I want my wife back from this other man!
Q. My ex wife and I were together since we were 20. Got married at 21 and had our first kid at 23; each proceeding child is 1-3 years apart from the last. (We have 5 kids.) We got a divorce 4 years ago because, somewhere along the line, we stopped ...
A. 28 October 2011: Im going through a divorce now,but it so much i feel i need to tell my husband so much things unsaid. If you are serious about your feelings i say you fight for your love. Dont let her marry.that man. She not over you. You guys have years compared ... (read in full...)
Is it right for my husband to leave me despite having a high risk pregnancy to go on holiday?
Q. i have been married for a few months. i am 34 weeks pregnant, with a history of heart disease, and classified high risk pregancy. my husband lobied for a paid for 2 months vacation out of the country with his employers and really excited about it. i ...
A. 28 October 2011: I cant believe he would leave u at this time in your oregnancy. This is the time you need him the most.He is being selfish, and has no consideration of your feelings at all. Then you have to care for his two kids and the baby by yourself. Whose ... (read in full...)
What if I don't ever become happy and live unfullfilled? Age isnt on my side and its so hard seeing my friends getting married and having kids
Q. Im 29 and im at that point of life where im worried that things wont turn out they way I had hoped! I have a 7 yr old daughter which I had from a serious 5 yr relationship. Since that ended 5 yrs ago I just have had so bad luck with men, all the ...
A. 28 October 2011: I think the right one will come along. Just have patience. I know its hard to see all your friends married and happy. Keep in mind your on the outside looking in. I just turn thirty, and im getting divorce. Dont rush into anything because you think ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and on bed rest which is why I'm living with my parents, but should I move out?
Q. i never thought i'd be in a position asking people for help but i have no real friends that at this moment i would care to really hear what they have to say . you see I'm married and just recently i found out that i'm now expecting my 1st baby in ...
A. 20 October 2011: Tell hubby to send more money so you can move to a friend or one of his family members until he comes home. Your peeps are out forself... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for getting a lawyer? His custody demands and visitation nonsense are a problem!
Q. Going through an divorce, and its killing me. the problem is we cant agree on visitation. He calls at the last minute or he dont show or call. If I agree, he doesn't wasnt to tell me where my daughter will be. Im eight months ptegnant. He is not ...
A. 13 October 2011: Well he would find out tomorrow, he should get the papers in the mail. I just cant deal with the argueing and inconsistancy of when he want to see his daughter. I feel like he trying to make my life miserable.... (read in full...)
My husband left me so I got someone else. Husband wanted me back so I got an abortion for him, now he doesn't want me
Q. Help please.....my life has taken a complete turn. I was with my husband for nine years. Married for six.separated for two years. Well he left me two yrs ago. I died that day. Well I was so hurt and in grief I met someone whom I liked. My husband ...
A. 6 August 2011: You guys are right. I have had time to heal from that abortion, and I refused to go through it again. I'm blessed to have a beautiful daughter and a son on the way. I'll be ok, and tough it out for my children, and you right been down a rough road... (read in full...)
My husband left me so I got someone else. Husband wanted me back so I got an abortion for him, now he doesn't want me
Q. Help please.....my life has taken a complete turn. I was with my husband for nine years. Married for six.separated for two years. Well he left me two yrs ago. I died that day. Well I was so hurt and in grief I met someone whom I liked. My husband ...
A. 5 August 2011: I do work I make a decent amount of money. I think im just scared... (read in full...)
Married woman's marriage in trouble. Can I be there to pick up the pieces?
Q. Hey guys. First time here. Hoping you can help. I have feelings for a woman who is married. She is going through some hard times in her marriage right now and seems to be struggling about whether to stay with her husband. We have been having ...
A. 28 May 2011: Honestly back off. . . She is an emotional wreck. I was in her shoes and still is give her time to cope. No one likes a rebound and she might end up blaming you for her marriage getting worse.... (read in full...)
40 weeks and no sign of labor starting
Q. im 40 weeks and my baby's head is not yet straight down and im showing no signs of labour soon as im not dialating or anything. what do you presume my doctor should do?...
A. 23 May 2011: With my first baby I didn't dilate at all they end up inducing me at 43 weeks. I only had 30% fluid left in me. Then my baby heart stop dropping and they rush me for emergency c section. I was going to the doctor every week then every two to three ... (read in full...)
I am dating my supervisor. We are discrete. Should I stay at this job or move to another?
Q. Hello, I am in a weird situation here. I work as a nurse aide and my supervisor and I have been seeing each other for two weeks now. He is so sweet to me. He always tells me how pretty I am and brings me flowers. When we are at work we keep it ...
A. 8 April 2011: I'm dating a co worker its sometimes hard tho be.discrete. If the relationship is serious someone should leave. This can be very dangerous as far as you guys job its concern. Gossip in e workplace is no fun trust me.... (read in full...)
Her excuse for sleeping with my brother is that she thought it was me! Should I believe her?
Q. A few days ago my twin brother and I had our birthday party at our apartment. Our girlfriends were at the party with a few friends. We had quite a bit of different kind of liquor. Then I guess I passed out. In the morning, my brother's girlfriend ...
A. 7 April 2011: I swear to god this happen to me when I was a teenager. I thought I was fooling around with the twin I was dating. When I realized he wasn't my boyfriend he wouldn't let me up. Keep in mind that your brother owes you more than she does. He knew ... (read in full...)
What am I getting out of this relationship?
Q. I'm confused right now. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. I live in my own house and he lives with his family. We meet at my house and go out occssionally. My problem is that I don't think he cares about me. He was supposed to come to my house ...
A. 5 March 2011: He might not know how to treat a girlfriend. I wonder if he is the only child thes are usyally the guys that lack concern and care and may seem a little selfish. He made not even know he giving off the signals he dont care. Good luck... (read in full...)
My husband pays full maintenance for his kids from his 1st marriage, and that leaves him with hardly anything for our household!
Q. My husband has 2 children from his first marriage, I don't have any and we do not have children together yet. He pays maintenance for the kids regularly and in full. The problem is that there always seem to be extra expenses and things they nee...
A. 5 March 2011: I think that him paying extra should be only if he have money left after covering child support and what u guys have. His responsibility is also with you and the household you guys share. I think you should remind him of that too. I dont think your ... (read in full...)
Why do men think they can get away with cheating?
Q. I am 43 and have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. He is divorced with 2 children and I have 2 children. His teenage son introduced him to this woman a year ago and evidently they were attacted to one another. I discovered the ...
A. 1 February 2011: What he did was wrong. Honesty would have been best. One year and he moved her in. im so sorry he did this to you... (read in full...)
Why do men think they can get away with cheating?
Q. I am 43 and have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. He is divorced with 2 children and I have 2 children. His teenage son introduced him to this woman a year ago and evidently they were attacted to one another. I discovered the ...
A. 31 January 2011: What he did was wrong. Honesty would have been best. One year and he moved her in. im so sorry he did this to you... (read in full...)
3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?
Q. Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...
A. 31 January 2011: I been separated for over a year I still grieve, im bitter, im surely not the same person I was going in. I started getting counselinh from my paster and a dr. Im not done still have a long way to go. I wish you luck on regaining your life. You ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I tell if I'm pregnant?
Q. Okay... well me and my ex were going out for about 9 months till we broke up. Sex between us is very good, we both enjoy it. I love my ex and he loves me. His a great guy very respectful too. I think it was a week after we broke up we had sex, he ...
A. 23 January 2011: You can tell by your breast, morning sickness and your appetite. Have you missed a period would be a start? ... (read in full...)
Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality
Q. I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...
A. 11 January 2011: Looks aren't everything. I can't tell you who to be with. The fact is you lied any you been two timing the whole time. The question is do you deserve them. Now there is a baby on the way. This adds more complications. I don't think its fair to be ... (read in full...)
Every time I check her emails it is a bad surprise...so how can I trust her?
Q. OK, weird situation here. I have a friend who is a girl and I am a guy (last time I checked hahaha). Anyway, don't ask how, but I figured out how to check her email. Yeah I know it's low. But the reason I did it is because I wanted to see what kind ...
A. 5 January 2011: If you go looking don't we always find something. Your problem is you attached to her. She is your friend, not your girlfriend,fiance, or wife. Why would you even invade her privacy. I did that to my bf one time, I felt so bad I told him, I felt so ... (read in full...)
She's getting too much attention after losing over 100 pounds!
Q. My girlfriend is and always has been gorgeous. I love her dearly and since we've started dating she's lost over 100 pounds! She looks even more incredible than I ever could have imagined although she was always stunning to me. My problem is ...
A. 5 January 2011: Congrats on her weight loss it takes much dedication. You are a wonderful man for helping her lose weight and encouraging her. (How about a round of applause). Be happy that other men are attracted to her, but guess what she with you. Don't get ... (read in full...)
Can a one night stand turn possibly turn into a relationship?
Q. Hello Can you ever get together with someone after a one night stand or have you completely blown it?? Any opinions?? Anyone ever got with anyone after this?? ...
A. 5 January 2011: I have heard that some relationships start from a one night stand. Some of them even get married. I think it depends on the maturity of the two involved.... (read in full...)
For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?
Q. Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...
A. 5 January 2011: I have talk to a guy before that wasn't circumcised. I cant be intimate with him. Personally its a turn off. For i am very affectionate person. Then again if someone really cares for you it shouldnt be a problem because love is suppose to be ... (read in full...)
Threesome gone terribly wrong...my husband is in love with her, my life is a mess and I'm pregnant with our 4th child!
Q. I feel like I'm at my wits end. I am so conflicted about what I should do that I am in a constant state of depression where it's almost debilitating. It all started about a year and a half ago. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we ...
A. 4 January 2011: You must love heart ache.and pain. This man is getting the best of both worlds. You been giving him the go ahead the whole time.while he disrespect you in your own home. Are you serious. Then you let the little tramp in. where are the kids at? How ... (read in full...)
What has gotten into my wife?
Q. Ok, Not sure what has gotten into my wife, have had a strange New Year thus far. Anyhow, leading up to the New Year she is making her resolution list and out of the blue comes up with an idea and leaves the room to write her thought down, me...
A. 3 January 2011: Seem to me she showed you a side you never seen. I can't speak on her feelings. I know when the mood is right and I have a good drink being champagne or dark liquor oh please believe it's going down.I think she made of had a bit much and was really ... (read in full...)
My fiancee wont let me leave the home unless I have a baby sitter! ! Should I cancel the wedding?
Q. Ok, here's the thing. My fiancee and I have been together on and off for 4 years. we have a 1 year old and I have a 6 year old. My fiancee has a problem with parenting. He wants to be dad when its convenient for him. dont get me wrong, he is a good ...
A. 3 January 2011: He has a serious problem those kids are his kids as well. Especially when you guys get married. He needs a wake up call. Maybe you guys needs counseling first. This is seriously bothering me. He not the babysitter he is the "father" period. Its his ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and boyfriend hit me
Q. I need some advice badly. So my boyfriend and I got into an argument. It was really bad, we were yelling and stuff, it was bad. Then he hit(punched) me in the face. I slapped his face and then he shoved me into the wall. Then he left and went...
A. 3 January 2011: Please don't bring a child into that mess. Leave him, and Im glad you hit him back. Theses guys have no respect for women these days. The baby doesn't need to be around domestic violence.Did you call the police, file a complaint anything. Save ... (read in full...)
Two timing me with my bestfriend and not telling me
Q. I was getting involved with a man, who I had met one night, later down the track we both had feelings for each other and both knew about it. Seeing he had lost his license, I was making the effort in seeing him and making the time to be there when...
A. 3 January 2011: Don't let this man, or relationship define you. Your best friend seems a little bit backstabbing too. He was wrong for leading you on and playing you for your best friend. Don't give him the satisfaction of even letting him know he got you upset. ... (read in full...)
We are broken up but my ex allows me to sleep with her and hold her
Q. Hi... I need some opinions and help. I've broken up wif my gf already. It's something not easy to do. So, I called her up at 3am in the morning after not contacting her for about 3 days. Asked for her to open her door for me. She did, asked me what ...
A. 3 January 2011: The break up is recent, and you guys still have feelings for each other. I use to let my ex do the same thing only cuz i felt so comfortable with him. we just use to lay together. The love is still there. Maybe you guys need to reevaluate the reason ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from an affair but lied and told the father I had an abortion. He'll find out about my lie soon enough!
Q. Hi, I recently found myself in a very difficult place and any help would be most welcome but please don't tell me I am a bad person as I feel awful anyhow... I have been engaged to a lovely man for three years and we have a twelve month old...
A. 30 December 2010: All i have to say is that it takes two. Don't sit up here and put the blame on her. He shouldnt of never step out this marriage. It takes two to tangle. Im not passing judgement but they both had made some pretty bad decision. Also innocent people ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from an affair but lied and told the father I had an abortion. He'll find out about my lie soon enough!
Q. Hi, I recently found myself in a very difficult place and any help would be most welcome but please don't tell me I am a bad person as I feel awful anyhow... I have been engaged to a lovely man for three years and we have a twelve month old...
A. 30 December 2010: All i have to say is that it takes two. Don't sit up here and put the blame on her. He shouldnt of never step out this marriage. It takes two to tango. Im not passing judgement but they both had made some pretty bad decision. Also innocent people ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it. What should I do?
Q. i am 43 and my boyfriend of 2yrs is 27 i just found out im pregnant and i already have 3 kids he has none we are very serious and i thought he might be happy about this but he is very unhappy says hes not ready and does not want it.. what should i ...
A. 30 December 2010: I must say this is oh so familiar. I cant base my life decision on you. But Im going to say this, I listen to other people about having another kid. I ended two of my pregnancy because i felt force. Make your own decision or you will lived to regret ... (read in full...)
Help. Baby daddy family drama part 2.
Q. My son's biological father, we will call him Cord, died in June of 2009 he was drunk on father's day and fell off of a roof. My son was six months old at the time. 1. Cord was never there for our son even before he died. He never helped me financ...
A. 30 December 2010: You sound like a protective mother, and you want what's best for your child. You are right they seem crazy and I wouldn't want my baby around that trash. Michael is right let them go for now, if they wanted to see your son they need to get their ... (read in full...)
How bad is the occasional kiss when you are married?
Q. My situation.... I have been in a committed relationship for four years, married for the past two. I adore my husband - he is everything that I could possibly ask for in a partner, but I cannot seem to keep myself in check when it comes to othe...
A. 30 November 2010: An occasional kiss is very bad if you married it open the doors to an affair. A kiss is felt through emotions which you have already displayed. Don't think you were ready for marriage. Question will you care if he did the same. Would you care if he ... (read in full...)
Should I invite my enemy to lunch?
Q. Hi there is this woman at work who invent s things against me and what not. accused me of screwing her husband and always spreads bad rumors about me though everyone I talk to does not like her. I wondered if I should simply invite her out to see ...
A. 30 November 2010: What's that saying "keep your friends close but your enemies closer. I think you should invite her to lunch come to a certain ground and find out what the hates about and why. It could just be rumurs or jealousy. But be a woman about it and get to ... (read in full...)
Choosing between guys AND whether to abort or not!
Q. Well guys I'm stilled confused. My husband left me about eight mths ago and now I"m pregnant with another guy's baby. My husband recently contacted me with the hopes of us getting back together. When i went to see him he ask if I was pregnant and I ...
A. 20 November 2010: I will like to thank everyone for their advice. I did decide to abort unfortunately. I did regret it but it was the best decision for me. I'm in a better place and I did leave the other guy alone.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is bi-curious, what do I do?
Q. Hey! I'm new to this but I need some advice. A few months back I discovered that my boyfriend had made an adult match maker account of us behind my back and put some sexual pics of us on it. I monitored it for a while.. found out the password from ...
A. 4 April 2010: The best thing for you to do is leave him. ... (read in full...)
Not pregnant but haven't had a period since August
Q. Hey everyone, My question is a health one. Im 18 years of age and i started getting my periods when i was 11. I havent had a period since august and this is really strange because i used to be really regular like i was always saying how lucky i ...
A. 3 April 2010: When was your last pap smear? Are you getting your annual physicals done? I think you should go to the nearest ER and let them run test. You seriously need to see a doctor something is wrong.... (read in full...)
The condom split! How do I tell Mum I want to keep it?
Q. Hey, I've recently had sex with my boyfriend but the condom ripped i'm only 13 an yes I know I am under-age an silly, but I think I want too keep the baby if I am pregnant, I know there is a-lot more to it than just having a baby! But I will look ...
A. 3 April 2010: I was still playing with my baby dolls. My advice to you is to get a pregnancy test and find out for sure. After you get the results tell your mom only if its positive. At this time in your life you definitely need your mother help.... (read in full...)
I supported him during his separation and he repays me with lies
Q. i need advice please. i dont know what to do regarding my work colleague. he started the job we're in 8 months ago. his wife left him last year and hes used me as a huge emotional crutch which ive been happy about. i really like him, hes funny an...
A. 3 April 2010: No more tears! Girl Cheer up ! He is clearly a liar. Why would you want a man like that or a friend. Thank god he showed you what a jerk he really is. You see his wife left him. It takes a lot for a woman to leave a man alone. She packed her bags ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied to me about another woman so I broke up with him. Did I do the right thing?
Q. my boyfriend of a year has been talking to this girl at work he says nothing is going on but i do not know! today someone texted him early in the morning he said that it was her but it was a forward text so i believed him. then she texted again an...
A. 3 April 2010: I think that you did the right thing. If you make it easy for him to lie to you he will do it all the time. Only because he know he can get away for it. Why would he lie about this girl? If it was innocent he shouldn't of lied about it. Stay strong!... (read in full...)
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