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writes:I am almost 16 years old, and I haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know, there's no rush and I've got 'tons of time to find the right one'. But what I don't understand is why girls who are constantly cheating and doing awful things to their boyfriends somehow keep getting them.What about all us nice girls? Why don't we ever get dates to the dance? Why is it that we're the ones left out in the cold while some girls break up with one guy only to get a new one a week later.What am I doing wrong? I'm fairly smart, pretty average looking, and there's nothing obviously awful about me...why isn't there a guy for me in my school when there are ten of them for every other girl?!Sorry to be whiny...I guess all the drama surrounding homecoming has finally gotten to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): I know exactly how you feel. People getting together with others all the time while you don't ever get anything? Hard. Same for me. But I can tell you this much: The girls who get boyfriends every day have boyfriends who does the same XD they are not happy with that even though they seem like that. People want someone they can be close to all the time and loves you eternally much. But those people are hard to find I'm afraid. Your the kind of girl who can't get a boyfriend right away. But you ARE gonna get one. Trust me in that. And you are gonna get one who truly loves you while the others are still searching. Don't feel that life is unfair to you. Think about your own qualities and focus on them to get what you want. A one and only.From: The li'l helper.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (3 September 2007):
 Gets on ya t***s doesnt it! I know what you mean but i think Beckybadger is right there. Would of put the same thing myself!
Hang on in there. When those immature girls, that think putting out gets them luuuuuuuuuuurve, are being messed around left right n centre by dead beats, you will be with someone that actualy gives a sh** about people and living the good life with him, with no rollercoatsers and issues!
Something to look forward to ey!
Enjoy it!
C xxxx
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reader, BeckyBadger +, writes (3 September 2007):
 They always say that the nice guy finishes last, in some cases its true, at teenage years you will always find that the girls who cheat, and do horrid things to their boyfriends are the ones that feel most insecure in life.It happens all the time no matter what age you are, girls can attract 100s of boys at the same time because they use their body to show how insecure they are, thats why the boys go after them because they men usually think having 'dirty' fun with them, then dump them, thats why the girls try to get there first.Trust me on this one, you will soon find that the boys will come to you looking for a steady relationship beacuse you are a strong person who doesnt need a man, although you long for one, never let them see that it bothers you.By the time they finally see that the 'pretty' girls are just a bunch of hormone driven jump sticks, they will always look for the good girls to settle down with, to prove everyday that they love them and dont just want to have their way with them.Your not doing anything wrong, just keep to your ways! Be flirty but never slutty! thats the difference between a onenights stand and a 'keeper'Have fun at homecoming,Im sure that at the end of the night you will have found someone who thinks your special but never rush,Good luck and have fun, hope I helpedBeckyBadger x
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