wanted to have fun and date, you should have not gotten pregnant and had a child. Simple as that.
You are a parent now, you are no longer young an... (read in full...)
Girlfriend claims she got an STD from a towel or mat from her yoga class!! Is that really possible or is it more likely that she cheated on me?
Q. My girlfriend had a vaginal discharge for some time which worried her greatly. She was worried she had some sort of cancer. We had not been sexually active in quite some time (more than a year). She went to the doctor and she diagnosed her with tri...
A. 13 June 2011: I would say the only way she could have gotten this from a yoga mat would be if she were naked whilst doing yoga and her naked vagina touched the mat. As has been said earlier, the way you catch this particular STD is from penis to vagina (or vice ... (read in full...)
I have a plan. I would like some advice and/or reassurance with it.
Q. I am 15 and I have a plan for my life up to a certain point, the main point to my life I have figured out myself and that is 'to become completely self dependent, have a good education, a well paid job and make myself happy from earning good money ...
A. 12 June 2011: That all sounds very good and you sound like a sensible teenager, which is nice to see on this site for once!
Concentrating on your education is definitely a good thing, you only have one chance at getting a good education and setting yourself... (read in full...)
Holiday together or separately, your thoughts please?
Q. OK. So my bf and I have taken two weeks off annual leave in the summer, August. He is fiercely independent and I always go for these types so I must like it. I couldn’t bear a guy who was needy. Anyway, we recently spent two whole weekends ...
A. 10 June 2011: It is just insecurities that mean people need to be together 24/7, and then the media that pushes this idea along to make it worse. We see hollywood movies where couples finally get together and then they are inseperable, they are best friends and ... (read in full...)
Holiday together or separately, your thoughts please?
Q. OK. So my bf and I have taken two weeks off annual leave in the summer, August. He is fiercely independent and I always go for these types so I must like it. I couldn’t bear a guy who was needy. Anyway, we recently spent two whole weekends ...
A. 10 June 2011: I think in your case it is totally fine that you holiday seperately, he sounds like an independent guy and you are happy to have some time to yourself, so there is no reason why you should force yourselves to spend a full 2 weeks together simply for ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my college room mates that I am gay?
Q. Ok, So Here I come again for some advice. Ok, So I'm 19 yrs old, a gay guy: I'm going to be attending college this fall. And well, I may be living on campus. But I dont know what to expect from all of this, since this is going to be the 1st time...
A. 9 June 2011: Well I'm not gay or bi, but I hope I can be of some help!
Question 1 - should you tell your roomate(s) that you are gay upfront?
Answer - No. Well not right away, if within the first couple of hours of meeting them you start talking about your s... (read in full...)
Sex communication trouble......
Q. Sex with my man of 2yrs has never felt good to me, so mostly I just give him oral sex. When we talk about intercourse or actually doing it he discourages me because he can't understand why would I want it or why I don't feel anything. Even if I'm ...
A. 9 June 2011: So let me get this straight, you dont like sex, and you dont like him giving you oral or fingering you either? So all you do is give him oral?
Your boyfriend should not have to understand, this must be awful for him! Yes he gets oral, and I'm sure... (read in full...)
He breaks up with me every summer, and this year is no different! How do I get him back?
Q. my partner have been together 3 years on and off. we seem to have a routine of us getting together September/ October time and him finishing with me in June (this is now the third summmer- he always finishes it). at first we fall in love all over ...
A. 9 June 2011: Look, I know this isnt what you want to hear - but this man doesnt love you, and you are being a doormat. He is walking all over you and you are letting him treat you like s**t.
He cant comitt to you, so one minute he is talking about babies a... (read in full...)
He's 15 years older, went through this age gap thing before, what should I do??
Q. Hi aunts and uncles ofcourse :) For 4 years I was with a man 17 years older than me, from the age of 16 until I was 20. I decided to end the relationship because it had ran it's course and i knew it would never be more than what it was.. I guess...
A. 8 June 2011: Sorry I dont really understand the issue here. You say your dad is strict - yet you are an adult, aged 22-25? How can your dad still dictate at your age who you date? And surely, when you were 16 going out with a 33 year old that was far worse? How ... (read in full...)
I think I am a bit young to deal with this relationship, need advice??
Q. Hello everyone, I am 15 and this story if someone was to tell it to me 2 months ago I probably would of said 'how pathetic and ridiculose' but now I am in a silly situation and need some advice and guidance from someone older. Basically I was on h...
A. 8 June 2011: I think its fine to still chat to him online occasionally, but make it clear to him that you dont want a relationship and only want to be friends.
I dont think you have 'real' feelings for him, you only met him once so it is not possible to devel... (read in full...)
I'm going to be living with her next year and I want to tell her how I feel, but I don't want it to become awkward.....plus she has a boyfriend!
Q. I'm not sure what to do about a girl i like, it's quite complicated but i'll try to keep it short. I'm at university and have been for a year, there's a girl i really like, we're pretty close friends and i'm living in the same flat as her next...
A. 8 June 2011: Quite simply - you do nothing. Reason 1 - she has a boyfriend. If she had feelings for you, she would have left him. However they are still together therefore she clearly has stronger feelings for him than you, so you dont have a chance with her I'm ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be depressed on holiday when I see my friend's figures in bikinis!
Q. I'm going on holiday in two weeks with my best friends, but it's just hit me how amazing they're bodies are compared to mine. One of them is 6ft and she has a great figure that many guys love and girls are jealous of. In fact it's intimidatin...
A. 7 June 2011: I'm sorry if I sound harsh here, I dont mean to be but you really need a wake up call!
Imagine me sat here, aged 24, a UK size 14 and only 5ft 3 in height, currently starving on a Weight Watchers diet, listening to a 19 year old who is 5ft 4 an... (read in full...)
Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?
Q. im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...
A. 7 June 2011: Ok, in terms of health, here is why having a child under the age of 20 is a bad idea:
- Teenage mothers are less likely to gain adequate weight during their pregnancy, leading to low birthweight. Low birthweight is associated with several infant a... (read in full...)
We're in a finite relationship due to our age gap, what should I do?
Q. hi, i'm 18 and live in the uk. I have been in a relationship with a man who is now 50 for two years. My question is regarding what to do because we're in a finite relationship due to our age differences yet i have really fallen for him and he has ...
A. 7 June 2011: Well it depends what you want from life. Are you happy just being with him and dont want anything more than to simply be together? Yes it is a bit odd that a 48 year old man would have decided to date a 16 year old, personally that creeps me out and ... (read in full...)
If I use a vibrator does it mean I'm no longer a virgin?
Q. Ok, this might sound obseen but i ought too ask, ive recently brought a virating 80mm bullet with some lube! now im a 20 year old virgin, if i incert this into my vigina this shouldnt pop my "cherry" right? i get this must sound stupid but i dont ...
A. 7 June 2011: First things first - you dont have a 'cherry', there is nothing to 'pop'!
You have a hymen, which is a membrane just inside the entrance to your vagina - this can be broken as early as in childhood, through sports like gymnastics or horse ri... (read in full...)
How can you be too clingy in a relationship?
Q. Dear all, I was recently dumped for reasons that included in me being "too clingy". I don't know how this is possible as when your in a relationship your meant to be there for each other. Its left many questions in my mind those of which won't b...
A. 6 June 2011: Even in relationships you can be too clingy - it is basically when you dont give each other enough space and become a bit needy/dependent on the other person.
It involves wanting to see your partner too much (you need to have days or evenings... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't return the favor?
Q. Hey, So basically what is happening is that my girlfriend won't return the favour. I go down on her to please her whenever he asks, but when I ask her to return the goods she says, I don't feel like it, or, when it's dark. I know penises aren't t...
A. 6 June 2011: Have a read of this question - it might help you! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/when-girls-stop-giving-oral-does-it-mean.html
In your case, to answer your questions in order:
1. No you are not being selfish - you are giving her oral and she... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 5 June 2011: So you're an 8-4 policeman and a musician, and an expert profiler of people's ages online?! If you really are such a busy man man that might explain why you got my age completely wrong! Try adding another 8 years to your blind guess and you might be ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid for passing up this chance at a great school for a girl who doesn't love me?
Q. I have done things that are quite stupid because I love a girl but she doesn't love me. For example, I got into a school which only take in 5 people in sixth form and this year more than 300 talented students applying because it has 27% of Oxbridge ...
A. 3 June 2011: Well I would not say you are 'stupid' as that is not a nice word, but you have been very foolish, irrational and very silly.
I dont want to offend you by saying that, but you have made a very bad decision and I think deep down you know it. You ... (read in full...)
Where should we go after the cinema? I'm on a budget!
Q. hey everyone im taking the girl that i like who also likes me out tomorrow to the cinema but i wanted to know where should i take her to get something to eat? i don't have a lot of money £50 max would she mind going to mcdonalds or something lik...
A. 3 June 2011: Gosh if you really have so many questions about this date, perhaps put them in 1 big question and then you will get more answers?
Definitely dont take her to McDonalds, that is not a good start! If the £50 is for the full date (including cinema) ... (read in full...)
I really want this to work and need some dating advice
Q. hi ive got my first date tomorrow with a girl who i really like and she really likes me too. i thought about buying her some flowers for when we meet up. were going to the cinema to see a movie and maybe get something to eat before. i've pla...
A. 3 June 2011: You really are asking a lot of questions about this date arent you! It is very sweet, hope you dont mind me answering again (I think I have answered all your questions so far!)
Flowers are a bit much - you are going to the cinema so it will be ... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 3 June 2011: I'm sure this 21 year old boy who is still playing his gigs in parks is not quite on the same level as Steven Tyler! He is hardly a rock god now is he, playing in a local park probably on the bill with a number of other bands!
I stand by my initi... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 2 June 2011: I honestly dont think anyone has said you are a bad parent, and as I have said before - your reaction will be the same as many other parents and it is fairly normal.
Yes your daughter was wrong to go to this concert without asking you, but real... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 2 June 2011: Whoa there, easy now! The majority of us who have answered are not teenagers, and even Foxy7727 said that it is her SISTER who is 17, so try not to think we are all teenage girls ganging up on you!
You are not the bad guy, and I dont think an... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: Lets think about this logically here. What you think happened is this:
Aged 17, your daugther went to a music concert in a park where a band was playing, and she has a crush on one of the musicians in the band. Once the concert had finished, desp... (read in full...)
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