I consider myself a straight male, but I have this urge to be sexual with a man, what do I do?
Q. I consider myself a straight male, had a few girlfriends and only find women attractive and view as partners. But I have this urge to be sexual with a man, to be as I know it as a bottom, there's just something that really excites me, I don't want ...
A. 6 October 2015: For starters, just chill! Sexuality is fluid. There is no rush or even any need at all to label your sexuality. Straight, gay, bisexual, asexual... it's really more of a spectrum than a list of single-choice tick-boxes. And no one has the right to ... (read in full...)
I met a guy that's everything I want (love at first sight) but he's in a long distance relationship. I don't want to break them up, nor do I want to be the man on the side. I really need some advice!
Q. I'm almost finishing my first term at University, but not all is amazing. Around then end of October I met a guy (Same age as me, same Uni year), and he is literally amazing. If there's any proof that love at first sight exists, he's it. I mean it ...
A. 12 December 2012: Sadly, I've been in a fairly similar situation, and you only have two choices: either hang around like you are now, putting yourself through all that distress again and again in the hope of a slim chance they may split and then he'll magically want ... (read in full...)
I love wearing briefs, am I the only one who does this?
Q. Hey all. Am nearly 15 and am gay. I love wearing briefs. But if anyone found out i wear them they would take the mick. So i wear boxers over them. What i want to know is am i the only one who does this or used to do this. Cheers. Xx =)...
A. 11 April 2012: im thinking of starting to wear primark briefs, i already wear boxer briefs :) forget other people, they're morons! or just do the brief and boxer combos on days people dont see you in your underwear which i presume is P.E. for you haha... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to him but can't imagine having sex with him
Q. Long question alert..... So basically I've always thought I was straight until I started getting close with one of my friends; I need to lay out the whole story so bear with me... -I'm from and attend university in Brighton, the most liberal ci...
A. 2 April 2012: Well put by Honeypie if a little harsh... youve gotta take a long hard look in the mirror and decide what you're into. Only you can decide whether you are sexually attracted to boys. Do you ever think about guys in a sexual way? (I dont mean in ... (read in full...)
A friend suggested my crush was gay. Am I just wishful thinking?
Q. ok my question is a kind of long a complicated one, im a gay, 18 year old male from ireland. so, i have this friend, lets call him john (: weve been friends since i was about 14, and he would of been one of the first people i ever came out t...
A. 8 June 2011: sadly there is no easy way :( i "fell in love" with a straight guy last year (excuse the quotes... but i just dont believe that ive yet experienced real love haha) and now ive dated a few guys since him and now have a boyfriend... but yet he still ... (read in full...)
A friend suggested my crush was gay. Am I just wishful thinking?
Q. ok my question is a kind of long a complicated one, im a gay, 18 year old male from ireland. so, i have this friend, lets call him john (: weve been friends since i was about 14, and he would of been one of the first people i ever came out t...
A. 1 June 2011: woh, woh, woh, woh, woh!
back up
"two years later i and two other friends were heading to limerick city, we were waiting for our train when john decided to tell us that he had slept with michael not so long ago."?????
he told you he slept ... (read in full...)
Do I keep ignoring my ex and try to move on, or should I text her back?
Q. So me and my ex broke up about a month and a half ago after 2 yrs together, and she started dating someone else a month after we broke up,which REALLY hurt me,but instead of freaking out about it,i told her that i still wanted to be friends with ...
A. 1 June 2011: all i can think is that maybe after all that time... she doesnt quite understand that you don't belong to her anymore, even though you are not in a relationship now. Maybe ignoring her isn't the right way to go about it... try sitting down with her ... (read in full...)
I'm bi-curious and my friend thinks I like her but I don't!
Q. Im bi-curious and im kind of confused. My friend at school found out im bi and now she thinks i have a crush on her. I tend to talk to her nervously because shes one of those people you shouldnt say or do anything weird near, as she is in on and ...
A. 31 May 2011: its all okay to be confused like this at your age :) the first step is to just relax... when someone i know thinks that i fancy them i just confront them and tell them that i don't.
as for your second question, im not sure what straight girls ar... (read in full...)
Could my crush be gay?
Q. I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be ...
A. 31 May 2011: i agree with Jac2b55... its a very sensitive subject and to accuse him of being a lie and living a lie is highly unfair on him! saying that he's not the guy you thought he was simply because he is gay is also highly unfair on him! being gay doesnt ... (read in full...)
Do I keep ignoring my ex and try to move on, or should I text her back?
Q. So me and my ex broke up about a month and a half ago after 2 yrs together, and she started dating someone else a month after we broke up,which REALLY hurt me,but instead of freaking out about it,i told her that i still wanted to be friends with ...
A. 31 May 2011: that was really strong of you to do what you did and not get angry at her
tbh i dont think it's fair of her to start asking you to talk to her when you asked her to give you some space and time
if you are still not ready, and i would be surpise... (read in full...)
Is there any point in telling my dad that I'm gay?
Q. My question is... Is there any point in telling my dad I'm gay? I have been out to my mum and friends for a long time now and I'm happy but I still feel like I'm hiding, my dad moved away before I was born and left my mum, he has had two other kids ...
A. 31 May 2011: do you love your dad? does he love you? if so then surely he would not care if you are gay :) my bf told his mum last week that he was gay and he that he has is going out with me :S but his dad is extremely homophobic apparently :/ so be careful... ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if there's a chance for us?
Q. Dear Cupid, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-date-or-just-2-friends.html So I and my new friend went to that restaurant on Wednesday, before and after that he came to my place and we chatted for many hours and they were beautiful. I am ...
A. 30 May 2011: keep up the "dates" :) next time you take him back home.... offer him a glass of wine... or a beer depending on your taste ;) ... if you feel that you can trust him... and that he's not a gaybeater or anything dodgey like that... just casually ... (read in full...)
I'm gay only on the internet. Is this normal?
Q. Hey, i need some help, i don't think i'm gay or bi, i love girls, i like them. But actually i like jerking off with boys in the Internet via different chat or something like that. Few time ago i watched gay porn, now i like jerking off wih boys, i ...
A. 30 May 2011: are you ever sexually aroused by girls? i'm gay but i still appreciate the female form (much to the confusion of others) but i'm not at all aroused by women. if you too are not then its likely that you are gay... and there is nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)
Could my environment make me gay??
Q. i am 16 years old, when i was 13, i liked girls very much, i imagined sexual fantasy with girls. but now, after i entrance to high school, high school for men, just men, in this school there are no girls.. i start imagine sexual fantasy with boy. i ...
A. 30 May 2011: hey :) just wanted to say i agree with the two peeps below... but are you really sure you were never gay before? i know for certain that i used to try and force myself to fantasize about girls... being gay is not a bad thing... and as for asking for ... (read in full...)
Could gay/bisexual guys possibly fancy effeminate ones?
Q. First things first, I'm an 18yo gay male, and have been wondering quite a few things for a while. A description of self: I'm gay, and I've been out of the closet since the prehistoric. I act, think, and talk like a femme, and somewhat dress, b...
A. 1 May 2011: I imagine there to be more of a range, or spectrum, of effeminacy. I myself am in the middle. I dress reasonably well, I care about what others think about me and I LOVE a good musical! However if you heard my voice, you would have no idea that I ... (read in full...)
I want to tell everyone I'm bisexual. How should I come out?
Q. My whole life people believed that I was a straight guy. And no that I'm 17 going on 18 I want to start living my life without any fear of being rejected, that people would actually be there for you no matter which sexual orientation you belong. ...
A. 22 March 2011: I hope your parents took it ok! :) when i came out I just told my close friends and changed my "Interested in" on facebook! it slowly got around by that means for me and all but the odd few people accepted me still.
Good luck! :)... (read in full...)
Is writing an anonymous love letter a good way to test the waters?
Q. Is writing an anonymous love note a good way to approach my crush who is one year younger than I am? We stay really close everyday since we study in the same school. I can't live like I'm not going to die someday so I thought this idea was fun and ...
A. 22 March 2011: I like this idea :) it's so sweet! however a few things....
1) does he know you are gay/bi? ...if he does then this may be a clue to him as to who sent the letter(s)... if he doesn't you will probably give him a big shock that is if he doesnt h... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to experiment with him? As a FWB? He's not sure of his sexuality
Q. Hi :) just need some help. There is a guy in my year at college. He has told me he is unsure of his sexuality and that although he likes girls there is a guy he likes. I really think he is cute and really like him. I can't decide what to do as I wan...
A. 22 March 2011: @Boonbridge i like the idea of playfighting ;) thanks for that tip
@heartfullalove thanks :) I think I will go for it :) but now I just need advice other ways to go about it? as i said I like Boonbridge's idea but other suggestions would be cool ... (read in full...)
Several guys and I don't know which way to turn....
Q. okay so im a gay guy in college... i dont know what to do as there are a few guys that im either involved with, partially so, or just fancy them. Guy number 1: gay, same age, really nice, same height as me, good body, we are "seeing eachothe...
A. 8 January 2011: aha loved your answer thankyou petina1 :) i shall definately try and relax about it... you're right serious relationships are few and far between at my age :) x... (read in full...)
Is this younger guy at school crushing on me?
Q. Hi... straight to the point... there is a guy in school... he is 14 and i am 17 (and gay)... basically as its a small school I have become familiar with most of the faces and being gay I watch all most of the guys in particular. I don't know what to ...
A. 8 January 2011: Thankyou all for the feedback :)
@AvgGuy1 i like your idea and i will deffo see if i can find a way of engaging him in a convo some time :)
@Mifbla not too sure about the confronting him head on :S wouldn't know what to say... i dont know anyt... (read in full...)
I only asked her out on a date because it was a bet, now I'm having trouble brushing her off!
Q. I've gotten myself into a fix and I need help as soon as possible. A few months ago, a friend and I made a bet. She told me that if I could get this girl's attention and ask her out on a date, I would win some money from her. Let's call this ...
A. 5 January 2011: erm... sorry to anyone who has answered the same before but TELL HER STRAIGHT (double meaning not originally intended) THAT YOU'RE STRAIGHT! you are leading this girl on even if she does seem a bit unhealthily attatched to you... and telling her ... (read in full...)
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