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writes:i met this gal a about a month ago we we used to talk almost everyday but now due to my work i got transferred but she in the same area as i work in..we dont talk about anything serious stuff just basic stuff she has a boyfriend in another country i kinda have develop feelings for her and i know she has same for me i had wanted to tell how i felt towards her and take her out this Saturday so i call her up in order to talk and she starts off her bf just just returned and so she traveling Saturday to see him and she gonna go do her hair and stuff so i tell her i wanna see her before Friday cos i will be going off by then and what i just hear from her make me kinda disturbed and confused dont know what am gonna tell her now should i just go ahead how i feel and maybe if she come back we can fix a date and go out some time or i should just forget it i really like this gal and dont want any bad blood come b/n us cos of these..pls help guys really confused Thanks
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 I think you should just forget about it I'm afraid, she has a boyfriend and clearly wants to be with him or she would not be travelling to see him.
If she is ever single again, then by all means, go ahead and tell her how you feel. But while she has a boyfriend it is a very bad idea to try and pursue her, best to back off for now and wait and see what happens in the future.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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