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Archived questions from: 15 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My friends are racist against my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I am a Afican American girl and I have a Hungarian and Puerto Rican...Recently I over heard some of my "friends" talking about him...in a racist way. They said "I always knew she would go with a white guy" "That is so freaking nasty" "I couldn't ...

I agreed that my boyfriend can have a stripper at his birthday party, now I regret my decision!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Should I allow this? My boyfriend turns 18 in 2 weeks' time, and he's having a party at a local pub. all sounds great, all his friends and family will be there. HOWEVER, there's one small hitch, I'v just got an e-mail from one of his friends ...

Boyfriend needs to keep his wagging tongue in his mouth!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Why does my boyfriend do this?? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me soo much..but yet he cant stop looking at girls every time we go out. today, we went out to the movies and on the bus, this girl came on..she was not even att...

He got a past 1 night stand pregnant... should I stick around to see if it's his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I am dating someone and he has just found out that he might have got a one night stand that he was with before we got together pregnant. Should I break it off now or wait to find out if it is really his?...

This guy hates me and I don't know why! How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I am 14 years old and a 9th grader in High School. My first boyfriend just broke up with me and I'm crushed. One of the reasons he broke up with me is that his best friend doesn't like me. I know he hates me. He's been mean and has hated me ...

Turkish love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - hey, basically i met this turkish guy through my family that live in turkey, i met him back sep 2009, i never did think of anything of it because you hear the stories about turkish men. after i met him, he would ring all time, every single day, and ...

Does my married doctor have a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - i have been seeing my doctor for 2 months.i've been in and out of the hospital 4 times.he spends some time in my room,talks about personal life, touches my shoulders when we are alone.he makes a lot of eye contact . last time he saw me he got so ...

Is it wrong for my wife to make me choose between our family (wife and kids),and my family (dad, brother, cousin, close best friends, etc...)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - I have been married for 6 months now and I do love my wife. I know when I tied the knot, a lot of things in my life will change and I would have to adjust to many things. I like to think I have done pretty good job on adjusting to the married life ...

How do I go out with the friend of the guy I was dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I was seeing this guy and didn't fancy him at all...I tried to give him a chance and all but I didn't feel it.. anyway he fancied me more than I fancied him and now I have started to keep my distance more and more from him as I don't want to go out ...

She wants sex more often than I do, how do I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Help! My girlfriend and I are having problems when it comes to sex. I love her and think the world of her, the problem is that she wants to make love probably more often than I do. I am happy to make love too, but sometimes I am stressed...

My family are stopping me from having a relationship and say I'm a bad mother! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - im divorced with a baby and am now living with my parents. i had a very abusive relationship and didnt have any self confidence, anyways ive been divorced 4 yrs now and worked thorugh my proplems with a shrink, whom i dont see any more, anyways ive ...

Do I let her be and give her the space and let her come back in her own time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Hi Ive got an issue with my girlfriend at the moment, we have been together now for almost 5 years... its been a pretty intense relationship really with plenty of ups and downs but we have never seperated in this time. At the moment we are taki...

My parents found out he is married from a private detective, then I heard kids in the background on the phone! Do you think he is lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - ok i got involved with this guy, and my parents being bossy and overbearing hired a private detective to find out about him, i didnt know this, anyways they came to me and said all these things about him and then they said that they found out he was ...

This is the longest I've ever been seeing a guy, but I don't know where I stand with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Im going to try and brief this question up as much as possible. Im 18 years old, and im seeing this guy thats 20. We're not official yet, we're just getting to know each other, etc. We've been seeing each other for a little over two months now...

Do I have to tell her I told my friend about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - MY girlfriend told me a personal story of her in the very beginning stages of our relationship. It was very vague, but I could see how upset she was. She never went into too many specifics on it, but I could see the anguish it was on her. It was ...

How long do you wait for someone you love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years.. It has been a rocky relationship, but everything has finally smoothed out over the last 5-6 months and had been going great.. Well a little over a week ago she told me that she...

My man is upset because women don't hit on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I am a bit upset at the moment . The man I have been dating just left my home after an arugement . He didn't understand why I would get upset when he started talking about how he wishes women would hit on him ... And I was the only person in four ...

Mixed feelings and don't know which way to turn

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted a few months ago about my boyfriend and things are no better really. We have been together for 14 months now. I am 38, divorced and he is 43, divorced. We are meant to be getting engaged at Christmas but I am having doubts. I have ver...

Can polyamorous relationships really work in the long-run?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Is there anyone out there in a successful polyamorous relationship? My wife and I recently fell in love with another woman and believe it or not I sometimes have jealousy issues over the time they spend with each other without me. they do have ...

When I ignore her she talks to me, and then when I put effort in again she hurts me! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Sir, i love my girlfriend a lot ... Last year she broke up with her bf who was very aggressive and dominating..... at that time we were just good friends .... when she broke up i was there to support her but i never told her to be with me ..... she ...

I just can't help but feel that he may like the girls from his own country better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating this amazing guy... and we were born on different countries. He has a different accent than me but his accent makes me drool! and I have a different accent as well... the thing is that... for some reason even if we are together ...

Should I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 1 year before he broke up with me 2 months ago because he said he needed time to mature, he wasn't ready for a relationship, and because we're too close. I told him I would wait for him but he said there was no ...

I just want her to come home but I cant contact her! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - my live in partner of 6 years walked out on me early hours of sat morning. basically i have just found out i have a son that happened in my previous relationship and as requested by my present partner, him and his mum came to stay as she wouldnt let ...

Why is he so angry with me after the way he treated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Last year my husband told me he didn't know if he loved me or not and said I didn't support him enough. The smallest things I did caused him to explode in anger and he said he did not enjoy spending time with me. Our daughter was 18 months old at ...

I don't know how to snog and I think my boyfriend will get bored with me if I dont!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he has been telling a lot of his friends that he wants to snog me, i have just said maybe next week or something like that but soon he is going to get bored and will finish with me. I don't know how to snog so its hard for ...

We get along great but it worries me he doesn't have a job!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Been dating a man for quite some time now and he was in the army guard but just retired. He also does computer work freelance. Work is so slow hes not making any money. he graduated 2 yrs. ago with a BSN RN but has not taken his registry yet ...

Why doesn't my friend talk to me anymore? I know we fell out but she told my mom she still cares about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - hi, everyone. I have a problem that is making me not feel so good. I have not talk to the person who was my bestfriend for 5 or 6 months. I feel bad and sad at the same time i really care for her a lot. We had an argument and she just said we could ...

Clingy boyfriend! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Ok so i have been dating this guy for almost 6 months, i really want to spend the rest of my life with this guy but sometime he is just too clingy. I just moved an hour and a half away to college and things have just gone downhill. Its no...

I have never been with a man that doesn't want to french kiss! Is there a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Ive been dating a man for about 8 months now and the first two dates were with passionate kissing but now that has stopped. Hes very attentive and shows that i am appealing to him. We have had sex multiple times and we mesh well in that area but...

I need to be able to trust him otherwise I might end up pushing him away.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Hey! I have a amazing boyfriend! He really makes me happy! We in a gay relationship now for 1 year and 4months! I met him when he was kind dating my friend! So we started 2 date! I lost my friend cause of this, but it doesn't matter cause I love ...

I don't want to lose our friendship, but now it is really awkward and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Heyy i was wondering if you could help. Recently i was talking to my boy bestie and teasing him about this girl that keeps on texting him and asking if he liked her coz it looked like she liked him. But i was just joking about it, then i asked ...

I think I'm caught in a love triangle. Help!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I'm dating a man who is about to be divorced within the month. We have been together for 9 months. Although he was the one that stepped out on his marriage lately his guilt and depression has been overwhelming. I can't help but feel jealous and ...

Confused with the older man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Ok so me and this guy have been seeing each for about 3 weeks buy it's weird! I'm 25 and he is 34. He has a 15 year old daughter and is divorced! I don't have any children and have never been married. He and his ex have been divorced for 7 years. O...

This guy drives me crazy! Am I just a fling to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Hes just a player and Im a fling to him? Im so confused! help! I need some guys opinion. I dont know why this guy had to be like this to me. ok, a bit long story but after all I think hes a jerk but I still kinda wanna call him. I hooked ...

I don't want to lose her, but I am worried I might be too controlling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend and I have been dateing for 5 years, we had got preg our first 3 months of dating. I love her with all my heart and I do have control problems like I dont want her to leave the house without me, but the reason is we live in ...

He flirted with me, and now it's like I don't exist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - okay, so, a little over a year ago, I met this guy, and we can call him, "Jack". so when I first walked into class the first day of school that year, he was in my homeroom, and I looked at him and thought, woah, there's something special about this ...

How do I go back to monogamy after an open marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for two years and together for eleven. Last year, we began seriously discussing opening our marriage. We talked about it extensively and by January of this year, we felt like we had the ground rules and ...

One second he is in love with me and in the next, he's completely cold and rude

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I dont know how to start my question but im a 21 years old girl and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months now.Lately he is being so distant. i dont know if im being needy but he doesnt even bother to go online to talk to me and thats ...

My parents are threatening to disown me if I pursue this relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm so glad I found this site. Thank you for your help! I am in love with a man who is divorced with three wonderful children. Also, I'm much younger than he is. I've known him for 6 years, we have been best friends for the past 3 years...

Life with my bf is like having a room-mate, not a partner! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Recently, I found a text message in my boyfriend's phone to one of his friend's wishing the friend's wife a "Happy Birthday" and also to tell her best friend he said "What's up?" I did not confront him at the time because I was embarassed over it ...

Is he making a fool of me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - Well right now I just need advice because I'm really confused. I'm only 20 and I feel hung up on this. I was going out with this guy for over a year and then he left to go to uni, it was 2.5 hours away from me and we struggled through the distance ...

Is he losing interest in me?

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15 November 2010 (F) - I posted the other day about my boyfriend and I and our difficulty communicating (titled "how do I take our relationship to a deeper level"). I'm still troubled about my relationship with my boyfriend. He has such a hard time opening up and I feel ...

My boyfriend and I are both down in the dumps... It's a problem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Usually, one of us gets upset and the other is there to make them smile but for a little while now, both my boyfriend and I have been really upset lately. Not with each other, with life, but I feel it's hurting our relationship. I have so much t...