Friends? Should I treat my best friend the way she treated me?
Q. Hey everyone... I have a quick question. So my best friend ( x ) and I were both single. She met a Guy and we both was happy about it. Because who wants to be alone all the time? So when she was dating him, like very happy. She would pick him o...
A. 4 October 2011: I used to have a friend like that and she always chose her boyfriends over me. The only time she ever comes to me is when there's really nobody to hang out with her. In the end our friendship didn't work out (but that wasn't the only factor ... (read in full...)
How do I start talking to this gorgeous girl, when there are things I regard as impediments to starting a relationship with her?
Q. alright, kind of a long question here. There is this girl in my class at university who is really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things, first, i am really really shy and usually have problems starting conversations with ...
A. 2 October 2011: One of the most attractive qualities in a guy would be confidence. So I guess it wouldn't hurt if you put aside that shyness and just go up to her and talk to her and introduce yourself. If you're still uncomfortable at that thought, maybe you can ... (read in full...)
Am I the only person who doesn't like casual sex?
Q. Firstly, I want to say that to those whose opinions vary from mine- I respect your choice and this is not meant to be 'anti-promiscious' in general, even if I personally am for my life. I am 25 and in my first year of college. I am loving it her...
A. 7 September 2011: I don't believe in casual sex too. You're not the only one out there cos my friends don't believe in casual sex as well :) it's sad that ppl out there choose to live their lives like that. But just stick to your principles. Things will always work ... (read in full...)
Is my friend toxic? she seems to nick friends off you. Is she too much trouble?
Q. Hi. I have one friend who I spend more time with than anyone else. We were at school together, we’re at uni together and we’re even sharing a house this year. She’s been one of my closest friends since I met her but she can be pretty annoying...
A. 5 September 2011: I feel sorry for your current predicament. I had a friend that sounded a lot like yours too. Sadly even though I've tried telling her that what she did is hurtful and mean, she did not heed my advice. The best thing is to just tell her what she's ... (read in full...)
17 and never been kissed!
Q. This is really lame. I'm seventeen and I've never kissed a guy. It's not that I haven't had the opportunity, I just want it to mean something. I've started kind of seeing this guy, and obviously we're going to have to kiss sometime soon. I ...
A. 4 July 2011: Just avoid garlic before you kiss :P But usually the guy'll know what to do. And just go with the flow ^_^ It'll just occur naturally. All the best! ... (read in full...)
We get along well, the conversation flows, but I can't get past his looks
Q. I need some advice and please don't judge me or think I'm being conceited i just have no other way than to put this bluntly. You know how when you are out, you see those couples where they don't suit....Well, this guy who i get along with really ...
A. 1 May 2011: I'm facing the same problem here. Many people would think that I'd date really good looking guys. But honestly speaking, where can you find a guy who has such chemistry with you? The last guy I dated was good looking but turned out to be a jerk. ... (read in full...)
I'm bi, do I have any chance with this girl?
Q. I'm girl and I'm bi. I'm in love with this girl, who is my normal friend (she only comes to talk to me in break time and we're not in the same class. ) she is straight and doesn't know I'm bi. she is kinda friendly, she always holds girl's hand and...
A. 31 March 2011: I don't think so :( She already stated that she's straight. If se's bi she'll probably be dropping you hints. Sometimes I do such stuff with my friends too so I guess it's pretty normal for girls to do such stuff so maybe you shouldn't read too much ... (read in full...)
What top should I wear with this skirt? I want to surprise my partner.....
Q. I have a gray skirt, with a dark blue stripe right at the bottom. It's pretty elegant and I need ideas on what blouse / top to pair it with. The stripe makes it difficult, I think. I'll wear it in an elegant context, maybe you can give me some ideas ...
A. 31 March 2011: I think the best choice would simply be a white shirt with V neck cutting :)... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell her. Can someone help me with this?
Q. Hey. I am crushing on a girl right now. We met one and a half years ago, but never talk and aren't close. I don't see her often, so my main form of communication with her would be through digital means. I have been rejected a couple of times be...
A. 29 March 2011: I understand your concerns and worries but if you really like er then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Sure, she might be taken aback at your confession but girls aren't that dumb, if you always talk to her online etc, she's bound to sense that ... (read in full...)
Do nice people finish last?
Q. Do nice people finish last? Lately it feels like i have had it with being nice and innocent and being open hearted if feels like the nicer and honest you are with people, the more screwed over you get. in relationships, work/ friendships. etc...
A. 26 March 2011: I know that feeling. Most of my friends tell me I'm too nice and I always get taken advantage of be it in hw or in other situations.
Sometimes I feel vexed about it because the hypocrites and mean people in my school seem to get everything but peop... (read in full...)
Karma in relationships? Undergoing depression..
Q. I was with a guy for 3 and a half years. He was my first serious relationship, I really loved him a hell lot thus I guess you can say I was blinded. Within months of us being together, he was already flirting and liking one of our friends.. an...
A. 26 March 2011: I've been through a very bad relationship whereby I got two timed so I understand how you feel when tour guy is flirting and hitting on other girls. The worse part was he only came to me when he really needed me and consolin in because his gf was ... (read in full...)
If you join a couple who are dating, is that like cheating if your Bf is absent?
Q. If you aren't with a person like boyfriend girlfriend, and you just go on a date with them. But you are also seeing another guy and you like both of them but not sure... does this seem bad to you? (the seeing two guys at once)...
A. 19 March 2011: I feel that so long as you're single, why not? It's just taking a longer time to know them better before making a better decision on who you should be with. It's definitely better than some girls whom I know of who lead guys on for fun. ... (read in full...)
Afraid to get hurt again
Q. - I been in so many terrible relationships , I can't stay in a relationship more than 6months . Sometimes I start question myself and say is it me ? My last relationship was horrible ; for the longest I was juss an emotional wreck . I was inlove ...
A. 19 March 2011: I was in 2 relationships and the first guy was a jerk and the second guy two timed me. My current suitor is rumored to be a player. So I can totally empathize with you. Like jmtmj said, try being single for :) I'm single and I enjoy every moment of ... (read in full...)
Major Friendship Problem
Q. The easiest way to say this, is that I am having a major friendship problem. The person I used to think was my very best friend and we'd be friends till the end is now getting on my last nerve and I am about finished with her. I don't know what to ...
A. 19 March 2011: Hi I don't really have an advice for you but I had a similar experience e yours a d I hope by sharing it you'd have a better understanding on how to handle it. I had a so-called best friend since 14 and we were the best of friends for 3 years. ... (read in full...)
If you join a couple who are dating, is that like cheating if your Bf is absent?
Q. If you aren't with a person like boyfriend girlfriend, and you just go on a date with them. But you are also seeing another guy and you like both of them but not sure... does this seem bad to you? (the seeing two guys at once)...
A. 19 March 2011: I'm kind of with a guy at the moment but I went out with his friend recently. But so long as you guys aren't doing anything wrong and that you guys are just good friends I don't see why not. :) The most important thing is a clear conscience. ... (read in full...)
How could he do this to me?
Q. Why would a GUY do this? wow am still shocked.? I was with him for 5months..it was great then I had this feeling that he was hiding something, I asked if there were someone else he'd tell me there's no one else I love you so much I'd never cheat on...
A. 15 March 2011: Obviously this guy is a jerk. Forget about him. It's inevitable that you feel this way especially after the amount of feelings you've invested in him. It's painful but you'll get over him in the long run. I met a guy like that before and I moped ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend drifting away? Or am I too clingy?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm in a relationship with this girl that I like and I am facing quite a few problems. We are both students in graduate school. Firstly in a social setting, she tends to ignore me and just chat with others. She doesnt look at ...
A. 25 January 2011: It sounds like she doesn't like you anymore even though she told you she still does. I've never heard of a couple behaving like that before. I was in a predicament like yours before. This guy told me he loved me but he refused to acknowledge the ... (read in full...)
Everytime we make plans to hang out something comes up!
Q. She says that she wants to go out with me and that she likes me, and i like here back, but every time we try to go out something always happens and we never do go out...this is like the 4th time its happened...what should i do...i already talked to ...
A. 23 January 2011: Chill chill. Something probably cropped up ad she couldn't meet you. If I wasn't interested in a guy I would just tell him in his face and make it clear to him. But in your case, she's likes you and would Defintely make time. Just be more patient. ... (read in full...)
Is it my fault there's a distance?
Q. im 15 and my gfs 14 were in the same year and we were going town with some friends yesterday and she was wearing a belly top shorts and converse i didnt want her to wear it but i didnt say nout wen we got to town mmy bestmate was just staring at her ...
A. 23 January 2011: No its not your fault. Guys won't like their mates staring at their girls. STARRING. But then again, be more open about what she wears. She wears what she likes and if guys are looking at her so be it. If you tell her not to wear that, it just seems ... (read in full...)
Even though he is my first, should I stay with him?
Q. Hello, SO here is the thing. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months. I turned 17 yesterday and have had a very hectic few months... to get you to understand i must tell you the whole background. In November 2010 I lost all my hair...
A. 22 January 2011: It sounds like your relationship is rocky and you lack trust. I feel that you should leave this guy. By being with him, you've encountered his nasty ex, rumors about him sticking by you only for sympathy. When 2 people are in love, it shouldn't be ... (read in full...)
My urge to try a cigarette!!!!
Q. Ok so there is this girl i used to like who smoked and we used to talk about it and one day i just sort of blurted out can i try one and ever since then i have an urge to try a ciggerette and i still have not. The girl moved away ages ago. I really ...
A. 22 January 2011: Smoking is unhealthy and I'm sure you know the repercussions it'll bring about to your health. At your age, curiosity makes you feel like trying it out. When I was your age, I liked the smell of second hand smoke and had the urge to try it too. But ... (read in full...)
Do I end it with my gf and also hurt my two children? or end it with the girl I feel is my soul mate?
Q. Hello wise people, I did something I thought I would never do. I had an affair. Now before anyone goes tut, that was me, before it happened. I met this amazing girl at my girlfriend's work. We clicked from day one and it was at first, just the ...
A. 22 January 2011: If you really cared about your gf, you wouldn't have had the affair in the first place. By doing so, you're only bringing hurt to both girls and in your case, your children as well.
I'm not in any position to criticize you but since you've m... (read in full...)
Have you advice for a 17year old who's never had a boyfriend??
Q. I'm 17, female and living in the UK. I know is sounds really lame, but I have never had a boyfriend and I've never kissed a boy either, (apart from playing kiss chase when I was about 8, which obviously doesn't count). Is there something wrong with ...
A. 1 January 2011: There's nothing wrong with being single at 17. You are still young so don't get into a relationship for the sake of getting into one. Many of my friends are single and they enjoy their singlehood. Since there's a guy you want to know better, you can ... (read in full...)
Should you remain friends with someone because you feel sorry for them?
Q. Hi, About a year ago I met this girl. At first I became interested in her because she is very, very pretty and an aspiring actress. I am an average looking man. She was not interested but we became friends anyway. As our friendship progressed, I le...
A. 26 December 2010: I had a friend like yours too. She liked to make use of guys to do her favors and then dump them when she gets bored of them or when they are of no value to her anymore. At first I tried talking to her about it but she just wouldn't listen. In the ... (read in full...)
How do I get through this? He called to tell me to forget him.
Q. I traveled from my country to another one, for a job, leaving my parents, my friends and everything. I met a guy that i loved so much. I liked the new country. Because of him and we spent a lot of happy times and great moments. But I found out,...
A. 25 December 2010: I was in a similar position as you a few weeks ago. I was totally head over heels over a guy who was attached and even allowed him to two time me. However, I left him because it dawned upon me that if a guy really loves you, he wouldn't put you ... (read in full...)
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