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27 August 2009: After recently seeing a large number of posts on this site from men asking how to deal with a woman’s sexual past, I wondered why men were so concerned with something that at the end of the day, cannot be changed. So I entered into a conversation ...
For all those teenagers worried if they may be pregnant/got their girlfriend pregnant...!
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27 February 2009: After reading many posts on this website recently from worried teens about whether or not they are pregnant, I would like to offer some advice to you all. 1. If you have had a period after the incident then it is highly unlikely you are pregnant...
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I know we're young, but I want a baby! Is this a good idea?
Q. im 16 and i want to have a baby me and my partner been together some years now and im ready to have a bby i know a baby comes with alot of expenses but we both are working and he's a senior and im a junior. and we have a lot of money saved up ...
A. 7 July 2011: One word - NO. DO NOT TRY FOR A BABY.
In terms of health, here is why having a child under the age of 20 is a bad idea:
- Teenage mothers are less likely to gain adequate weight during their pregnancy, leading to low birthweight. Low... (read in full...)
Is this accpetable behavior from a husband?
Q. On June 30th my husband recieved a text message from a number he didn't know. It was obviously a teenage girl stating she "loves Logan". So he wrote back, "You have the wrong number". She then wrote "No I do not". In which he stated he was just ...
A. 7 July 2011: If I were you I would not believe that he sent 24 texts, all telling her she had the wrong number! He would have given up telling her this after 10 texts at the most, not 24! There is only so many times you can say "you have the wrong number".
... (read in full...)
Did she have a better sex life with her ex? Why wont she talk about it and give details? Why does she have a problem kissing?
Q. Hi All, please help. My Girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years now and we are very close. We are both in our early thirties and are thinking about starting a family. I've been at uni since we've been together and we've been liv...
A. 6 July 2011: The main reason I didnt pick up on the bit about whether she still has feelings for her ex or not is because it seems to me that after 5 years, she cant have feelings that are particularly strong and her behaviour indicates that she is pretty much ... (read in full...)
Did she have a better sex life with her ex? Why wont she talk about it and give details? Why does she have a problem kissing?
Q. Hi All, please help. My Girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years now and we are very close. We are both in our early thirties and are thinking about starting a family. I've been at uni since we've been together and we've been liv...
A. 6 July 2011: Ok I'm going to deal with these issues seperately.
1. Why does she feel like a failure? Because she was with him for 8 years, they shared a house together, probably planned on having a long future together - it is perfectly natural that after an... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 6 July 2011: Stacey will think she is just second best to Anna and wont like that at all so she will say no, and then she will tell Anna that you asked her out and then any chance you had with Anna will be gone once and for all.
Maybe just cut your losses a... (read in full...)
My virgin husband is making me get an std test before he will marry me...
Q. My fiance is making me get an STD test before he marries me. He is a virgin and I'm not. I have been with 2 guys before him. He told me he just wants to be sure I am clean before he marries me because he does not want to catch an std. He is ...
A. 6 July 2011: This is perfectly normal and you should want to have an STD test, never mind him asking you to get one. Each time I have a new sexual partner I go for an STD test because you dont know what you might have caught from a former partner, and it is not ... (read in full...)
I left my husband for him, but he is still living with his wife,,, What should I do now?
Q. Ive been married for 11 years and it hasn't been a perfect marriage by no means. He has been abusive and neglected me. He always did things with his friends and never with me and it got very lonely. I meet a man at work and felt an instant ...
A. 6 July 2011: You cant force him to leave his wife I'm afraid, and the line "I cant leave because of the kids" is the oldest in the book. If he was really so unhappy with his wife, or loved you that much - he would leave, simple as that. There are millions of ... (read in full...)
I don't want to walk away if there's a chance?
Q. Can someone explain why my ex boyfriend is behaving like this? he left me 6 weeks ago after a ridiculous row. everything was fine until then although he has done this once before. hes 16 years younger than me, weve lived together 18 months and he ...
A. 5 July 2011: These statuses are simply attention seeking - he wants to emotionally blackmail you (because he thinks you will be seeing them) and he wants attention and sympathy from friends and family.
He sounds incredibly immature, he must be between ... (read in full...)
Condom questions....
Q. hi this is a slightly embarrassing question but I would like to know the answer. I'm a virgin and my girlfriend has been wanting to do it for some time and so do I but something ocurred to me, that I'm a little worried about. Say you are having sex ...
A. 5 July 2011: If you have ejaculated you MUST change your condom, as chances are your penis will get a bit softer after you have ejaculated meaning the condom could split, meaning the semen could leak out.
As soon as you have come, change the condom - simple a... (read in full...)
Does unrequited passion amuse beautiful women?
Q. We’ve all met them. Gorgeous, intelligent women, who have what outsiders would judge, as beautiful lives. They have success in family and professional life, and in love. I’ve met some who are not only gorgeous and intelligent, but outstanding ...
A. 5 July 2011: I dont like to say I am any of those things you mention, but I guess if people looked at my life I'm sure they would think I have a wonderful life, plus I have never had a problem meeting men since the age of 15 and I often get chatted up despite ... (read in full...)
Teenage age differences, what's the big deal? Were me and my friends wrong back then?
Q. Hi, I was brought up in Australia and many years ago when I was a young fella, I had a quite a large and great social group of friends. The ages of these people was anywhere from 15/16 to 22/23, and probably as many girls as guys. Now there were of ...
A. 5 July 2011: Ok, maybe this is a cultural thing again here - not sure what it is like in Australia, but here in the UK, I would say a significant number of males and females aged 21+ all work, have cars, live in their own rented accomodation (fair enough not ... (read in full...)
To model topless? Or to reduce them?
Q. hey people. So basically i am a very petite 5"2 brunette with 32dd breasts. I have two offers on the table to do topless modelling. A couple of years ago i wanted to do it, but now, i hate my boobs. they just look ridiculous on me and i am seriously ...
A. 5 July 2011: Well I'm 5"3 and have 34E breasts, so I sort of know how you feel. Yes at times I think mine do look a bit too big, but never so bad that it would be worth spending thousands of pounds on surgery or living with very bad scars for the rest of my ... (read in full...)
Teenage age differences, what's the big deal? Were me and my friends wrong back then?
Q. Hi, I was brought up in Australia and many years ago when I was a young fella, I had a quite a large and great social group of friends. The ages of these people was anywhere from 15/16 to 22/23, and probably as many girls as guys. Now there were of ...
A. 4 July 2011: Well OP it seems I may be the only one sort of on your side here, I did say you will get lots of varied responses! Thinking back to my 21 year old boyfriend when I was 16 - it definitely was not ewww as one poster said or creepy, it was very normal ... (read in full...)
Teenage age differences, what's the big deal? Were me and my friends wrong back then?
Q. Hi, I was brought up in Australia and many years ago when I was a young fella, I had a quite a large and great social group of friends. The ages of these people was anywhere from 15/16 to 22/23, and probably as many girls as guys. Now there were of ...
A. 4 July 2011: Well keep in mind, here on DC we have to do the legal bit because if not, the owner of the site could get into a lot of trouble if the parents ever found out that people were encouraging their underage teenage child to have sex. So often a lot of ... (read in full...)
How can I better deal with my father who treats me like I do not count in his eyes?
Q. hey, thanks in advance for reading this. I know I will sound like pretty much every other teenager on the planet, but I'm convinced my dad hates me. He doesnt like, abuse me physically but he treats me like my needs come second to his and I am ...
A. 4 July 2011: Well one possibility is that because you have been away he didnt have chance to ask you? So he has just told you to do it because you are back now and the only one around to sign for it?
He should have asked you anyway, but maybe he had his reas... (read in full...)
Can a girl like me just because of my personality, please help me
Q. I've always thought that looks are perhaps 90% and personality is just there like bonus points, so I never thought a good looking girl would ever seriously like me. To break it short though: I met my cousin's cousin (my age) and she seemed to like ...
A. 4 July 2011: Look, I'm sure you are not ugly, as a teenager you can often feel you dont look great because your body is going through a lot of changes and it can be an awkward transition. But you wont be ugly - it is very rare to find a person who has nothing ... (read in full...)
How can I better deal with my father who treats me like I do not count in his eyes?
Q. hey, thanks in advance for reading this. I know I will sound like pretty much every other teenager on the planet, but I'm convinced my dad hates me. He doesnt like, abuse me physically but he treats me like my needs come second to his and I am ...
A. 4 July 2011: Sorry but I think your dad is perfectly normal and justified in asking you to be around to sign for this parcel. You are at home all day, presumably you have finished school now for the summer or have some time off, so you are around to sign for a ... (read in full...)
Do you think he actually likes me? or am I just wasting my time with him
Q. hi everybody i met a man a few months ago. i really like him and i told him this in a text last week. I also told him i know he is not interested in me and he doesnt want to see me, just wanted to see what he would say. He replied with, 'i do, just...
A. 4 July 2011: Sounds like he isnt interested I'm afraid. When a man likes a woman, he will chase her and make sure he texts & gets to see her.
He is not chasing you, so he is not interested unfortunately. I think it would be best to leave it now, if he wants... (read in full...)
We kiss every time we meet. How do I contain this? Because I don't want it to go to next level
Q. There is this guy who i like and we met up and hung out. But at the end of the night we kissed.. passionately! We met again and ended up kissing, we both know it wont go further than this. We just get caught up in the moment and we like kissing each ...
A. 4 July 2011: If it is just a kiss at the end of the night there is nothing wrong with that, just because you are happy kissing doesnt mean he should presume you will do more than that!
Dont stress about this, I'm sure he is a nice guy and wouldnt try and take... (read in full...)
My married lover now wants a threesome!
Q. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for 7 years. We see each other every now and again and really enjoy each other physically, emotionally and psychologically. He was always honest with regards to his status and that was fine with me. ...
A. 4 July 2011: As much as it may be your belief that no one person can fulfill all your needs, this man does not share this view because he made vows to be faithful to this women until death do him part. So he is simply a liar and a cheat.
If those are your bel... (read in full...)
Will there be something wrong with my baby? Will I be able to keep it a secret that my cousin is the father?
Q. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant by my first cousin but please dont judge me i had no idea he was my cousin till i found out at a funeral but anyways i dont believe in abortion but i wanna no what are the chances of something wrong happening to my ...
A. 4 July 2011: You cant be both parents for a baby, I know it seems like you can manage but it is not fair on the child or your cousin if they never have chance to be in each other's lives.
As the father of the baby, he legally has the right to know about it... (read in full...)
What is more pleasurable?
Q. Just out of curiosity what is more pleasurable vaginal or anal sex for both the guy and the girl?...
A. 2 July 2011: My 28 year old boyfriend has told me he prefers vaginal, he has no interest in anal at all. There's another male opinion for you!... (read in full...)
What is more pleasurable?
Q. Just out of curiosity what is more pleasurable vaginal or anal sex for both the guy and the girl?...
A. 1 July 2011: Well I am female and vaginal sex is far more pleasurable for me, anal sex I have found to be painful and uncomfortable, even with lots of lube.
I dont think I can speak on a guy's behalf of what they would find more pleasurable - I'm sure for... (read in full...)
My married lover now wants a threesome!
Q. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for 7 years. We see each other every now and again and really enjoy each other physically, emotionally and psychologically. He was always honest with regards to his status and that was fine with me. ...
A. 1 July 2011: Sorry this seems a bit strange to me - you say you are jealous about seeing him stare at another naked woman - how do you feel about him having sex with his wife then?! Surely that must make you massively jealous.
If you simply want an answer t... (read in full...)
FWB who has moved to another state, wants to take our relationship to the next level. Now he wants nude pics of mine. Thoughts?
Q. So here's my dilemma, I a 20yr old woman and last year I left a 4yr relationship and I knew I wanted to be single for a while but as we all know not everything goes as planned. A few months after my break up I met a 23yr old guy in November...
A. 1 July 2011: I personally never send nude pics, there is always a chance they can be passed onto someone else or could end up online. Not nice!
Plus I also think they de-value you a bit and it is a bit cheap - not a particularly classy thing to do, and the ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am sacrificing a lot and he is not having to sacrifice anything! Am I being selfish?
Q. In a long distance relationship for 2 years. When my fiancé and I got engaged we agreed that I would move to his city he has a son there from a previous relationship and I don’t have children. It would be reasonably easy for me to find a job there ...
A. 1 July 2011: I think I will deal with these issues seperately (the sacrificing issue and then the financial problems).
I actually think it makes perfect sense to move to his city - he has kids, he cant get a job in your city therefore the only realisti... (read in full...)
Will there be something wrong with my baby? Will I be able to keep it a secret that my cousin is the father?
Q. i am currently 7 weeks pregnant by my first cousin but please dont judge me i had no idea he was my cousin till i found out at a funeral but anyways i dont believe in abortion but i wanna no what are the chances of something wrong happening to my ...
A. 1 July 2011: There are risks involved with having a baby with a first cousin - the statistics vary but from my research on average the increased risk to the health of the child is around the same as a woman having a baby over the age of 35. So yes, there could ... (read in full...)
Will going on the pill mean I will put on weight? Or should I see a gynacologist instead?
Q. i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we'v...
A. 30 June 2011: The weight gain side effect of the pill is actually a myth - despite many scientific experiments and studies, there is no conclusive evidence that it makes you put on weight. Yes it changes your hormonal balance, and if you feel it is having a ... (read in full...)
8 months, when do I take it to the next level?
Q. I've been in a wonderful relationship for 8 months and I'm wondering when to take it to the next level? We're young, I'm 19 and he's 20 but he recently suggested the idea of us moving in together. I would love to and told him so. I wouldn't move in ...
A. 30 June 2011: Well if you are not planning on moving in with him until a year from now, then by the time that comes around you will have been together 1 year and 8 months. That shows you have been together a long time and it would be perfectly fine to move in ... (read in full...)
Am I abusive to my bf?
Q. I am a girl, but I come from a long line of very similar men. I take after my father in personality, and that personality includes some obsessive behavior and addictive behavior. I'm worried I may have also inherited some of the family abusive ...
A. 30 June 2011: Yes you are getting mad in the wrong way - calling him names is emotional abuse, and hitting him is physical abuse. I suggest you seek help from a counsellor or doctor who can help you with your problems and show you how to channel your anger in a ... (read in full...)
Does the guy I have feelings for really like me, or should I just go date the other guy who I like less but for sure likes me??
Q. Hi, please can you give me your opinions on this situation. I met a guy in March this year. We started seeing each other or so I thought. I asked him after 8 weeks how he felt about me. He said it was just sex so I broke contact with him and told ...
A. 30 June 2011: I dont think your ex genuinely likes you or wants a relationship - he told you last time it was just sex so it is pretty safe to say this time round wont be any different. Plus he is always too busy to see you - if he really liked you he would make ... (read in full...)
I loved her but we broke up because I graduated our university. Am I wrong not to re-friend her on Facebook?
Q. Me and my ex broke up after 5 months together just over 4 months ago, reason being I was leaving the town where we studied at university. I was finishing my degree, she was just starting hers. I loved her and I wanted the relationship to continue, ...
A. 29 June 2011: I dont neccessarily think she is being spiteful by wanting to do a bit of Facebook stalking, it is probably harmless, but as you said yourself in your first follow up "she'd rather know what was going on in full" - so she is obviously noticing when ... (read in full...)
Was he just saying that to guilt me back with him?
Q. I really need some help i was with my ex for almsot 2 years. I end it last night because hes always emotionaly and verbly abuse me. And i really did love him but i was tired of him hurting me he'll be good for awhile and try and change but it always ...
A. 29 June 2011: This is called emotional blackmail, it is part of the emotional abuse that you have suffered from him. In 99% of the cases where someone threatens to kill themselves when a partner leaves them, they never go through with it so try not to worry.
... (read in full...)
I loved her but we broke up because I graduated our university. Am I wrong not to re-friend her on Facebook?
Q. Me and my ex broke up after 5 months together just over 4 months ago, reason being I was leaving the town where we studied at university. I was finishing my degree, she was just starting hers. I loved her and I wanted the relationship to continue, ...
A. 29 June 2011: I can tell you now, the only reason she wants to be your friend on Facebook is to do a bit of Facebook stalking and see what you are up to. It is not for 'friendly' reasons, after all, often you dont communicate through Facebook, you just post ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend talking to Ex on Facebook - how should I take this?
Q. So im not sure that my boyfriend talking to someone on facebook that he has dated should bother me. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and this girl that he is friends with on facebook talks to him quite a bit. When i had told him ...
A. 28 June 2011: A lot of people, men and women, are friends with ex's and keep in touch, there is nothing wrong with that. As long as he is honest about it and doesnt try and hide it from you, then you've got nothing to worry about.
If they started meeting ... (read in full...)
How do I end things with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice. I think I want to end it with my boyfriend of 2 months. I dont think we are right for each other. However, it breaks my heart as he is the sweetest creature in the world. I just think the only thing that brought us ...
A. 28 June 2011: Glad it all went ok for you and good luck with your new guy!... (read in full...)
Me and my lesbian partner want to have a baby, how would we go about in vitro fertilization?
Q. hi i am a female and i am in a serious relationship with another female. We have been togeather for just over two years now and we have just been starting to think about the future. We plan to have children however we do not want to adopt but go ...
A. 28 June 2011: http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/article6719152.ece
That article might help you.
The typical way that a lesbian couple will have a baby is by finding a sperm donor (your doctor can advise on this) and then through art... (read in full...)
I loved her but we broke up because I graduated our university. Am I wrong not to re-friend her on Facebook?
Q. Me and my ex broke up after 5 months together just over 4 months ago, reason being I was leaving the town where we studied at university. I was finishing my degree, she was just starting hers. I loved her and I wanted the relationship to continue, ...
A. 28 June 2011: I think you are perfectly reasonable not to want to have her as a friend on Facebook - seeing an ex's life, especially with a new guy is never nice regardless of how long ago you broke up. I have 2 ex's on facebook and I always feel weird when they ... (read in full...)
My fiance's sisters think they're going to be bridesmaids at my wedding but I don't want them to be! How do I tell them?
Q. How can I tell my fiance's sisters that they're not gonna be bridesmaids at MY wedding?! They think they are!...
A. 28 June 2011: Just sit down with them face to face and explain that unfortunately they are not going to be bridesmaids because you only want x amount of bridesmaids and you have x people already for those roles.
Be nice about it, it is their brother's wedding ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable that my boyfriend wants me to cut contact with my abusive ex?
Q. Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and everything is wonderful. The only problem is he doesn't want me to have anything to do with my ex because of what happened in mine and my exs past. It was an semi abusive relationship. he ...
A. 28 June 2011: I dont really understand why this is even a problem? You have an abusive ex, and a lovely new boyfriend - why wouldnt you cut contact with the ex? He was a jerk, he hit you - there is no reason to stay in touch with a guy like that! Of course it is ... (read in full...)
Still living with my ex and he is acting like we are still together! What should I do?
Q. My ex broke up with me in January. We still live together due to financial reasons, and have agreed to stay in our current place until our lease is up at the end of the year. I have moved into the spare bedroom and we live as roommates now. ...
A. 28 June 2011: Living with your ex is tough, I have been there myself and it was a weird transitional time between being a couple and being single again - it definitely does neither of you any good and makes everything more complicated. You dont actually feel like ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 27 June 2011: I think you should wait now to hear from her - she will be going through a difficult time, and has got your number now from one of her colleagues so best not to pester her. She did tell her colleague she wanted to get in touch with you but didnt ... (read in full...)
How do I end things with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice. I think I want to end it with my boyfriend of 2 months. I dont think we are right for each other. However, it breaks my heart as he is the sweetest creature in the world. I just think the only thing that brought us ...
A. 24 June 2011: Glad I can help!
Any break up is a shock, even when a relationship goes bad often people are in denial that there is nothing wrong, so the break up would still be a shock.
I know you are only trying to protect him and you dont want to hurt a n... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 24 June 2011: That sounds fine - one word of advice, dont say "I thought" as it sounds like you are being too careful about what she wants to do and what she will think. Women like it when a man is organised and has gone to the effort of planning the date.
... (read in full...)
How do I end things with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice. I think I want to end it with my boyfriend of 2 months. I dont think we are right for each other. However, it breaks my heart as he is the sweetest creature in the world. I just think the only thing that brought us ...
A. 24 June 2011: Sounds like you are making excuses to delay breaking up with him!
Its up to you what you do next - but there is never a good time to break up with him. If you wait for his exams to finish, then you will end up going to the prom with him, then aft... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 24 June 2011: Get a cab - getting a lift makes you look like you depend on other people to get around, that you are not very independent and you use people to be your personal taxi. Not a good first impression!
But getting a cab wont seem odd to her, it will ... (read in full...)
How do I end things with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice. I think I want to end it with my boyfriend of 2 months. I dont think we are right for each other. However, it breaks my heart as he is the sweetest creature in the world. I just think the only thing that brought us ...
A. 24 June 2011: You need to tell him now before it gets any closer to his prom, dragging it out longer will only make things worse.
Breaking up with someone is never easy, and there is no good way to say it - all you can do is be honest, do it face to face if ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 24 June 2011: Dont get her number from her colleagues - they shouldnt really give it to you either to be honest, they should not give out personal information like phone numbers.
She needs to give you her mobile number herself, that shows that she is happy fo... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 23 June 2011: Gosh if you think this is agony you really should read some of the other posts on this site, you will soon find out what real agony and real problems are!
Yes, call her tommorow, thats fine. She is allowed a day off you know, perhaps tomorow ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 17 June 2011: Call whenever you want! Are you actually being serious here? Can you not make the decision yourself when to make a phone call?
Sorry but it seems incredibly odd to me that you cannot make a simple decision such as this on your own, it is just a p... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 15 June 2011: Well if its only a 10 mins drive, surely it cant be more than a half an hour walk? There is no reason not to walk over there and ask her out in person, that would be better than ringing up.
But be prepared for a rejection, the letter you sent mig... (read in full...)
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