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What signs should I look out for when men flirt or are interested?
Q. Having trouble 'reading men's signals' recently... Recently I have 'noticed' a couple of attractive men that I have come to know. When I speak to them there is always a 'nervous' discussion or an inability to look the other in the eye for too long...
A. 25 August 2014: When a man flirts he smiles a lot. Look at you a lot unless he is of the timid type. All is in the eyes. The eyes are so revealing. I agree that a man will never kiss a girl he has no interest. ... (read in full...)
He's great in lots of ways, but he's dull and argumentative too
Q. I have a fiancé whose main points are he doesn't snore, do porn, watch cricket or sports fanatically, tries hard to be attentive, doesn’t womanise or socialise with the boys as he prefers to be with me, doesn’t gamble or waste money, drinks ...
A. 10 March 2010: You only really know a person when you start living with the latter. Now that you are married and sharing your life, you are begining to see how your fiancé is as a real person.
You do not seem to like at all certain aspects of his personal... (read in full...)
Why does it feel like I need to pee after I orgasm?
Q. After I have a orgasm from masturbating I feel like I have to pee, but I dont. Its this really intense sensation that I need to get something out of me, like pee, but I dont have to really pee. What could this be? PS And this happens after I have a...
A. 3 March 2010: I think that it's normal because every time I have sex I pee. And up to now there is nothing wrong with my health. It's just a natural reaction of our body, don't panic. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is too scared to try and have sex again because of the pain!
Q. My girlfriend and I tried having sex about 2 weeks ago and it hurt her A lot because she started tearing up. We have not tried again since then because she said that she's kinda scared that it will hurt her a lot again. Do you have any suggestions ...
A. 3 March 2010: You are still a young man and you may not know a lot of things on a woman's body and how to arouse her. You had painful sex with your girlfriend because maybe you did not excite her enough sexually and she was not wet down there. You should stop ... (read in full...)
Anal Intercourse...what to do to avoid pain and weird things from happening?
Q. Hi yall the name nessa. Anywho I have a slight problem. So my bf's been asking and complaing...he wants to have his noodle doodle up my a*s and to me that's just going over the limit... I don't know what to do I want to satisfy him anyway I can but ...
A. 3 March 2010: I don't understand why a woman should go that far to satisfy a man. If you don't like the idea and is frightened, just tell him the truth. He is trying to make you feel guilty that you cannot satisfy him at all levels unless you accept to have anal ... (read in full...)
If a woman refrained from sex for a year, would she become tighter?
Q. I have a quick question...... someone once told me that if a woman had sex, then refrained from sex for a year she would become very tight down there. Is that a myth or is that true????? -Curious...
A. 19 February 2010: No, I don't think it's true. Maybe after a long period of abstinence, when a woman has sexual intercouse again, it may burn a little if she's not stimulated enough but if she's well stimulated and excited, she won't have any problem. ... (read in full...)
Based on his actions, do you think he likes me?
Q. So, today I was talking with my friends in tennis for after school practice. This guy, let's call him Joe just basically ignores me but while I was talking to one of my friends, Joe comes along and just basically pulls him away from me and they talk ...
A. 19 February 2010: I think he likes you and he is trying to show to you that he likes you by his own means. Maybe he is too timid to tell you face to face that he likes you.
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Is it wrong that my husband discusses our personal life with the mother of one of his children?
Q. Please could you tell me how you would feel about this. I am recently married and have found out that my new husband discusses our personal life and things about me personally with one of the mothers of his children, asking for advice and her view ...
A. 15 February 2010: I agree with caring guy. It depends on how personal these things are. You must understand that he has been with this woman before you, this may explain his attachment to her. He may be taking her simply as a confident. If I were you, I would have ... (read in full...)
He said I could be a stripper at Seaworld because of my weight gain!
Q. I have gained weight in the past 6 years my fiance and I have been together..lately when he gets angry he calls me fat or a pig. He even said to me the other day I could be a stripper...at seaworld. Now he says he won't have sex with me until I lose ...
A. 10 February 2010: No he's not concerned about your health but about his lust. He does not desire you as before when you have put on weight. You should make every effort to lose weight even if I know it's hard but where there is the will there is a way. You will have ... (read in full...)
I treated her bad and cheated on her, ... now I am losing her. How can I win her back?
Q. i am a male 32 yrs old and in a realationship for 6 years with a beutiful woman and i have 5 kids , 2 that are with her and i have treated her bad most of the time and i cheated on her last year and was so quick to have given up on us and now she ...
A. 10 February 2010: You know once you have cheated on a woman, it's extremely difficult to win back her trust. And she must have felt awful. As long as a person is in our life, we take this person for granted but when this person is no more in our life, it's at that ... (read in full...)
My husband treats me like a man, ...I want to be treated like a woman!
Q. Hi, well see my problem is my husband treats me like one of his buddies, like talk to me like one joke with me (depending what mood he is). And will tell me take this or carry this not like a book like heavy stuff chairs from upstairs to down ...
A. 10 February 2010: After reading your long story, I can deduce one thing. You husband does not seem to care about you at all as he ignores you in front of another woman. He prefers to give more importance to the other woman than you and you immediately become ... (read in full...)
Help! I have a crush on my boyfriend's younger brother!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a silly, on-going crush on my boyfriend's younger brother. He doesn't know, and I'd NEVER tell him or do anything - but I secretly fantasize about him, and I always have dreams about him if I've seen him during the day. ...
A. 4 February 2010: If you fantasise a lot on him, it means that you are very attracted to him. No matter what you do, these feeligns will not go away. You find him more appealing than your boyfriend and you will continue to have such feelings. I know it sounds wrong ... (read in full...)
I'm too old to have a crush like this, ..but I can't get over it.
Q. I am a non-traditional student(well over 21) at a university. Last semester I got the impression that my professor, whom I liked very much, may have been interested in me. He doesn't know my true age. At the end of the semester he worked a comment ...
A. 4 February 2010: I suppose you are aged between 26-29 years. So why do you view yourself as too old to have such a crush. Is there an appropriate age to have a crush. You know we cannot control our feelings and we do not choose whom we will fall for. I understand ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend constantly observes my eating habits and makes me feel bad about my weight!
Q. hi I was looking for some advice. My Fiance and I have been together 10mths. He is a great guy. the problem is that I am a bigger girl and he is skinny and tall. he wants to help me lose weight and not have any health problems down the road, but he ...
A. 4 February 2010: I agree with pinktopaz. Just as you do not fit his ideal maybe he does not fit your ideal too. If you told him to change certain aspect of his body to fit more what you prefer, how would he react? He is not perfect either.... (read in full...)
He says he won't be with me forever, so wants to be my first... what do I do?
Q. Okay I'm 13 bout 2 bee 14 my bf is 14 and he is not a virgin but i am.he tells me how much he cares for me and sometimes he gets alil freaky over the phone and he always tells me that he knoes that we won't be together forever so he wants to be my ...
A. 5 January 2010: You already know the answer to your own question. Yes, he only wants you in his bed that's all. He has no other interest in you. If you are a cheap girl and want to lose your virginity to such a short minded guy, then go ahead. But if you value ... (read in full...)
Dating a 15 year old girl at 24, for some reason, her mother in not keen...
Q. Im 24 and ive been dating my gf for awhile now, she is only 15 and i love her more than anyone ive ever been with including my ex fiancee and she tells me shes in love with me to. Is it foolish to think this truly is love that she could be my ...
A. 5 January 2010: Please don't feel guilty for falling in love with a girl much younger than you. Love knows no barriers. However, I find that the others are perferctly right. You should not be in a hurry to have sex with her if you do not want to get trouble with ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend touch me?
Q. I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 18. I've been with him for 6 months, and I'm completely in love with him. He's my first "real" relationship, as in the first that didn't revolve around sex. He cooks for me all the time, he keeps me entertained every ...
A. 4 January 2010: Maybe, he is under the impression that by not touching you he is respecting you. Even if he considers you only as a friend, I find if weird that he avoids all physical contact. I think that in his childhood he may have been abused as he has a real ... (read in full...)
Was it my hymen breaking that caused the bleeding?
Q. I'm 13 years old and have been worrying for a while. In In September I was playing w/ myself, and was fingering myself. At 1 point I took advice from a friend and tried using a marker. I don't remember any particular pain that night. The next day, I ...
A. 4 January 2010: I don't think it's your hymen. In fact, hymen upon breaking nver bleed for days, there is very little blood. As fullvee has pointed out, I think you are having your periods and since you are still young, your periods are not regular. It's very ... (read in full...)
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