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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I am not sure what to do now… any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - Background: I work full time and take online class part time for my certification. My gf is a full time graduate student. Today: Unfortunately it’s me again. While I was at work, my gf called me to say “hi” after she had gotten off school. It w...

Did he just want to sleep with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about a month and last weekend, we got together. Eveything seemed be going all fine. but since last friday I havent heard from him. I texted him and he txted me like a day later and then when I texted him back...I ...

All work and no play leaves no time for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - why do men like work too much and have their family to spend time with, im so tried of my boy friend working 5 days a week, going work early in the morning and coming back 1 am in the morning are sometime 2 am and all he do when hes off for the two ...

He says he cannot trust me. How can I show him that I am there for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - Some may be familiar with my situation, some may not. Long story short, was with my ex and we broke up said I nagged and complained. He got another girlfriend then he and I came back together. We are communicating again and both still care for ...

How can I make people like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

5 November 2010 (?) - Hi everyone...i need your help... Please... I want to be loved by my friends... What should i do? I be on my best behavior... All my best friends come and go...then they become my enemies Im very very depressed... I behave really nicely...all ...

I find myself in love with my wife's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - suddenlly i feel that i love my wife's sister who is already married and has 2 pretty girls, i do not know how come, but that feeling really squeezing my heart, i do not want any sexuality cz really i do love her, and if i have sexual feeling i will ...

How to act? Nothing I do is right around my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - My partner is in a lot of debt. Serious debt. He is close to losing his home, his car etc and is in a very bad place now mentally and emotionally. He is distant and is very snappy with me sometimes and he can become withdrawn. We have also had so...

How do I make her stop being distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - I am in some sort of a predicament. My ex gf who just found out she is pregnant dumped me 2 days ago and she wont give me a reason. she seems more distant but still calls daily. sometimes she still says she loves me. is it the hormones from the ...

So I tried to call my ex last night

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - Well she block me from calling her so I have not tryed to call her out for like 3 weeks because she has blocked me from calling her. So last night I called her not thinking it would but it did in it was calling her. So I hanged up the phone then ...

He wants to move and doesn't want kids and we can't agree on these things!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - PLEASE help me! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now. He is 36 and I'm almost 28. He has two children from a previous marriage, and I've never been married although I have been in serious relationships before. He and I get along ...

Dad thinks he's a lackluster boyfriend because he dosen't put me on a pedestal. Is he?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - Hello all. I've been with my guy almost 2 years, and things have been pretty smooth. No arguments, though some disagreements. He's my 1st guy, I'm his 4th girl. "Jack" is a nice guy to everyone he meets. Guys or girls, he would give them the sh...

I am confused about this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - well am 14 and there is this girl i really like, i have known her for almost 3 years now and nevered really talked to her because am shy well one day i went to my friends ...

I do love him and don't want to leave, but I cant put up with this anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my common law boyfriend for 2.5 yrs, we have a 15 mos old daughter who I stay at home with while he works. I feel lately he has been talking down to me and criticizing me for everything I do. It's like his way is the only way....

If we don't work out I'm not sure if I want to be part of our child's life because of how much hurt she has caused me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - Ok here goes!!!!!!!! My fiance and I are expecting a child in June 2011 (its her first). We are now separated and she does not know what she wants with us. She has said she wants space for 2 weeks and we are not over but there's things she can not ...

My fiance has sexual dreams about other women - is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - my fiance has continuous sexual dreams of other women while he's sleeping and he wakes calling out their names. is this in any way normal?...

He wont tell his ex I exist but its ok for her to be spending my money....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship of 3 years. My b/f is great in many ways but there is this one big problem. He wont tell his ex that I exist and I dont know what to do anymore. He has two children by this woman, money is very tight at the moment and I know ...

I want to move on from her but I cant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - dear cupids, my girlfriend of 7 months dumped me on monday - she claims she cant deal with it at the moment but there has been numerous of mixed feelings from her since like caring, trusting, bitchy and not interested. i would like to move...

Engaged when I was 14 to a 22 year old guy because that was what my parents wanted, but I know I don't want to marry him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - My family is very traditional and I try to obey my parents as much as possible. When i was 14 years old they took me back to my country and got me engaged to a guy who is 22 years old. Of course i said no but that really upset my parents so I ...

I feel like I am doomed forever because I am a divorcee, which means in my culture I will never marry again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - I love my bf to bits even though he said he is not going to marry me at all. I am an divorcee and elder to him by 3 years. I know that he uses me sometimes. I have tried so hard to leave him, but i couldnt do so. My first marriage was a b...

Her ex and my trust issues are ruining our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - I am in a relationship and I have posted other questions but things are getting worse. Basically this is the deal: We are engaged...not sure bout that now. We have been living together for 3yrs. She has a 8yr old daughter. I have 3 kids-17,15,9. ...

I don't want to look at her in just a sexual way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - I really love my friend in the college and I had dreams about her.. she has an angel face I hope to marry her and she actually knows about my feelings and seems to be happy about that but my problem is that she has a big sexy boobs... they make me ...

Why am I so paranoid and controlling when he has never given me any reason not to trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have recently got married but i have never hated myself so much in my life! A week or so before we got married he went out with a friend for some drinks which of course i wasn't happy about because i am so jealous and paranoid! ...

I really like this guy but feel totally out of my depth with his drug & debt problem, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - Hi I just dont know what to do. Iv been seeing this guy for a few weeks and we decided to become a couple two weeks ago. His a really nice guy with a great sense of humor, a good job and generally treats me like a princess. He told me he h...

He lied about his age, and now I have found he is registered on Adult Friend Finder! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months is perfect in every way, apart from when I read the history on his laptop. He has been going online with Adult Friend Finder. He did a search for women seeking men!! He registered!! This was last week when I was out with ...

She told me she cant date me because she has a boyfriend but I just cant give up on her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - there is a girl i like and i want to date her for a relationship and she keep telling me she has a boyfriend and i can't let her go pls i need ur help...

Is the only option I have to leave this relationship? I just cant cope with his child, his ex and the disappointment that I wont be the first to give him a family...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - heya. i am very distraught an confused. i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months. he is the type of boy who had slept around.....A LOT! with me he changed an is totally devoted to me, an has never cheated. but about 7 an a half months ago. he ...

Its the drugs or me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and few months. I feel like my boyfriend is choosing drugs over me. I've asked him to stop but every single morning he wakes up and smokes it. He isn't at work atm either so he's just at home ...

He took me back but he doesn't believe that I am not going to hurt him again, so his behaviour towards me has completely changed. How can I get him to be like he was before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - hello Im in a relationship for 1 and half years. We were madly in love. but i made some mistakes. i did doubling with him and caught by him. but even after that he took me back as i said i wont repeat the mistakes. im not gonna repeat any of the m...

I love a woman 11 years older than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - Hello. I am 18 years old. For several months, I had a Japanese woman stay at my house when she visited the united states. She is 11 years older than I am. She is very sweet and cute. We enjoy long talks and find that we have many things in ...

I'm in love with both of them, why cant we just have a 3-way relationship!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - I am new to this site so please don't laugh at what I am about to say. Almost 8yrs ago I met and got involved with a woman who is 10yrs older than me. Everything was going well until like the fool I am I cheated on her with a woman 8yrs older than ...

I've lost interest in sex! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - hey, i got a little problem, im having trouble with my sex life, it seems as if i lost interest, can you please help me!...

He never allows any foreplay and then falls asleep straight after sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a couple of years and nothing has changed as far as our sex lives go. He has a very high sex drive and is very demanding when he wants it and any time of the day or night will do. That is not the ...

How do I choose between the guy that has always been there and the guy that gives me butterflies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - how do i choose between the guy who has always be there for me and the guy that give me butterflies? they are both so great in each way and i have dated both of them and they each bring something great to the table and i love them both so much ... ...

He already has a girlfriend - what is your opinion of me if I stay in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - He says I'm all these great things, but I feel like I'm not good enough. Its definitely not a self esteem issue, its because he has a girlfriend, but he's having his cake and eating it too. And I'm allowing it. I think I've fallen in love with thi...

Difficult situation with my long distance girl, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

5 November 2010 (M) - I am in a peculiar situation right now. I am a member of an online community and I have been for a few years. It's basically just a nerdy place for humor/discussion, just a couple hundred members, we post our pictures, no big deal. Well anyway I saw ...

Do you think he left because he cant handle the pressure of having more children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - hello me and my boyfriend have been together since i was 12 it started out as just puppy love but blossomed in to the real thing. all of a sudden he ups and leave me without any warning and yet i still love him. it's been 2 months since he left i ...

He said to his ex he "needs to get out of this place" referring to living with me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - I was being nosy on my boyfriends phone and found one between an ex gf he had a very long time ago...she asked if he was still living with that chick (me) his response was "yes unfortunately I gotta get out of this place i ain't get much younger" i ...

I care about him so much but I don't understand why he is treating me like this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5137 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I fighter a lot but in the end it seems we always make up. About a month ago he "kind of" cheated on me. Kind of like cyber cheating with like at least 10 different girls. He came clean and i forgave him. He said he cares about ...

My boyfriend of five years kissed another girl. What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 November 2010 (F) - Hi, yesterday I learned that my boyfriend of five years kissed another girl. He was at this baseball party(he plays) and the softball team was there and one girl was drunk and kissed him. But the next night it happened again. When he told me I fli...