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I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!

Q.   what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...

A.   26 August 2010: Never make yourself sick to lose weight! This can lead to loads of side affects and can give you an eating disorder. If you want to lose weight evercise daily and eat a balanced diet. But you shouldnt have to lose weight to make someone wan... (read in full...)

For all those teenagers worried if they may be pregnant/got their girlfriend pregnant...!

Q.   After reading many posts on this website recently from worried teens about whether or not they are pregnant, I would like to offer some advice to you all. 1. If you have had a period after the incident then it is highly unlikely you are pregnant...

A.   8 September 2009: A great artical, will put any minds at risk. A good read aswel xx... (read in full...)

First-time sex help needed.

Q.   Ok im 17 and I've started using tampons like about two months ago.So obviously my hymen IS broken.But deffinatley not stretched out enough for sex.Last week i attempted sex with my boy friend and when he tryed to go in, it just hurt WAY too much. I ...

A.   7 September 2009: I just lost my virginity recently and the first time we tried it did hurt alot. try some foreplay to help your muscles relax and then try again. But yo said yourself that you werent ready so make sure you know you are ready.... (read in full...)

I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine

Q.   I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try...

A.   28 August 2009: Tell your fiancé what people are saying, sit down and talk to her but if you dont want to then there is DNA tests. But no matter what the results are will you stay with your girl and bring the kid up as if it was your own? Was your dad always there ... (read in full...)

I want a proper girlfriend but am worried about my small penis

Q.   Will she be disapointed by my small penis? My penis is 4 inches when its hard and I have very little pubic hair. I know I'm a late developer but I've been seeing a girl recently and she is coming over, I think its going to go past the 'kissin...

A.   28 August 2009: Have you been with your girlfriend long? If your girlfriend loves you then she shouldnt care about what size you are. Have a talk with her I know it will be hard to tell her but she will listen and understand if she loves you. My boyfriend had the ... (read in full...)

Brother molested me as a child years ago but acts like what I remember never happened!

Q.   I am 52 yrs old and was sexually molested by my brother between ages 7-8. Recently this conversation conversation came up and he told me he had never really abused me. He says that he spoke to other people and that touching me thru the sheets was ...

A.   28 August 2009: My step brother sexully abused me when I was young, but ive never spoke to anyone about, never told anyone. Ive thot bout it but we are kinda close now and he acts like nothing happens. Do what you think is best for you, no1 will judge you! ... (read in full...)

I want to lose my virginity but I'm afraid of being 'bad' in bed. Any advice?

Q.   Im dating this guy who is a little older than me. he is the nicest person in the world, and i do belive i love him. i trust him. etc. and i think im ready to lose my virginity to him. but as hes a bit older hes had experince with girls and i dont ...

A.   7 August 2009: Have you talked this over with your bf? Its best if you work your way up to having sex with him e.g. hand fondeling. and see where things go, it will just happen. you cant be 'bad' as such in bed cause everyone does things differently, after a while ... (read in full...)

Why does he lose his erection when he's about to ejaculate?

Q.   The sex is great but y does he loose his irection when it's time to cum. The only way he does cum is by oral or a handjob. It's frustrating he can't finish inside me. What can be wrong ? ...

A.   7 August 2009: I agree with what everyone else is saying. Try giving him handjobs/blowjobs and wait till he can feel it coming and just as it is about to grind together and then when he does ejaculate it will be inside you. It will be easier if you just work up to ... (read in full...)

I started my next pack of birth control pills right after the last one so I wouldn't get my period...but I got it anyway. Why?

Q.   I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and i started my period while we were doing it, im on the pill and i knew we were going to be having sex so i started to take another packet straight after i finished the last one so i wouldnt get a period. so ...

A.   3 August 2009: You only bleed when you have sex? maybe there is tissue that has ripped and gets ripped when you have sex with your boyfriend. Im not a doctor so cant tell you why, maybe you should consult a nurse at your doctors =) xx... (read in full...)

Should I give him a second chance or leave it?

Q.   Should I give him a second chance? I've been with my boyfriend for two years. I really do love him. But recently he has been always down in the dumps, alomost depressed i think, and a little emotionally abusive towards me. Even though I know ...

A.   3 August 2009: You have just answered the question yourself, your sad, yur down and its because you dont have this guy in your life! Ask yourself is it really worth throwing away this relationship because your boyfriend is feeling a bit down just now? if yes then ... (read in full...)

I feel he will lose intrest in me if I don't become more intamate

Q.   Hey :) So I recentley started going out with this really great boy. And things are great, he say's he loves me alot, and that he wants a long serious relationship. However, I am 14 years old, and he is 16, and I'm not a naive little girl, and a lo...

A.   3 August 2009: I know exactly where you are coming from but if you dont feel comfortable about having sex yet then you aret ready. You are being very mattuer about it but if you just give in and do what doesnt feel right for you then you will regret it, trust me. ... (read in full...)

I'm going to put all I have to say to him in an email so how do I write it?

Q.   A year after I met my boyfriend I found out he was cheating, we argued and split up for two months. He contacted me via MSN and we got chatting again, within three weeks I went running back because I was still in love with him. I thought because he ...

A.   3 August 2009: STOP! Before you send this email you should talk to him. You can think what to points you want to bring up until the next time you meet him. If he does love you he will listen to what you ave to say and if not . . . he will just say he doesnt care. ... (read in full...)

Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection?

Q.   Females: How do you react when a guy is hugging you and he gets an erection? Do you act flattered? Are you usually disgusted? I hug this girl from time to time and I always get an erection whilst hugging her. I used to find it embarassing unti...

A.   3 August 2009: When I hug my boyfriend I can feel his erection sometimes, its definately a 'turn on' for me cause it makes me feel loved. but you should find out what each of the girls feelings are towards you as it will let you know yourself where you stand xx... (read in full...)

My First Time

Q.   So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...

A.   31 July 2009: Im very sorry to hear how your bf treated you, I hope that you are ok now. Im 18 and im still a virgin but I like you had frineds bragging bout it but I jus didint seem ready. I hope you find a guy that you love and he loves you back, because it is ... (read in full...)

A warning from one teenager to others . . .

Q.   This is for the teenage girls who purposefully try to get pregnant, because they think they are 'ready' or they think it will be 'cool' to carry a baby around in there arm or have a belly to show off, or it will keep you and your boyfriend together ...

A.   31 July 2009: I started reading this artical thinking not another silly little girl getting pregnant, but I am far wrong! you have got a great mind on your head, and although your parents are shocked im sure they will help you through. You are going to be a great ... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can completely get over him?

Q.   Hi - I need help in getting over this guy. I have had an on and off crush on him for ages. Some of the time I feel like he's amazing and would so be the right person for me - but then other times he just infuriates me (he doesn't deliberately do ...

A.   30 July 2009: I know exactly where you are coming from, I have been through exactly the same thing! You should try and to see this guy as your mate. I found that telling how I felt was hard but it told me that he wants interested and just wanted to be friends, ... (read in full...)

I am desperate for help and need a way out of this!

Q.   I've been struggling with a situation for months now and recently things came to a head I just couldnt bear it anymore. I'll try to be as brief as I can about a complex situation... I'm gay and have a partner but she and I have had ups and down...

A.   30 July 2009: From what I can tell you arent happy in your relationship anymore? have you sat down and talked about what you have just said with your partner/close friend/family member? your not alone out there so dont feel that you are! the girl from your work ... (read in full...)

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