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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I break up with him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot, and it's all about really dumb stuff. Most of it is my fault, because I have a really bad temper and things make me mad very easily. We've been dating for about 3 months, but you'd think by now ...

Why are his parents being so extreme?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I have a problem that is becoming too much for me to handle. I'm dating a boy a year and couple months younger than me, i'm 17 and he's 16. We've been together for almost a year now. I'm from a foreign country although have been in my current ...

Shall I let him bully me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Where do I start... I've been with my partner on and off for 5 years. We have a daughter together. Everything was great until I fell pregnant then the name calling started. Shortly after my daughter was born I ended an moved out. But about 1 1/2 ye...

All I have learned is that life is a bitch and that no matter what my family is there for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - well my life has just gotten a lot worse, My mom was just diagnosed with Colon Cancer. I don't really show emotion I haven't cried in a long time and Im cold. my family has gone through some tuff shit in the last little while and I don't know how ...

I find it so hard to open myself up to my online love interest!

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11 November 2010 (F) - A while ago I met someone online who I have now fallen for. We both like each other and plan to meet up. However, I'm worried that he might 'give up' and stop liking me because I find I can't really open myself up to him, and I give the impression ...

All I want is answers to my problems with my family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - How do you get over your father not wanting you then finding out he is dying and suddenly he finds you interesting, your step father of 15 years abandonds you, and the guy your mom is dating treats you like a seven year old when your 18 and you want ...

Too fat to be loved!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend(ex) over a year ago... we got along very well spent almost every day together talked for hours and hours and never seemed to care about anyone but ourselves. about 7 months into he he suddenly started to pull away and i felt ...

Boyfriend is sexting other women!

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11 November 2010 (F) - I've been in a 2 year relationship. We broke up last June because he had been sexting a Married Woman. Yes, I checked his phone (1st time) and I found the texts. I broke up with him. He claimed that he had done Nothing wrong because it was only ...

Communicating is an issue with my soldier!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - So me and my finance have been together for a while .. and for those of you who remember me... yes we got back together sorry. well things are going great the only thing that worries me is our conversations because now a days they last less then 15 ...

I don't have the money to lend him!

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11 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been togethere 4 a yr we r verry happy together and we r very open with each other its really nice. well at the moment my boyfriend is in a big financial crisis hes on the brink of loosing evrything he ever built and its a ...

Boyfriend and ex-wife have terrible boundaries, I am not allowed to be around his child!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a divorced guy for 2+ years. He has been divorced about this long as well. His ex-wife lived in another state with their child, but recently moved here to be closer by. She has known he was dating this entire time, and never had ...

Anybody else out there insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I am a really [REALLY!] insecure person. About everything. My appearance, my body, my boyfriend, my friends...it's ridiculous. And I know when I am rational that I AM being ridiculous. It's all those other irrational times (80% of the time!) that I ...

Fiance and I at loggerheads over money!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Please can you help with the 2 following Questions. Background I am 46f, my new fiance is a 50yr male. We live 60 miles apart but see each other every weekend ( we take turn in travelling. He also visits me every Wed. We have been dating 18mo...

Is it wrong that I am having to kiss his butt just to keep the peace so I can see my family at Thanksgiving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - My husband and i have been fighting for a while now. Making up and breaking up. Not litterally him leaving but him saying he wants to and saying ugly things, me thinking it was the end several times. So we fight and we make up and we fight the next ...

Inappropriate ex behaviour?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's ex comes to all his important events - birthdays, thanksgiving, Christmas, when his band plays. She is a good family friend but he cheated on her and that's what ended their relationship. I don't understand why someone who has b...

Shall I take any further steps to win him over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - hi..so here i am..one of the most active, outgoing, attractive (according to many), intelligent gals in my college...involved in robotics projects, alumni affairs, dance clubs etc in the campus..rubbing shoulders and working at par with guys. ...

Barking up the wrong tree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - HI! A fellow townsman and I connected strongly on the basis of some mutual political views and doing committee work etc. We spend a lot of time together doing such things. I know there is a strong personal interest on both our parts, and we give ...

My friend who I still love has come out of his relationship and still loves me, but now I am the one in a relationship! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Heey, Last year i fell head over heels in love with my best friend and i told him, he told me he felt the same way but he was in a relationship. I was heartbroken and have always had a thing for him ever since. I recently go into a relationship and ...

Is our relationship evolving over time? Or...is the distance pulling us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together about a year and half. We are the best of friends and believe that what we have is true love..I have never known a feeling like this. But this fall we both went off to college and now live 3 hours apart. ...

Why does a girl become special only after a guy cheated on her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - After a guy cheats on girl, why does she all of a sudden the love of his life? He starts saying things like: -Your the beautiful girl i wouldnt trade you for anything -I cant wait to spend the rest of my life with you -You mean so much to m...

Is there any way to get rid of this girl from our lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of one and a half years and me were going fine until his ex-girlfriend emerged on the scene. They were in a relationship for eight long years and broke up two to three years ago due to family issues. She used to text him once in a blue ...

One man's whore is another man's virgin. Why is this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - why does a woman, in essence, make herself a "porn star" for one man, and not another? I find this to be the case with my female fiends when they reveal that they suck and screw one partner they know won't be around in their future in every way ...

I don't like being around other men like this but it is the only place I can meet my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - hi. i have a boyfriend of a few months now. he is nigerian and im romanian. colour and race difference doesnt mean anything to me and nor does it him. the proplem is i live with my parents and they dissaprove and wont let me see him. so i sneak out ...

Confused!! After all the mixed signals, he now says we should be just friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - hi well here is my problem ive known this guy or years we met at 9 years old and went out with eachother for a few years, then when i was 13 i moved away. when i was 27 i bumped into him again we are both married with children we were friends and...

How do I get my husband to get over his office crush with a needy co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I have been married for 26 years, two years ago my husband took a job in another town, so now we are in a long distance marriage. Every thing was going as best it can in this situation, until a year ago a new single female co-worker arrived, who is ...

I want sex but I don't like it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - I am a bisexual guy who's attracted to both genders and has had sex with both of them. Trouble is, I don't enjoy sex, even though I do want it. I currently have a boyfriend for whom I have fallen head over heels and we do engage in intimacies fr...

Finding true happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Hi Is marriage and being in romantic relationship the only thing to lead to happiness. I am one of the romantic person in this world who believs being in a relationship is the only way to happiness. I am a country (India) where marriage i...

He says he cant see a future with me but is too scared to say so in front of his family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend dont see a future with me because he does not have guts to say it in front of his family...but i want a nice future with him so tell me shud we break up or continue?? ...

Is it okay to embrace the feeling the friend gave me and does it make me gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - As Katy Perry said "I Kissed a girl and I liked it". The problem is the girl who kissed me was a friend and I responded. I was quite ashamed about it and never spoke about it to anyone until the other day, when I accidently slipped to a friend, ...

Since we have got back together properly I'm finding it hard to even have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Ok heres the problem..a few months ago I got back with a boyfriend of a year that ended suddenly with no warning (he recently admitted it was coz he got scared). Sex was brilliant before we split and even when we were not together we were never ...

What else can I say other than I'm frustrated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - My "guy friend" says that I need to use more words when we are "playing" around. All I can say is I'm frustrated when he is teasing me. He is a very vocal person and wishes that I would be to when we are "playing". He makes me lose my mind I cant ...

Retroactive jealousy and small penis paranoia

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - i believe i have two issues that combine to ruin my life and my relationship. a relationship with someone that needs me more than I have ever been needed - she is so sweet and so beautiful - she has no one else to turn to or to be loved by but her ...

What should I expect when I have sex for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I have been with a guy for 5yrs and he always talks about sex, we have not had sex since we started dating and we had a fight over this last week. I spoke to couple of my friends about this and they all insisted it was only okay to have sex with him ...

Boyfried said he found a skinny celebrity 'hot' and now I feel insecure. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - OK i need help here. When it comes to looks I'll admit it im not happy with how i look (well im not happy about one thing and thats my weight, Im a UK size 22) Anyways I was with my bf the other day and I dont remember how the convo came about...

Left everything for her and now I don't trust her any more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - Hi there, This period of my life has been extremely trying for me - I left my wife and young son, i entered into a joint venture with my existing business, i started 4 other businesses with my partner and i met a young new girlfriend whom ...

Pregnant to my 23 year old boyfriend, should I tell him? I think he wont want the baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - im eighteen and still in school and am planing on coming back for year thirteen but i have a huge problem. im in a relationship with my maori teacher 23 yrs old and we have been together for one year now. and now few weeks ago he told me that his ...

There is no way I can love anyone else, is there any way to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - we were friends for 2 years and then this love sick thing came between us. I obviously was amazing. And then we eventually kissed. But then we broke up. after a month or so we broke up. And he left without giving me a reason for why he is leaving. ...

He broke up with me because he cant forget about how horrible I turned into in the past, but do you think time could heal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Hi - im very confused and heartbroken. Basically my fiance dumped me again few weeks ago becasue he said he stopped loving me long ago. The story basically is we were going out for 3 yrs and in that time i started taking the contraceptive in...

It feels like 'his' house rather than a home....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 November 2010 (?) - Hi there, I think this site is wonderful, it has helped me so much being able to share my problems and getting feedback. I was wondering if anyone else shared this problem. I live with my partner in his house. Up until I moved in with him, I ...

I still love him but cant imagine another 6 years with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend over six years but recently I feel like were drifting apart. We are so different and even my family are noticing it and have told me that as much as they like him that they feel he is holding me back, although I don't ...

Has he stopped calling because he is stressed due to his financial situation, or have I done something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - hi i have been going out with someone for a few months now. he was always talking about the future me and him together. that scared me cause im very pessimistic about love i always hid my true feelings from him until about a few weeks ago when i s...

Should I end this LDR when she comes to see me in two weeks because of her lack of respect for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - Okay, I'm a long distance relationship here... we been going out for 8 months but in august she want to college to another city. sometimes she comes to visit but we do have problems. For example, we argue, and she some times disrespects me as thou ...

Help! Obsessed ex-boyfriend is making me feel very guilt!! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I'm in desperate need of advice. I've broken up with my boyfriend of four years. He was 5 years my senior. When we began our relationship I was 16 and he was 21. Both very young. In many ways we were on the same level mentally. I honestly couldn't ...

She doesn't want to be with me because of her past relationship! What can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - Im in a big trouble. I met a girl on social networking site and we became good friends. We use to send each other messages and talked on the phone also many a times for long long hours. Than finally we met at a place. We were going very good, but ...

I'm worried about his obsession with me...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - so theres this guy i had 2 flings with. and he constantly rings my mums house all the time now and its really starting to piss me off, my mum told him to stop ringing her house and thretened him about my brothers and yet he still rings. this is l...

The other shoe finally dropped.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

11 November 2010 (M) - OK, so the other shoe has finally dropped in my relationship. She wanted to call it quits. Give me my keys and get your stuff. I came, got my things quietly, and she barely mumbled a word. I asked what is going on and all she says is "I dont know,...

He was a perfect gentleman until we had sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I thought I had been dating this man. we met at a night club, and we kept catching eachtother's eye, so as I was leaving with my friends, he grabbed me by my waist, we chatted for a while, then he gave me his number. I called him about a couple of ...

My boyfriend's best friend is a dog!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I cant stand my bf best friend!!! i dont like my bf hanging out with him.hes okay as a person but i juss hate the things he does. he treats my bf like crap,barrows large amounts of money never gives it back.hes trys to make my bf controlling and ...

My fiance doesn't appreciate me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I'm engaged to this guy I have been dating for 3 years. I love him very much, but a lot of things that he does, or doesn't do, makes me very unhappy. He is a firefighter. So he works 10 days a month. Because these are 24 hour shifts, he argues that ...

I agreed to an abortion but now I'm second guessing it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I'm 9 weeks pregnant with my 3 child which was unplanned. My partner who I've been with for 16 years wants me to terminate the pregnancy, I said I would, but am now not sure if I can go through with it. What should I do? ...

I feel like us not arguing it unhealthy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - Hi! I'm a new user though I've been reading for a while and I've decided to ask an for an opinion. It's simple really :) Let me start out that my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, are very close emotionally, and confide in each ...

I don't know if I'm being petty.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - So I got my eyes tested today -turns out I need glasses. I'd asked my boyfriend whether he might come with me to pick some, as I wanted someone to bounce different ideas off - I've never had glasses before and picking them seems daunting...

He says I'm ugly then I get a text from him calling me sexy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - I have to type fast so I will just summ it up a bit.. Ty for reading I used to like this guy a few years ago, so I asked him out. He said yes to my excitement! But then it was a on-off relationship But not the normal kind... He didn't even like...

A whole lot of baby mama drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

11 November 2010 (F) - i am in a tough situation, im a mother of twin boys they are 6 years old and the father was in the picture when they were younger then he disappeared because he got with another women. That kept him from seeing his kids but his mother always called ...