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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Ever since he got a girlfriend he acts like he doesn't want to be my friend any more...

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1 November 2010 (F) - Okay, My guy friend and me have been great friends since 7th grade, we're in 9th grade now. Well, just this past summer I got his number and we started texting. Not during the day, like I'd text him at 2 am or some stuff like that. We'd text alot, ...

How do we fix this without breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I need help, a lot of help. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 months. It has been all lovey dovey, but recently we have been arguing a lot more. I hate it. I don't know why we argue so much, I don't really even know what we argue ...

I'm thinking of breaking all contact off with my mother!

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1 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupids, I need advice about my mother, i am so sick of the way we are always arguing, i am beginning to wonder if it is best to break off all contact with her. She constantly puts me down, tells me that i am a horrible person, i am not...

Hey what's the deal?

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1 November 2010 (F) - he says he doesnt want to be with me anymore ever again and that he has let go of all his feelings for me. and that he isnt in love with me and probably never will be again. when i got kicked out of my house he opened his doors for me (i know h...

How do I leave this abusive relationship for good?

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1 November 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my on and off boyfriend for almost two years now. He can be such a sweet and charming man but he can also be a psychotic bully as well. All of the problems started when I moved in with him away from family and friends. I always ...

Where did my macho guy go and who is this wimp?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - hey i need advice, my fiance has turned into a right wimp. when i first met him, he was this matcho man, very confident and could handle himself, he used to do MMA, now hes a right pussy. i touch him and he says ouch and hes always hurting himself. ...

My boyfriend is non stop and I'm losing my mind!!!

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1 November 2010 (F) - I'm between a rock and a hard place. im with a guy i love him dearly. hes good with my daughter, he works, he dont have any drug habits, hes smart, hes everything ive wanted in a guy. the problem i have with him though, is that he is always busy, he ...

Is thing going anywhere or should I let go? If it is going somewhere, then what?

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1 November 2010 (M) - What are my feelings? What are hers? Did I upset her by mentioning the other girl when we had dinner? Is she having feelings for me or concern? A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a yea...

He's watching porn... is he a player? Am I too ugly for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Hi everybody. I need you to judge me. My boyfriend said I'm too jealous. We been together for 3years on and off. I always check on his stuff. Like his cell phone, computer. I always see what he been watching on the internet. I found out last pas...

How can I just forget the fact that her male-friend likes her?

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1 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are celebrating our anniversary, and I make it noted to everyone. Write it in my facebook status and im proud of her and i for coming this far. She drops the "so my friend told me he likes me" bomb and i dont know how to deal ...

How can I get over a break-up when there wasn't one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - I feel so pathetic for writing this but I'd really appreciate the advice. My boyfriend of four years just left me. Told me three days ago that he was coming over the next day to break up with me. Well, he never showed up, and I kept trying to call ...

I want to fight to get him back but he has cut off all contact with me, and my friends don't seem to understand!

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1 November 2010 (F) - I am still very much in love with my boyfriend who broke up with me 3 months ago... I cant get over him at all, and my friends dont seem to understand they slag him off all the time when i bring him up and try and talk to them about my feelings.. ...

How can we grow as a couple when we cant even get one day to ourselves because of his mom!

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1 November 2010 (F) - Thanks in advance for all advice. Ok I have a live in boyfriend for 1yr in my home - yes we split bills - right off the bat* Now I really love him and can look past some sexual issues he has (pre ejac, lack of drive)- He feels horrible and has...

Do I tell her that her boyfriend slept with me?

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1 November 2010 (?) - I'm in fairly tricky situation at the moment. For the past year and a half me and this guy had a serious thing going on. Anywho, we broke things off, and he got himself a girlfriend, whilst I stayed single. A few months after, he randomly co...

Do I want to be with my boyfriend, or his best friend?

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1 November 2010 (F) - i know i like my bf's best mate, it all started like this me and my bf live together and we have being going throught a rough patch. i dont think he appreciates me enough i do everything for him, we have been together for 2 years now this all sta...

For the men: Do you count on your wives to look after the house and kids, or do you take charge and help out around the house?

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1 November 2010 (F) - i want to know how many guys out there who work full time are married and have kids. when you get home from work do you spend time with your kids, help with housework, dissapear and do your own thing? i dont mean to sound rude but im just curious ...

His ex wife has not told anyone they have split up, and he is allowing this! What should I do?

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1 November 2010 (F) - Need advice. I'll try to keep this as simple as I can, but it is complicated. I'm separated for over a year and a half. I have been dating a man for the past 13 months who has been separated for the past 7 months. Yes, that means he was married ...

Why do guys come back to relationships after it is already too late?

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1 November 2010 (F) - I recently had a guy (ex-fiance) come back after 3 f'ing years telling me what a loser he was for letting me go, that the whole break up was his fault and I was the girl of his dreams.. begging me to marry him, he totally had to let go of all his ...

Does the fact that he has difficulty feeling love and empathy mean he's a narcissist?

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1 November 2010 (F) - Does the fact that he has difficulty feeling love and empathy mean he's a narcissist? He has admitted to me that he doesn't love easily. He has had several relationships before me (one that lasted 2 years!) and claims that he never loved his prev...

Delayed ejaculation or not?

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1 November 2010 (F) - I ve been with my current bf for almost year and a half.i m 19 and he s 24.Its a long distance relationship,and we see each other every week or two.He is the first guy i ve slept with,so i dont have lots of experience with this but 4 almost a year ...

I don't know where I am going wrong in this relationship!

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1 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone; Been with my ex girlfriend for 5 years and been lived together for the past 2 years. Im 26 and she is 22 so we been together since she was 17 and i was 21. While we been living together she left me 5 times but 4 of them took couple...

How do I stop getting ahead of myself? We have only been together 3 months but I cant help think about the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to rein myself in. I have a new bf of 3 months. I'd been single for 9 months after splitting with a guy I was with for 8 years. I never expected to meet anyone, and he is lovely, kind, handsome, caring...

How can I convince her mum that I am good guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (?) - hello again look i am deeply in love with my gf and all i want to do is be with her but her mom prevents me from seeing her. now my gf and her mom aren't necessarily close my gf doesn't like her mom because of her childish behavior and stub...

How do I make her want me?

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1 November 2010 (F) - i'm doing an open long distance relationship with this girl, and i am bi. i really like her but she doesn't seem to like me as much. i haven't talked to her in more than a week because she never replies to my inboxes on facebook even though i know ...

Am I right for getting upset about him smoking pot? Or am I just being controlling and he can do what he wants because he is his own person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i are incredibly close... he is one of the most important people in my life, and he means everything to me, but last night i went to a halloween party with him. it was us, and some people that we work with. when we first got to the ...

Have I done something wrong or was it the situation which made me act this way?

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1 November 2010 (F) - i am in a commited long distance relationship since 1 year 4 months.i have messed up very badly.i really love my bf and even he loves me a lot but now i have created a big mess. in the month of june,there was a misunderstanding between me and my b...

Am I being insecure and wrong by assuming the worst?

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1 November 2010 (M) - After over 3 years of break and make up with my wifes online infidelity and her denial,and again being convinced she was sorry,i now discover a web cam in a box. Am i being insecure and wrong by assuming the worst? I am not even asking her about it ...

Help! It's complex and I'm in hell!

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1 November 2010 (M) - So me and Lisa have known each other for 8 years, as my landlady who I used to board with (Linda) is her mum’s best friend. I went out with Lisa’s older sister around 6yrs ago, and it lasted for around 18mths. Anyway, the break up wasn’t good, and ...

Should I consult my daughter about possibly dating her close friend?

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1 November 2010 (F) - Here is a story. I am a woman in my early forties. I ve been told i look 10 years younger, and everytime i say i have a 24 year old daughter, eyebrows are raised. I m divorced from my childs father for many many years, but we managed to stay g...

She believes what we have in our relationship is enough, but I am unhappy! What can I do?

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1 November 2010 (M) - hi, i'm a 43 year old divorced male in a subsequent relationship of 7 years. i have 3 children from my previous marriage and a 5 year old daughter from my current relationship. i think i am going crazy as there is nobody to talk to. i need your ...

I'm insanely jealous of his ex!

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1 November 2010 (F) - Hi I could really use some good advice right now as I'm steadily destroying my relationship with my boyfriend of nearly a year. I met him after he'd been split from his long-term(8years) girlfriend and mother to his two children 6 and 3. She...

My mother is a hoarder!

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1 November 2010 (F) - My mother is a compulsive hoarder. I'm the exact opposite and like to keep everything neat and tidy, but every single room of the house is overtaken with her useless shit. Living in a house full of clutter for most of my life and getting hurt while ...

Why am I so unlucky in love?

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1 November 2010 (F) - What's wrong with me? I'm 25, single and lonely. I have a 3yr old whom I have raised as a single parent from pregnancy til now (with help and support from my amazing family), I have a good job, an active social life, a positive outlook, an above ...

I am average to say the least and cannot ever compete with these guys!

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1 November 2010 (M) - I am so gutted, my sweet and innocent 20year old girlfirend turns out to be not so sweet and innocent. She has slept with many many many men including black guys with what she says had enormous dicks and white guys with 9inc dicks. I am s...

His busy life is getting to me, what should I do for the best?

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1 November 2010 (F) - Well hello there. :) I'm here just like half the other people here. Advice on a relationship. Here's my story; My boyfriend and I have been together for a little amount of time. Not the longest relationship on the record but it's a decent one. We're ...

Cheating on my boyfriend with my next door neighbour and falling for him, how do I show how much I care?

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1 November 2010 (F) - ok so i am in a relationship that i have been in for over 7 years now and i have been seeing someone on the side for about 3 months he is i guess you can say he is my booty call. he has a is in a relationship also with a woman for about a year now. ...

Please help me get over him!

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1 November 2010 (F) - I like this boy even though he's in a relationship. I've only met him once but I completly fell for him. I was looking on his wAll on facebook and he's saying "best girlfriend ever" "couldn't ask for a better gf" "I love my girlfriend" then people ...

She's pregnant and I'm not in love with her

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1 November 2010 (M) - Ok im not in love with my girlfriend but she's pregnant. Don't get me wrong i wana and gona give my baby everything she needs ( yes its a girl) but me and just don't see things eye to eye we argue a lot. Wat should I do cuz i wana be n my child's ...

I hit my wife after she kicked me, but my son saw the whole thing. How can I make this right?

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1 November 2010 (M) - we have been married for four years, mostly good times, but when we fight it gets ugly, and yesterday for the first time ever i slapped her after she kicked me during a very heated fight. the worst part about it is that this all took place in front ...

Does he love me even though he has a girlfriend?

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1 November 2010 (F) - Does he love me? Am 27y and he s 51y.He s my closest friend.He s always here for me and we kiss a lot in a friend way.We care a lot about each other and cuddle a lot. We work together all the time. he has a grlfriend for 6months.I am single.b...

I'm in love with a married man!

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1 November 2010 (F) - Hello. I am a Christian. My boyfriend (a Muslim) and I have been dating for some months now. We are so crazy in love with each other. At first, everything was just perfect. He gave me no reason of doubting on him and at some points I really ...

My fiance has been cheating for the last 3 years! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 November 2010 (F) - Please help! I have been with my fiance for over 7 yrs and just found out he has been cheating on and off for the past 3 yrs! I am scared to be alone and would take a huge financial hit if we separate as we own businesses and real estate together. ...

If he cant orgasm through a hand job, what will happen when we have sex?

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1 November 2010 (F) - hi, well i have a question for guys i dont know what to think, my boyfriend and me we dont have sex but we try hand job he has see me naked and i think he likes because he always has an erection when he see me naked or when he touch me but he never ...

Made a mistake that changed everything...

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1 November 2010 (F) - My story begins with a guy who I have been dating for 9 months...we have had our ups and downs like any other couple. He is very sensitive, very insecure, and very emotional. He is a thinker can overthink things fast, he is also very irrational ...

My Fiance's sister in law is a monster

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1 November 2010 (F) - Hi, My fiance and I have been together for almost a year now and have a great relationship. At the beginning though, his ex wife made things very difficult for us because she was stuck on getting him back. What made things even more difficult t...

My boyfriend's behavior has turned me into a clingy, obsessed person. I hate that!

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1 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend messed me around for a year, flirting with girls, metting up with his ex in secret. We talked it through and we're still going out, but it has turned me into a clingy, obsessed and overthoughtful person. And I HATE that. I hate what I ...

What does"I don't want to hurt you" mean?

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1 November 2010 (F) - Ok so I really don't understand how stupid,yes stupid,guys can be. So about two days ago my boyfriend texts me saying "Hey,lets just be friends" my heart immediately sank and I texted him back asking why. His respong?... "I don't want to hurt you." ...

Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???

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1 November 2010 (F) - I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...