Does he love me or is it the sex?
Q. dear cupid, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years. now he wants to take it to the next level. we have kissed once but we never actually started dating as yet. he met my parents but i have not met his as yet and he is dying for me to me...
A. 2 October 2018: Thanks for all your responses, yes, that guy turned out to be a user. No, I didnt have sex with him and then he broke it off citing " It was because you didnt have sex with me" What a prick. Thanks again you guys!... (read in full...)
Why did he have to be so graphic about this woman?
Q. I sometimes work on the holidays, during school vacation...so... I knew this guy for about two years. We are kinda close but I only would like us to be friends and nothing more. We would talk about many topics: marriage, sex, life...in...
A. 12 January 2011: Thanks everyone. That was really helpful. @Cindy cares, I am not territorial over him. We will ALWAYS be good friends. It is just that, it is so easier to hear about men and their good assests than women. I would not doubt that some women are gifted ... (read in full...)
I get a strange feeling when I'm speaking to him!
Q. hey I am your average 16 year old i drink,party and go into town (clubs) okay im pretty mature for my age! i just dont understand what goes through a males mind all i ever do its get used by them. They say noo this is different your different f...
A. 7 January 2011:
Wow !!!! You are very mature for your age!!! Drinking, Partying, Clubbing!!! Is that even legal at your age...oh listen to me sounding like a parent. I am really concerned about you though.
I want you to be very careful young lady! You say that... (read in full...)
Help! Am I being played???
Q. I am 15 and my boyfriend will be 18 this april. we have been dating for 2 months now. things are changing, we used to text all the time, now he is saying we dont need to text as much any more because he is afraid it will become awkward. he says he ...
A. 7 January 2011: I think I would agree with him on the matter of the 'me time'. I just think what he is trying to say is that you guys text eachother everyday, attend the same school I am sure, see eachother everyday, eat together ....to the point that he wants to ... (read in full...)
He thinks it's a minor detail he left out, I happen to think it's a major one!
Q. My boyfriend and I had made plans for today, but he said he needed a few hours alone so that he could finish working on his jeep. Later I went over and we met some friends for dinner, and one of the girls mentioned that she was over helping him on ...
A. 7 January 2011: Amen to that sister! The only thing worse than lying is cheating. He may not have told you for many reasons; either he does not want you to feel uncomfortable,jealous,mad or he just had alterior motives. Still, the question is at hand, why did he ... (read in full...)
How do I tell an acquaintance I fancy him?
Q. Hey Aunts and Uncles. I was wondering how to tell an aquaintance of mine that I like him? We have known each other for a few years and I have liked him for a majority of that time. We dont talk much, but we are comfortable around each other. A...
A. 7 January 2011:
Firstly, you have to figure out if he likes you or not. Sometimes when we like a person, we never stop to think...'hey does he like me in that way'? If he does not return the same feelings, you may suffer rejection because he may have it in his ... (read in full...)
Why did my teacher act like that?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pu...
A. 6 December 2010: Yes!! So true, Tisha-1. I am a Straight A student..studying is all I do. I know that having a crush on a teacher is not a good thing at all. Infact, my parents and that so called teacher all told me to FOCUS on school and study boys later so it is ... (read in full...)
Why did my teacher act like that?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pu...
A. 6 December 2010: @ Mifbla --- Tanxxx again for the extra advice. I just wanted to get as much opninion on this topic as I can. I want to know how act the next time I see him and to not think he is a cocaine junkie and there is some logical excuse. @ dmartin89, no I ... (read in full...)
Why did my teacher act like that?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pu...
A. 5 December 2010: Thanx for the advice everyone. @ Mifbla, I really believe it could be that he is attracted to me but I do not get the whole fidgetty scene. He is usually very bold and self assured when he talks to me in class. Wonder if it was how I was in my own ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my boyfriend's history!
Q. Me and my boyfriend started dating in January of 2010. It was our freshman year of college for both of us, and we had just gotten back from winter break when we decided to make it official. We had been seriously "talking" since around Thanksgiving ...
A. 4 December 2010: I started to think that this was another one of those American Sweethearts episodes but something changed my mind. The fact that you want to enter into a relationship with a guy who stills sees his ex-----Red Flag! Darling,that is a no-no. If a guy ... (read in full...)
How long will it be, before she regrets our breakup and will want me back?
Q. How long before my ex fiance will sense any feeling of regret or fear of loss? We broke up just a week ago because of something fairly insignificant that got blown out of proportion, emotions were high and we both said things we regret. She told me ...
A. 4 December 2010: You guys sound like you are inlove. I think that deep inside, the two of you still love each other but you rather the other person to believe that you are totally getting one with your lives. You said that you fell out because of somethin... (read in full...)
Why can't he just be man enough to tell me what is going on?
Q. Ok, so i'll start from the top. I met this guy, we'll call him Chris, while I was working my side job as a wedding photographer. He was a groomsman in his brothers wedding, and pursued me from the start. I was not the least bit interested for ...
A. 4 December 2010: Get used to it, men are just hard to figure out. That does not mean that we cannot be the one in the relation to take charge. Chris sounds like a nice guy, the question at hand however is how serious he is about you? sighss Like you said, ... (read in full...)
What was wrong with my teacher?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pursuing ...
A. 4 December 2010: @ anonymous 1&2----- Tanxxx :) I will stop asking him if he is okay. I would not tell him that I think he is a junkie, that could end bad. I hope things are not too awkward when I return to school next week for exams.... (read in full...)
What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?
Q. Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...
A. 3 December 2010:
You are perfectly normal. Everyone has standards in life and just because they are being harsh about what they do not want, does not mean that they are bad. It is the way of life. Now, you mentioned that your girlfriend has gained a few extra poun... (read in full...)
How can I get her back if we never have time for us?
Q. Hello i am an 18 year old guy and the girl i like is 17. We have known each other for 3 years and became instant friends when we first met. The next year we started dating because things got romantic and we ended up dating for a year. Things w...
A. 2 December 2010:
I understand how you feel. If it is your first love, breaking up is really hard. There is nothing like your first love. Even though she cheated on you, I still think you can give her one more chance. The way I see it, she was 17 at the time whic... (read in full...)
Should I be moving on, or should I continue chasing her?
Q. Hello, this is my first time posting qns here... Anyway, there is this girl I like, and she already knew since i had told her. and it seems that she has been giving me several signal that she likes me as well. The problems is that she have several...
A. 30 November 2010:
Sometimes women are complicated. I should know, I am one. The thing about relationships and guys is that sometimes we, as women want to get all the answers before we ask the questions. Women tend to be cautious, we do not put our heart out ther... (read in full...)
She knows I adore him but yet she says he's good looking!
Q. ive been out with this boy about 15 times and im in love with him so much. Were best mates and we flirt alot but recently my over best friend whos a girl has started saying hes good looking and the boy is putting her first for everything do you ...
A. 30 November 2010:
You know, you have every right to be concerned that your sweet and dotting boyfriend is suddenly turning all his attention to your best girlfriend. Usually when a bestie says your beau is good looking it is a compliment most of the time. As girls... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to talk to my crush...
Q. i have a crush on a guy with me in college and it been a year now and im pretty much sure that he feels the same about me too ...or at least was it all started when i noticed that there s a guy (my crush) always looking at me when i pass and foll...
A. 30 November 2010:
Everyone has a little bit of shyness in them. The whole problem is to learn how to control it. The first thing you have to figure out is whether you are shy around people you dont know or everyone in general. If it is the just the one guy then... (read in full...)
No love for a 22 year old virgin
Q. Well, basically I'm 22 turning 23 in February and I'm still a virgin and some times it makes me sick to my stomach to think about it, to make it worse my reserve unit is leaving for the middle east soon, so that pretty much means I can count not ...
A. 29 November 2010: I want to say being a virgin does not mean it is the end of the world. I am a 21 virgin (never had a boyfriend) how do you like that? For the first half of my teenage years, I almost give under peer pressure and got one. Sometimes, when we want ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my future husband finding out I'm not a virgin. Can you fake virginity?
Q. I was in love with a boy since my high-school days...we wanted to get married o.ce we grow up with our parents consent. we even made love many times..we were so much in love. but things didn't turn up as we had expected. he met an accident and is no ...
A. 29 November 2010:
That is a tough one. Like you said, premarital sex is forbidden especially in my community. However, it is not a rare thing as sex before marriage had already crept in. There is a way you can get back your virginity if you like. I heard of many... (read in full...)
Why does my sister in law hate me?
Q. My sister in law hates me. I got pregnant with my now fiances baby after 4 months of being together, it was unplanned, but we decided to keep her and we're still happy together over 2 years later, our Daughter is now 15 months. When I got p...
A. 27 November 2010:
Wow, I had no idea she had to abort her first born. That is a bit rough. Still, I do not think she has the right to be mean with you just because you got to bring your child and she did not. She should be happy for you both. I mean, you guys are ... (read in full...)
How do I make the first move and get him to really want me?
Q. Ok here is the problem my "Friend" always wants me to make the first move but i have problems cause i get shy. When I finially do start I start, then i have the major delema my "Friend" knows how to pleasure me just right he know where to go what ...
A. 27 November 2010:
Well, if he knows that you have never done it before I am sure he would overlook it if you touch him the wrong way. He should love you to a point that all that matters is that you two are together.... (read in full...)
Does ignoring her work to get her to miss me?
Q. Me and my ex girlfriend are going through a time where she wants time to think about getting back together however she is so indecisive and cannot decide and everytime I bring it up she always finds problems with giving it another go even though she ...
A. 27 November 2010: It seems to me that you want her a lot more than she wants you. So, she wants you but how bad??? She is so indecisive about what she wants. You now stuck at a standstill in life and it should not be so because you need to keep moving. Some say, out ... (read in full...)
He's betrayed my trust by going on facebook to another girl!
Q. Me and this guy were not officially a couple but have been very close for a number of months and were planning to be together once we'd tied up a few loose ends, like he was still living with his ex partner etc. However, me being nosey and insecure ...
A. 27 November 2010:
OK, you are right about the fact that he is still single as you said you are not quite official but you would like to be. I find it strange though that he is still living with his ex when he wants to be with you. I do not give you wrong for ques... (read in full...)
I'm 28 and no girl in my life, am I normal?
Q. Dear All, I just wanted to know one thing is it normal not to have a woman in life even when you turn 28. I must am not that bad looking (not to say that it makes any difference). It’s a fact that never had girlfriend. I must admit I do get attr...
A. 27 November 2010: Hey Vince, you are perfectly normally so do not think otherwise. It is a very rare thing for a guy to be that old and not have a girlfrien...yes.. but on the other hand I do not think it is bad. I am 21 and I have never had a boyfriend in my life, ... (read in full...)
Homelessness.....
Q. Hi, everybody well, I know that my question may not related to this site by any way (a site for social advice would be great). but since you are all active and like answering questions. I'd like to know your views on the issue of homelessness. ...
A. 27 November 2010:
People are different in many ways. Some homeless people may choose the streets because they have more freedom. They get to go through the garbages for food, ask people on the streets for money and it could be because most of them are ment... (read in full...)
Homelessness.....
Q. Hi, everybody well, I know that my question may not related to this site by any way (a site for social advice would be great). but since you are all active and like answering questions. I'd like to know your views on the issue of homelessness. ...
A. 26 November 2010:
In every country there is some form of poverty. The level of poverty is different for each and every country. In some countries, the standard of living line may stop at $500 dollars. This means that those below the line are considered to be livi... (read in full...)
I am feeling insecure about him, should I be??
Q. ive been seeing this guy for a month, we met on match.com. We hit it off right away, i was surprised.Well he told me after a few days that he really liked me and that he wanted to see were we could go.So we both agreed that we both only wanted to ...
A. 26 November 2010: Hey, I get where you are coming from. I do think this guy really cares about you. Sometimes, when things do not go our way, as women we tend to imagine many things. Half of these things tend to be true and that is why i try not to discourage others ... (read in full...)
Does he love me or is it the sex?
Q. dear cupid, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years. now he wants to take it to the next level. we have kissed once but we never actually started dating as yet. he met my parents but i have not met his as yet and he is dying for me to me...
A. 26 November 2010: thanx alot josephy!... (read in full...)
Does he love me or is it the sex?
Q. dear cupid, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years. now he wants to take it to the next level. we have kissed once but we never actually started dating as yet. he met my parents but i have not met his as yet and he is dying for me to me...
A. 26 November 2010: Thanks Guys, that really helped!... (read in full...)
How do I make the first move and get him to really want me?
Q. Ok here is the problem my "Friend" always wants me to make the first move but i have problems cause i get shy. When I finially do start I start, then i have the major delema my "Friend" knows how to pleasure me just right he know where to go what ...
A. 26 November 2010:
Sometimes, making the first move can be a bad or good thing. It all depends on the what amounts to a move and the person we are making the move on. In terms of move, it sounds like you are talking about having sex. Am I right? When making that move... (read in full...)
Does he love me or is it the sex?
Q. dear cupid, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years. now he wants to take it to the next level. we have kissed once but we never actually started dating as yet. he met my parents but i have not met his as yet and he is dying for me to me...
A. 26 November 2010: Thanks Kc 100!... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I miss him even though I was the one to break it off?
Q. So one of my good friends asked me out about 2 months ago. I was so excited, and we went out, had a great time, and started dating for a few weeks. During this time i was pretty stressed out from a multitude of things, didn't have much time for...
A. 26 November 2010:
sounds like you really have a lot of love for your ex. i understand what you mean when you say high maintenance. it seems hard to please people like that. it was a good thing that you broke it off though because of the family problems and the sort... (read in full...)
I think my aunt's sister likes me
Q. Happy Thanksgiving to everybody so, I have a question. I think my aunt's (married into the family)sister likes me or at least is into me. Ok, so one time it was just me and her talking and she said randomly I really like sex and sometimes I wake up ...
A. 26 November 2010:
You know, many people misinterpret the actions of others. So your aunt's sister is unusually loving, caring, sweet? If I were you I would think that she really likes you (not in a sexual way) but as a good friend. After all, you do tell her abou... (read in full...)
Why does my sister in law hate me?
Q. My sister in law hates me. I got pregnant with my now fiances baby after 4 months of being together, it was unplanned, but we decided to keep her and we're still happy together over 2 years later, our Daughter is now 15 months. When I got p...
A. 25 November 2010:
I can honestly say that your sister in law really hates you! i always thought that mother in laws gave the most trouble. i think that your sister in law may be jealous of you. think about it does she have a house, fiance or children? she is sees... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to be in such pain after my first time?
Q. hi well i had sex for the first time today..it didnt hurt but now after im really really sore my legs and everything...is this normal? i know they say it hurts the first time and in the process it didnt not really it was like a bee sting but now im ...
A. 25 November 2010:
first time sex is different for eveyone. It depends on how your body takes it. many girls have told me that they did not feel any pain at all when they had sex for the first time. some said that it was the worst they have ever felt.
after... (read in full...)
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