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Archived questions from: 29 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The new guy seems perfect but I can't let go of my ex?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I was previously married a while ago, the marriage didn't last, and we split up when I was 25. I had a very flirtatious relationship with another guy, and we ended up getting together right after my split, but then he decided to give his ex one last ...

I caught him jerking off... to dance videos!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - This isnt really that big of a deal, but for some reason its really bothering me. This morning i found my boyfriend of over year sitting on the floor watching Dance videos. NO big deal right? well i popped my head up a little further to disco...

Please tell me... how to break up with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. in the 2nd year of my relationship he told me about his other girlfriend. we called her and he said to her that it was over between them. in the eve she called me back and told that they had sex 3 ...

How do I end my long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I been dating my bf for almost two years, but it isn't the same anymore, our relationship has lost the spark, but it was all his fault, i love him, but not in love with him anymore, because he used to compliment me and say sweet stuff to me and now ...

She told me graphic details about her past that I can't get out of my head!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm 23, and I have been seeing my girlfriend since I was one month shy of 22. She was my first, and before her I was a virgin. However, she has had a few ex-boyfriends. Anyway, I was talking to my girlfriend as she was sorting out photos on the ...

I don't know what to make of someone that could cheat, propose, and marry me without ever telling me that he cheated on me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I've been married for less than a year. And I just discovered that my husband cheated on me 4 years into our relationship. I found out he proposed to me a few months after he cheated (sexual and emotional relationship with other woman). I am so ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My partner of 4 and half years wants to end our relationship, he says he doesnt love me. He is still very affectionate and touching and intimate with me. HOw can he be like this if he doesnt love me. We never fight and we get along well, he did ...

Role play gone horribly wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Please help me. I just kicked my boyfriend out of the house (he didnt live here) because he played a joke on me that went too far. He told me that he was going to war out of the blue. That they needed him and he couldn't tell me when or where he ...

I'm feeling very uneasy about this "friend" wanting to stay with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both Actors and a few months ago he went away for 11 days to film. Whilst he was there he made a few friends but got very close with this one girl because of various divisions in the group. I first got the impression they were ...

I think my boyfriend is bipolar and he stresses me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend is bipolar and he stresses me out. I have to give him attention 24/7 and if i don't its you dont care your distant. if he doesnt get what he wants he throws temper tantrums like a kid. or if im like i dont want to do anything...

Am I selfish for thinking "what about me?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi All I'm nearly 22 and I've been with my fiance for nearly 4 years and we have two little girls. We live together and are getting married at the end of next year. Our youngest is only 4 months and I fell pregnant with our eldest at the end of my...

Is his request for a threesome a fantasy, or something else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend of 2 years, he is a great guy and we have a committed relationship. However he brought up the subject of a threesome recently and it has got me worried. I would be open to the idea of fooling around with her for him, but ...

My fiance told me the "spark" is gone! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for just under a year, although we've known each other for well over five years. After spending the first few months of our relationship being long distance due to his final months in the military we talked a ...

She's been moody and now isn't texting me back. Help me please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - need help here guys. there is this girl that i like. we are both in college levels but in different schools. she is pure korean and im half chinese. we always talk a lot everyday text and call. and we've been on a date. watching movies and having ...

I don't love him anymore, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I'm only 19 years old and i've been dating this one guy for about 4 years. But our relationship is far from perfect. I dont even know why i'm still with this guy. I know that sounds mean but he has done soo many things that i should have just walked ...

I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...

Is this a normal reaction from a guy? is what he is asking within reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - this is gonna sound mental but here goes... my bf of 6 months is a swinger now thats cool with me cause im a swinger too though he didnt know that at the time, i dont know why i didnt tell him straight i sought of hinted to him that i was bad girl...

Boyfriend with stress issues !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for over a year , and just recently he has been having depression and stress issues. his mom had to take him out of his private school cause she couldn't afford it anymore and he hasn't been in a school for a few weeks ...

Do I approach him and ask for him to deactive this online profile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I am in a loving trusting gay relationship with my bf. We had a rocky patch a month ago, due to a misunderstanding and trust issues being damaged, but once everything was cleared and communication back to being open it was sorted and now we are s...

My boyfriend would rather masturbate then have sex with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Please i need some answers mainly from men... Iv been with my boyfriend for 10months now and from the start we had sex quite a lot, not as much as id like to because he worked a lot running his own business. anyway we moved into a new house a few ...

I feel so stupid for running back to him, the abuse has started all over again! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi, So here is MAJOR issue im facing. Been with my "bf" for 4 and half years. Weve been closer then just the bf girlfriend relationship. (Id say its more like a marriage type of relationship, him staying at my home, our families meeting, planning...

Do things get worse before they get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - is it true that things get worse before they get better? i've recently been thinking that might be true with me and my gf of 1 yr and 4 months. now every time we argue it does get worse but not till later things change dramatically better for us. so ...

When is verbal abuse too much verbal abuse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I have a lot to ask, but it all leads up to, "When has the verbal abuse gone "too" far? My husband and I have been together for 8 years, we just recently got married this year. 8/2010. We are both mid 30's, and we each have 2 children. This is his ...

Any woman that shows interest in me I want to shove away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - I had a really great romantic relationship going with a girl I loved. She decided that she was in love with a guy she spent a weekend with a few months ago. We did a lot of great stuff together, and a an awesome personal intimate connection. but I ...

Boyfriend doesn't have time or money for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Please help me with your opinions; My boyfriend of a year over commits. I was aware before i got into a serious relationship with him that he is very busy but i can not help but feel he has his priorities wrong. He puts his massive sport comm...

Should I stay with my husband or destroy everything for my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am in a situation that I am married and have been for seven years. I have a boyfriend who I have meet at work and he is in early 20's and I am in my late 20's. We have gotten close to the point I have developed strong feelings for him. I actullay ...

Slept with my high school teacher - have had trouble setting boundaries since then

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am 29 years old. When I was in eight grade I became obsessed with a male teacher. I developed a close relationship with him, and one semester after I started university, we slept together. We dated for approximately two and a half years and the ...

I've never dated anyone but my boyfriend and I'm afraid someday I'll regret that I never experimented

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hi. I need some advice. I feel just awful about what i said to my boyfriend of almost 5 years. So we've been having issues over the last few months, took a 2 week break, stayed together. The issues have pretty much resolved, except that i started ...

Should I apologise to my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So my ex kept booty-calling me, and I finally stopped that. I told him to leave me alone but before I was able to achieve full closure, I decided to tell this girl he was seeing, that he wanted to keep me there as his second option. Now, they're ...

He saved her picture in his phone after I asked him not to contact her again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My man got a picture from this girl, asking him his opinion. I asked him to ask her not to send anymore pictures to his phone. 1. He didn't and 2. He locked the picture in his phone so it wouldn't get deleted after I asked him to ask her to stop. ...

I don't understand. why would he make a comment like he did if he didn't care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I met this boy about a year ago and I liked him straight away, and everybody thought he liked me too. The rest of the group noticed that there was flirting going on so I decided to be brave and make a move- only to be rejected. He told me he didn’t ...

This Emotional Affair is RIDICULOUS!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Do you think its worse to leave someone who loves you verrrry much and you love them as well or lay in bed next to them evvvery single night and think about another man/women who you loved in the past? *Things to Consider! -you love the one yo...

Did my past put him off? Or should I give him more time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I am in-love with this guy, I know he is the one for me. I told him that I was abused as a child, he was very angry at the person who hurt me, and then I didn't hear from him for days. I understand that it is a big thing to come to terms with so I ...

Need help on how to deal with father-in-law to be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I need help!! Ok, I am 20 yrs old and I have been with my fiance for almost 4 yrs. We had our own mobile home but someone burned it down in august. I found out I was pregnant a couple weeks ago and we are having to live w/his dad for now. I just ...