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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He tells me I'm running from a relationship yet we have been dating for the past month and a half!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I am more of the type of person to go from one guy to another and just have fun. Recently though I met this guy and he is really sweet and everything but I just am not used to steady relationships. He tells me I am running from a damn relationship ...

We're more like room mates than husband and wife...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - My huusband and I have been married for 16 years. We've had a lot of ups and downs. September 4th was the last time we split up but we've always got back together. This time we said that was it! He moved out, got his own place, then wanted me to ...

Boyfriend goes clubbing with his bros while I stay at home.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Is it ok for your boyfriend to go to the clubs with his friends without you? I trust him and I didn't care untill one of my friends was like I shouldn't let him? I don't know what to do? ...

Why does he always tell me there's someone else when we fight?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Am i insecure when me and my boyfriend get into a argument he saids he got somebody else thats better than me he dont want me he dont want to sleep with me im a turn off he just living with me cause i let him. am i wrong for being insecure? Then ...

One week she's ogling over rings the next week she's moving out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - OK here goes Me n my girlfriend unexpentedly split four weeks ago, she just started crying and said she could not go on like this and left before i had time to even let it sink in. She moved all her stuff out the next day while i was at work and ...

How can I control his temper?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend of over a year very much. Theres just one thing: he can get a temper sometimes. Heres the thing, when he is stressed, I back off and let him sort it out and focus on things to try to help us relax. When im stressed or havi...

I hate being like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - Since i was born I've been surrounded by mostly women. My dad was around but he was absolutely useless that my mum just kicked him out when i was about 10. He didn't run away with another woman, he was kicked out. That's how pathetic he was. Anyway ...

Can the guilt of lying actually get worse with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Can the guilt of lying actually get worse with time? I'm trying to convince a friend that lying to his partner about something he knows (or he strongly believes) would make her reconsider wanting to be with him, will only get more difficult for him ...

How can I know if he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - For quite some time I have failed to find someone to love. Being 27 and gay in a country where homosexuality is regarded as a deadly sin, I could hardly find a way to find someone to fall in love with. Eventually, 5 months earlier, I did. He is 17, ...

He says he didnt cheat, it was just flirting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I'm a single mom, I'm 23 and I've been dating this guy that I've known (not intimately) for 2 years. We've been dating for a month. He said that he loved me first and he's told my daughter that he loves her. I believe that he's truly genuine and ...

This female friend of his is sticking her nose in where its not wanted! What can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. When we met for the first time, he was with a friend who was a girl, and she had made a comment to him that "he was going to marry me someday". Anyway, as much as that was a cute comment, I ...

Is it possible for a woman to think a guy is very attractive yet not be sexually attracted to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I've been seeing my girfriend for a little over a year. (I'm 46 and she's 34) The sex was great at first, and she couldn't keep her hands off me. But, she's gradually lost interest over the past 3-4 months, and does't want to do much of anything ...

I love her a lot and want to get back with her. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I was with this girl for 2 years and 4 months. We've had a good relationship and loved each other a lot. Everything was going fine and all of a sudden she stopped calling me as much and when i call she wouldn't talk the same and would hang up after ...

Should I put up with my feelings or get out of the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my husband for many years but graduallyI've got less and less attracted to him physically. I haven't actually fancied him for ages and now I don't feel right when he touches me, I just tense up.We have kids so I'm having real trouble ...

Why would a person say "If I was not with my current boyfriend, I would have this other guy instead"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - Its just a simple question, why would a person say "If I was not with my current boyfriend, I would have this other guy instead"? What does this show? Should I warn the boyfriend? This guy is my friend and I over heard this from a friend and worries ...

Is it wrong for me to not make up with him and to let him and his mum get on with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have a partner of 7yrs with 2 children,we broke up recently and he moved out and went back home to live with his mum, he is 41.He eventually came back and decided he wanted to make up, he then tells me he has decided to go on night shift and ...

I want to have closure to my relationship with this girl, but I don't know what to say to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - A girl I was with for a long time is moving very far away very soon. She has been with this other guy for over a year now, he is a total scumbag. She and I recently got into a fight, she deleted me on facebook, won't let me in her house, etc. I said ...

My ex barged in on my date, and now he doesn't want to get involved with me! Do I try and win him back or let him go?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - It's a long story, so i'll try my best to cut it down for you! (Thank you for reading!) I was in a relationship for 9 years (since i was 16) with someone i thought was my soulmate. I admit, it was on and off for the most part as he cheated on me, a...

Our relationship has reached the point where nothing is happening and its a bit boring, I want to take it to the next level but he doesn't see the point!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 1/2 years and have been living together for 2 1/2. We get on like a house on fire we are a good team we make each other laugh basically we just get on with it. I want to get married one day but he thinks whats the ...

He has broken up with me 15 times in the last 2 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - hi im 22 years old and my boyfriend is 25, iv'e been with him for about 2 years there's something really wrong with him. in the past 2 years he's broke up with me about 15 times and his exuse is im scared of getting hurt... i keep telling him im not ...

Do I owe my ex another chance like my family thinks I do, or do I follow my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - So my situation is this, I have been living in my parent's house with my boyfriend for five years. When my mother let him come to live at my house he and I were just friends, and had met online. He is from 3,000 miles away, and all of his family is ...

I don't feel I should have to ask for oral sex, especially when I give him oral 2-3 times a week!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost one year and I give him oral 2-3 times per week without him asking but he has only given to me maybe once a month or less. I don't feel like I should have to ask-am I doing something wrong?...

She gets mad at me when I tell the truth so I have to lie just for us to stay together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

17 November 2010 (?) - i really need help! recently me and my gf had a fight and she said i cheated on her when i never did. she believes all the lies she says to herself i had a female friend whom i'd talk to quite often but feelings were only mutual. my gf told me if i ...

I think my now ex-boyfriend has pawned my only valuable item! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - hi you've seen my last question about the guy i need to dump. the title: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-tried-dumping-him-twice-but-he-doesnt.html you need to see what happened cause at the end i have another question. sorry its a bit long. ...

He is still technically married, he lives with his 'wife' and we work with her too! Is it just his papers preventing us from being together officially?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Im 21 and Joe is 28. we've been dating for like a year and a half, hes a cook at a restaurant,im a waitress.he's mexican. i dont know exactly when he came to america, but he is still technically married. heres the nasty part: we work with his ...

I finally started to feel secure in our relationship, but then he called me his ex's name this morning!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months, and we live together. This morning when I woke up, I complained of a headache. He said 'Oh, poor Becky-wecky'. Becky is not my name. It's the name of his ex-girlfriend. They dated for five y...

Did I do something wrong by dancing with his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight couple days ago. he was at a night club with his best friend,i went there look for him.and he introduced me to some of the girls he just met which i was totall ok about it. then all the sudden he said he has ...

I was the other woman but I ended it, now I feel so lost....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I just ended an affair. i dont feel proud of having one. hope you dont judge me for being in one. i was the other woman. their relationship ended not necessarily because he was cheating but because of many other factors. it was just not going to...

How do I get her to have faith in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for over 7 months now. I'm 27 and she's 21. I love her with all of my heart and I can't imagine my future without her anymore. Despite any faults she may have she truly is a good person. However, for the past few wee...

How can I show that I do trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - He thinks I don't trust him, and says a relationship without trust is nothing and so we are over. I'm devastated. I think I do trust him, but have been cautious along the way in case things don't work out. If I have a trust issue, it's not ...

His ex is obsessed with him, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - ive been with this guy for ten years. we broke up then got back together for three years and his ex gf is obssesed with him, posting things on facebook to get me thinking hes still involved with her and tryin to be exactly like me. i had to cut and ...

I have a strange feeling he is not entirely over his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Hi, i am dating a guy for 7 months now, for about a month we started living together. He says he loves me and really takes care of me. Also he works a lot and whenever he is free he spends his time with me. The problem is, that in spite of all i f...

I feel like I have been abandoned by my friends and family when I need them most

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I am feeling so sad and depressed. This has been a bad year with deaths, son being in jail, being sick, getting fired, etc. I feel like I have been abandoned by my friends and family when I need them most. Maybe I feel it was one-sided and ev...

I know I should leave him after his affairs and lies, but I don't want my son to come from a broken home

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - ok so as you can see rom my other posts I have had a really hard relationship with my boyfriend from the beginning, I will just give you a brief run down. We met in march 2009, he cheated on me within 2 weeks with his ex, then in july I feel pre...

I feel she has had sex with so many people in the past that she no longer has a sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - I've been with this girl on and off for 12 years. We never have been together for 2yrs without breaking up until she got pregnant with my 2 yr old son. She had at least 40+ sex partners before me and during our break ups. She now change her views ...

He said he really liked me, slept with me and said he would leave his girlfriend for me, but that never happened! Why did he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - So I travelled to France with a study abroad program this summer. We were all assigned 'buddies' and mine seemed very sweet and helpful. I rarely saw him and eventually found out he had a girlfriend who had the same name as me. I was shocked that he ...

He has a tape of him and his ex together, why does he want to keep it? And what is with all the lies?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 months and everything seemed fine. Then (2 months into it) I found out he was watching porn. I have told him about the fact that I have a problem with it. He looked me in the eyes and promised not to look at it ...

Keeping this secret is tearing me up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I met an old guy friend at a reunion recently. I took along my boyfriend who I love with me. When he was away getting drinks this old friend pulled me aside outside and told me that I was his first love and that he's held a torch for 20 years. He's ...

A past trauma affecting my love life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I've had some issues in the past when it comes to sexuality (imposed affection from an older brother). But now that I am 18 and should probably be thinking of romance, I'm finding it almost impossible to execute it. I've been asked out before...

How come she keeps bringing up her past crappy relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

17 November 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been dating for close to 10 months now, and known each other for about two years. today we got in an arguement while sitting in her car and i swore at her after telling her i never would. now i love her very much and i didnt ...

Working with boyfriend & his family became too much..destroyed our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Don't know how to continue in a relationship. Been together over 4 yrs. 2.5 years ago was asked to join his family business to help out. Didn't know how controlling and verbally abusive his parents (the bosses) were. Always shouting and scoldin...

Web cam adventure is turning into a nightmare! I'm being blackmailed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I did some stuff on cam for a guy once, he recorded it. he lives over seas. and now his threatening to send it to all my facebook contacts, his saved them. please dont say i shouldnt have done that, i know that now. but what do i do about it? if...