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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend wants me to hurt her during sex, is this normal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined ive been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now and my girlfriend has changed in terms of our sex life. she keeps asking me for 'punishment sex' and when we are having sex she tells me to hurt her and make her blee...

She said yes but I'm not sure she meant it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - well I got a yes last week to a run with this girl who I like a lot, she said the date was to be determined but she did say yes for this week meaning monday through friday because we don't have school on the weekends. Anyway I posted a thing ...

My boyfriend thinks he's ugly but yet he cheated on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - im in so much pain, i dont trust anyone anymore and i dont know who to turn to for help! i was with him for 2years where our longest breakup only lasted 2weeks! he always told me how much he loved me, how he could never do without me, how he could...

My best friend is giving me the cold shoulder!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - My best friend is mad at me and hasn't spoken to me for almost a week. I've tried to let him have his space, by not calling or texting for 2 days, is this the right thing to do? I tried to reach out to talk and try to work things out, but he won't ...

Things started out complicated and now he won't marry me because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I have gotten myself into a pickle. I have two close friends who used to be a couple. They broke up about a year ago, though they were always more of friends than a romantic couple. I'm not sure how they even lasted as long as they did. They ...

Humiliating rumors at work won't stop!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - There are alot of rumors going around work about me and a superior officer and they are humiliating cause he and I are both in committed relationships. The person saying these things twisted words that I told him and made it look like it was my sgt ...

I want to go out with friends on my birthday and now she's threatening to break up with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 years now. Since the beginning she's always been hard to deal with when a disagreement arises, and she always refuses to compromise. It seems to me that she blames every fight on a failure on my part. Most ...

No trust or breathing room in our relationsip!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - I am not allowed to go have quality time with my close friends after work at there place. I am not allowed to go have a drink with my close friends after work. I am not allowed to go to the room and use my computer when I am at home If I ...

Are these signs of cheating?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...

Is he serious in wanting me back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up but after 3days he called me up and wants to see me so we can talk things out--and save the relationship.. he even suggested that we both should write what we dont like about each other so we can discuss things and make ...

All 4 of my ex's want me back! Who do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - Okay i have been single for a while, i had been together with 4 girls in life.All pretty and nice girls. One or more circumstances made them leave me. Now they are all single and want me again. I dont know what to do. I mean i am not seeing anyone ...

Is it wrong to end a good relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - This may sound a little crazy but im thinking about ending a relationship, when there is nothing wrong with him. We have been together for 3yrs, and they have been great years together. we started as friends which evolved into a really fun ...

Do relationships work if you're not fully compatible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - he says we aren't compatible. we've been dating for over a year now, and he moved away a few months ago, so currently in a long distance relationship. When we first started dating, we had a lot to talk about, mostly because we were getting to know ...

I feel like I'm wreaking everyone's lives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - i left my wife 2 yrs ago after a long marriage that went wrong and met up with a girl i had gone out with 18 yrs earlier , she is a lovely girl but took alot of flac from my mood swings after me trying to get over the marriage. She then caught me ...

His ex still runs a business in his house, what the heck?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this incredibly cute, sweet and well mannered guy for the past month. We see each other about twice a wk and he's wonderful about scheduling dates a wk ahead of time - I just love that!! He's what I want in soooo ma...

I want to get back together but he lies constantly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I have a son to him, he is 23. Long ago i put him out and re married but so did he. He is a trucker and i talked to him all the time. For almost two years i have been trying to get back with him but he lies all the time, tells me he kinda is going ...

If he can spend a lot of days having fun then why should I have to text him constantly on my only day off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 3 months are going through a rough patch. He lives 30 minutes away from me and its hard getting together. He just got his license a month ago and he promised that he would see me more but it’s been hard because I started a ...

We had a great date and now she is 'busy' and not replying to my texts, what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - please help me here because i dont know what to do..there is this girl i've met through a friend last 4 weeks. we are both in college leves and in different schools. im half chinese/fil and she is pure korean. at the first moment that we met each ...

He chose his girlfriend over me, should I have tried harder to make him want me or did I do the right thing by walking away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - So this is on my mind and has happened a while ago I just wanna make sure I'm doing the right thing. I met a really great guy he is everything I ever want in one. There are some problems around this and that is we are both in relationships, mine is ...

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me! What can I say to him that I havent said already?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - i feel like i'm unappreciated. i always organise days out with my boyfriend and i always sort out tickets and transport and times. he just says yes! but he when it comes down to paying, all he does again is say yes.. he never actually p...

Can he take me to court or stop me from leaving the country? Or is he just pissed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - okay my ex and are not talking and yesterday i sent him a text saying 'i know that car was your gf's she told me (bluff). how could you leave me in a hosiptal all alone crying my eyes out and thinking my baby was going to die, while you were ...

I feel selfish for wanting to move away when my mother is ill, but I want a future of my own!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I am the full time carer for my Mother. I have brother's but they refuse to do anything for her. I am in love with a man in another country and I really want to be with him, he feels the same way as me, but circumstances won't allow him to immigrate ...

Is he having some ED problems? Or am I not attractive enough to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Hi my boyfiend makes sure i enjoy sex and that i orgasm every time we have sex. as a matter of fact i had a relationship with a guy before and i never had an orgasm with him, i couldnt relax and i couldnt completely give in. but i loved the guy and ...

Should I go to the party or stay away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I'm thinking of going to my friend's party but im not sure if it would be wise of me to go. The thing is, she invited this other girl who I hooked up with a few months ago, and the problem is, after I hooked up with her and text her and stuff, I...

I love him but is he losing interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been together for for over a year and married 7 months, and he has always been so affectionate but lately he has been distant. we are going through a lot in life right now but when he works with a certain girl he doesnt text ...

I get upset by things I make up in my own head! How do I stop doing this so I don't lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I don't even know where to began... This WILL seem like all over the place but I'll try my best to make sense of it. It's SO long too but it's SO SO SO important to me and will affect my life deeply!! I am lost in my own little world in my head...

I broke up with him but changed my mind and now I want him back, but now he said he needs time to think.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for a year and three months. We met where I had my first job, we were from the same batch of new hires. He instantly caught my eye. He was too cute, in many ways he was never aware of and he was mysterious. He was quite the quiet ...

I'm so obsessed with his ex girlfriend I have made friends with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Let's see where this gets me, if anywhere... I've written here in the past quite a few times, always inquiring about the same thing, only now the situation has changed drastically, but my feelings still haunt me. My fiance is 23, and I am 21. We ...

Happiness Vs Security.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are still together and we almost 2years together. Love him because I can feel that he loves me so much i feel so secure that he will be faithful to me. But when the time passes by I find myself falling with my friend whom I known ...

Office gossip about my boss and me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (?) - i am having problems with this women at work she has started spreading lies about my boss and i that my boss and i are having sexual relations via texts which isn't true and that i'm wanting to sleep with my boss its gone around the workplace, and i ...

I've never had a proper father figure, in my life and it saddens me..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I grew up in on pretty much a single-parent household, my mum's been on benefits all her life. My dad has spent the majority of his life in jail, and he's been extremely violent and emotionally abusive to both me and my mum, but my mum has always ...

We shared Facebook passwords, but he just changed his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and our relationship is very good. A long time ago we shared each others facebook passwords but neither of us goes on the others account (well he says he doesn't). The other week a friend of mine w...

I have one flirty boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls and this really bothers me. I've talked to him about it and he still flirts.And it is always the same girl he flirts with. I'm almost convinced he's cheating...he's cheated on me before. What should I do? ...

He never lets me leave this relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - so me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year.. we have had our problems where i want to break up its happened like three times were i get fed up and just want to leave him but he never lets me like he is like "you will never leave ...

He knows just what to say to get me to stay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - why do i allow this to happen?Me and my boyfriend were home cuddling on the couch watching tv all of a sudden he leaves and picks his uncle up. He brings him back to the house they drink beer and vodka. Then after a while his uncle whispers ...