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Archived questions from: 2 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Controlling parents refuse to let me move out?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I'm 21 and have been living at home this whole time. I've wanted to move out before, but never had the means or options to do so. I had gotten a bit desperate to move out because my parents are too controlling and they act like children sometimes. ...

Girlfriend's mom doesn't like me and doesn't want her grandchildren to look like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - Well as many of you know(from my previous questions)I am in love with my gf we have been through many problem but always solved them now my gf isn't particularly in a good relationship with her mom. My gf is 18 and wants to move out and its ...

My boyfriend is refusing to come to my Grad.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I moved away this year to do a postgrad and my boyfriend stayed behind and we're doing long-distance. I'm going home tomorrow for my graduation from my undergrad college and my boyfriend is refusing to come. He says he can't believe I'm giving my ...

My girlfriend is going to go out with her ex tonight... I feel it's wrong, but I won't say no to her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - The title says it. My girlfriend is gonna go out tonight to the movies with her ex. I've never been the jealous type, so I guess this would be the first time I feel like this, and it's killing me. Why do I feel like this? I think I know. They had ...

Is a relationship repairable after so much dishonesty so early? I know I'm no saint.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - I'll admit that online relationship question sites aren't my thing, but at this point, I'm to suggestions from anyone. The short version. I've lied to my girlfriend. A lot. I took money from her purse [~$50.] without any GOOD reason, and e...

How do I stop the drifting apart relationship between my father and I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I am 18 and for the past year or so, I feel as if I am drifting from my dad and attempting to reconcile the relationship is becoming difficult. My dad left when I was only a few years old due to having an affair with my now step mother. 5 years ...

I have no idea what to do with my husband's best female friend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I am married to a wonderful and caring man and have a good marriage. But when it comes to his female best friend, he becomes her protector and caused stress to our marriage. When I met him 10 years ago, she was already in his life for 10 year...

How do I get boyfriend to understand why I am unhappy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years since highschool. I am now 26. I can understand that we are entering a period of life where our wants and goals are different, but I am having trouble communicating the changes I want in our relationship. ...

Hold on? Or let go of this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Can anyone tell me if I am overreacting or not? I chat online with my bf on a daily basis, once he just left the chat without telling me and it made me upset. But he said sorry and promised he will never do it again. But today he did it for the s...

What do I do??? I don't want to lose my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend went to a party over halloween weekend, she had to leave that night so she didnt drink but I did. Before we got there I told her I wasnt going to drink, but she said she wanted me to have fun and drink. I made sure it was ok ...

He prefers the street life to me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm 7 months pregnant and im so in love with my baby daddy. We've been together for 1 year and 2 weeks already and when we first started it was wonderful i loved it.. He didnt have a job but i made sure he had everything he needed we was ...

I'm in love with the man that he was two months ago. Why the sudden change in his behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for quite some time. He lives in South Carolina; I live in Pennsylvania. He is 36 years old. I am 30. I don't know how we even got to this point because everything has been fine. For ...

Me and my best boy mate argue like mad but I can't let go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - ok so ill keep this short to avoid boredum amongst whoevers reading this. i have this male friend who i have always been really close to. we met a few years ago on my first day of high school and every since we have always had a thing. about a y...

Strongly believe in waiting until marriage, but tormented by the desire for more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Hi. I am Sylvester. I have a really sweet girlfriend, which I never thought she is to be so perfect in my eyes. She is reasonable, understanding and caring. She changed my life from a computer geek into a sunshine boy. I really appreciated and ...

When we are together it feels so right, when we apart I am a mess.....but now he has got a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hello all :( I'm really not sure what to do anymore regarding a man i've been seeing , or where any of my strength has gone. We started seeing each other casually about 10 months ago , hooking up now and again and grew quite close. i 've been...

Very small penis, now I don't fancy him!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a bit of a cuffuffle. I started talking to a lovely guy a few weeks ago, we have been on 3 dates and I stayed at his house last night. I'm 21 he's 31. We ended up getting naked and feeling each other. I noticed that when his penis is e...

For the girls: Would it bother you if your boyfriend did this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Girls, does it/would it bother you if your boyfriend sat next to, waved to, did things like highfiving, and sometimes waited with *one particular* girl he knows (but he doesnt do those things in front of you)? Would you worry that he's going to ...

Is he just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hey, Im really confused about what i should do about my boyfriend. I love him so much, and i've waited two years for him, so it hurts to think of letting him go, but he sometimes says stuff that makes me think i can do better... he lives wh...

How to deal with a controlling friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - im not in a comfortable position right now and i dont like having to stand up to people much but my good friends girlfriend is very controlling. she has got my friend trapped, and is slowly cutting him off from his friends. she has been trying ...

I really want to stay with my boyfriend and break it off with the other guy, but I just can forget my feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I hate this. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months today, we are absolutley perfect for each other, apart from the fact that we live quite far away from each other and keep drifting apart due to us both being so busy and neither of us pu...

Was he just holding out for sex? All our dates went so well but it has been 2 days and I have not heard from him....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I met this guy on an online dating site about three weeks ago. Since the first date, he has been great. He always followed up and made plans after the date for the next one, offered to pay for everything (even though I tried to contribute as much as ...

How do I let him down gently? I know he likes me but I don't feel the same way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Dear readers, I am a sophomore student and the problem is occurred with me and my classmate. I have everything that makes me feel certain that he really likes me. Like I overheard from his friends and by the way that he changed his status in fb etc. ...

I hate that every time his ex calls he runs back to her! I know she is the mother of his child, but I don't want to be number 3 in his life.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone , Its ben like this let me get straight to the point. Im now dating my boyfriend for some months since july but i known him for 5-6 years already, and out of nowhere we been hanging out the whole World Cup south africa 2010 ''time'', c...

He cant go out without drinking!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months already and I love him with all my heart. But lately Ive been feeling really unhappy every time we go out or he goes out he HAS to drink. He gets really stupid when he does and I don't like it. He doesn't ever ...

My girlfriend not only forgot my birthday but now wants to go away without me this weekend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of years, we keep breaking up and getting back together, has forgotten my birthday again, and has told me she can't see me this weekend because she is spending the weekend with her cousin and neice, because it's the cousin's birthday, ...

I really want to be with her but I think it might be bad in the long run.....what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. Thank you for checking out my question. I really appreciate that. My girlfriend and I just broke up 1 week ago because of some stupid jealousy question she asked. Now she's giving hints to get back together. One of it is when I said I...

I had an affair with my brother's wife, I have to come out of it.....Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - my brothers wife had a affairs with me,i have to come out of that, plzzz advice. we love each other, its not an affair, my brother is always busy, he was not attention to family, not spending time to wife, she has a 2 kid, she got married pas...

Did I drive him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - When I was in college, there is guy whom I did not noticed at first. He showed signs that he like me, but he never confess anything. One time, I saw him with a girl, and I was very jealous. One time, I was walking at our school, and he smiles me. ...

Girls that I like don't show any interest in me, but the girls I don't like always seem to want me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a student at an American college, coming from Britain. I am really new to the romantic scene, and having a few problems. There is one girl I really like, but I don't know how to ask her out, and I'm not even sure if she likes me at all, ...

Getting over someone you cant have.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - Hi I would just like a bit of advice on how to maybe get over someone you can't have! I know everyone goes through this but I am finding it tough! Ok so you prob don't need the story but met guy got on great with eachother, clear chemistry there bu...

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - I guess i'm just looking for a bit of reasurance that i've done the right thing. Long story short: one of my guy friends has a girlfriend but we ended up sleeping together a while back. I wish it hadn't happened but it did. He continued to fli...

Even after 3 years of her leading me on I still think about her every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - i've been crushing on this girl for almost 4 years now and she has forgotten me.when we first met we flirted a lot,but then she would change on me and say that i didn't like her(meaning that she didn't want anything to do with me.she was giving me ...

Why has she added me on MSN but then blocks my calls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - Well tonight my ex came on her msn thing and added me to her msn account, but I don't get it she blocks me all the time from calling her when I got back home. So why did she add me on her msn account in is not calling me and talking to me I dont get ...

I think my girlfriend is in love with her lesbian friend, how do I get her to come clean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

2 November 2010 (M) - i think my girlfriend is so "in" with this lesbian friend of hers, i gave my girl a ring, a promise ring, so that when we get older we'll be together or something. Suddenly this lesbian chat me in some social network site and asks me about her, i ...

We moved in, got comfortable, and I'm wondering about compatibility

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We've been living together for a couple of months. The interesting thing is that neither one of us seemed to notice just how big of a step it was...we just fit so comfortably together. Perhaps a ...

My boyfriend has stolen things from me and given them to someone else!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has stolen things from me and given them to someone else! Most of the things are things he has given to me. He does not think he has done anything wrong because he gave them to me, so he says that it was his anyway. He has given them to ...

Every time he is out with his friends I turn into a HORRIBLE control freak when he doesn't answer my text right away. How can I stop being this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we have been living together for about three months. My issue is I have been treating him horribly lately. I get angry at the smallest of things and lash out on him. Every time he is out ...

I think my girl is paranoid... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

2 November 2010 (?) - i absolutely love my gf but lately she's been acting odd, she gets annoyed when i kiss her once and is always on edge thinking that the teachers and security guards at our school are waiting and watching us thinking that once we kiss or hug we'll go ...